I am of the opinion that men should enjoy a single life between the age of 20-29, they should enjoy their finance and time themselves before they get into a life long commitment and raising kids which would take a toll on their cash & time.

So I want to ask other men's opinion, is it advisable to carry the responsibility of raising a family early?

modified: Women are also free to give their opinions.

IamD18:
Blackmail.

Possibly had something to do with sex/reputation

That's a very biased assumption, not every lecturer is a slave to konji

oldtimersince06:
I had to create a new account to post this.

So, my husband has beaten me 3 times prior to yesternight. I had said if it happens again, I'm going to leave. Last night, he punched me in my face severally and pushed me hard that I sprained my knee.
My concern are my kids. My older child loves his father so much, while the younger one loves me so much. The kids love each other. Do I take my younger child and leave this marriage and separate my kids, or do I leave them with their dad or do I take both of them and trust my older child will be fine without his father?

He has apologized severally this morning but I'm done. He is emotionally abusive on a good day. I can't count the no of times in a day he insults me. He threatens to Kill me and kill himself. My dad doesn't talk to him any more. Let me tell you why.

He didn't have a car at the time, and would go with mine. He was meant to pick the kids up, while I was also waiting for him to pick me up from work. At about 7:30 pm, I called him again asking for when he would get to the kids school and he told me he was busy(Busy here means busy drinking). The school kept calling me, the teachers need to go home. 8 pm, I picked an uber and went to pick them. My phone died and I couldn't charge it till I got home. As I turned my phone on, his call came in and I apologized, that I had picked them up but my phone went off. He said he was in the school and was looking for the kids. I kept on apologizing. He promised to deal with me on getting home. He then called my mum and was shouting at her on phone(he does this regularly). My dad stepped in. He tried to understand the issue. He told my dad, that I disrespected him and that if it was his subordinate in the office( He's in the para military) that disrespected him, they would kill the person and nobody would find the dead body. My dad then said, but she's your wife and not your subordinate. He shouted at my dad and dropped the call.

I go through a lot of emotional stress on a daily basis. I need to leave for my sanity. He's a great father.What do I do about my kids? Matured responses please.

True love will never emotionally nor physically attack his wife. He's threatening you now with words, and our words become actions.

LEAVE fast and take the children with you, but don't restrict them access to their father, train them to value women because their father can't teach them that, but don't turn them to a simp

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright.


See finishing....brama fuckkking hen...hahah....your boyfriend must be a real niggarrr
If not that your boyfriend is a real niggarrr i would have suggest we hang out but you know real niggarrrs don't fuckkk with the girl friend of other real niggarrrz
Or else that real niggarrr will pull the trigger...and i have to retaliate as well by pulling my own trigger and as a result the hood will no longer be safe for anybody including you the baby girl we are fighting over

Kíí lo'n wí lenu gan bayi?

IkpuNnegiEwu44:


It is better he spend 200k and clear his name than allow his reputation to be soiled which will affect his future endorsements and music career

I think it's far better he pretends like he never heard about this fake news and continue building his life.

Before he went into the house she didn't call him out, when he was in the house she didn't call him out, now he's won 40m she's now calling him out, bro she's just an attention seeking clout chasing whóre.

IkpuNnegiEwu44:


From the 40m he won

he should start spending his hard earned money on a lie? that is just the beginning of bad luck and misspending of the money, when he probably has something better to spend it on.

Angelfrost:


That's no one's business!!!.... Sex was consensual and she chose not to use contraceptives... She went on to chill till he was made to come forward!!!

She never serious!!!

Sounds like you actually believe her?

IkpuNnegiEwu44:


DNA test is not more than 200k

So where do you want him to get that money from

Something nice

ignis:
Layton should conduct DNA test on the baby. If the result comes out negative, I'd advise Laycon to sue her and make her pay damages for character defamation.

Do you know how much DNA test is in Nigeria, so you expect him to waste money on doing DNA test for a child that does not exist?

NevetsIbot:


Here's Major... Dude has lost almost all his muscle mass and is spending a lot of time alone now

He's truly a cool dog. Dogs are great, they make growing old more fun.

NevetsIbot:
I'm a huge dog lover and so far, I have two dogs.. A 10yr old brown GSD "Major" and a 1 year old Rottweiler "Khal Drogo". I have also never seen a dog that wouldn't vibe with me except recently a chow chow that seems apprehensive of everyone.

But this thread is about my boy, Khal.

He's an indoor dog... He's just like the last born in the house.. Lol.. Yeah.. He's that integrated.

Can you please post a picture of Major too?

lol
They are both clowns.

That is why we should learn to pray before taking decisions concerning our lives, not everyone can/should be helped, some people are so wicked that if you help them they will assume you are mocking them. It's good to help, I always gave to beggars on the street side or anyone who asked for help, but I realized not everyone should be helped so I don't give some of them, it's not that am hard hearted, it just that it's is best to leave some people with their problems. Since you said you are Christian, learn to ask the holy spirit before giving a helping hand, because he always has a better opinion.


Note: It's also very possible you are assuming things, but always seek God's opinion before giving some people.

AntiNigerian:
this is 2020, hope say you Don get your football team ready?

so I was 9 when this thread started

AntiNigerian:
this is 2020, hope say you Don get your football team ready?

so I was 9 when this thread started :-x

Kriss216:

I did not. You can check

You disappoint with generalization. You and pocohantas suppose marry o

Obichukwuu:
Yoruba and shit are like 5&6
They don't have any toilet at all, they shit anyhow, they shit inside water, they shit inside gutter, they defecate in the market, if you give them opportunity they will shit inside church.

They use shit swear for yorubaland If you stay with these people in a bus na mess dem go use chase you out of the bus

When I served in yorubaland as a corper, as they no get toilet, if you see how their mother, father and children dey do competition inside bush with shit, you will have mercy on them, they defecate everywhere.

These Yoruba people can shit for africa, I wonder how their compound will look like, because they must have decorated it with shit. Even if they shit they don't clean their nyash, they either use bamboo stick or water to clean their nyash, these people are old fashioned.

You are not so different, because you are using your tribalistic attitude to mess up the country.

FarahAideed:
But 80 percent of Lagosians have no access to proper toilets ...This is one of the legacies of 20 years of Tinubu Governorship yet some people want him to be president

Is that why they can't put their head to use?


Is that why they have to put the health of the remaining sane and future generations in jeopardy?


Can't they find another smarter/healthier way of defecating than being stupid people?

Why do we have to defend their stupidity by blaming the government for everything?


Once giving a cup of rice, this people will vote for the same people who keep screwing there lives over and then go back to making a mess of the face of the country with their shits.

Aduraworks:
Unfortunately for him, the Satan is nothing like this. The Satan is a beauty to behold, The morning Star, created in awesome beauty & glory....check ur bible

Satan must be mocking him right now.

Righteousness89:
The World is yet to see Full Demonism, Wickedness and Wildness!

All we are Witnessing now is just a Tip of what is to Come.

It's after the Blast of the Last Trump, that the Inhabitants of the World will see Humans Displaying Demonism and Wickedness..

That's why we Admonish all and Sundry to Ensure Adequate Preparation for Eternity...

If you are still Here by after the Blast of The Last Trump! You caused it yourself!

Now is the time of Repentance! You are not Guaranteed the Next Hour

Please create another account for your works, fake prophets are already misleading people.

XXXXTENTACION:
this is not the original righteousness89

Waking up and seeing the comments of that scammer got me gan

Squillaci:

What makes it demonic?

Everything about it

Squillaci:

13.

I started 10, with rigorous self-service sessions due to very high libido. And even if their are no consequences to it, I will still want to stop doing it because I understood that it's a demonic practice, and I hate to be anyone's puppet(even supernatural beings like demons).

Squillaci:
I self service. I am taller than you are and I weigh over 90kg.

at what age did you start?

Hambivert:
Thank God you know the truth now.

Although I feel you are still struggling with it, (as it isn't easily defeated just by knowing its disadvantages) your breakthrough is lingering (very close). It just depends on the concerted effort you put into breaking from this addiction.

Try 100 days of no self-service and watch the urge diminsh distinctively and your overall well being increase.

Las las You may just be Sparogated bfr the 100 days, but don't give up. Start again and be diligent... No room for excuses

Thanks for the advice, the war against self-service is still a ongoing battle in my life.

0Brien:
Is losing interest in women a problem?

Yes it can be.
I am losing interest in women as a human being, now am seeing them as a intimacy gadget.

YourCoffin:
Oga go medical school first before writing non-sense. How can masturbation make you gain weight? If you are not balancing it with a good diet, it could cause underweight not overweight.

I think you should read my post again but this time more CAREFULLY.

I have seen and heard lot of people suffering from the addiction of self-service, we all said it started as a fun thing to do until it became a problem and it started affecting us emotionally, psychologically, and physiologically. I discovered that some of the physical consequences of self-service is weight and muscle loss, body weakness, premature ejaculation, alteration of the penis shape, slight headache after self service and memory loss. As a 20year old with an height of 181 and weighing 65kg, I discovered I had the potential to be bigger judging from my shape and size as a child. It gotten to a stage that every time I have the urge to self-service and resist it, I feel like I get possessed and I do it and now I am even starting to lose interest in women, except when I need a image to self-service on. But the problem I have right now is why people keep claiming to others that self-service is okay and healthy, even the supposedly learned oyinbo people still make this claim and giving the gullible set of people a pass to keep on suffering themselves.

Durentt:
Hello.

I am 22 years old, I am not as skinny as you described but I used to be like that until I became 20 years old.

I used to weigh 59kg when I was 17 but now I weigh 69kg. I'm quite tall also

I think you should go to pharmacy for , this helped me gain weight after I used it for few months. (Answer to question 3)

You need body fat to get muscles, I suppose, so use the supplement above to get some fat and exercise to convert to muscles. (Answer to question 1)

Are cyproheptadine or cyprigold supplements? How much is it?

mhen



Go to Jesus, he can save you bro

I off my cloths and chill