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stan-ogb:
Our leaders should be leading by example...SMH

Minister Bala, a typical Naija leader- Do as i say but not as i do both now and in the future.
You should park your official vehicles once a while, as it'll reduce both noise and air pollution and maybe your convoy should consist of well dressed cyclists with you at the back of a custom made one; and then you can address us.

Some guys are physically living with their wives but their spirits and souls are still with their parents.
An example of such guys are those who want you to behave and cook like their mum and those who give their parents daily updates of the happenings with their wives.

Pokenosers

You tried. At least you made an effort to entertain us but that's a really old joke that worked when NITEL was alive. With wireless networks, this joke certainly has outlived it's usefulness.

Girlfriend, infact fiancé. Which 1?
If you love someone it'll show. She does. I aint sure if you're sure you do.

Go see someone- a doctor or a pastor.

They're his kids whether he is dead or alive and as such should bear his name. When she has kids for the new husband, they should bear the hubby's name.

OP, you shd probably start by telling us your opinion.
Mine-
Didn't God make Adam &Eve? Wasn't Adam extremely happy &content with Eve?
Where then did this idea spring from?
I guess it's a result of focusing on the wrong things; thinking, singing and listening to low or no-content music that describes the female anatomy rather than productive intelligent lyrics.

This ain't normal. Some sort of demonic possession

One of the muslim guys i came in contact with several years ago said he'll marry a fair lady, a fat lady, a tall lady and so on & so forth. Since their religion permits more than 1 wife, he'll make sure all he wants in a woman is derivable in all the women put together. That being said, this does not follow for a womaniser, cos even when he has a pretty woman at home and sees another one on the streets, his antenna rises &he wants to have that one too.

I smell a rat. This woman seems to have been through so much. The letter to her doctors to help her were probably handled wrongly and now she's paying for it. She's been too dependent on the governor's money to let go now. She's sold her soul.
But then, do i pity her? No. She's married to someone's husband. She's probably paying for her sins.

Premarital sex leads to bouncing babies. And who knows maybe he's one of the guys that say that wn you're pregnant we'll wed.
I hope she has learnt from her experience. Since the irresponsible man has refused to take responsibility for his actions, her family and friends shd come to her rescue. The guy would've messed up in marriage. God wants to give her another chance.

Please don't propose. Many have rushed in claiming they're following their hearts and it has never failed them only for them to rush out.
Find out more things about her and her family. Also open up to her about you and your family. Try making her angry and see how she reacts.
A good sign though is she has a friend who knows her.
Take your time, bro; she'll be yours if she's yours.

Do you have a nanny? Pls get one if you don't or use the crèche people. The woman is probably torn between house chores, taking care of the baby and caring for you.
Frequent sex without proper lubrication & pre-intimacy can be painful for a woman.
Once in a while, ask her ways you could improve on being the best husband to her.
If you take this issue to your relatives or even your friends then know that it may never be resolved. Your wife may never enjoy sex with you since you have to report her when you feel she's not doing things right.
Marriage is for mature minds not kids.
May God give you wisdom.

The 'deliverance' is working.

Do you have a job now?
Have you found the right girl?
Do you know that marriage is responsibility?
Can you take decisions on your own without consulting your parents or relatives?
If you answered yes to the above questions then pls go on to solidify your marriage plans.
My brother got married 3years ago @24. He's a great husband and father.

If you're married, see a doctor. If not, you're living in sin. Change your ways.

bropeee: i prefer groundnut( abi wetin u call am, vegetable?)oil. i cook very well. i used it to get my current gal. she kept on playing hard-to-get until the day she visited me, i went into kitchen and prepared better soup (oha precisely) for her. since then, she never ends the call without saying, "i love you".

If your assertion is true, prepare to cook till you drop to keep the love alive. Anything for love sha.

Front page pls. Save our women!
BTW i hope this gist is for real. It's really scary.
End time weaves.

Ifeanyi don gba gi injection so tey you don kolo.

[quote author=masonkz]In Nigeria, how do they regard a person that has remained unmarried down to his/her 40s? They (parents, friends, etc..) may even go on to finding a husband or wife for that person, instead of minding their damn business.


I do agree that the woman shouldn't be dragged into the whole situation though.

I know at least two gay men that are married to straight women, and one with a kid. I just usually wonder the kind of hell that would break loose if the wives are to find out. I can't deal abeg.

I remember what one said to me when i asked him how he manages to have sex with his wife. I can still remember his answer..."I close my eyes and visualise myself being with Daniel. That is what the society wants. My wife is happy I gave her a son, my parents are happy I have a child, and I'm happy with my boyfriend, and kid. Everyone is happy"


His parents may be happy but i bet you his wife isn't. She knows something is fishing. Wait till she finds out.

Mondisweets: u can always remain unmarried. Its hurting the woman for selfish reasons. Marriage is a union between 2 pple who love each other not a means of covering up who you really are

Well said!
When you hear the dilemma of ladies married to gay men, you'll pray never to be in or near their shoes.

No comparison- the ultimate show.
BBA is a show for contestants with loose morals, period!

masonkz: You can't blame the guys.

I blame the guys for their deceit. They are getting it wrong. Isn't it similar to a lady losing her womb during an abortion and keeping mum about it till the doctor reveals it to the husband?

israel007: For cover up so that the society would not think awful of them

But i guess that's not a plausible reason to hold a lady to ransom. It's every lady's nightmare to discover that her knight is night.

Because of the cultural stronghold on my people-Nigerians, the gay trend has been greatly frowned upon.
As a result of this, gay guys go on to marry ladies and have children. Women married to such men have a hard time @ marriage because the romance is almost non-existent and until the woman finds out that her man is gay, she is made to believe that is not doing enough to keep the marriage alive.
I have a proposition for gay guys- why don't you tell these women your secret, they may still love you enough to marry you and have kids for you or you can come out straight and tell the world so you can marry the man of your dreams.

Alfa Seltzer: What's wrong in wanting to handle a real gun? Are soldiers not handling real guns?

If we follow your twisted one sided logic, toy cars may make kids want to steal cars when they grow up. Toy barbie dolls will make girls want to become prostitutes, etc.

When kids play with cars and dolls, i doubt that they refuse to listen to an adult's voice instructing them to do something. The boy had two toyguns, one that looked real, he should have obeyed and then explained. His stubbornness caused this.
The policemen btw shd be arrested, they shd have shot a tranquilliser instead.

Yes, add some very skimpy skirt too.