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i inspire myself. i'm not a wanna be, i just do my thang,and thrive to always look good,even while asleep, but my frnds think i'm more of a Nigerian Kanye West with my looks,which i dont think so

just a typical case of a shalllow minded dude. i think for a dude to try forcing his way to get an acquiantace from a lady spells out how much he's lost his mind. most,but not all men, feel its a man's thing to dominate their ladies,and at the long run,they end up scaring her.soon she starts pretending,and it tells on d strength of d relationship. on a more wide note, i think it is another level of inferiority complex that drives them to such heights.we'll never get the best out of any kinda lady when we try 2 always enforce things to always go our way.

i desire to have online female companions who are very well cultured. its been a while i was online,and it seems all the peeps i knew are now illusive at the moment.my name is Uby.based in Cali 08066766851

Anytime

Well at the moment i miss quite a number of people:
i miss my mom, who just scaled through an operation successfully,and i wish her swift recovery
i also miss my sweetheart Grace-Ann,and lover.hopefully we wud be together for this weekend.
i also miss my sister Coco, who is in Yenegoa at the moment for the Ama Awards, i dont think i wud be seeing her b4 December,cos of the nature of her job.

This is a section for those who truly miss someone.It may not necessarily be a lover, it may be a friend,sibbling, parent,relative or even a crush.And of course we know that we ain't just constained to missing just one person over and over again.

i do have a hairy frame, but i love shaving it into a kinda Y-shaped style. my baby loves it to bits, especially the hair line that runs through my navels to my neatly shaved southern hermisphere.

Funny enof,i & my Girlfrnd have neva hd an embarrasin moment,coz d relationship is jst 4months.I wish we dont,coz she's rily fragile.

Wen partners 'break-up',its up 2 both of dem 2 either concentrate on d 'break' (d hurt & pain of livin witout sm1 u'v become so use 2,or focus on d 'up';(d way forward:movin on) u hav 2 believe u r capable of makin it thru life wtout dem.Smtym ago,u wer a toddler,wt all hope on ur parents,soon u wer dropped ovr in school,& @ 1st u cried ur eyes out,bt dat exposure made u independent.Later,u adapted 2 d system,& started makin frnds in an environment u tot wz hell.2day,wen u c kids in dat situation,u tend 2 laf over it,knowin hw awful dey feel,bt dey dont knw wat gains u'v learnt.I advice u mov on thru dis stage of ur lyf.U mi8 feel lik he left u in hell,bt in d future,u realise he did u a lot favor,wen u look back.All tins worketh 4 gud.I wz in ur shoes early last yr,i moved on,& now i'm ten times happier dan my past relationship.I neva knew she wz settin me free 2 rediscover wat it truly meant 2 hav a true frnd who's also ur lover.Move on sista,der r no U-turns in a pathway 2 success.Cheers.

why stalling sister
i op ur story doesnt end up like my friend's
she opened to how mush she cared about me after i had wooed and stated dating my beloved girlfrind.
i and this frnd of my were pretty lose, but she never cared 4 have a relationship with me,even when i approached her with it

but, now she's going thru everyday of her life wishing we dated.


stop stalling

i think this dude may have just had a tough time sorting out some infidelity issues with his partner, now he wants 2 know about other female 'landers.

Dez responses r so down 2 earth.I'm amazed.I rily missed a warmth in d 'land,all bcoz of my concentration on skool & acedemics.I'l put dez advices 2 work.Thanks a zillion fellas.

It's quite absurd my confessing this,cos i'm a rather shy fella with it comes to opening up. well my confession goes thus:

I had been out of love for almost a year now,and i thought it was time i got into a relationship.
i had just one female companion in mind, who happens to also be my friend in the faculty. we are really close frnds,and she's been there for me althrough my pain-days.
i wooed her conderning my desire to be her man, and she turned me down,wit the pretext that she thinks the friendship is more worthy. i was broken for days,cos it refreshed my heart of my past pain. recenlty( in Jan') i met a female frnd,whom we do get along pretty cool,and lately the attraction started growing. well, recently she had to come over to visit me,and apperently we are having a healthy relationship at the moment,and i am beginning to feel alive to love once again.
but the twist here is that when i got her introduced to my frnd at the Faculty, she went as cold as ice,and she's been like that till date. i got her talking,and she said she's always been in love wit me all these while, but she was scared i was like the other guys. as i am speaking to u guys, she has apperently walked out of our frndship,snubs me thesedays; cos she feels d hurt is too much, seeing me with another lady. i really need her frndship, but i cant leave my lady for nothing,cos she's brought me my long lost happiness.

how do i heal my frnd's hurt?

i ws really happy for ArsenalFC's future when i heard Cesc was now the new captain. he's obviously the youngest captain in Engliand at the moment,and thats pretty good for the game. William gallas messed up as a player in the chelsea colours;his pride wud always bring him dowm. i am not suprised at his outburst with Arsene Wenger. its his kinda person. fabregas wud certainly bring a more commited spirit back into the team. i think its a timely idea for the coach, if he had waited a month future, he wud have found himslf battling for Euro spot by the end of the season. Notwithstanding, i remain a True Blue fan, but i say the truth in any state i find myself. Arsenal wud bounce back, but i think its almost too late.

when u find urself in love with a lady that was created on d 8th day of creation, u'd do everything to keep her satisfied for the rest of ur life. feet kissing might be seen for some of ya'll as a silly act, but in the real sense of it, its an act of submission, humility and acceptance of ur partner. it cud be spiced up with the use of stuffs like chips of ice-blocks,chocolate candy bars,and a cup of chilled Vanilla cream. its no game for dudes who do not adore their lady's body. i kiss on my baby feets when i want to take her into a realm of pleasure. the arena must be romantic enof to lead the mood u both feel. i kiss her all over,cos thats just how i feel about her.gat any problem with that pple?

i believe its a great step ffwd in eradicating piracy from our country. cant we ever do something the right way for once?

why are we all so clogged up in admittin the fact that we all love havin sex?

personally i see nowt wrong with a lady taking the first move, but lets be more realistic. in the society we live in, ppl wudnt take her seriously when she makes the first move. she might become a topic for silly gossip, but the fact remains that she spoke how she felt about the guy,and thats wat counts to me.

thanks tope

I gat this lady friend,we are quite age mates.and i must admit she's really attractive to behold. a fort-night ago we had a mature chat about sex issues,as they affect different relationships. we delebrated on a art of forplays, kissing and all that,like we always do in the past. days later, she came visting me in my office,like she does,and we were gisting until my close time.just  moments after i'd closed, and was just getting ready to shut down my system and head home, she walked up to me and whispered in my office that she wants to kiss me. i was flushed, because i never saw such an advance coming from her to me. i laughed off the idea, but she showed more seriousness to her desire by holding me to the wall. i started being embarrassed. she obviously knows my girlfriend,and how serious we are in our relationship. i succeeded in talking her off her motives,and closed for that day; but ever since then she's been making advances at me,anytime we run into ourselves in town or my work place.she hasnt stopped bringing up the issue.
i don't want to jeopadise my friendship with her, by being rude to her,because she been a wonderful friend to me (maybe my longest standing female pal since high school). i need someone's candid advice,because i really don't know how to go about it.