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Literature / Re: Securing The Bag (The Lagos Hustle) by udoekere: 2:17pm On Jan 25, 2021
This life ehn enno just balance...when an old man is spoiling a little girl with money the feel on top of the world.they won't even have time for guys of their age but when they get older they will now turned to the once broke guys she once rejected for marriage.
Moral lesson: always keep in touch with the broke guys �����
Nice one op

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Celebrities / Re: E-Money Reacts As Prophet Odumeje Speaks Of His Numerous Spiritual Powers by udoekere: 9:36am On Dec 17, 2020
Indaboski and righteousness89 are like 5&6

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Celebrities / Re: DJ Cuppy Bags Award From King’s College London by udoekere: 1:57pm On Dec 09, 2020
Her pussy got her that

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Romance / Re: 9 Things You Will Always Wish You Knew Early In Life by udoekere: 8:23am On Dec 07, 2020
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Music/Radio / Re: The Top Ten Dumbest Lines In Nigerian Music by udoekere: 8:20am On Dec 07, 2020
Na beat we dey dance and not lyrics...
I only listen to omah lay...
Over here in heaven we listen to his song Godly when Jesus is not around...
Romance / Re: See Dazzling Pictures Of The Lady Who Has Been In A Secret Affair With Burna Boy by udoekere: 2:00am On Dec 03, 2020
Wtf! Who took ma Vaseline? �����
Romance / 9 Things You Will Always Wish You Knew Early In Life by udoekere: 1:54am On Dec 03, 2020
9 Things You Will Always Wish You Knew Early In Life



The pain of regret is the worst thing to suffer in life than the pain of discipline. It is very true that what you don’t know is bigger than you and can ruin you. You are presently were you are not because of what you know but what you don’t know.

One of the qualities that stand successful people out is that there are able to know some little secrets early in life and there worked towards it. Please if you are still in your 20s or early 30s, you can save yourself from regret later in life by taking note of the following



1. Previous success is one of the greatest hindrances to success and not failure



I remember when I came first in my class in college just to go back to the 12th position the following term. Our previous success is will always deceive us into thinking we are the best and nothing can be done about that. As a poet will say’ success is not yours, you can only rent it’. Don’t always allow the previous success to hold you back. Just get motivated and move on. The earlier you realize this, the better.

2. Education without discovery of your gift won’t take you far in life

If you are still among those who think education is power, I want you to drop that mentality now. Education is only a potential power unless it is been channel to solve specific problems and create wealth in the society. If education were to be power, doctors and professor should be the richest set of persons in the world.



Education will not help you discover your God given gift. You will create real wealth when you discover you gifts and harness it to make the world a better place. Take a look at billionaires like the late Steve Jobs(co founder of Apple), Bill Gates (co founder of Microsoft),Mark Zuckerberg(co founder of face book) and many others, these guys don’t have college degree but today, I don’t think any graduate can stand their level. The earlier you understand this, the better.





3. Rejection is often redirection

J.K Rowling (the author of Harry Potter) got rejected 12 times before she finally wrote and published Harry Potter, even Beyouncy had to make hundreds of songs to get hello, Jack Ma ( the co founder of Alibaba Express) got rejected multiple times before he started his company and today he is the richest man in china.



The best thing that can happen to you are some of those your rejections. Alexander Graham Bell said ‘when one door closes, another door opens’ so don’t dwell on some of the rejections you face for long. See all of your rejections now as redirection. Build and raise your self esteem so that rejections don’t bother you anymore. Today is difficult, tomorrow will be more difficult but the day after tomorrow will be sunshine. The earlier you know this, the better.



4. Your words matter



A word of encouragement to Ben Carson from his mother changed him to become one of the greatest surgeons of all time. A word of encouragement from a teacher can change a child. A leader can inspire and motivate his followers just by words. Learn to always confess positive things to yourself. Your current situation is temporal, where you are going matters a lot so always learn to say positive things to yourself.

Be careful of your words to yourself and even to others. Never say negative things about others. The earlier you learn this, the better.



5. Your value does not decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth



Build yourself to the extent where you will not define yourself by what people will say and think of you. Avoid dogmatic behavior which is living with the result of other peoples thinking. As Tim Fargo will say ‘if you want to improve yourself worth, stop giving other people the calculator’. Believe that you are special and hold unto to that. Don’t ever because of the rejections you face look down on yourself. Let me ask you this question, will Ferrari or Tesla company feel bad and feel inferior if someone passes the front of their shop without patronizing them? The answer is a big NO as that shows the person is not capable so build yourself to that extent.



6. Be yourself

In a world that is constantly trying to make you someone else, your highest accomplishment is to be yourself. You were born an original so don’t die a photocopy. You will live a life of accomplishment if you are yourself. Social media today is alone is enough to make you feel inferior but you will do your best by resisting all this. Don’t let others opinion drown out your own inner voice. Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, there somehow already know what you truly want to become, everything else is secondary.





7. Mind your thoughts



If you have read this far I think you truly want to avoid these mistakes and make your life better so I will recommend you read this book ‘ THINK AND GROW RICH BY NAPOLEON HILL’ . Thoughts are things and go a very long way to create our physical reality. You are currently were you are because of your previous thoughts and actions. We are magnetic beings and are reflections of our most dominate thoughts. The Facebook, Instagram, Apple,Twitter,Amazon and many other companies that you see today were once ideas of people in the form of thoughts. People sat down to develop these ideas and today it has greatly changed the world.



Please, I beg you, if you want to be great in life, change your thoughts. If you want to be rich and successful, see yourself as one not withstanding your present situation. You cannot never get where you cannot see. We are living magnets and you can attract whatever you think in your mind. The greats of the old like Nikola Tesla, Albert Einstein, and Steve Jobs used this practice to develop their ideas and create things. Read the book above to understand this concept more and the result will surprise you.



8. Making mistakes and failure is an integral part of success



Please avoid this trap of thinking failure is the final destination for you. Albert Einstein once said ‘a man who has not made a mistake has never tried something new’. Never see mistakes and failure as bad things. That is why school will not give you the best and make you discover your real potential in life. when we were in school, the smartest person is the one who will get parallel A, score hundred percent and come first in the class but I came to discover those people cannot really do exploit outside school because life respects experience. I have seen many intelligent and smart people who are broke in life because of one single thing and that is school told them mistakes are bad and should not be made.

Any learning process that will not accommodate your failure and mistakes will not really develop you. No one has actually changed the world by doing what the world told them to do.




9. Value family and relationships more than money



The late Steve Jobs, the co founder of Apple once said when he was about giving up the ghost and he said “ lying here on my sick bed, all money, wealth, fame and recognition I took so much pride in has become useless in the face of impending death. You can call someone to drive the car for you, run the business but you can’t call them to bear the sickness for you. As you live, cherish care and attention for your love ones, spouse, family and well wishers for this are what truly matters.”



I learnt a lot from this and this goes to clearly show that the place of relationship in our lives can never be exchanged for money. Never sacrifice family and love ones for business or money. God has so built us that we will need people. Cherish time and love for your family and never underestimate this.

Remember, your opportunity to pass through this world is once. Avoid the trap of thinking there is still time. Life might not be all that lucky for you so take responsibility now. These 9 things above are things even old people will always tell me “ I wish someone told me this when I was your age”.

Take action now and fulfill your God given purpose in life.

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Romance / Re: Girls, What Is Your Opinion On Guys With Big Ears by udoekere: 7:15am On Nov 20, 2020
Youngpo413:
Utong ekpu?
Ukaaaam ade utong ekpu
Romance / Re: Girls, What Is Your Opinion On Guys With Big Ears by udoekere: 10:49am On Nov 19, 2020
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Romance / Re: Girls, What Is Your Opinion On Guys With Big Ears by udoekere: 10:48am On Nov 19, 2020
SmellySperm:
Upload the pix let's see or.....
Can't u give ur own opinion without demanding for a pix on a public forum
Romance / Re: Girls, What Is Your Opinion On Guys With Big Ears by udoekere: 10:47am On Nov 19, 2020
SILENTandSMART2:
Upload the picture of the big ear or forkk off





All this unnecessary things dat you go dey bring to the table



Upload the picture or koriibuuloo



Eleribu tin baa mon Igbo ibuu angry


I should upload ma pix on a public forum...u no well
Romance / Re: Girls, What Is Your Opinion On Guys With Big Ears by udoekere: 10:43am On Nov 19, 2020
DryMouth:

Depends on the size of the body carrying the big head
Don jazzy type of body is beta�����
Romance / Re: Girls, What Is Your Opinion On Guys With Big Ears by udoekere: 10:42am On Nov 19, 2020
noyioze:
...there's nothing to be insecure about, big ears are cute in my own opinion. See Barack Obama and Daniel Craig(007), they got big ears or prominent ears. And if you are observant, many ladies got prominent ears too. The likes of our own Genevieve and Gloria Anozie(ex beauty queen), are displaying theirs prominently.

Be thankful that you don't have one of 'em small, cropped ears that looked malformed....

������� Lalasticlala
Romance / Girls, What Is Your Opinion On Guys With Big Ears by udoekere: 9:48am On Nov 19, 2020
I dont think I am overly insecure or vain but recently I realised that I have pretty damn big ears xD and I was wondering if I should get anything done to fix them as up until now due to haircuts etc it has never occurred to me or been a problem but now I'm not so sure. I am just curious to see because I would not ask people IRL what they think because that would be weird lol

my profile pic does not really show how big my ears are and I dont usually take pictures face on....


Are big ears a... turn off? turn on? do you care? Should I get my ears fixed? Thanks in advance for replys



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Romance / Re: Any Woman Who Can Do These To A Man Is A Wife Material by udoekere: 6:53am On Nov 05, 2020
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Romance / Re: Reasons Why Girls Prefer Bad Boys To Nice Guys by udoekere: 6:52am On Nov 05, 2020
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Romance / Re: Your Wife Or Girlfriend Will Surely Cheat On You Because Of These 5 Reasons by udoekere: 6:50am On Nov 05, 2020
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Romance / Re: Any Woman Who Can Do These To A Man Is A Wife Material by udoekere: 1:55pm On Nov 04, 2020
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Romance / Re: Any Woman Who Can Do These To A Man Is A Wife Material by udoekere: 1:55pm On Nov 04, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
You looking for a full time housewife grin

It is what it is.....
Romance / Re: Any Woman Who Can Do These To A Man Is A Wife Material by udoekere: 1:53pm On Nov 04, 2020
Amazingboy1:


Your head dey there my brother,,,,,❤️✊

Nah lazy girls full town,,,,,wink
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Romance / Re: Your Wife Or Girlfriend Will Surely Cheat On You Because Of These 5 Reasons by udoekere: 1:20pm On Nov 04, 2020
Davash222:
If na all these things go make her cheat, make she carry her wahala dey go.

Chai u r a certified cheat
I pity ur future wife

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Romance / Your Wife Or Girlfriend Will Surely Cheat On You Because Of These 5 Reasons by udoekere: 1:13pm On Nov 04, 2020
Your Wife Or Girlfriend Will Surely Cheat On You Because Of These 5 Reasons.

Every relationship has what is going to make it succeed or crumble. Under the sun there never is a perfect relation. People may have failed or put it rightly, refused to accept that fact. Many people keep searching for that perfect choice, jumping from one partner to another. When reality hits them hard, they become gloomier. Again they are disappointed!!. Everyone has many reasons to enter into a relationship with a man or a woman. But some just do that because they feel like doing so. In a relationship, the partners are two different people from different backgrounds. They have their interests, they like and they dislike

We also want our partners to reap some benefits. So many people have hidden motives of their own to be hooked with a partner. Some people are in a relationship because they know the other person can be of financial assistance to them. Others to enter the relationship simply because of their sexual gratification. I fear for those individual categories. Since love is not the union's motive, the partners will part ways when a few rounds of sexual bouts have quenched the flames of lust. Others who enter the game start looking for the exit because of money when the partner becomes broke. Some ladies, in this area, are very good. They are talented in this respect. No one can over match them They can milk any unsuspecting man dry beyond repairs.


Do you know other people truly and wholeheartedly enter into relationships? Yeah! They have good reasons for doing so. Most of those unions continue to last longer. This is because love is the primary driving force, and nothing more. Even when the partners are faced with challenges, love conquers everything. That is the sort of relationship that I always dream of. I hope you dream the same thing too? Who doesn't love stuff better? But, sadly, some of the better love-based relationships go down the drain!! The cause of the breakage comes mostly from one of the partners. They call the relationship to a standstill when one partner is disappointed or fed up with the recent behaviors of the other partner.

In this article, I want to touch on why so many women in the case of married women live with the men they claim to love, cheat, or have extramarital affairs yet. People sometimes blame men for different reasons. The society also punishes women on occasion for playing various games. But to me, there are certain things that most men do that send their partners into the arms of other men. I hope you know there's nothing as painful as a cheating girlfriend or wife to behold? I don't know how it feels but I know it's going to be painful if somebody stole your last money. That is how best I can imagine it, at least. What are the things men do that let their wives go testing other waters? Let's talk about some of those.

1. The first thing in my bag is lack of intimacy.


Yeah! women love romance. Don't mistake me; it's not always about sexual acting. The proximity to their partners, having enough time to go into the parks, shopping, walk around the neighborhood. These are some of the things that your wife will require of you. And let me have the singular honor of telling you that any lady, indeed any woman who does not demand any of the things I have mentioned, does not see you alone. When you tell her to accompany you and she refuses to do something outside of your immediate environment, know she doesn't want your rival to see you two. But a real woman will require you to spend time with her, take her out and others.A lady who is always proud of her man wants to show him to her friends to see. Men who fail to satisfy their women's wishes will soon see them in the arms of other men. She doesn't get the attention that she needs so she has to go somewhere else. Do you know the most painful aspect? She's going to cheat right under your nose and you won't know for a long time. Another guy will have a regular 'precious cake' bite! Right under the nose! A cheating girlfriend or wife is like an underlying health problem that slowly corrodes the sufferer's system. The damage is done before you know it! Be on your guard. Spend time with your wife or a girlfriend.

2. Another big reason why your woman will cheat on you is when you do not take care of her needs.


Women have so many needs that they occasionally need to satisfy. If they don't work then you will always have to sponsor them. If you willingly refuse to financially support them. Or you don't do enough, then you're ready to share it with another man in town equally. The painful aspect is that your opponent will take a share of the lion. With all her might and strength she will cheat on you! Before entering a relationship, some women also have all the money so it means they lack nothing. But women are passionate about surprises. The little things you do to her will make you move in love with her. Practically she'll donate herself entirely to you.But if you think she's got everything so there's no need for surprises, then I'm afraid she'll cheat you with someone who just bought a rose flower from her.

3. Your woman will cheat on you with her last drop of blood if you do not make love to her.

This is where it gets really interesting! Sex is a fundamental necessity for all, too. When you are in a relationship, you must satisfy the sexual needs of each other. From time to time the women love sex. The frequency however varies from female to female. If you're that guy who doesn't like to pull the trigger, then one of these days you'll weep. Weep in your imagination beforehand, and get used to it when the time comes. When you're so busy you can't do it, then the neighborhood guy will be a replacement. Your gateman will, or better yet, do what Napoleon could not do. Be very vigilant. Do it whenever she wants.If you have a child who demands something else, give it to him, he'll go to the streets to search for it.

4. Your wife or girlfriend will cheat on you if you are not honest and truthful with her.

This particular habit is very characteristic of youths. When they see a lady that they feel is not in their class, then they have to lie to get her. When those ladies come to know the truth, cheating becomes for them a welcome choice. Women love truly sincere men. Just talk the truth to her. Even if before you saw her you've gots a girlfriend, let her know. If she loves you then it's good for you to go. That habit of lying to get a woman's points will rather send her to cheat in the neighborhood.

5. If you flirt with other women, expect your wife or girlfriend to do same.

If you have too many female friends to entertain as needed, she will feel insecure. She will even hurt and hold a grudge in her heart if you never spend that sort of time with her in the fact. Or put it correctly, you have not enough time for her. She's going to look for a comfort zone. You drive her out to go and do what is easily done by most women.

Now you know some of the things that can make you cheat on your wife or girlfriend. Before she starts doing what she can easily do, she better work on those things. Even if she is a staunch Christian, or whatever, when she wants to cheat, her faith will be a secondary affair. That one is even dangerous; any time she cheats to 'neutralize' the sin she will be more prayerful. You'll completely lose guide and say you've found a woman in the church who can remain faithful for as long as you're not around.

Take that advice, and be safe. If you like to take it as a joke. If you are in agony we will console you. How else can a woman cheat on a man? I want to learn from your wealth of knowledge so I won't be the victim of circumstances. Share this article to advise others and to educate them.

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Romance / Re: Reasons Why Girls Prefer Bad Boys To Nice Guys by udoekere: 1:08pm On Nov 04, 2020
MajesticKris:
Soooooooooo TRUE cry kiss
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Romance / Re: Any Woman Who Can Do These To A Man Is A Wife Material by udoekere: 1:02pm On Nov 04, 2020
Amazingboy1:
Aswear you're right OP,,,

She should wash cloth with her hand,,, sweep,, clean everywhere,,,,,,cut grases,,,,, take care of children and her husband,,,,,

But it is so sadden dat such girls are not in town,,, nah yeye girls full town,,,,,,,sad
Aswear

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Romance / Reasons Why Girls Prefer Bad Boys To Nice Guys by udoekere: 12:58pm On Nov 04, 2020
Reasons Why Girls Prefer Bad Boys to Nice Guys.

Many times I would ask a lady to describe the kind of men she likes, and most of them usually say they love nice, caring and kind men. But time and time again they have chosen the so called "Bad boys" over the nice guys they claim to like which to me is very ironical.



"What is it about these bad boys?" I have often asked myself. I have watch so many romantic movies and also read many love oriented novels, the men in those films and novels are usually very nice and caring. But why do women find themselves falling for bad boys in real life? I decided to do some research to find out the truth behind this matter.

The following reasons that I will be presenting to you are purely my opinion as you can give yours in the comment section.



Bad boys are usually Alpha males: what this basically means is that most bad boys are dominating, controlling, successful and the leading men in a group. So they usually attract attention to themselves. All these characteristics can be very beneficial for drawing girls attention to these bad boys in a romantic way.



Nice guys are mostly Beta males: nice guys on the other hand are too boring, they lack substance which makes them not to be interesting enough for girls to want to be with them. They focus too much on being nice which can be very dull for a relationship, whereas a little teasing here and there makes a relationship more fun. Even though these days women are strong and independent, they still need a man that can protect and take charge.



Bad boys are usually attractive: Note that I am not talking about physical attractiveness, because there are a lot of guys that are very handsome and still have no girlfriend or women are not very attracted to them. What make most bad boys attractive is not their physical features, but their confidence and the way they carry themselves, these is what makes them attractive to girls. A bad boy's confidence makes him look even more handsome than he actually is. For example a man that always say things like "I can do that" or "that is easy for me" are very appealing to females. Bad boys exude self assuredness and a confident personality that attract the attention and affection of women.



Nice guys are perceived to have low self esteem: the so called nice guys behave as if they don't deserve to be loved or be in a long lasting relationship with a beautiful woman. Women are not attracted to those kind of attitude and behavior, that is the reason why nice guys are usually friend-zoned by females. So they Begin to ask themselves "but I was very nice to her and all" well it is not all about being nice, learn to take charge.



Bad boys are usually honest: most women can sense when a man is telling a lie, and as we all know bad boys usually says what comes to their minds with mincing words. Women tend to go for the "honest bad boys" even though some of them can be jerks sometimes. When a bad boy tells a girl that she looks very beautiful in a certain dress, she would be very happy and appreciative about it because she knowns he is saying the truth. But these trait has it's disadvantages because sometimes girls may end up dating a selfish and self-centered guy at the end.



Nice guys are way too nice: They are usually way too nice to the point of telling lies so that they would not hurt the feelings of the girl. These trait is some times helpful, but like they say "too much of everything is bad". Women are smart and intuitive they can detect a lie which will definitely lead to lack of trust in the relationship. Nice guys are " people-pleasers", so that is why it looks like the affection they give doesn't seem genuine.



Bad boys are more fun to be around: They are what we call the life of the party, without them, the party, occasion or gathering do not seem to be fun at all. They are free spirited and fun to be with. Girls are usually attracted to these types of guys and tend to have affection for them.



Nice guys are usually boring: These types of boys usually believe that kindness is all its takes to win a women's heart. Nice guys tend to be boring at times they lack a sense of humour, they can't take a joke and most of the time they can't give a joke.



Bad boys are rebellious: It has been scientifically proven that women are attracted to men with a deviant character. Men that are not always obedient to higher authority always seem to attract females. Have you ever wondered, why the "bad boy" in your street always seem to have all the girls? Bad boys are opinionated, headstrong and most of the time narcissistic, all these traits are very helpful to attract the women folk, no matter how much they tend to deny it women have a thing for rebellious men. That is why this question still plague men till today, "what do women want?"



Nice guys usually don't have a mind of their own: They have what I call "the zombie character" if you tell them to go, they will go without question. They mostly behave like they don't have strong will, which women find very unattractive. A man should be able to argue points, stand his ground and be sure of himself, which are all good traits, if you want to have an interesting relationship.

What do you think of the following reasons that were put forward above? Follow, like and you can add some of your reasons in the comment section.

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Romance / Any Woman Who Can Do These To A Man Is A Wife Material by udoekere: 12:44pm On Nov 04, 2020
Any Woman Who Can Do These To A Man Is A Wife Material

Women should have this traits below, else they will free their sweethearts to other women, and that may bring desire and contempt among them.

1. Women should wash the clothes of there man regularly

2. Women should ensure they don't request money constantly from a man

3. If you are a young lady cook tasty food for a man

4. Girls ensure you regard your man regardless of the condition

5. Women should consistently get together with the fulfillment of their individual beaus whenever and quickly.



6. Attempt to be timely whenever he calls you, give him greatest attention.

I realize no one is great, yet once you do this things precisely your man will love you until the end of time.


As a man ensure you do this things and as a young lady consistently value men who does this.

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Celebrities / How Would You Spend The Money If You Were Laycon? by udoekere: 5:12pm On Sep 28, 2020
Well I don't really know if the 85m is a catch at hand or if all those bonuses of a trip to Dubai,a year supply of noodles/Pepsi is still part of the money.

But for me the best way to spend the money is by investing it on things that will give me a double of the money within 5-10years like building houses and owning filling stations.


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