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Stayingtrueee:
Good day nairalanders! Please I have a serious issue at hand and I just need different opinions.

I met this guy sometime in November infact the day we met we spent the night together it was more like a hook up thingy and he paid me my money and I left the next morning. Later that day I wrote him to know his whereabout and he said he was at home and I asked if I could come over cos I really enjoyed what we had that night. So he invited me over and I spent two days with him, along the line we grew fond of each other and we became really close. Infact I was always going to his house it was more like we were dating.

January this year I noticed I was pregnant but I wasn't sure so I actually waited till I'll see my period in February but my fear was confirmed. I was pregnant! I told him and he wanted the baby infact we both wanted it.

Fast forward to last month I came to visit as usual and I spent some weeks with him, he was really facing some financial challenges and he started transferring aggression on me. I tried to calm him down that it was only a phase and that it will pass. He loosened up a bit.
I traveled back to my state cos I live in Port Harcourt and he's in Abraka Delta state, we're both from Rivers though.

So he was expecting some funds on Monday which he promised to send something over for me for my upkeep, the money came in and he never sent a dime for me. I tried calling him to remind him and he started giving me attitude, putting up some flimsy quarrels. Then I asked him hope I'm not in all this alone, the answer I got from him was however I want to handle myself was solely my business, I should do what ever I want.

Right now I'm so confused, I'm thinking of traveling to Delta state to go see him at least he should say all these to my face. If he wants me to terminate the pregnancy which is still not late I have my own conditions to give him. I'll stay at his place and we'll both go together to have an abortion, I'll stay at his place till I'm perfectly fine and he has to pay me for damages.

What do you guys think? Am I doing the right thing

Pardon my typos please!!!

Rather than terminating the pregnancy. If u dont mind I will pay for ur antenatal till u give birth then I will buy the baby from u with all the legal document involve. If it's fine by u dm me.

Islie:
https://thenationonlineng.net/breaking-why-nigeria-needs-me-by-tinubu/

Lol...this man don take that tin wey he dey take!

siofra:
Afang and pounded yam

My sister your head dey there!

Good!

FishLaps:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2021/11/18/epl-wesley-fofana-takes-final-decision-on-joining-chelsea/

Me23:
Hello my Nairalanders,

I will go straight to the point and won't waste your time. I just recently got married let say 3weeks now, my wife was a virgin when I met her and we didn't have sex not until our wedding night. On the wedding night, I couldn't penetrate in as it was difficult for both of us because she always feels serious pain anytime I tried to enter. Finally I was able to enter on the third day, even at that it was just the small part of penise that was able to enter but mehn she scream so loud but sha I could confirm the blood.

After that we've had series of love making and I always go slow as I know that's her first time, but anytime am about to go in, she always feel pain both during and after sex. Sometimes the pain will reduce and while atimes the pain will be so much that I will have to stop the love making as I couldn't take it while seeing her in pain, she would want me to continue because she wants to satisfy me and because I could wait all this while without having sex.

Before our wedding, we decided to do some check up for any kind of infection so as not to take any chances for anything that would ruin our sexual life, and we were treated accordingly. After this experience of pain, we had to surf the net to know what could cause the pain, and some of the results and things that could lead to can be pain during sex are: genitals wart, lesion, blisters around the genitals, scratching and having burning sensation around the genitals etc I checked her vagina to see if there's such I didn't find any and she also claims she doesn't scratch or experience any burning sensation.

Pls to all the doctors in the house and to those that have had such experience pls help this guy and his wife. I was on celibacy for two years o and now that I'm ready to enjoy sex now this one come dey show up.

Get a lubricant from the pharmacy and thank me later.

Iyaebe:
Tell him to respect you,its that simple.It's your right that he respects you,at least not in your presence for God's sake.

May b ur mum is not good in bed that's y d old man dey look around for babes wey sabi d work.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright
Wahalar be like bicycle

Modified...wahala b like dangote towel, e no dey cover Yash finish!

plaindealer:
When you drive against traffic, people die, sadly.

This lawless and thoughtless woman need to explain to families and victims of these dangerous and reckless drivers why they should not be punished and just receive a slap on the wrist instead.

You shud have read read what she said with an understanding befor commenting

brainpulse:
Certainly Atiku is planning to return Nigeria to full blown corruption.
Everyone that really loves Nigeria and hates corruption should not fill concerned or threatened with this ban except you are corrupt.

Shut up mumu, what do u kW? If u say Atiku is corrupt what will u say if amaechi who ws labelled as d most corrupt politician of all time by CNN yet he is a minister in d present administration.

Hier:
*THE SECOND MISTAKE*

The first mistake was thinking President Mohammed Buhari is the perfect replacement for Goodluck Jonathan, while the second mistake most Nigerians are about to make is, to believe Atiku Abubakar is the perfect replacement for President Mohammed Buhari.

Let's talk about the real mistake. The real mistake is our inability to unite and bring out a third and fourth candidate that would be most perfect for the office, not for the election. Just as wedding is said to be a day event, while marriage is lifetime in nature. Election is a day event, the tenure lasts four years. Think *_four years_*, is it about winning the election, or having the perfect leader who is more than a replacement, we need a leader with the answers. We need visionary leaders who are perfect leader with the ability to rule this nation and bring us to greatness.
Truthfully, all Nigeria needs right now is a choice among the best. There are better candidates out there than the popular gladiators in today's politics. I believe Nigeria politics is evolving and Parties and Movements like our are the future of Nigeria politics. Let's build together and hope the evolution of Nigeria politics is as speedy as our continual devotion towards putting the right catalyst in place to speeden the evolution. We all have a role to play, we have responsibilities to take up and we have a Nigeria to build.

Join; let's build faster.
Volunteer; let's build stronger.
Mobilize; let's build wider.

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After all d grammar, yet u cud not mention a name of all d people u think can take Nigeria to d promised land.

[quote author=donphilopus post=71928098]Obasanjo doesn't need to endorse Atiku for him to win or lose. Obasanjo's endorsement can't guarantee Atiku victory in Ogun State let alone the Southwest as a whole.

We are no longer doubting Buhari's victory. What's still not clear to us however, is how wide the margin would be.

Atiku can't win any State in the Northwest which boasts of the highest voting strength in the country. He may be able to win two States of Adamawa and Taraba in the Northeast. Aside Plateau and Benue, Atiku isn't sure of winning any other State in the North Central including FCT.

Coming down South, Buhari is certain of winning all the States in the Southwest. If you think otherwise, you can prove it without being sentimental.

Buhari only needs 30% of the votes in the South South and Southeast and no doubt he would surely get it. Wike allocated votes to Jonathan in Rivers in 2015, that won't happen next year. Such won't happen in Delta and Akwa Ibom too.

To wrap it up, Atiku is late to the race so no need atikulating because doing that would yield no positive result.[/qu




Shut up, who do u kW? Mention d states u think ur PMB wil win in d south/south and south/east? Since u ar very good in
analysing

Optional09:
I don’t really care who is in as long as they didn’t bring Igbo or Hausa person

U just made me see reasons y a frnd of mine said Nigeria can never get better!

alphaconde:
I no see where brother for say e wan phuck her

Is the sleeping over part of the d shooting, Abi u no read that part?

H

kamez:
Yoruba's talk too much and show little action... that's why I like my state IMO, go and ask the past governor ohakim, even with all his political thugs and money sharing, imolites were not intimidated and he was voted out..

same fate awaits Rochas and the present apc in IMO come 2019..

una just come nairaland dey cry wolf..meanwhile a handful of so called politicians are about to take over ur state against ur will..fight for ur right for goodness sake

I dey tell u!

otunde527:
Ok


Nothing we no go see,

Op how sure are you

This osun state cast ooo! Governor no dey that state oooo

bender79:
But Nigeria na wah o. Just look at how alert they other participants from other countries look. Our leaders are only attentive to politicking and rigging!

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D guy don shayo! It's very obvious

Kelebe007:
Did u study puff puff making in school?
If no, why did u go to school?
Why did you work so hard to earn a degree.
Why did you burn your sponsor's hard earned cash?
I know why::: there are no jobs. So I admire your courage to survive. Don't forget, your president and some senators ain't even graduates.
You knew you loved food, u still went to a university instead of a catering institute.
Argggggh:::: not happy though.

Adviser indeed!

Olalan:
A sane mother would most likely slap a wife for the same reasons her mother or a older relative would have slapped her, thus if she cant slap them back she has no justification to slap the mother in law back

Correct

I dey tell u