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jeemy:
na wa for you, how many Responsible Girl still dey Nigeria, abeg talk another thing, i guess maybe my sister is a Responsible Girl LOL, man i hail

not all eyes that are open can see.

see behond ur nose.

Ivvie:
Dno

The nairaland-girls have made it clear that they aren't wife-materials. To be honest, to find what you are looking for (assuming your standards are princey), a lot has to be met. Such girls are scarce and you may see them and disregard them. If you spot them and you aren't their type, they'll simply avoid you or use wisdom to dissociate themselves from you.

just a few cents

THIS IS AN INSULT. pls don't let little children 2 throw sand at u.

the lady is deperate of marriage.

guy don't marry her. u will not find happiness in such marriage.

let her give birth first even if u have 2 rethink later.

don't be afriad of having a child ouside wedlock. the child may not be urs.

tell ur parents about it but don't marry her NOW

bouzymill:
Like this Topic, "Can a Bird and A fish fall in love?" lets check it intellectually. There are lots of things they don't have in common, Fish has no wings, but fins. Bird has feathers while fish has scales.
Now, these are real differences which if we check very well, one looks like subsitute for the other, so if we all agree that Love cuts beyond reasonable limits, then they can still look at each other as "almost" the same,

The main difference is Water and Air? If they undastand in sum other ways that they are almost the same, then they would work sumtin out? Like the Fish coming to the River bank where there are sill sum kind of water to safeguard it while the bird can kin of stay there, I think there should be a little connection between them there,

Maybe av not made any sense?

my bother, u too much.
that is a perfect idea.
guy! thanks

sylvao2000:
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if that you said is right will you fall in love with a madman in the street or will love know a madman?

a person with a paralysing fear of heights would not be a wise choice as a climbing partner 2 scale the slipes of mount Everest.

xcept a girl watch over herself, her guy cannot watch over her even if they live in thesame room.
it is only a stupid girl that will get money outside her relationship and go about buying clothes what happens 2 shares in banks and investments.
it is good 2 do good. and living a double life will not get someone fast as twice. if not ,
a girl can build a house without the guy even sensing it 2 talk of the traces.

guys take note: the more u watch over ur girl, the more she ,

therefore fooling u with plenty lies.

loofas:
Love is CARING, SHARING & GIVING.

well said.

in addition, love knows no barriers and doesn't recognise colour or creed.

@ Ariblaze
who is a gentleman? i suppose u know it all.
a gentleman:

is someone who found no joy in merely doing things which anyman can do.

is a man who derive satisfaction that is mighty sweet 2 take when he reach a destination that he thought he would never make.

is a man who must face danger. take risk, the blame and face the blunt of a storm.

is a man who act as if it is imppossible 2 fail.he breaks the spell of inertial and frustration.

is an over-cautions man who burns bridges of opportunity b4 he gets 2 them.

is a man who makes life 2 be either a daring adventure or nothing.

is a man who evaluate his personal standards of quality.whatever he thought was goodenough 4 now, he add 10% more.

is a man who stands 4 what is right, then he win, even if he LOSE.

is a man who his true measure is in his height of ideals, the breath of his sympathy, the depth of his conviction and the length of his patience.

is a man who make choices and never let choices make him.

is a man who is wise enough 2 weigh the pros and cons of anything that requires commitment.

is a man who cannot give perfect love, no matter how good or loving he is.

is a man who knows that his desired 2 get marriaed must not override the need 2 do it the right way.

is a man who must not puth his babe through anything she do not understand without ensuring that she know the truth.

is a man who understands that there is a thin line between LOVE and DEATH.that it is better 2 stay single and be alive than rush into marriage and lose his life.

is a man who is this and that. th edescription of a gentleman is so wide.
i hope this would do u.
u can still turn up the mirrow, if u desire more.

@ olanajim

favour is not only 4 special people. it is 4 EVERYBODY.FAVOUR TAKES AWAY LIMITATION FROM UR LIFE AND BRINGS U OUT OF THE PIT OF DESTRUCTION AND FAILURE.

the truth is that if u like things easy, u will have difficulties. no obstacle will ever leave u the way it found u.what u commit urself 2 be will change u from what u are into what u can be.when u encouter obstacles, u will discover things about urself that u never really knew.

those in Niger Delta are yet 2 discover things about themselves. a key 2 one's future is that he can still choose, he can still decide.the gem cannot be pollished without friction, nor man perfected without trials. some will die 4 others 2 live and 4 things get better.

whatever u want 2 accomplish in life require persisitence.the breakfast of champions is not cereal, it is problems.

there is no thrill in easy sailing when skies are clear and blue.

person when fine don fine finish

whether make ups or not, beauty is beauty

swiftycool:
@ Ufobabe
Are u saying u have never been in love with any of those guys?
So what was the basis of the apparent relationships?
MONEY i Guess 

i have been in love before. we ended gracefully therefore deserve no apology.

i don't ask money from guys. if u are rich, it is 4 urself. i even give them if i care enough 2 help any. money is not everything. and it doesn't buy happiness and faithfulness.

saucekid:
@ poster,


shey love no dey hungry?

which kind hunger bi that?

love doesn't hurt but show concern

why would the bird eat up the fish?

is that love?

olanajim:
Any way who is the fish? And the birds?

time and eternity

olanajim:
Why?

because marriage is an expensive alliance

yes!
God made us so. He still call us the weaker vessel.

some of us are very emotional.

in pains, peace,joy,hapinness,worship,anger and many more

tears are always involve.

it is not our fault.we were created so.

i still feel that trust is not solid enough 2 hold their mansion.

adversities are just challenges that u and i cannot avoid no matter how perfect one seems.
like i said earlier,our mind requires a challenge and our heart longs 4 the best way .favour is one thing that gives us upper hand over difficulties/challenges. don't encourage ur weakness or accomodate it.
ur ability 2 rest in the mists of troubles is ur inward xpression in God. the worst thing 2 do to a teacher is 2 make him believe that he doesn't know anything.
a peaceful and cheerful frame is necessary 4 optimum health. success is peace of mind, which is direct result 2 knowing u did ur best 2 become the best that u are capable of being.
keep urself clean and bright; u are the window through which u must see the world. problems are the price of progress. the obstacles of life are intended 2 make us better not bitter
ADVERSITY HAS ADVANTAGE.

a bird and a fish, can they fall in love?

but the bigger guestion is "where are they going 2 build their home?

princes/princess in the house, please make me understand.

amen

michael, kingsley, oreva, samuel, george,nicolas, ifeanyi,titus and many others.

really i didn't break them down. they love me so much but my heart is not just 4 them.

i have forced my self 2 love them but my heart keep saying NO.

truely, am sorry but know that it is the heart that choose 2 LOVE not the flesh

again and again

GUYS! AM SO SORRY

stealing is better than prostitution.

na watin she steal?

maybe na ur heart.

leave her oh.

my sister,
am not married but everyday that marriage continues, there is an unspoken statement that both parties grow in their confidence in tolerance.

don't confess until he confess 2 u first that he has been cheating on u.infact don't tell him even if he confessed 2 u. don't be like the archaelogist that live by digging up the past.

infact clear ur mind. nothing happened ok.

sit him down and tell him about the pains that u feel each time u he goes down.if u can't tell him, the pain will continue. rather both of u should see a doctor.

don't 4get NOT 2 TELL HIM. men are more jealous than us.

NO! but when u carry bele

ur eyes go come down.

all of u are getting me annoyed.

money 4 what? money or no money, a girl that loves u will still love u.

loving someone is not what u can get from him rather it is what u can give 2 him.

this is where many girl get into wrong relationship/marriage all because of money. 2moro they will breakup/divorce.why can't the money keep them in there?

a measure of the love u share with sombody can be determined or evaluated by how u feel when u are with him or her not the money u offer.

guy! as 4 me, money is not all.

i believe in love

i sadly also believe more than 80% of people would never experience it

it takes a moment to fall in love,you should never fight for love

but you fight everyday to keep it ignited


@ olanajim

when people understand a cause become prepared 2 suffer 4 that cause and see glory and honour in such suffering, it is indeed just impossible 2 supress them on the cause they stand 4. fight 4 love.
the best way of destroying something is not by banishing it violently but by removing as much of what form it, that it can possibly manage.

Since love must give rise to its kind nature, we must not ascribe the ills in the society to it. Since product of love are in minority worldwide, it is fair to say that whatever that is causing those ills must have a backing force which edge out love. Love may be stronger, it is certainly not dominant. Evil men out numbered good men and then they rules. They also infect others at alarming rate.

lions, leopards,hyenas, snakes and all animals seemed 2 accept one name, creatures of God the almighty and seemed 2 agree that they should not hurt each other. in the worst of things, there is a degree of good. there are so many things that are bad in our way of life but i believe there are also many that are good.
spirit of oneness between us is admirable unless we are rivals or don't see eye 2 eye over something.all people are created equal and are endowed with certain in alienable right among them life, liberty and the persuit of happiness. we are humanitarians and have no time 4 the colour of persons.
this world will be a better place if u are doing the right thing in ur environment and i am also doing thesame in my environment said"prof .C. soludo"
evil prevail when good men keeps quiet over it.i am sure i cannot be too fare wrong in saying what i am saying.no man can hate his fellow man or try 2 stop his progress or keep him from enjoying all the fruit and right and the salvation of Christ.
love unite people.unity is more than anything u can think of.

love is still the only love.

love is still the most valuable thing that has been given 2 us by a loving Creator.

thesame way that life cannot be bought so is true love.

ur money can buy u sex but not love.
just take note.

he that shew two bones at thesame time must definitely bit his tongue.

guy! u got urself into trouble urself. that is the consequences of shewing 2 bones.

marry the 2 of them at the alter thesame day
                     or
u loose u mind, and let us see what's up.