₦airaland Forum

Toks2008:
Bro monogamy is a western psychology that has no foundation either from the bible or even in Islam.

The Devil has destroyed many marriages because of the twisted mindset of our women.

The worst part is that these western countries suffer the hit the most...

Walk on the streets of England and America and randomly pick 10 women with kids and you can be sure that at least 6 out of every 10 is either divorced, or never married single mum's.

Ask them why they broke up with their ex and you are almost certain to hear same reason..."HE CHEATED ON ME"

Have you ever come across any story in the bible where a lady leaves her husband cos he got another concubine? In fact it was these wives that were encouraging their husbands to take concubines.

I pity this generation of ladies who have already destroyed their mindset with the lies the missionaries brought with religion.

My duty is to continue to write from the realistic point of view...anyone who has issues should counter it with facts rather than make a mockery of him or herself by trolling.

monogamy is a western ideology


Bros you need factory resetting slap!

that's all I hsve to say


To think I used to like you and your posts

punk ass

wetdick:
i laugh when you write this, who train up most men, is it not their mothers, there is a reason mothers train up their boys like that sometimes, no woman will want another woman to mistreat and play with her son's heart, it is a protective mechanism.

do you know how many men are also suffering in their marriages but wont leave because of the kids or because of being brain washed by society that he should allow anything a woman does to him to slide.

i agree with your second paragraph

about the first
i think I made it clear that it's the moms of the boys that trained them to be the way they are, which js an irony

Men are less inclined to train their boys to be highly misogynist and not respect women


It is the mum that arrange second wife for the son

It is the mum that is harraser in chief
And the list goes on

Lordofthewest:
Ikpeazu win for second term?? Mehn our flatheadedd brothers need to get their sh*t together before doing o to ge for anyone. I visited abia last year December calling that place a shithole is an understatement, na to dey make noise upandan for Lagos dem sabi. This time around no more free kerosene na mud water dem go drink las las...ikpeazu Iya yi to ge

Abia state had been cursed with bad leaders since 1999

They are not as fortunate as say anambra state

Aba issa shame

chisco82:
The truth of all these be say what goes around comes around, karma is real. Some of all these our brothers complaining here are there married either a foreign lady who gave him all the support he needed and gave him paper only for him to later divorce her to come home and marry a home breed/Nigerian woman.
They calll it smartness(nwanyi mjiiri nweta akwukwo)
After divorcing her with lame excuses of not being like African woman or not doing what african women does
You think you won’t pay for it especially when she truelly loves you and doing her best to make the marriage work, and you think God will be kind to you, oh! You forgot she’s from a different background and culture totally. So most men are really reaping what they sow.
Let know one start what he/she can not finish, marriage entered into with deception or with selfish mindset will surely crash, be ready give up somethings if you want you marriage to work out.

you have also spoken well

pansophist:
OF course, I have always dated feminine women, women who are feminist in the truest and organic sense, not the ones men generally have a disdain for. They are also not hard to find though, one needs to know how to get them.

Unto naija women, well, many men are adopting the opinion you have, which is not a good thing. I left naija when I was a teenager, and didn't date any Nigerian women then, so I can't say. But with wetin I de see for this forum, men, if na true, then, I go avoid them as well. But in anything you do, never generalize, people come in different shapes and form, your unicorn may just be somewhere lost in the sea of your generalisations. Greetings Ugochukwu.

greetings panso

remember I used the word "risk"

the risk of the women in Nigeria screwing you over is significant

And I don't blame them

the wicked society screwed them over.

Samson0599:
Because his vice is an Igbo man,that's just the plain truth

not true
kano always votes Buhari
And he had igbo vice TWO TIMES
So its not about that

victorian:
You are right .

So true . Nigerian men don't appreciate women one bit , that's why women don't care anymore . but two wrongs can never make right .
But even if their mothers didn't train them well, as they grow up, don't they have compassion to treat another human being well?
I was brought up from a well off family , I was trained to see myself as very important and even the most important human being on earth . my mum pampered me like egg and I became proud and self centered , also I had fake friends around . But after my degree in the university , things happened and I retrained myself or would I say circumstances retrained me and I'm humble , selfless and very caring, all my fake friends have gone .I now have friends that are more than family to me . I can't trade them for anything in this world .

So if I retrain myself, why can't some men retrain themselves and be a better human being .

So don't entirely blame the mothers. Blame the heart of man that refuse to have compassion and reform . that's how I see it .

I like your point of view

victorian:
That's what most of the men always say .

If only u had a video camera hidden in their homes , you will definitely pity their wives and stone the men . some talk down on their wives even in public , all to destroy her self morale . While some in private , just to make her feel useless .

Some men are habitual liars . I don't believe all their stories .

Treat à good woman well, give her good sex , money , attention and care , then see if she will cheat on you. most married women are like tenants in their homes , while some loneliness wan kill them die . And the man will be wailing as if he is the best husband a woman can ever have .

I don't believe their lies .

not in all cases tho

But a good number of women are suffering in their marriages in Naija especially

The truth is that naija men in general were not trained to respect WOMEN or see her needs as important

And guess who did that damage?



Their mothers

hence women are the problem of women, directly or indirectly

But that aside

things need to change

wetdick:
i pity for the man, that man self esteem don die already, women take advantage of nice guys in marriages and relationships

i always tell guys if you are older marry young girls 18-25 girls, do background check on her and groom her to the woman you want, leave those ladies from 26 upward to divorcees and men that are older, believe me you do not want problem or leftover baggages.

ladies over 26 are left over baggage


are you sure you are ok?

pansophist:
No. I'm pansophist. You're welcome

panso how far?
Well different strokes for different folks.
In that same west, you can stilk get "feminine" women if that is what you seek
There are good and bad women everywhere. But I will NEVER marry a woman from Nigeria sha
it's a risk I am not willing to take

Okada man, park me for this junction....


Id be back with my opinion soon....

tommyken:
Is a 25 year guy and a 24 year old girl too young to get married and have kids? The guy in question is financially stable at average and also a graduate who intend opening up a mini shop for his wife to be immediately they get married. although the plan is to have a simple wedding.

No he is not

As long as he understand in full what he is about to get himself into

And is ready for the rigors, responsibility and intrigues involved in marriage

I know a couple of guys who even married their heartthrob at 24!!

If not that the economy of NIGERIA is fvcked, a stable 25 yo is poised to take a shot at marriage

Banmeallday:
The site is not promoting tribal war, it is promoting the TRUTH that you people want to continue to sweep under a shythole carpet. Igbo, Yoruba, Hausa/Fulani are on their own NATIONS, larger than most in Asia, Europe, and the Americas, with DIFFERENT value systems. That is why even common election since 1999, Nigeria (Nigger Area) finds it very DIFFICULT to do.

Look at all the killings, rigging, bribery, inec officials held at gunpoint. Look at how people supported for a 5-time campaigning coupist that overthrew a democracy for President, despite the carnage and absentee leadership the last 4 years....all because of Tribe and religion.

We know you watch the EPL, yet that very Kingdom says to hell with those who are more similar to them (EU) because they recognize their own natural identity, and even allow among themselves identities to exercise autonomy (Scottish parliament, etc).

But in Nigeria you people want to uphold slavery and colonialism when it was clear the best leaders ever where from the era that there was close enough to independent regions (Awo, Bello, Zik) and not the nonsense and zoo we have today...

OPEN YOUR EYES BLACK PEOPLE

Well....
That's just one side of the issue, not exactly the problem
The problem is that the educational system was destroyed

The educational system in its proper shape moulded Nigerians

Unity schools were built and they had their effect

But now

Politician's have done the hatchet job

SillySeason:
Thanx U are lucky living down south

lol

Offpoint1:
Plane makers should re-design passengers planes abeg... there should be ejectors seat and every passengers with parachute...

impossible

the weight of the parachutes will overwhelm the plane

nahinbdis:
Based on the realities that money no too plenty for this side, one of the options is to work 2 jobs, afterall Nigerians brag they can hustle. So na so I dey look this second job thing that has been offered to me:

Leave home by 8am for Job 1 that starts by 9.30am and ends by 5.30pm Monday to Friday. Then one hour bus home and arrive home by 7pm max.

Leave home 8pm for Job 2 that starts by 10pm and ends by 6am Sunday Night to Thursday morning. One hour bus home and arrive home by 7am.

Sleep time - 1hour at break time at night and anything that can be snatched during the day.

Is this feasible?

this will take its toll on your health.
big time.
pls reconsider

Besides, lmao @ "money no too dey this side"

this cracked me up.

PHfinest:
I think abject poverty is the cause of most petty theft in Nigeria.

True sha
poverty of the mind

pat077:
how did makinde release him from prison when apc is in power both at the state and federal level

good question

AngelicBeing:
Chai, nawao

na so we see am

Beautyaddy:
This is not true!
It was Australia that started with the ETA in 1996.

I'm taking between USA and Europe
bilateral relations

bizhop01:
She is too young yet to retire from bed business,
Before signing contract with one desperate unlucky man

what is this one saying?

franchasng:
I know the next thing in your little mind is Dangote, Otedola, Adenuga, kids lolz

We are talking about numbers not one man squad, learn learn!

There are four or five major market and trade centers in Lagos, namely; Idumota, Trade Fair/Balogun/Auto-Parts, Alaba Intl Market (featured many times on CNN & Aljazeera), Ladipo Spare Parts Market, Ikeja Computer village, and one other one for building materials at Apapa & Orile, and 70 - 80% of these markets are owned and dominated by Igbos!

Go to Lekki from phase 1 - 2, to Lekki County Gardens to Nycon Town to Queens Street to even Banana Island, Igbos are the majority owners of lands and properties in these choice areas of Lagos.

Go to Amuwo Odofin, Igbos have developed swamps into amazing estates, from Okota stretching towards Festac its now an Igbo city looking like Ikoyi.

Where do I start or end

20 - 35% of the tall buildings in Victoria Island is owned by Igbos, I can name them for you because I have classified info, so what are trying to argue for

Dangote might be the richest man, but Igbos as a single tribe have the highest number of millionaires in the whole of Nigeria, you know the truth.

One Iroko does not make a forest. Dangote is one Iroko, same with few Yoruba billionaires, but wealth is spread across all Igbo families and communities.

That's why Igbos don't worship one rich person cos every family or community in Igbo land have their own Iroko

Yeah TRUE

wealth is more evenly spread amongst us

But then

all this tribal banter and all between igbo /Yoruba is unnecessary

As people, they are doing well for themselves as well.

All these will take no one anywhere

shambolic

gottliebglobal:
OH YEAH. The US will certainly reciprocate the gesture.

USA started with ESTA

luvmijeje:
And you all think PDP will be foolish to zone its Presidential ticket to a Notherner in 2019 after they would have already spend 8 years. In a party that has more Southerners as Governors. Governors who were angry that Obi, an upstart was picked ahead of them. Governors who are ambitious like every other politicians.

that is why I said he will not near aso rock


do you guys understand English at all?

seunmsg:
I will advice the leadership of APC to reach out to Kwankwaso after the election with the aim of bringing him back to the party irrespective of the outcome of Kano’s election. He’s arguably the most popular politician in the north after Buhari.

From my understanding of his grievances, he’s not really against APC but Ganduje. After the election, a common ground can be found. A southerner/Kwankwaso ticket will be unbeatable in 2023.

you expect a politician with kwankwaso weight to be vice president?

na wa I.

kwankwaso would most likely not near aso rock

But if by mistake he does
it will be as president not vice

Iamgrey5:
Stop these nonsense

You are as guilty for promoting tribal politics as any of those you called urchins on these thread.

I don't promote tribal politics

I only respond to people who talk ill about my ethnic group

We are supposed to be Nigerians
I don't understand what is driving this hate and division

ascendo:
Abdijan is a smaller city compared to a mega city like Lagos.

It has 24/7 electricity and water supply.
It has 24/7 city life reducing the traffic on the roads.

They started using SETRA buses with dedicated routes before Lagos conventional brt. They even have buses that looks like coaches. The cost of living in Abdijan is lower than that of Lagos.

PMS is costlier in Abdijan than Lagos and cost of renting an apartment is relatively higher

New yoirj, Tokyo and Mumbai are bigger and more diverse than Lagos

even Shanghai and Mexico city

But all tvrde cities beat Lagos hands down

even tho they have their unsavoury areas too


Tribalism and short sighted ness plus barbarism has finished my country