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lee818:
Tramp stamp is any tattoo at the lower back(for ladies). Point of correction all tattoos are not called tramp stamp.
live and let live
people without tats do the worse!
drug dealers, alcoholics, murderers, thieves, adultery etc.
By the way lots of professionals in the states have tats!

lawyers
judges
teachers
pilots
ceos
cops
etc

not only rappers and athletics.
please do more research before spewing crap!

Let them know.

one has the right to see folks the way they want to see them tho

But some of the most responsible people I know have tatts all over.

purplekayc:
She made money from cosmetics

marketing and branding the cosmetics
she smart

ThothHermes:
Na Kim dem lay foundation for her. You should see the amount of flak she receives on American social media.

well......

it depends on how you see it tho.

Without the family tho, I doubt Kim would have made it this far.

As an individual brand, without the famiky brand, she may not have been this big....

look at Paris Hilton and the others

I see it as win win

StPete:
Even without going naked or having a sextape, Kylie has whoopingly beaten her sister hands down.

She understands the concept of marketing VERY WELL

That is the main key to her success

sultan1014:
Travis Scott dey enjoy o

well
depends

GRACEGLORY:
One thing I've come to realize is, the real ones don't show off

not always so.
it's a personal thing
some line the glam others don't
it also depends on age.
a young rich person is more inclined to show off
than a rich man Dangote 's mate

Rossikki:
Oh shut up... Negative minded buffoon. Your mates are creating solutions right here in Nigeria, and the country is growing by the day, even in technology, while all you know is negative garbage. Useless thing.

the guy you quoted is right

Nigeria is a big big joke

Lastorator:
I feel we have it wrong as per development in this country. Until we begin producing most of the bulk we consume, the economy we still be a good on paper bad in reality economy.

India was a third world economy, until it started producing, now the keke we have here are imported from there, most drugs we have here, and most software we use.
The mentality we have in school that we must finish and then find job, is what dats killing us, we need an educational system that trains us to see problems around us, and then get us to find ways of solving them... We are due to have a machine that could cut periwinkle and wash it, we are due for a machine that could help cut afang, water leaf etc into very smal pieces.. These are problems we encounter everyday, but our engineers cant find ways of solving them and making money from them.. Whereas in the west almost eveything is automated.

You have spoken well

Amujale:
Thats just a good piece of nonsense.

The abolition project was always an "African & friends" project that was eventually high-jacked by the "friends" and they ran way with the credit as per usual.

Futhermore, the only people that truly deserve credit for the inacting of "abolition" are Africans from all around the globe & their well connected friends.

Eurocentrics will have you believe that they deserve credit for abolition. That is false, incorrect; untrue.

There is little or no further credit for a muderous assasin that later retires from killing people. The credit is woven into acknowledgement of evil actions and inacting a change for the mere reason thar its the correct action to take. No further creditis can be given to Eurocentrics with regards to "abolition"

For example, lets assume i am a hired assasin that is paid to shoot and kill, now throughout my "career" i have killed 1,200 people by shooting them with a sniper rifle in the heas. Now, lets say, after a certain while i choose to reitire.

Question: Do i deserve to be praised since i have now retired from killing people?

Answer: No

Conclusion: No European, Arab nor Jew deserves an iota of credit with regards "abolition", as their credit is already woven into the fact that by retiring from assasin, they are deemed clean, and as a result, are now out of range from the full weight of the law.

The African abolitionist however, deserve all of the credit available. Yet they are not even mentioned in todays history, instead you and those similiarly to you peddle the false notion that Europeans are responsible for that project.

If turkeys could vote, they would never vote for the continuation of Xmas. Fact

That is to say, Europeans, Arabs and Jews at the time have zero amount to gain from starting the "abolition" process. They started the evil in the first place, therefore, there is no way they deserve any credit whatsoever.

More importantly, abolition is bound to have occur anyways, with or without the well appreciated help and supporting roles played by friendly white folk.

All the huge and significant leading roles regards abolition are played by Africans from all around the world. Africa and Africa's diaspora including both their friends are the real people responsible for the abolition of the evils of those days.

do you know what you are saying at all

What did Africans in Africa know about the abolitionist project in America in the 18th century? ?

Is it the African slaves that were already mentally broken (most of them) that would have been the major driver of the abolitionist project?

Orit is the black.folks that caused the serious divide in viees on slavery between the north and the south in the U.S.?

All you pseudo pan africanist black power goons are just jokers

cococandy:
@ ohidata

When you catch your wife cheating, I hope you decided to be among the positive statistics and a model to your kids and society by encouraging her to use protection when she’s cheating on you.
Who knows maybe that will cause her to change her mind and dump her side piece.

The truth is

there are a lot of men who are forgiving cheating wives, for the same of kids and all that

BUT
.They keep it secret because the hypocritical society who encourages women to overlook will demonize and ridicule the man for taking that decision


Imagine in your family word gets out that your say uncle 's wife or something cheated and Jr forgave her in the past

if you want to be sincere, it will raise dust in your family (we know this, we are Nigerian )

You may b liberal, and I may b, but most back home are not.


Men and women should br free to decide whether they want to forgive or not

And no one should demonize them for their choice, they are adults

PrinceCharmings:
What's wrong with having tattoos

I personally don't see anything wrong witg it tho

but people have their right to perception and judgement

hence the predominant view in Nigeria that ladies who have tattoo is not responsible

Ohidata:
I've read quite a lot of comments and the truth of the matter is that man (man & woman) is the primary cause of his own problems in most cases. What is the average body count of a single guy of marriage age - some have even lost count of the number of ladies they've slept with after the deception of marriage. How many women have scammed men of their hard earned money - putting the lady through school, catering for her material needs, etc only for the woman to turn around to say the guy is not her level when she's done using him? Guys and ladies alike usually don't consider the short and long term repercussions of their actions towards people. Christians/Muslims read your Bible/Qur'an and see examples of people and their children suffering for their ill-treatment of others.
If you are in this category, you have to seek forgiveness.

Now, If you want to marry, it is simple. Study your intended partner - yes, people pretend (both guys and ladies alike) but we don't catch the person's behaviours because we are not attentive to detail in this age and time. Most people on dates or "alone time" with their boyfriends/girlfriends spend most of the time on their cell phones. How do you want to catch the silent details the person is showing? Even in marriages, cell phones have been described as the thing that gets the most attention between couples and the the source of most problems. Pay attention and you would notice those details you are or aren't looking for - weather or not you act on the info is a different thing. I can spend 1 hour with a lady and get so much info about her that it's scary even for me sometimes. In all of these, don't underestimate the role of God - hand your search over to HIM even as you are making your moves.

Another thing is the men, if you think you want to marry a woman who will be like a slave and not bate an eyelash even when you hurt/wrong her while using her as a slave, then you don't know what's coming your way - women are wiser and more empowered now. Those are the same kinda men that would want to tear to pieces men that do similar to their sisters, nieces, cousins, etc. You must love yourself as a man and in doing so, love your wife. In this love don't do things that you know would hurt her. For instance don't cheat on her no matter what - we all know women have their issues, so do men. Correct your wife with love and not with harsh words. What you wouldn't accept in marriage, make it clear during your courtship. Study a woman well before marrying her. If you genuinely love your wife you would naturally want to help her out with stuff she's doing around the house - this makes you more a man and not less like most men believe. Never, ever beat a woman, no matter the provocation - walk away and cool off. Tell her with love later on and if she's a good woman, she'll be remorseful and apologise. Don't force yourself on her sexually, she's not a machine. Women need love, care and attention. From my understanding childbirth and homemaking usually takes a heavy toll on women, so show them appreciation - they are usually tired after all the chores and just want to rest. Imagine a full time "sex machine", mother, cook, nanny, daughter-in-law, daughter and wife all in one female. Try playing all these roles as a man and you'll know that "khakhi no be leather". Compliment her; teach her if she's a bad cook and don't make fun of her (at least you knew she couldn't cook before marrying her); don't yell at her, especially in public; confide in her; gist with her; do things together and make effort to enjoy her company and allow her enjoy yours. Remember those dates that matter to her - anniversaries, birthdays, etc. Show that her opinion is important to you.

And to the ladies, not all that glitters is gold. I know the country is unbearably hard but b'cos a man is well-to-do doesn't mean he's good for you, depending on his personality. Study a man, make sure he is not violent/abusive - there are usually signs but you just choose to ignore, especially if he's ok financially. Don't make him feel you are with him primarily for the financial gains. You don't necessarily have to challenge his ideas or authority most times, there are more subtle ways of getting what you want. Most men are not used to doing chores, stylishly introduce them to it. Don't let negative feminism get the better of you - most ladies that carry the thing on their head are either single and envious of those that are not single like them or just playing out the anger from their own relationships - don't get caught in that web.

True story - a lady saw her husband's texts to his girlfriend about how they enjoyed the sex and all. She went about her usual duties even bought him a really nice valentine gift (it was valentine season). She only told him to make sure he uses protection. He got scared of her and didn't eat her food for a while. One day he taught through it all and cut ties with his girlfriend, came home to apologise to his wife and beg for forgiveness. She forgave him and they are even better than ever. Was she hurt? Yes! Did she act? Only positively! Choose what you want as a man or lady. Do you want to be among the negative statistics or a model to your kids and society? Decide

There are good guys/ladies out there. Look, seek, search and pray. It is also equally important that you work on yourself. Relationships are work, most people are just not ready to put in their own quota and have a "give me" mentality without the intention to put theirs into it.

God help us all!

interesting

You have spoken well

but that cheating aspect tho

wetdick:
No man has treated women unfairly, men infact invent chivalry, women destroyed it

when a disaster happen who are the people that will be first saved women and children

women have been allowed to perform their own role that is why in many nigerian traditional society women had their own society, where they come together and talk about problems affecting women.

in respect to women voting, i hope you know that black people weren't allow to vote and werent considered citizens in the US until the civil rights movement, even a feminist came out and said that white women must vote before black men, the feminist do not like black people she is just fighting for her own while pretending she likes us

Affirmative actions in the US were brought because of black people, who are the one enjoying it today- white women,

most of the ruthless customs were brought by other women to control them, lets look at genital mutilation for example, it is woman doing the procedure to other women not men.

black women in the US should understand the role each played during slavery and th suffering of black people and should not betray black men. the way to destroy a civilization is through the women.

This your viewpoint tho

globemoney:
It has always been that way. All SE states pay homage to Anambra even the ousted roaches.

It’s funny that Arthur has influence in all SE states except his own Anambra. Anambra esika!

Look at this one gloating

pansophist:
For example ?

refer to the post before this one
what do you think

wetdick:
how are men to be blamed for female rebellion, other women put women in the trouble they are today

treating women as chattel, subjugation of women and many other forms of oppression and actions against women which unfortunately a lot of men see as normal

Equal rights and oppirtjutyes would not have been achieved without feminism

saving women from men who threw them out of their homes with their kids for flimsy reasons such as inability to bear male kids (which btw a man play key role in) and other reasons, to replace her with another would not have been possible without rebellion

Refusal of women voting would not have been repealed without rebellion (this is reference to U.S., In Nigeria women always voted)

and so many others

I am an igbo man, I know how ruthless the customs are to women (which they are fighting against thankfully) and all that

Women should be treated as humans just as men, and men and women should be allowed to perform their natural roles without feeling inferior, as both roles (protect and defend vs nuture and take care of the home front ) are important


Men shoukd quit belittling women's role in civilisation preservation, or calling it inferior or whatever (African men especially are culpable id this foolishness)

And women should stop competing with men on what men are naturally built to do. It's causing an imbalance

And western media should stop demonizing men and painting men as useless or dumb.
I forgot to raise that up yesterday
it just occurred to me that most of the cartoon and sit com of the late 20th century till date, Simpson's, Family Guy, etc etc portrayed men as the mumu jokers and the women as the smart and alpha ones who fix things up

that should be discouraged too

In all, I feel men should deal with women fairly and with equity, and women reciprocate

Relationships and societies based on the above last longer and are more enjoyable.


these are just pieces to how I see things

I know you are things in your own way too.

wetdick:
How do you convince a so called man that has been brainwashed by gender and women studies that men are toxic. how do you convince him that he is a man and that he is not toxic, and the world toxic masculinity was just a trap to cage him from acheving his main ambition in life.

toxic masculinity is a silly term

Tho Men don abuse power well well over the decades upon decades

Calling the masculine energy toxic is foolishness

the masculine and the feminine energy are needed for balance

one is NOT more important than the other

those advocating for that are dimwits

pansophist:
Paradoxically, Every research ever done concerning female happiness indicates that the so-called patriarchy feminists complained about guaranteed them more happiness and fulfilment. Women generally have declined in happiness since the 50'sand it only gets worse. Feminists have spent the past decades tearing down everything called masculinity. From genderless schools to the destruction of boys scout,

In the west, more women now graduate from colleges than men, and we all know, women are attracted to men of the same or higher social status than them. Now, the independent women have to compete for the tiny pool of eligible men that gets smaller as times goes by, and they usually will not go for guys lower than them, something men have done for centuries. No amount of modern-day feminazi will cheat thousands of years of evolutionary hardwiring. All the crazy feminist I know here are codedly looking for a rich man to marry, then they trash out all those nonsense they subscribed to. They are opportunist after all.

I am not worried about those crazy feminists, as I understand my part to play in the whole game, it is the confused, unconscious, unobservant men that are carried away with the direction the wind blows, having no firm grip of their own conviction I fell sorry for the most. At the end, women's right and power, and her manipulations can only go as far as a man allows.

panso

Listen...


You both have raised your points which are valid, and I agree with, which is......

Men should NOT be feminised or demonized for being men

But like I said, and you know, men had their own share of blame (somewhat) for the rebellion we see in women today, the feminism and all.


Modern day feminists may be jokers (some of them sha) But feminism as at the time it started was highly needed

However the paradigm shift it took has brought some bad consequences

You mean to say that my points and view points on this topic is not relevant /applicable?

Well as for hypergamy

that one is female hypocrisy in its own lol.

since they clamour for equal opportunities
Why then must theyr relationship choices be based on hypergamy?

Tho more women today marry men beneath their "status" especially in Germany and a few others in the Scandinavia, Most women (especially in America and Nigeria ) still are hypergamous

tritritri:
President Muhammadu Buhari has directed the NNPC to take over the Operatorship of the Oil wells from 30th April, 2019 and be confirmed 2nd, May 2019

wat going on ooh?

huh?

gypsey:
Funny you

All i can say to you is YOLO!. Miami is Brilliant man!

South Africa is not bad too, i ve been to cape town, Durban And Hillbrow in Jo burg, Their Girls are very pretty and easy to hook up with just buy them Black label Beer and Ganja. The Booze are quite cheap too for 50 Rands you can eat and Booze till you drop.

let's see how it goes

Rilwayne001:
The music industry is worsening the situation too. Everyone's desperate to make it against all odd.

the glam life that these artistes live and promote abi

gypsey:
Ofcourse, If not for Oil Dubai Is a dusty dessert full with Illitrate Backwards Cattle and Donkey herdsmen and women who has Horrible body smells. Nigeria should have Overtaken Dubai in Development with Oil if not for Nigera thieving politicians

And Forget the man made Glamourised and Glorified Dubai, If you Drive to the outskirt of Dubai you will see nothing else only Dusty Miles and miles of Dry desserts.

I was thinking Miami for my vacation this year

But boy!

The bill no be here mehn....

like I no wan manage, I wan ball.

But na management level I go dey of I try Miami in this state.

So let me just reroute myself to S.A.

S.A. is also very very cool

omoteacher:



Please never brag, now is even when you need to work extra hard. Staying up is hard in this country especially those from humble background. The day I saw DURELLA king of janga' in Eleshe kan' along Lakowe area, then I knew musicians need to invest alot. The guy is more than BROKE, living in one uncompleted building and forming ex-yeyebrity to small guys in the neighborhood. He has really changed alot,nothing with him. Most of our musicians spend any how and forget to save for famine period. I can't pity any of them.

Durella is now broke

I did not see that coming

and I used to like him

gypsey:
Dubai my butt! Dubai is a shithole, A country were one can not even drink beer freely or chat an Arabic woman up let alone fuvk them or Smoke ganja without been beheaded.

Try Miami, Los Angeles, California, Amsterdam, Tokyo paris or Switzerland then you can Talk. These countries i enter with no Qualms..

You have a point tho

Arab countries useless gan

given the choice, many of them will leave.

It's only their oil wealth that make the place appealing.

Smile4daddy:
Imagine. Why me get my passport since 3 years now,

Na only Ghana and Malawi stamp don dey inside.

lolol

at least that one na something na

aariwa:
Shameful to see some Nigerians here supporting trump as if people had ever lacked jobs in america[with exception of 2007-2009 recession] If jobs were a problem ,Al Gore and Hillary clinton would not have lost elections.Obama apart from implementing policies that helped immigrants and minorities like us; also set the economy on the fast track we are seeing today.He made laws that curtailed the excesses of the wall street guys,tightened regulation on mortgage lending,simulated the economy through bailout of ailing companies ect.Apart from deportation,i am still yet to see any concrete economic policy implemented by trump as to claim credit for the good economy.His core supporters are mostly the hardcore racists but they cannot guarantee any victory for him as the sane people that were decieved to vote for the conman have now distanced themselves from him and his party

a big shame indeed


But then


everyone has the right to support whoever

banio:
Jumping from one kpekus to another easily ruins a star. Guy wise up

tell him

stephleena:
You don't have to be insensitive because of Nairaland likes and shares.. grow up hommie!

That punk ass must be living a sad sad life

Hence his constant outbursts

Chomzy19:
Dear Insurance Insider, what inside information do you have have on Sunu that you are advising people to buy, seeing that the stock is currently on full offer..
.
Or are you trying to pass the bag?

was thinking the same thing too

donstan18:
Victor AD is a yahoo fraudster masking himself with music.

And you know this how?

whytepawn1:
keep jumping around like orkukor and the fate of Rkelly will befall thee

no mind am

Fuckung girls aanyhow is the quickest way to destroy yourself

PapaNnamdi:
u are just a geh friend idiot


if I be Ronaldo, as I don born children, I won't even have any geh frnd

I wee just be jumping from one woman to another like orkukor

u know how many kpekus worldwide got wet because of his performance last night??


if I know, u know

Your indiscipline will destroy you if you don't put yourself in check