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Business / Re: How Loan Company Scattered My Friend's Birthday Party by ugotaya: 2:38pm On Jan 02, 2022
gunners160:
All this people calling him fake for minding his business are the so called fake people. Did he send him to collect loan? This is 2022 where minding your business is one the best strategy of staying alive. His fakeness his business, the loan his problem, is action his choice.

The way this people thinks is baffling . Does borrowing money from Loan app means you are broke? see bad belle everywhere. Th kind of people we call so called friends eeh na wa o
Celebrities / Mercy Aigbe Celebrate 44th Birthday Today. Hurray!!! by ugotaya: 7:36pm On Jan 01, 2022
Mercy Aigbe Celebrate 44th birthday today. Hurray!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NgjaP_nTpmc
Celebrities / Money Spraying Machine: Is It Africa Culture Or Vanity? by ugotaya: 3:24am On Jan 01, 2022
Money Spraying Machine: Is it Africa Culture Or Vanity?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUGjvFPt3V0
Celebrities / See The Moment Wizkid Punch A Hyperactive Fan During Beach Show In Lagos by ugotaya: 1:26am On Jan 01, 2022
See The Moment Wizkid Punch A Hyperactive Fan During Beach Show In Lagos


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pJM90AtHpjU
Celebrities / Re: Naomi Campbell Celebrates Wizkid: You Have Broken Records (Photos) by ugotaya: 7:16pm On Dec 30, 2021
LesbianBoy:
Wizkid is obviously fvcking this Naomi Campbell girl no one can tell me otherwise

I have been watching them closely babe is obsessed with wizkid grin grin grin

You see this called money, women love it so much whether young, old, rich, poor! They love it! And if you as a guy have it, you come get fame join am, forget you go enjoy lipsrsealed

And nobody should come here and say "she has her own money"

E no mean anything, as a guy just be rich you go dey see hot chick want to famz you!

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


Talking about Fckg, you might be right but money grin grin..Wizkid will have to work for another 10 years to have 10% of Noami's wealth. Your brother na sugar boy.
Celebrities / Funke Akindele Twerks While Hubby Spread Her Money by ugotaya: 9:30pm On Dec 26, 2021
Funke Akindele Twerks While Hubby Spread Her Money



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBKFURThHTU
Crime / Residents Loots Next Cash While It Burns by ugotaya: 3:25pm On Dec 26, 2021
RESIDENTS LOOTS NEXT CASH WHILE IT BURNS


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUvJVW-d0as
Celebrities / Mob Nearly Lynch£d Lady Seen Sharing Meat To Children On The Street Of Accra by ugotaya: 9:26pm On Dec 25, 2021
Mob Nearly Lynch£d Lady Seen Sharing Meat to Children on the Street of Accra


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQowO7OIf9Y
Celebrities / Re: My Mansion Is Worth N500M — Blessing Okoro Finally Becomes A Land Lady (Photos) by ugotaya: 9:16pm On Dec 25, 2021
Winningbot:
But what if this girl paid to take pictures with this house just to show off

That exactly waht she did 2 years ago when she was caught and beating by the onwer of that house but since then she's doing fine . hopefully this house belong to Blessing.

NB: Why all people call blessing to dey lie self? shocked shocked undecided

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Family / Re: Uncle In-law Is Becoming Unbearable by ugotaya: 6:11pm On Dec 25, 2021
edego2up:
I married my wife and my father in-law gave us his blessings after that every year ending I use to give my father in-law things like rice chicken and some ingredients for the celebration,
By late last year my in-law died and these things which i use to give my father in-law now goes to my mother inlaw, but the senior brother to my father in-law is now on my neck, anytime he sees my wife,he always is threatening fire and brimstone.

He says that since his brother's demised we have not been visiting him and infact have not received any Christmas gift from US
Meanwhile,in every Christmas i always do for my mother inlaw what i should have done for my father in-law.

I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone

The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family. I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.

The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.

Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones.
If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter.

Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?

why disturbing yourself? biko, divide whatever should go into your mother's in law and share between them. learn how to have PEACE within yourself and don't be people's pleaser . as time goes God will contiune to bless you more and you will be a bigger giver but for now keep your mental health and family intact.#

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Romance / Re: Please Help Me Judge, Is My Fiancee A Wife Material Or Not . by ugotaya: 5:12pm On Dec 25, 2021
Richdoh:
I'm a young hard work guy who's planning to settle down someday. I have a girlfriend whom I have gone to see her family with my own family , as in, we have done our introduction, what was remaining was for us to fix a date for our wedding.

But this girl started showing some nasty attitude. There was a day she came to spend weekend with me and I gave her some money to buy some food stuffs to cook, that day i received the greatest shocke of my life , my fiancee warmed me never to send her message like that again that she is not my slave.

As if that was not enough. Another day she came to spend some days with me but when she got to my house I was not at home that day. She went to the bathroom to get some shower but unfortunately there was no water running in the bathroom because we didn't had light for 2days so we couldn't pump water. Normally when there's no water like that we usually fetch from the next compound. Though I live in a room and parlour self contain with water running in my kitchen and bathroom.

To cut the long story short, my fiancee refused to fetch water for herself to take her shower. She had to call me on phone to come home and fetch water for her to take her shower. When I eventually got home at late hour, I took the bucket went to fetch water for her to bath just for peace to rain. I later asked her why she had to call me to come and fetch water for her to bath knowing fully well that I was not around. She said in her house, she does not fetch water that her dad usually call Aboki's and buy water from them. She told me that she can't leave a suffering life of having to fetch water, she can never do it.

Please nairalander is this a good sign or bad sign to watch out for?

And the one that was busy cooking, cleaning , washing and fetching water for you...what did you do to her ? she's not your spec and that's why you dumb her please follow your spec and leave us alone.

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Family / Merry Christmas All Nairaland !!! by ugotaya: 8:49pm On Dec 24, 2021
Dear Nairalanders,

Wishing a blessed Christmas to all my family and friends on Nairaland. May the smiles on your faces never get dull and you all are always happy.

May God’s blessing shine down upon you and your family this holiday season. Sending love from our family to yours.

Wishing a blessed Christmas to all.

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Celebrities / Dayo Amusa Performing Live For Lateef & Adebimpe by ugotaya: 3:56am On Dec 24, 2021
DAYO AMUSA PERFORMING LIVE FOR LATEEF & ADEBIMPE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-nHiMsTCd0
Celebrities / Actor( Olatayo Amokade Ijebu Finally Becomes Homeowner Before End Of 2021, Congr by ugotaya: 1:51am On Dec 24, 2021
Actor( Olatayo Amokade Ijebu Finally Becomes Homeowner Before End of 2021, Congratulations!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eu4zMuG9lgo
Celebrities / Music Star Teni Ola's Home Birthday Surprise With Evang Tope Alabi by ugotaya: 12:10am On Dec 24, 2021
Music Star Teni Ola's Home Birthday Surprise With Evang Tope Alabi


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qa3l_9H-U1c
Celebrities / E-money Poses With His Children by ugotaya: 3:36pm On Dec 23, 2021
E-Money Poses With His Children

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4x8p7-zSZW4
Celebrities / Davido Jumps Around In Excitement As Mayorkun Surprises Him At Abuja Concert by ugotaya: 2:52pm On Dec 22, 2021
Davido Jumps Around In Excitement As Mayorkun Surprises Him At Abuja Concert


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kepfJ7FjqdY
Celebrities / Davido Chills With His Kids Imade And Ifeanyi by ugotaya: 9:32am On Dec 16, 2021
Davido Chills With His Kids Imade And Ifeanyi


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVulcbrYRkI
Celebrities / 18-year-old Bus Conductor Wins Chess Tournament In Oshodi by ugotaya: 10:30am On Dec 15, 2021
18-Year-Old Bus Conductor Wins Chess Tournament In Oshodi




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qL87Gm3UPlo
Properties / Re: Having Issues With My Landlady, I Need Your Honest Advise by ugotaya: 9:59am On Dec 15, 2021
NCE1:
I'm currently having issues in the place I stay, I am a student that rented an apartment close to school, and ever since this landlady and her children have been a thorn in my flesh and even other neighbors.

Let me narrate what happened.
I'm not a perfect grammar person and please read to the end.

In the place I stay, there's a well we fetch water from, so last week Sunday the well was locked up, which was very unusual... It was locked up from morning till night, nobody in the compound could access water.. I couldn't cook nor bath, so in the evening I decided to go ask the landlady why the well was locked and ask for the key so I can get water.

On getting to the landlady's place, I greeted her and asked calmly why the well was locked up, before I knew what was happening her son came out and told me to get out of there... I was very shocked and surprised, that I came to ask for the key to the well and he just tells me to walk out like that.

I told him I'm here to ask why the well was locked and collect the key, and that I cannot just walk out like that.

Before I knew what was happening, the boy started getting aggressive and he was threatening that he would kill me and was making all sort of threats, before I knew it... He attacked me, both the mom and the son with their last daughter.

They pushed me to the wall, which I sustained an injury at the back of my hand, the landlady was trying to get me naked by pulling the short I was wearing... I wore this short because I wanted to collect the key, fetch water and take my bathe.

So as she was trying to pull down my shorts and get me naked, I had to bite her a little so she could release her hand from my shorts.

The neighbors gathered because of the noise and saw the three of them against me.
Then I left there and went and open the well which they padlocked, then they came down and insisted that nobody would use the well.

It was then that someone told me the reason why they locked the well was because the son of the landlady had an issue with someone early in the morning while the both of them were fetching water and he locked up the well to deal with the person... Thus causing inconveniences for the remaining tenants.

The next day they(landlady and her son) went to the police to report the matter.

And they lied to the police that they locked up the well because the tenants were polluting the well.
Then they reported that I came to their house to attack them and I bite her.

Then the police came and took me and the neighbor that had disagreement with the son that resulted in them locking up the well.

We left the police station that same day and we went back in two days time for interview..
At the interview the police asked us to settle the matter amicably, but they proposed that they want to go to court and if we don't want to go to the court, that we'll have to pay the sum of 50k.

The 50k is for the money she used to treat herself, which is a lie. One of the neighbor in the compound overheard her making arrangements with a pharmacist to manipulate the bill of drugs she got.

And aside that, up till now they have refused to open the well for the whole compound to use, but they themselves are still using it, despite claiming that it was polluted.

Now my Daddy had to call her and beg and he told her to calm down that he would pay her 15k but she refused, that it's the 50k or we go to court.

Now my question is.

Was I wrong in the first place for going to ask of the key to the well that was locked up without proper information of why it was locked, and this well is the well we've been using since we packed in?

The second question is, if we go to the court now, what are the penalties I would have to face if I was wrong?

And finally, is it right for a Landlady to lock up the well that everyone uses because of an issue with one of the tenants?

This place is in Enugu State.
Thank you as make you various wise inputs.

Please, Please for the insanity of your whole being . please ;leave that house now. if you have to put up with friends or family for while. just move on

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Travel / Re: UK Removes Nigeria, 10 Countries From Red List by ugotaya: 9:41am On Dec 15, 2021
Buhari hasn't tender any ban on Uk or any other countries for that matter. The nigeria goverment were still coNtemplating in doing so but just take a look Nigeria with their double mouthed on BUhari cry cry cry cry

2023 won't be any difference afterall..,a little crumb of breas they already drolling. shocked shocked shocked undecided
Celebrities / Watch As Strange Man Attacks Bishop Oyedepo On Pulpit. by ugotaya: 11:54pm On Dec 14, 2021
Watch as Strange Man Attacks Bishop Oyedepo On Pulpit.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3CocXy-HJo
Celebrities / Age Is Just A Number Says 26 Yrs Old Boy That Marries A 54 Years Old Woman by ugotaya: 11:50am On Dec 14, 2021
Age is just a number says 26 yrs old boy that marries a 54 years old woman


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5wnSQYUF1bo
Celebrities / Adetoun Onajobi And Kemi Olunloyo Saga Contiunes by ugotaya: 10:49am On Dec 14, 2021
ADETOUN ONAJOBI AND KEMI OLUNLOYO SAGA CONTIUNES


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlgR6bd58ew
Family / Re: Are Children Really An Achievement?? by ugotaya: 6:28pm On Dec 13, 2021
Supreme145:
There is this motion that giving birth to children is an achievement in this country. I see young guys in mid and late twenties rushing into marriage while they are barely standing on their feet. From someone that comes from a family of 10 I'm sure if my dad is given a second chance he won't give birth as much children again. Let me share some of my experiences as regards giving birth without proper planning or sustainable income.

I've a neighbor in my compound, he's 32 and in his final year in the university, I can hardly have decent conversation with him without hearing about how he wants to get married. I would always remind him that he's living in a one room apartment, still a student without a strong source of income, but he would counter me saying that he can always start small and grow with his wife. Moreover when he gives birth he would have an investment.

I've have another friend that was a classmate in secondary school, he graduated the year I got admission though he had some issues with his results. One day he called me that he's married and I was surprised, though he is an artisan into all those parapets and pop stuffs I know he wasn't financially buoyant enough to carry a family. The last time I visited him he was looking malnourished and unable to sort out his issues in school almost four years after because according to him any money that he gets already has a pending issue waiting for it. He's looking far older than his elder brother who's still single, he looks 38 when he's just 30. He consoled himself by telling me that even if he doesn't have money he already has two kids which he sees an investment and a great achievement. Meanwhile they are cramped into a single room apartment and none of the kids are enrolled in school.

Last week while we were training in the evening, an argument broke out between two young guys. I was just by the side observing what was happening, I kept hearing stuffs like....why you dey argue with that guy? you no know say na person father he be? that guy don born two children o abi you think say e easy to born, na big achievement be that o. Now this is a guy that is about 25 years and has no sustainable means of income, he works in peoples farms and other menial jobs to make ends meet.

My next door married neighbor has become a torn in my flesh, he's always borrowing from me without paying so it's obvious he's struggling financially, factor in the constant arguments with his wife due to shortage of funds all the time. I once asked him why rushed to get married without a good source of income and he bluntly told me that he had always been broke while he was single and still broke now that he's married the only difference is that he can boast of his kids as an achievement unlike when he was single that he had nothing to boast of.

I have no issues what so ever with how anyone choose to life their life but considering the economic condition of this country now bringing in kids without proper plans is not the way to go. If my dad had given birth to maybe 3 kids I'm sure he wouldn't be stressed out the way he is now and the resources used in training 8 kids would be better managed on just 3kids.

Personally I feel that one of the surest way to perpetual poverty as a young guy is to get married while struggling financially. Like one of the examples above, he cast aside his personal development and aspirations just to cater for his family. Supposing he's still single I'm sure he would have cleared he's outstanding school fees and maybe get his certificate.
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Well since I'm still single and still struggling I don't judge anybody, every mallam to his kettle. As for me no marriage till I'm financially stable enough to afford at least 3 bedroom flat, a small car and substantial savings. It would be an abomination for me to bring a child into this world to pass through the kind of life I had growing up.

Well OP, You have a very good points but life doesn't roll like and as you say every mallam to his kettle.

Do you want to start bearing children in your old age ?
or do you want to start training them when you can't go out to hustle again?
well, Most men actually take up what's called responsilities and take their hustle to a great height once they get married and start to have children.
See don't put yourself in a default mood just because you are afriad to make serious move.
Children is an achievement when you train them well and they in turn succeed in life.Children will keep your legacy and your sweat will not go in vain. Tha ball is in your court.
Romance / Re: Groom Criticized For Allowing Pregnant Bride To Kneel To Feed Him At Wedding by ugotaya: 6:16pm On Dec 13, 2021
Pregnancy na disease?
Celebrities / African Amazing Gymnasts Kids by ugotaya: 11:22am On Dec 13, 2021
African Amazing Gymnasts Kids


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2_xRA1-m-g
Music/Radio / Re: Kanye West Settles Beef With Drake, Both Performs Together by ugotaya: 11:17am On Dec 13, 2021
Davido Ex.Baby Mama Chioma Giving Us Assurance From Dubai.�


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOM555bu_W8
Celebrities / Re: Dj Cuppy Meets Rapper Fredo And He Said He Has Never Heard Of Her by ugotaya: 11:17am On Dec 13, 2021
Davido Ex.Baby Mama Chioma Giving Us Assurance From Dubai.�


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOM555bu_W8
Celebrities / Davido Ex.baby Mama Chioma Giving Us Assurance From Dubai.� by ugotaya: 11:16am On Dec 13, 2021
Davido Ex.Baby Mama Chioma Giving Us Assurance From Dubai.�


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOM555bu_W8
Celebrities / His Friends Laughed At Him For Wearing Fake Yeezy But A Good Samaritan Surprised by ugotaya: 8:06pm On Dec 12, 2021
His Friends Laughed at Him for wearing Fake Yeezy But A Good Samaritan Surprised Him


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WEQ7bw-zdW4

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