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No. 1 Fat and beyoootiful. |
Blackett you make very impressive counter arguments, but it would have been more engaging if one didn't have to wince every fourth sentence at your use of expletives. It is possible to have an engaging conversation without resorting to insults. The OP only gave his opinion, irrespective of how stupid you think them, he still deserves even the tiniest respect. |
We are more attuned to our emotions and not afraid to express it. I'll enjoy a compliment from another woman than a guy. |
Good one ![]() |
Loool! Kid's fooling around. I like him already ![]() |
FrancisTony: ![]() |
I'm sorry this hurts *hugs* |
She-Cow. Tickles PointB you're good |
Did they also steal his trouser on the bridge? Dude is wearing boxers ![]() |
Kikikiki This is so funny But she doesn't look like a high profile HR personnel o. How did the gist about her being a cleaner even start? |
pickabeau1:I don't understand this question. He already crossed over to the other side and came back. |
Rokiatu and Lymelyte, enough. |
standd:It's not a Nigerian thing, Standd; it's a global phenomenon. We just don't understand love. We try to, but we don't completely get it because our emotions and sentiments are tied to everything we do. So far though people explain love like they perceive it to be, which is why I said that to know love, one must first eliminate that which isn't love. Hopefully we will gradually draw nearer to what love means in a marital context. Oh I know you're not Christian, but here's what the Bible says anyway. A man must love his wife like Christ loved the church, even to the point of death. And a woman must respect (read submit) to her husband, as the church to Christ because he is the head. That aside, here's what I think is really the problem with our version of love: We haven't learnt to create the balance between self-preservation and loving another fiercely (romantic love I mean). That's one. The other is that you're being unfair by suggesting that a person who ticks off a check list doesn't know love. To love your neighbor and to love a man aren't quite the same thing. The former must exist irrespective of personal desires, the latter though... I believe that one must fit a person's standards for them yield their vulnerability over, otherwise we'd be an open book for every Tom, D and Harry ![]() |
Yeah, we don't really understand love, but we try when we believe our feelings are honest. That's not to say there aren't people who lie though. One would be smart to nurse a healthy skepticism for anyone who professes love freely. So what is love? Who knows really. Just eliminate all that doesn't seem like love instead. Love your voice, Standd. |
otemanuduno:You remember |
I was cleaning out a room last month and came upon my primary 3 reader. Went through a story about Ada and Nnenna-- the one when the robber came to their house, and the fire incident the next day on their way back from school. And there was this line at the end of the story, "Everyone make mistakes, and everyone needs help." I had to blink back the tears ![]() |
Tallesty1:Lmao!! I get that feeling with some times. OP don't have sex in front of a child. It's wrong. |
Nokialumia720:730 going by reviews |
Peavey:Why didn't you add your email to your phone? That way you just have to tap on the download option and your word document saves automatically. |
searching4love:Why are you being mean to me? I roff you please |
Olaone1:I like to judge people myself ![]() |
Olaone1:Lol wasn't aware I'd already been married off But God willing, I'll marry a honest man. |
emusmith:Nope |
Some of the comments here make me shudder Anyway, it's pretty close to your marriage so I think this guy's either testing you to gauge the level of trust you have in him, or pretty much trying to get out of marrying you. If it's the former then damn he's good. Play it out well. It's nice you're coming here for help and not just mouthing off at him. Ask if a friend came over when you were away. Then calmly ask about the used condoms in your kitchen. If it's the latter, then I suggest you pack up and leave. Dude isn't interested in marrying you or is just plain stupid. And all these men telling us men are 99% unfaithful, God is watching all of you. The things you say to excuse infidelity makes marriage seem like hell. Thank God there are honest men still existing. |
Today must be a good day OP has spoken well. I find the money aspect very distasteful. So we know you have it, awesome! Can you not slap it in our faces every millisecond like it's the only thing you've got to offer? Another thing is confidence. Seriously I can't think of anybody (male or female) who wants to be saddled with a bundle of insecurities. It's fine not to have money sometimes or at all, what's not okay is hinging the state of your happiness on the absence of said cash. I know broke guys who dated the moat beautiful women simply because they were pretty much comfortable (not without drive) in whatever financial position they were at a time. If a woman likes you, she just does. The presence of money in your life will not turn disinterest for you to love. It'll only turn it (for those who are like that) to love for your money. Men need to start doing themselves a favour. Meanwhile, Searching4love biko come let me heal your broken trolling heart. It pains me to see you gallivanting round the forum spewing your rejection around The women are not your enemy, and your attitude is pretty much jinxing your quest to finding love. |
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Dayuuum |
emusmith:Did you see the movie "A million ways to die in the West"? There was this scene where a prostitute said she and her boyfriend were waiting to get married before having sex Maybe this one is portraying the hypocrisy of some Christian(s) and a whole lot of people in the world. For one, women. Then there's the religious community too. I read a Christian blog discussing the books a while back and a certain "brother" said he had read them but not to tell anyone. Then he went on to say the book was bad and all. I mean come on! He read ALL three books, EVERY single line. And book three was written about a year or more after one and two Okay na. On a subliminal level I've been thinking about everything that story stands for now, and honestly, S&M, all that sex and bad writing is the least of what I've thought out. |
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I don't know u and i don't wanna know who u are. Why are u obsessed with me