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Yungwhy:
Ahh.. 27th page 1000 go don go

Lol pele

Obinoscopy:
I hereby call on the TV/Movies mods to review Forkadict and Wierdpsycho's case and take appropriate action. Their decision on it will be final.

You go fear solidarity.
I'm reducing the ban to the 27th since they are first time offenders. But they did derail so.....

BuddhaPalm:
Its atrocious bro...comparing pixels on a screen to real-life, double-deluxe, feminine deliciousness in living colour .

Please never say that again.


And you seem to hold strip joints in contempt. Well, one of the most beautiful sights I've ever experienced was watching a particular girl pole-dance. Was not the crass, artless booty-shaking variety.

Words fail me. But it was art, sublime art.

Perfect form & control (she just floated), a beautiful smile, a beautiful body, eye-contact, absolute grace of motion and genuine enthusiasm. She really had more fun than I did.

It was the divine feminine, the essence of all life, on display, in all its glory. I was enchanted, inspired, intoxicated...stricken!

Had I the inclination, could have most easily sculpted a David or composed a symphony - immediately afterwards. Unfortunately, yours truly drowned this divine impulse in Heineken.

Tell your gf I'm sorry

Stillfire:
Ihe if you don't know the difference between this...

https://iqtell.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/James-Bond.jpg

...and this...

https://www.lilwaynehq.com/blog/wp-content/plugins/magic-gallery/uploads/6/lil-wayne-chest-arm-tattoo18.jpg

Sorry I can't help you!

What a divine creature.
All raw power and sexy arrogance

Wayne though Do you hear the things that guy says when he raps? *pukes*

CFCfan:
Why? It should be a full show

It isn't. It's actually beautiful to watch ya know Like watching ballerinas...the grace....hmmmm
They just happen to be half/almost nakiid is all But they wear only enough to let your imagination take flight. Beautiful.
It's like poetry or a really good novel, where the writer leaves you guessing even to the very end; allowing you connect all the dots yourself. It's crazy because the answer is elusive, but still mesmerizing enough that you stay glued till it's over. That's primal art.


Yeah I'm a woman who doesn't mind staring at female strip tease.
What else hasn't the world seen

ihedinobi2:
So it is now hypocrisy to stay at home and not go watch "half-näked" women dancing on poles? Now I've heard everything.

Where do you people get these weird ideas? Smh.

By the way, strip clubs have half-nâked dancing women? I thought it was a full show. Why would I go to a strip club for half-nakëd women when I can just buy a music video or put on Soundcity?

Haven't called it hypocrisy. I'm saying what's wrong with someone choosing to unwind that way? One man likes the quiet of his living room, and another likes the noise of a nightclub. Does that make the latter an indecent person?

***Depends on how naked is naked enough for you. And yeah they don't always take off all their clothings

BuddhaPalm:
My girlfriend won't like that very much. She's some vicious nazi-bítch .

BTW, you write really well. Your energy easily shines through too.

Your girlfriend sounds really scary

Thank you

I just searched the list for MMA. Haven't been to all the airports in the world, but I'm quite convinced they shouldn't look like that

BuddhaPalm:
Lol, you believe that?

A nice guy is actually a guy in fear. A guy who buries his legit wants and desires under whatever convenient excuse he can latch onto.

If your strongest drives, as a human, are of the devil. Then you must be a child of the devil. Embrace it.

You should not be at war with yourself.

But if your drives are of God...then he really wants you love chicks, and have fun and cut loose. It is your destiny.

Don't let the so-called morals of an unconscious society define your reality.

Tsk tsk. So we just go wherever the wind blows us? What happened to choice, and making of ourselves what we want to be?

ihedinobi2:
I wouldn't expect to find a decent guy in a strip club, would you?

Despite that, I'd say that you're right.

What's wrong with a strip club? So a man fancies nursing a drink while beautiful women dancing around half naked. Does that make him any less decent than the one who stays home to watch football?
Both treat women with respect....i daresay the first even more so because he doesn't mind them hanging around his table, and doesn't nurse dark sexual fantasies about them, nor think they are objects for displaying their bodies in a 'liberal' way

Neither does it make him any worse than the one who *borrowing Sebonz words here* sits at home and drink themselves to a standstill or smoke weed till they start seeing things

We judge the first by what we see, and the other by what we don't see.

Stillfire:
Are you guys not all oversexed? Both nice o, bad o, in between, all are hypersexed! It's all a matter of finance or confidence that prevents some of you from exhibiting your natural inclinations!
The ones who don't have confidence are por..n addicts.
There are no strings attached in James Bond relationship. He is honest about it.
However, bad guys do fall in love and in Casino Royale James did and would have remained faithful if she didn't die.

Anyway forget character, a man with a James Bond aura is irresistible. Same way men are attracted to beautiful women with the most uncouth characters.

Wild things Or at least a hint of it is really attractive.

AmINotHuman:
Well, for all the "nice guys" out there, no one owes you a relationship. A woman is not obligated to date you because you managed to fulfil the basic requirement of being a "nice guy". The real question is, what else can you bring to the table? As shallow as this sounds, are you good-looking? Rich? Smart? Talented? Funny? Any thing more than just being a "nice guy"?

Being a a nice guy is nothing but the bare minimum. Saying "if I were your boyfriend, I won't treat you like that". It's not always about what you won't or don't do ("At least I'm not like the other guys", "At least I won't break her heart" ... and several other reasons while you're not a bad person).

What can you contribute to her life? Women invest too much into themselves (appearance-wise and so on) to meet a certain standard and you have to meet up with that standard, being a "nice guy" just isn't enough.

All in all, you can't force someone to fall for you. If a woman isn't romantically interested in you, there's no need to force it or pressure her or guilt trip her into dating you. It'll only make you her doormat.

I recommend this article for those who want to face the harsh realities of life: http://www.cracked.com/blog/6-harsh-truths-that-will-make-you-better-person/

Nice article. Thanks for sharing

ihedinobi2:
Actually it's that other stranger you're all fired up to kiss now that yarned real bûllshit. Just keepin' it real wichu.

I never said that they couldn't make it work. I said that a woman like that is not looking to be a wife and mother. Those words have a very particular meaning. When a woman is ready to be a wife and mother, every last person knows it. No one is dumb enough to miss that change.

(un)fortunately I agree with what the stranger said. I still maintain that people want you for whatever it is you can provide for them. People live in communities because they are useful to one another. The moment you outlive your usefulness......pop. Otherwise because we're humans we can afford to let them stick around for old times sake

Based on personal experience, people are nice because they already have some grandiose plan mapped out. I see it so I know. When you don't/can't play a significant role there, you might as well disappear.

**Hence the kiss.


As for the other half of your argument, what can say? We judge people based on what's the norm for us. Our mothers and sisters give us an image of what a family should be like. We grow up with that, assume it's the standard and expect everyone else to be like that.
Doesn't make our ideas wrong. Doesn't make it right either.
People will always do what feels right to them either way. But there are no rule books as to how certain things must play out.

BuddhaPalm:
Your argument is dead on arrival.

The ONLY distinction between someone in the so-called friend-zone and another who isn't - is that you treat one as a lover, and the other as not.

And usually, the friend-zoned isn't kind out a genuine feeling of kindness and benevolence. He/she only intents to OBLIGATE you - so that you repay their pseudo-kindness with sex and affection.

How about that?

"Nice- guys" are not nice at all. Its all pretentiousness

Hmmm I see why Yuzedo likes you.
I'd kiss you now if I could


And OP,

Ihedinobi
If a woman wants tough guys who are all about swag and money and bachelor pads, whatever she says about them being real and all that, it means only that she is not very interested in motherhood and stability. You want to live the life of the club and spotlights, you don't belong in the home, the kitchen and the bedroom and nursery. It's that simple.

This is bullsh*t (pardon my language )
No one gets to decide what makes a person happy, and how a certain lifestyle will affect their home.
If they say they can make it work, then they will make it work.

More technological m.a.s.t.u.r.b.a.t.i.o.n

ihedinobi2:
Water for digestion:

Hell, yeah, they are. They better be anyway, or why the hell do we live in communities?

Doesn't mean no one should learn to be less of a burden to the people around them.

I can't say I don't find your argument somewhat.....


*Done now

nani667:
So based on the comments I saw about the latest episode I didn't bother wasting any MBs to download.... I'll wait till next week and download both

Lol neither did I

It'd be nice if someone just explained it anyway.

Oh and I started watching Book 2 of TLAB again. Toph is

synoble:
still u dey ooze ....nawa oo
still u dey ooze ....nawa oo

Do you get a kick from being silly?

I prefer using a soft cloth to wash off dirt on my skin (when I love to pamper myself ). But there are times like the one we're currently facing, when the weather is so darn hot you just gotta scrub hard with a sponge.

My routine: Sponge/soft clothe in the evening(weather dependent). Soap in the morning.
Soft abrasive cloth for my face every evening (to get rid of dead cells) and body scrub twice a month.

I know say my wahala too much, but I love my skin too much

Interesting article. I've always wondered how it's possible for virgin women to menstruate if the hymen is supposed to be a covering. And why people say athletes often lose theirs before they have penetrative sex. Now I know better, thanks


Now I'm stuck with wondering why women even have hymens to start with.

sammy042:
..i've it but it can not upload picture on facebook..scondly,if u want to save picture on opera mini it will show i need to install an app for this task.

Then let the phone search for an app in the store, or just use your Explorer.

Food for thought:

Are people afraid of not being needed?

Mynd44:
The OP is wrong.

This argument is so flawed it is amazing but hey, whatever the heck rocks your boat.

**back to hibernation**

This must be the shortest prison sentence ever Good to have you back.

And btw, I've told you that you're an anomaly.

MizMyColi:
Well, true, that.
If he's the pestering kind who just won't understand no matter how I try to make him see, I employ maximum avoidance, to a fault.
I won't even accept any gifting or make him feel comfortable around me.

There are people too, that we meet, who you bond with and at the same time you just know, this one's filial.
I have one in particular who does exactly what you've described below.
He tries to steer clear because he knows it won't happen, yet He loves me deeply.

Now whether he agrees or not, there are those times when we all need someone to show us that they care.
That's what I try to do despite his feelings for me or not.
I think he understands.
I also know when to cut off, like go radio silent.
It all boils down to wisdom being profitable to direct a person's path.

My dear, some people don't even want you to care at all. It's like you're supposed to shut off every feeling of love you ever had for them. Hard as it is, it might just be the best thing for you two.
Like Joel Osteen would say, "you just gotta love some people from a distance".

Nonso23:
If Nigerian youths can muster the courage and inject such unrivalled effort to rig mere online contests abeg make we no complain if OBJ becomes our Presido next year o! Guess our problem starts from our individual natural tendency to beat the system.

Anyway good news is: we are learning fast from our predecessors. Whether na good or bad thing, learning is learning!.

Congrats to the winner.
126 pages on a Sunday no be beans.

You mind heading the tribunal?

carefreewannabe:
So to you a person must be dependent to be able to have and maintain a relationship?

Should ladies quit their jobs then and become dependent?

I realised that men as much as they might try to deny it, have a lot of of problem with self esteem.
They are also so threatened by feminism that even when you are making an independent contribution based in personal opinions, they find a way to sneak feminism into the discuss.

I've spent the past few post on this thread and another, talking about preparing people for autonomy if the situation ever arises, and yet what I'm reading here is someone saying people should not be independent in relationships lol.

My children will learn to fend for themselves. And they will learn that relationships are partnerships....which ever way he and his woman decide to handle that is their business. But God help me if I won't feel like I've failed as a mother should his wife leave him someday (God forbid) and he's such a wreak and confused.

What we just have here are people who feel the need to validate their manhood and positions everytime. A boss knows he is a boss, and his woman knows he is too

Idowuogbo:
Lwkmd!! Badt child ; D

Lol badosky you sef no see am

Does Emperorking20 have an ereeection?

I don't get why I would be bothered to talk about something as inconsequential as that, unless of course we're fishing for conversation.

@Crackhaus
You don't wait for a man to be unable to cater for his family, before sending his daughters to school, do you?
You don't wait till there are no husbands forthcoming, before teaching the girls to be hardworking and earn some cash, do you?

Why do you to wait for unwanted circumstances before teaching boys to adapt? What if they've become too old to quickly grasp these things? Will they have to wait till they're like my dad, with four annoying children, before grasping for domestic control? If with all his knowledge it was hard for him, how do you think a person with zero knowledge will fare?
Why not train them when they are young enough and have enough mental flexibility borne of fewer responsibilities?

Of course, the intensity of the training should be different for both genders, since each one really have more specific roles than the other, but that doesn't exonerate the other party from any form of training still.

Useful knowledge doesn't harm no one, rather it leaves you very balanced.

DesChyko:
So the world says but reality paints a different picture in our home country; much more similar to the world we 'verbally' left behind.

In the face of factual disposition, only a person who keeps 'wishes' and 'desires' out of his today's meaningful existence can be fit to face the nearest tomorrow.

I hear something different from people. I read something different from articles. And still, my relationship and experiences with elderly men and women sing the same old song.

Nah. I'll only commit these 'verbal' developments to memory but live today as it really is.

Let me tell you a story about my reality.

When my eldest brother was 10 (which put me at about 7), our parents got divorced.
There was one man struggling with 4 children. Do you know what out saving grace was? He knew his way around the house. For a while he cooked, took us to school, showered us...he literally dis everything his wife should be doing.
And he we as able to do that because despite having grown in a deeply patriarchal society(his brother is a testament to that), my dad fancies he has the spirit (reincarnated) of a woman. So he watched the women in his life and he learnt to handle domestic stuff normally attributed to the feminine gender. Just long enough till he could find someone (a help) to handle that, while he faced his more manly role of being the benefactor.

Now if you go back to the post you so smartly ignored, you'll see what I meant by taking into cognizance the factors at work in the 21st century ergo divorce rate and economic/political situations, and see why there is need to make adjustments in the manner our boys are trained.

We are suppose to work at equipping people to be their best possible selves at every point in their lives, and as self reliant as possible.

No one has asked you to make the primary responsibility of a man domestic work, sheesh then whose job will it be to provide a safety net for the woman and her children
But just like you teach women to recognise economical viable opportunities and taking advantage of them, we also need to teach men navigate their way round a home with ease.

It's not a gender war, it's survival.