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sholay2011: Happy birthday Ujsizzle. Longlife and prosperity. Hip! Hip! Hip!

Thanks dearie

Naptu2, thank you

Dagr8, such a darling. Thank you

Teeo you are not allowed to glorify my bootyness today



Geez i feel like kissing everybody

ihedinobi2: Happy birthday, UjSizzle. May your joy be set to "overflow". May wisdom and grace be multiplied to you. May you increase in every good way. May you find the strength everyday to make life yours.

Happy birthday.

Thank you

prof800: HAPPY BIRTHDAY UjSizzle.

I wish you all you need and more plus all the best things in life plus all the LOVE, JOY, HEALTH and HAPPINESS!



HURRAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks hun!

kliq: HBD

Thanks bebe

micynute94: .

Yah.u on point...same thing happened 2me not quite long with a lady who owns a blog BIGALPHabets..
Her writing skills and reasoning r xo on pt that it beats anything else..

Be sure to tell her and leave a comment there.

teeo: Inside the house is not even good too. Never go commando except in the bathroom

Lol
Mba I'll manage the house.

Ceasar1: I don't know a thing anymore. The circle you created messed up the little in my head. I'd better leave this for another day for I'm a stranger myself to this ish.

Nice knowing your thoughts though, gave me a better view to the little I've got.

'kay




CFCfan are you woo-able? You're a nice young man

Ceasar1: @ The emboldened - Do you realize you are taking about the physical part now? It's funny because you never said anything about letters or writing in accordance with the ish here.



See, I can fall in Love with a writer's emotion as perceived when reading but not with the writer itself because we are both strangers. Like the OP's case for example, she only ‘Love’ an outcrop of his personality say reasoning, but not him in whole because he's still a stranger. To ‘Love’ and ’to fall in Love’ are two different things, don't mix those two.

I'm pretty sure we are talking about falling in love and not loving. Love is a conscious act. Falling in love isn't. I could fall in love with a person and still not get around to loving them. I could love a person and still not get around to falling in love with them.
The OP fell in love with an out crop of his personality--reasoning, but doesn't love him as a whole.

Now you define it.

Hian. The only time I'm ever going commando is inside my house

MuhdG: then u wud totally nt want me. Cox sumtyms I jux let things go

Letting things go because you want to, or because people have an unreasonable problem with it even when it doesn't hurt them?

Unless having another baby will endanger the life of your wife, I don't see why your mind can't be changed.

MuhdG: hehehehe nawa for u ohh. U wan cause trouble abi

Nah. I just want people who can defend their lifestyle

Ceasar1: I concur.

Though quite frankly, me think one cannot fall in love with words on the screen or voice from the telephone. They must be in love face to face for it to be Love. Sha there might be that little feeling of attractiveness, but not Love.
My thought.

That's where i disagree with you. The in love feeling is very weird. It could be for the way a person looks, speaks, their grooming, way they walk, voice, smile....anything. And you don't even need to see them to have feelings for them. Could be a trick of the mind, but the feelings are existent still.

See wickedness in high places.
Is it wrong to find this slightly funny?

3cycle: Yeah he caused alot

Hope ain't lost bebe. I can think of a number of sensible guys with sensible comments (dunno how you can judge by just that though) who are yet to hang their boots


Seriously though you need to know people's relationship status before suggesting compound relationships to them.

crackhaus:

We can always un-sign you, ya know?

We need to talk btw. Very important conversation


@OP. What does the wife want? I think you should give your kid a sibling though.

Padipadi: thats the point many are missing.
yeah.

*moves closer* who?

crackhaus: Oga if there are no medical reasons or financial constraints as to why you don't want another child, then I urge to reconsider your stance and spray your seed into your willing and ready wife...if not for her sake, then do it for the sake of your 3year old son by providing him with some company.

Geez man
If I hadn't already signed up in a convent, I'd be all over you

Tallesty1 see what you've caused.

Padipadi: Yes. There are cool headed guys on Nairaland who ll not fall cheaply. Even if they like a lady and they the lady e was the 1st to woo them, they give the lady a run for her money.
Try OkikiOluwa1

I think the problem is women thinking a guy should jump at the chance to date her simply because she made the first move. It's wooing, there's a 50-50 chance of getting a yes.


Ehen do you know someone who's tried propositioning OkikiOluwa1?
gbam ukwu n'eze biko

Ceasar1: Wow, I stopped reading at the part you said ‘You Fell Inlove’. Though I had to re-read again but there it was so I stopped.

Falling in love is easier than you think dear. Stupidly easy. Loving is what's difficult.

Padipadi: guys are also hard to get.
A lady have to build a friendly relationship before wooing us.
We are not cheap!

Oh my God! You guys aren't cheap indeed

Chai! Nairalanders are comedians

Ceasar1: This is a tough one. But I think creativity is a standout of intelligence. So you've got to be intelligent to be creative.

Okay check this puzzle out. Intelligent peeps will only read this, while creative peeps will understand this.

2+2 =Fish
3+3= Eight
7+7= Triangle

Abi now, creativity all the way.

Very artsy

Yeah yeah she made some nice points, but no.4 is nobody's business really

4. Pouting of lips to take a selfie Do we have to do this? Its so disgusting. Okay fine, I am guilty of this too and am going to stop. Every picture of a girl on facebook shows her pouting her lips to look pretty. This doesn't make us look prettier; it only make us look childish. I didnt realise it makes me look like a kid until my boyfriend told me 5 days ago.

I don't know who made your boyfriend an authority in adult matters. Just because he says you look childish when you pout doesn't make pouting childish (and no, i am not a pouter ).
And I think you should feel concerned that you had to stop something you loved doing and made you look good simply because someone didn't approve of it.


People resetting their lives just to be tagged 'adults' *rolls eyes*