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Interesting!! I'm not done reading yet, i dey come.
I've always thought marriage was scary shiit, after reading just half-way i'm more scared than i ever was
I have a lot of questions to ask, so i'll be back after work today.


Well done CC, Babymama, Efemena, and everyone who has contributed from their well of experience. You guys are helping potential wives





Nnekacherry, i see you. Ltnc

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[quote author=Mynd_44]The OP forgot one option.

Friendzoned to the point of being gay [/quote]

naptu2: Scroll up

But no.5?

If you spend it, you will pay for it...and I mean every last penny

Rough eh, careful what you wish for babe

Moniker
OP

Where are the pictures

Interesting esp the eye contact bit What happens when you don't maintain eye contact at all?
Who has time to measure pupil dilation
Some silences are actually very comfortable.
Swearing doesn't really reduce pain, it only takes your mind off it
5,6,7 very true
8 Dunno
9 True

ziggy44: ..lolz, I see.. Could you explain the every girl needs a God fearing man part' for me.why would dey say you are dulling?

It means a man who fears God. That's easy to understand

And we blame you for everything coz we have to blame someone other than ourselves

Bia Ihedinobi when did you become the defender of virgins

Awwwww

adexsimply:

adexsimply: uhm...



I already have the answer

Tell me the question and answer then.

aManFromMars:

Kedu?

I got the phone but I've not installed whatsapp yet. Probably next week. Hope you're cool. How ur section?

Odifine

Halleluyah Download quickly biko. My sec is as peaceful as ever thanks

Eberex: You are definitely right there but let me ask you as a lady, If you have pass through break-ups and now find yourself in love again. Would you do the same? and what should he expect from you after telling him ''we need to talk''.

He can expect we'll talk about our relationship.

adexsimply: *ahem*
Can I ask you a personal question?

Fire away

Good day family, friends, visitors, invincible guests and random pop ins



Muskeeto

jay bee: I tire

So which are you

PhD virgin


A PhD virgin is one who resorts to watching m.ojo because her bf is far away.

(c) Breathing 2013

Fynestboi: And why is no one addressing the OP, question, i guess the OP, TOpic needs some changes..

Here is the OP'S question Oya give answer to it and stop attacking her...
[size=50pt]why is it that people find it hard to believe that virgins exist?[/size]

Ask the guys. Your inability to believe virgins do exist is the reason why the existing ones publicize it!! You make it a big deal that there aren't any and all women have had sexx before, and even make it seem like they are commiting some moral blunder by doing so. That's why the few who haven't have their hackles raised.

It's the same way Nigerians like to rejoice that some fella in a foreign school graduated top of his class like it's such a big deal, when there are people on the home front superbly genius who excel in academics.

You don't believe in yourselves, and you don't believe in your women. So you celebrate others who dare to excel above your stereotypes and the women celebrate themselves when they do.

jay bee: I actually didn't know one could qualify virgins.

Please what/who is a pure virgin?

lol i wonder too. Maybe it's no penetration, no finger, no smooching, no kissing, no looking sef

jay bee: That is not fact. It's based on probability which isn't necessarily going to swing to that side considering the values attached to such in this day of age.

The real question is:
Are you a virgin because your body is sacred and you had rather sleep with only one man or
Are you are a virgin because remaining so will make your husband appreciate you more

That wasn't just me talking, she did say she's a virgin out of choice.

Too many love doctors on this site
You do well sha

Les: are you planning to be a lucky woman, if yes, how do you intend doing that?? Marrying a virgin man too?? And how does marrying a virgin man makes you lucky?? Or are you thinking that virginity influences characters, thus making him a good man?? I still can't grab what will last just for a while will make a man lucky all his life, or are you planning to marry a man that thinks with his Dickson?? If I were you, I'll focus on marrying someone who thinks with his brains and not what's in between. I'm not saying you should loose your virginity, in fact you will be a fool to loose it now after coming this far but focus more on what will make you lucky and happy first. I wonder why you broadcast your virginity to your friends, for what use?? Your pride and your husband's luck?? That's a twisted mentality cause what matters most is husband's pride and your own luck. Think again sister, virginity don't guarantee anything, be it good husband or otherwise. A good man appreciates who you are, your character and commitment and not what's in-between.

Her husband will be a lucky because she had remained a virgin out of choice and not for lack of opportunity. That in itself means she possesses good moral(at least to an extent), she is not influenced by the negativity around her, she has self control(she'd be a bot not to have sexual desire) and most of all she is confident and proud of herself.

Stop trying to tear her down, the young lady is only trying to tell us what makes her unique and why she'll make her man happy.

Not true. Change is the only constant in life, and people do change.

Where's Onila? She's got a new member for her TeamVirgins






OP congrats, i understand why you're proud of yourself for staying a virgin in this morally corrupt society of ours
Don't let any of the insults here faze you, na so so bad belle people full nairaland

[quote author=Mynd_44]E no hard na.[/quote]Dr Phil