ejim blessing: If people can boldly come to nairaland to boast of how they slept with their boyfriend's best friend, their boss/madam, their friend's wife,etc., then why can't we promote sexxual morality. Imagine having like 7 boyfriends in your lifetime and sleeping with all of them!!!!! Btw, I read a lot and I've learned a lot. So experience won't be an issue for me. Even those couples who co-habited be4 their wedding and explored all sexual fantasies still have problems with their marriage due to sexxual problems. God! Some comments here make me wonna scream! How can a man prefer left-overs to freshly cooked afang soup?

Comparing non-virgins to left-overs? You just proved them right that your character might be questionable.

So this thread is still going

@ OP, we know there are virgins around.
We equally know you are still a virgin, no one doubts you.

But you have to admit like many here have said, we don't want you and your virginity. You can keep it till the end, that will be good for humanity.

So stop being harsh on people that said they don't want you and your virginity.

Guys equally prefer those you called 'left overs' because they are better, exposed, and natural.
Those 'left overs' get hitched more often than those virgins, fact!

dynamicbuzz:

Comparing non-virgins to left-overs? You just proved them right that your character might be questionable.

But they are now..

fully wrapped and fully opened can't be the same.

Una want dye on top this virgin matter or abi something no dey tire una? Tufiakwaaaaa! Some of you here are really effingly chatterbox.....Haba!

Me wey hate blood like die!

Dear virgin girl, u de miss Oo. E no de scratch u ni?

dynamicbuzz: So its virginity that's causing all these argument? Na wa o, @op I'd rather be a virgin because its my personal and moral standard than be one because I'm saving it for one man that's enjoying himself somewhere else.

I like that

lynpetra: @op
Please don't mind all the guys bashing you here.Your kind is really rare.Kudos,pray you marry a wise man .But please keep that aspect of your life a secret,even to your friends as dey might mock your chastity

I wish....
Remembered when I broke my virginity millions of years ago....
Remembered how I bleat like sallah ram on the verge of slaughter each time I want pee....
Remembered the temporal bow leg i had for days....



,virgins dey try o.God bless them.I pray my daughters be like you,surely.I will continue to scream,'"Your dad disvirgined me after our white wedding"(Ofcourse my husband wud nod his head as he reads his ;Dlnewspaper).

So babe if u see someone like pierce Brosnan,u go hold body?the diff btw me and u be say,before you talk Lyn...bra don comot for breast.

Babym..

jeslom:


and U just shutup...bfor i throw my laptop hit u for head....!! yes virginity is a giid thing i knw, but because sum peeps re stupid enough to say dia sxcapades doesnt mean u shud start screaming yu re a virgin at 24 on here,
gaan hang ur self joo!! keep ur virginity to ur self nd ur future hubby or wateva..nd yes shut up..v not claimed am a virgin or not so dnt think i aint a virgin or watsoeva..infact go and hug transformer girl..

LOL this guy is really pained

Obiagu1: So this thread is still going

@ OP, we know there are virgins around.
We equally know you are still a virgin, no one doubts you.

But you have to admit like many here have said, we don't want you and your virginity. You can keep it till the end, that will be good for humanity.

So stop being harsh on people that said they don't want you and your virginity.

Guys equally prefer those you called 'left overs' because they are better, exposed, and natural.
Those 'left overs' get hitched more often than those virgins, fact!

hehehe guys like me don't and will never prefer "left over" do you know the meaning of "left over"? Something used and dumped/remaining...Sound like a who;re.

And to your better and exposed...aren't the left overs once virgins? You mean virgins can't be better or are not better?

ejim blessing: If people can boldly come to nairaland to boast of how they slept with their boyfriend's best friend, their boss/madam, their friend's wife,etc., then why can't we promote sexxual morality. Imagine having like 7 boyfriends in your lifetime and sleeping with all of them!!!!! Btw, I read a lot and I've learned a lot. So experience won't be an issue for me. Even those couples who co-habited be4 their wedding and explored all sexual fantasies still have problems with their marriage due to sexxual problems. God! Some comments here make me wonna scream! How can a man prefer left-overs to freshly cooked afang soup?

Non virgins are leftovers? Beginning to see you have that 'I'm better than the rest' attitude. But that's not confidence, that's false bravado speaking. Please get down your high horse (no insult intended)

Keeping your virginity or losing it anytime you want is entirely your choice. All women were once virgins (fact!) But some may decide to loose theirs earlier than others. It's actually people like you that a guy would go as far as engaging (in deceit) and after stealing your valuable prize, dump you into the 'leftover' pile.

Don't let this whole thing get into your head girlie

Amya:

Non virgins are leftovers? Beginning to see you have that 'I'm better than the rest' attitude. But that's not confidence, that's false bravado speaking. Please get down your high horse (no insult intended)

Keeping your virginity or losing it anytime you want is entirely your choice. All women were once virgins (fact!) But some may decide to loose theirs earlier than others. It's actually people like you that a guy would go as far as engaging (in deceit) and after stealing your valuable prize, dump you into the 'leftover' pile.

Don't let this whole thing get into your head girlie

Make we talk true, e pain u say u no be vitlrgin too

xtervaganza:



Make we talk true, e pain u say u no be vitlrgin too

Hahaha nah! I'm not one of those morally self righteous people.

xtervaganza:



Make we talk true, e pain u say u no be vitlrgin too

Hehehehehehe

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Amya:

Hahaha nah! I'm not one of those morally self righteous people.

So you be baddo general...

xtervaganza:



Make we talk true, e pain u say u no be vitlrgin too

LOL ...some non-virgins especially the married ones are regretting for getting disflowered early or before marriage.

And as for non-virgin being leftover the girl has a point in a logic way...it is just like a sugar cane after you suck the sugar finish from the sugar cane what will remain, will there be sugar, will it be sweet? No! Sugar is no more available this also applies to the punanee, if the non-virgin girls(the baddo general) were opening their legs to any rough guy to screw and later loosen up the tightness they will now end up marrying the good guys to screw there well hole. They will be the one coming online lamenting "how my husband doesn't enjoy sexx because my veejay is not tight" and this same guys posting "I hate virgins" will be the one opening threads on NL about "my wife veejay is not tight and sweet" or thinking how many men have screwed their wives because they didn't met her a virgin hypocrisy!

Am not generalizing but truth be told many non-virgin girls are leftover(no offense) and I pray I don't marry a leftover.

adexsimply:

jeslom:


and U just shutup...bfor i throw my laptop hit u for head....!! yes virginity is a giid thing i knw, but because sum peeps re stupid enough to say dia sxcapades doesnt mean u shud start screaming yu re a virgin at 24 on here,
gaan hang ur self joo!! keep ur virginity to ur self nd ur future hubby or wateva..nd yes shut up..v not claimed am a virgin or not so dnt think i aint a virgin or watsoeva..infact go and hug transformer girl..

Sharrap.

ejim blessing: I keep telling my friends that my husband is gonna be a very lucky man. It's not as if I'm not beautiful. In short I'm a very pleasant person- creative, expressive, a Poet, good height, an undergraduate of a reputable federal university( that's not under ASUU lol) , brilliant, tenacious, diplomatic, humorous, with gap tooth sef and a blessed upper region. Lol. I'm not advertizing myself here but why is it that people find it hard to believe that virgins( I mean pure virgins) still exist? Make una tell me why o

im a virgin too why dont we hook up live,enjoy and create a better future. ....

Obiagu1: Nawa oo, this virgin thing seems to be on the rise!

Who told you girls that guys like virgin girls?
I'd rather send a virgin girl out to get a little wild and get some experience before I consider dating one ever again.

there a people who still love virgins you ooooooh.... this kind one she would be happy for me to teach her some se.xskillsssss

Xtargold:
And does that in anyway make u better than they are?.My dear u don't ve to make urself look/feel gud by putting others down.

Madam, the intents of the opening post require that she state her credentials. And she has explained that enough times. Are you just refusing to see it?

If she had said that she knew someone who was a virgin and described the person like she did in the op, don't you see how people would insist that she couldn't be sure? If she made a case for virginity and sensibility, don't you see how people would attack her about her own virginity even without knowing if she is a virgin?

There's no way to win when everyone is touchy about the moral failure you're talking about.

Oh....and a virgin is better than a non-virgin, at least as far as sexual purity goes

Xtargold:
And does that in anyway make u better than they are?.My dear u don't ve to make urself look/feel gud by putting others down.

Besides, how did she put anybody down by saying that she's a virgin eh? Guilty conscience

Im wondering hmmmmmm......which parent would encourage his or her child not to marry a virgin......hmmmm imagin this....picture you parent telling you to go and marry a professional aashawo as a wife....haha

Bia Ihedinobi when did you become the defender of virgins

Amya:

Non virgins are leftovers? Beginning to see you have that 'I'm better than the rest' attitude. But that's not confidence, that's false bravado speaking. Please get down your high horse (no insult intended)

Keeping your virginity or losing it anytime you want is entirely your choice. All women were once virgins (fact!) But some may decide to loose theirs earlier than others. It's actually people like you that a guy would go as far as engaging (in deceit) and after stealing your valuable prize, dump you into the 'leftover' pile.

Don't let this whole thing get into your head girlie

You mean some women give it up before marriage and others don't, don't you?

And you are so wrong. If the op is anything like she described in the OP, no sharp guy will breach her easily. She's the kind of girl a player will end up changing for or fleeing from. Yimu

Oh...yeah, non-virgins are leftovers, even if it isn't very nice to say so. Get over it, lady.

uj_sizzle: Bia Ihedinobi when did you become the defender of virgins

Keep it up,OP. What you have is a prized possession no matter how much aspersions people here try to cast at you. Truth is that even though being a virgin does not necessarily translate to being the best woman, there is something you have which others don't have. Those who have lost it can never get it back, and there is every tendency to feel bad and jealous!

There are special blessings that being a virgin attracts. That is why God chose Mary to be the mother of His son,Jesus. I do not think she was the best lady in her time in terms of manners and upbringing, but being a virgin gave her that advantage.

All I'm saying is: 'keep it up!'

OP, don't mind badbelles jare! I got married to my hubby @ 25 and I was a virgin. D only time I acted like a novice was our wedding nite but thereafter I became a PRO! I dint learn from bluefilms also(cos I hate those fake sex scenes!) I bought xtian literatures on sex, everywoman etc and now I make my husband roar like a lion wen @ it. Keep urself till ur wedding nite sweetie.

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