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Jobs/VacanciesRe: 5 Reasons Why You Should Work For A Start-up by Ukalejohn(m): 7:31am On Jul 28, 2018
Okay
CrimeRe: Lebanese Man Assaults Nigerian In Novare Mall Lekki, Policeman Slaps Eyewitness by Ukalejohn(m): 11:51am On Jul 23, 2018
Interesting how stupid our police men behave
Car TalkRe: This N44m Mercedes X-class Looks Like A Maybach (photos) by Ukalejohn(m): 11:16am On Jul 23, 2018
Wow
PoliticsRe: 21 Nigerian Senators Who May Defect From Their Parties And Why by Ukalejohn(m): 5:56pm On Jul 21, 2018
Okay
PoliticsRe: 400 Public Servants Under Investigation Over Ownership Of Property In Abuja by Ukalejohn(m): 5:48pm On Jul 21, 2018
Issorite
CrimeRe: LASPOTECH Guards Batter Woman Because Her Son Wears Earrings (Photos) by Ukalejohn(m): 5:46pm On Jul 21, 2018
Wakanda devil controls men these days
RomanceRe: Lady Travels From Abuja To "Lagos" To Have Fun With A Guy,See What Happened.PICS by Ukalejohn(m): 3:30pm On Jul 21, 2018
Issorite
BusinessRe: Central Bank Of Nigeria Commences Sale Of Chinese Yuan by Ukalejohn(m): 3:30pm On Jul 21, 2018
Funny country
PoliticsRe: FFK: Adeleke Will Make An Excellent Governor, He Is A Good Dancer & Senator by Ukalejohn(m): 1:09pm On Jul 21, 2018
True
RomanceRe: Lady Calls Out Bizzyaski Over Bumbum Tattoo by Ukalejohn(m): 1:07pm On Jul 21, 2018
Issorite
TravelRe: Driver Caught Driving With No Steering Wheel While Sitting On A Bucket by Ukalejohn(m): 7:26am On Jul 21, 2018
Interesting
PhonesRe: Facebook And Instagram To Begin Closing Down Accounts Of Under-aged Children. by Ukalejohn(m): 7:24am On Jul 21, 2018
Finally
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG To Recruit 6,000 Prisons Officers – Dambazau by Ukalejohn(m): 7:23am On Jul 21, 2018
Naso
PhonesRe: This New Pocket-sized Drone Has Come To Replace The Selfie Stick. (photos) by Ukalejohn(m): 7:20am On Jul 21, 2018
Toh
Car TalkRe: Man Hangs ₦540million Super Car From The Ceiling Of His Apartment In U.S.(Photo) by Ukalejohn(m): 7:18am On Jul 21, 2018
Wait ..lemme understand something
CareerRe: Public Service: An Umuahia Based Police Woman Bags Recognition Award by Ukalejohn(m): 7:17am On Jul 21, 2018
Okay
EducationRe: Examination Malpractice In Nigeria by Ukalejohn(m): 7:16am On Jul 21, 2018
No be today
EducationRe: NAN'S Gives AE-FUNAI 7 Days To Refund Students Their 50k For Security Levy Or... by Ukalejohn(m): 7:16am On Jul 21, 2018
Issorite
CareerRe: Pretty Nigerian Fire Fighter Is Causing A Twitter Meltdown (Photos) by Ukalejohn(m): 7:15am On Jul 21, 2018
Fine geh
Car TalkRe: Lamborghini Celebrates Making 8,000th Aventador And 11,000th Huracan by Ukalejohn(m): 7:11am On Jul 21, 2018
Lovely
Car TalkRe: 5 Things To Avoid Doing With An Automatic Transmission Car by Ukalejohn(m): 7:09am On Jul 21, 2018
Issorite
PoliticsRe: NLC Urges Fayemi To Prioritise Payment Of Workers’ Salaries by Ukalejohn(m): 7:00am On Jul 21, 2018
I hope he pays
TravelRe: Stranded Nigerians In Russia Are Back In Abuja (photo) by Ukalejohn(m): 7:00am On Jul 21, 2018
Goodnews
TravelRe: Things You Should Never Buy At The Airport by Ukalejohn(m): 10:56pm On Jul 20, 2018
ruffhandu:
Where will you fill the bottle from? Please be careful with the source of water you drink so it wouldn't be Kobo wise Naira foolish.
Why not drink enough before and after flight?
True but it depends on how long your flight would be... So please buy water the small difference won't kill u
RomanceRe: 10 Different Things Nigerian Ladies Say Instead Of "I Love You" - Meme by Ukalejohn(m): 10:31pm On Jul 20, 2018
So true
RomanceRe: 9 Reasons Why She Is Going To Leave You For Another Man by Ukalejohn(m): 10:28pm On Jul 20, 2018
Wait...where da f*ck is 1-6
RomanceRe: She Finds It Hard To Wash Her Undies - Nigerian Guy Exposes His Dirty Girlfriend by Ukalejohn(m): 10:26pm On Jul 20, 2018
Funny how she even dated him
RomanceRe: For The Past Weeks Now, She Hasn't Been Her Usual Self by Ukalejohn(m): 10:17pm On Jul 20, 2018
rexericx:
©Noel ij



For the past weeks now, she hasn't been her usual self.

She's been married for three years and never has she felt so disconnected from her husband as she has in these recent weeks.

Slight repulsion.

Budding distaste.

Insipidity.

Bland efforts at affection.

Something wasn't right, she knew it and silently hoped her husband hadn't noticed.

But he had, he felt the same way.

Sometimes she notices him staring at her as she lays on the couch.

She catches him stealing glimpses at her while she prepares for work.

And she,

Sometimes recently wakes at night and abhorrently looks at him while he sleeps.

They hadn't quarrelled.

No disagreements.

But somehow, they just don't communicate the way they normally do.

In her heart are several questions;

Why did I marry him?

Is he the best for me?

I don't like the way he snores or Chew his food.

Sometimes he talks too much.

He's not as handsome as I even thought.

And in his own conflicting thoughts he asks;

What was I thinking?

Imagine big tummy, she's not even doing enough to take care of her body.

Her food is most times salty.

And without her makeup she's not different from other women.

Is she really the best for me?

At this point, love which is the fire of all unions has waned.

It's there still, but not as much as it was and used to be.

It is at this point that you're needed to be responsible, committed and true to the sanctity of marriage.

For it's not a bus which you could ride and when bored, alight.

Believe me, love doesn't keep a union.

It starts it and leaves it at the mercy of tolerance, forgiveness, commitment.

It is at this point that most marriages fail.

It is at this very point, when the union isn't as tasty as it once was, that anger comes in, nagging becomes the order of the day, tempers flare, and you find it difficult to tolerate.

But this is the point where you both should hold your hearts in check and love with your head.

The point where you must strive, for marriage is work.

Every union goes through this.

And unfortunately most crack at this phase.

But it's very necessary, for gold endures the test of fire to be made whole and pure.

And this is and would continue as a result of REVULSION - the gradual or sudden change of affection from a deep feeling of love to intense repugnance, disgust and withdrawal.
I love this piece
RomanceRe: What Will You Call This Kind Of Girl? by Ukalejohn(m): 10:06pm On Jul 20, 2018
Amakavula:
only broke boys complian
Only broke ass bitches expect money from guys grin grin
RomanceRe: This Very Pretty Nigerian Fire Fighter Is Causing A Twitter Meltdown! (photos) by Ukalejohn(m): 9:39pm On Jul 20, 2018
Oboy! See fine geh
CrimeRe: Man Dumps Fiancee After Introduction In Edo & Duping Her Of 4.2M Marries Another by Ukalejohn(m): 8:17pm On Jul 20, 2018
grin grin
FamilyRe: Man Writes On How Some Families Have Destroyed Marriages Of Their Loved Ones by Ukalejohn(m): 6:41am On Jul 20, 2018
deepwater:
Nairaland ruins marriage faster
Lol

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