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Akwa Ibom, Imo and Borno have the most beautiful girls there.

[quote author=KillMNKnow post=103298178]Don't fool yourself Farooq, the US will not deport you because your name is Farooq. you're trying so hard to make your green card relevant like Aisha yesufu. Hypocrites you and Aisha can stop been Muslims openly. For God sake you live in US and UK, people in Nigeria becoming atheist without any confrontation with the community. Fcking hypocrites. irrelevant people becoming nuisance because our society are addicted to news.....

All this because of Alcohol.
The US prohibited Alcohol in 1933.
They still do prohibit president, military, police, pilots, etc from drinking alcohol.
All over the globe, People are running away from Alcohol. Sobriety is the new Cool.
Y'all hate us because we don't do Alcohol, gambling, prostitution


[b]Stop showing your stupidity, receive sense.

[quote author=KillMNKnow post=103298178]Don't fool yourself Farooq, the US will not deport you because your name is Farooq. you're trying so hard to make your green card relevant like Aisha yesufu. Hypocrites you and Aisha can stop been Muslims openly. For God sake you live in US and UK, people in Nigeria becoming atheist without any confrontation with the community. Fcking hypocrites. irrelevant people becoming nuisance because our society are addicted to news.....

All this because of Alcohol.
The US prohibited Alcohol in 1933.
They still do prohibit president, military, police, pilots, etc from drinking alcohol.
All over the globe, People are running away from Alcohol. Sobriety is the new Cool.
Y'all hate us because we don't do Alcohol, gambling, prostitution el


Stop showing your stupidity, get sense

Nice

Billz101:
Why all of them dey resign

APC is a Demonic party, they don't want to stain their hands in blood and APC doesn't have any future in cross river state.

Ilaumoh:
Yes bro. But I heard bayelsa just built a standard airport ?

Akwa Ibom is not bayelsa now

[quote author=Ilaumoh post=102534946]Yes bro. But I heard bayelsa just built a standard airport ?[/quote

Akwa Ibom is not bayelsa now

blinking001:
Oh please! This man should just shut up. He's a true definition of a failure. Otukpo to markurdi road is a death trap, how about katsina Ala to Markurdi? Another death trap, he can't safeguard lives and properties of his people and is here making noise unnecessarily. He must be high on orange juice and groundnut. This man has totally destroyed Benue state because of his greed.
The Ban was necessary for the growth of our darling nation. Wailers will never be happy.

My friend shut up, don't be stupid. Can't you see the hand writing on the wall. If the head isn't correct how will you think the rest of the body will function. Rubbish.

This is terrible seriously, it's just like wasting all your life and time in the army and yet you can't get to the top because of one man's ego.

Jollylolly:
Osinbajo will be remembered as the best VP we ever had and history will be kind to him; from his acting days to NESP to how he slashed CAC fee, how he slashed Nafdac product registration fee and Instructed governors to set up judicial panels in their states tp ensure justice is served for victims of Police brutalities. unlike Sambo and GEJ who were busy drinking tea and drinking Shepe

Another stupid comment. How is he the best VP? By watching people being killed and he isn't saying anything as the VP, or by not calling the President on what is happening in the country and thereby calling the AGF to order as well. Possibly resign as the VP. Nonsense

Jollylolly:
It is very disheartening that a statement such as this, is coming from an ex aide. He is flaunting FG's directive.

How is he flaunting FG directive? Stupid comment

[/b][quote author=cocolacec post=101776967]This has nothing to do with Buhari,More southerners should go to farming.

[b]You don't know what your talking about. As it ever been like this before the coming of Buhari and this government? Terrible but sad we Nigerians will have to pass through this period for the remaining 2 years. [color=#990000][/color]

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This Prof Akintola or whatever he calls himself is the most useless man have ever read about, sometimes I don't know how he got or was given prof. What a useless comment and everything he said there. He didn't talked about bringing someone he is most knowledgeable and well schooled, he is talking about muslum this and that,bringing religion into everything. Can't we just say something sense able for once. This man is terrible man, a devil and doesn't want anything good for this country. It's terrible.

NwaAmaikpe:





Why will you slap a uniformed officer?

Even if he is younger than your last child, that uniform makes him your superior. I admire your balls and would have advised you to join a neighborhood wrestling group to improve on your slapping but from all indications you are a coward.

Why are you this jittery because you slapped a mere FRSC officer?
You've paid the fines, gotten a nod from the boss there and gotten your car back, yet you are bothered that they may come after you.

I know someone who drove off with an armed Mobile policeman who got into his front seat to extort him. Guess what, the mopol ended up begging and he still drives freely till this day.

If you want to be so sure you won't encounter them again, ditch your car and switch to public transportation.
Lastly, never slap anyone if you know you'd be bothered over the aftermath of that slap.

You are a coward. Common sense is not common with you. Because he is on uniform, he should behalf any how with people. I just hope one day you will face what he faced with you see how it feels. Coward.

Nawooo ooo, this man go worst pass Buhari ooo. They will say this today, then say another thing tomorrow. We don't need this old men again as president.

majole:
I taught this guy was the only not too looting politician around that could turn this country but this Reckless statement shows how stupid this man is. If your Kids were kidnapped what would you not do to get them released safely? Very Reckless statement

Why don't you read again and understand, and stop saying nonsense.

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

Your mad. Gold digger. Just read and listen to the nonsense your typing here. Must the guy do everything for her because he is in a relationship with her.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Rubbish gold digger . Must he provide everything for her because he has it, and all that she cares is just to enjoy the money and eat him dry. Receive sense.

Kudos to Akwa Ibom State Government and congratulations to Ibom Air.

IME1:
Is it possible for a state to be better than the central, federal government

Would a state one day borrow to a central, federal government

Can a state be up to date with salaries, infrastructures, health benefits and co ahead of the central, federal

The answer is yes, especially when we have a clueless ruler in power.

Penguin2:
What they are doing to Rochas is the reason these politicians take their stolen to UK and elsewhere to go and invest.

If these things were built in the UK or Dubai, Hope wouldn't have had a single power to do the things he's doing.

Don't get me wrong...

I'm not saying it's right for Okorocha to have stolen, but one of our clamours in recent years is that these thieves should invest the money in Nigeria when they steal them. Now we have someone who did that and he's being made to regret it.

On another note, was Rochas that bad that successive governors wants to win the heart of Imolites by destroying Rochas?

From Ihedioha to Uzodimma, same story.

Seriously you are not making sense here. Someone use the resources of the people/state and built this all for himself and family, without considering the mass, and he was also owing so much pensions and building things that were not important, then your calling this nonsense, him regretting it? Regretting what he did for himself or the state? What are you even talking sef?

timesup234:
Cowards! Strike Iran directly let's see if you will survive another 24hrs. Hezbollah is waiting to turn Israel into a graveyard

Another Boko Horam Terrorist sighted ��

Oh No.

This government is a complete failure.

seunmsg:
Trump is a blessing to Africa.

Who told you Trump cares about Africa?

yanabasee1:
Dude is trying to stay relevant recently.


His zoom free cash was a flop....

He should work on himself and his wife....

There are lots of us out there with more cars and more abs and we don't brag about it.....

Common sense is not common at all. And how relevant are you, who knows you? How much cash have you given out yourself. Why don't you work on yourself and stay away from his marriage. Rubbish.

Allen102:
And yet 90% of prostitutes in Rivers state are from Imo, Enugu, and Akwa ibom state.
70% of crimes in Rivers state are not done by Rivers indigenes.

And how did you arrived at that? You lied, and I see you are part if the problem in PH.

thebosstrevor1:
This Ipob member called dj switch always have an opinion on Nigeria from her hiding place.

The endsar fabrications she orchestrated destroyed her career now she is somewhere typing in depression.

Dj switch is an ipob member, she is loyal to Nnamdi kanu, she wants the break up of Nigeria but Nigeria is bigger than her.

No career, nothing.

Anyway, The only reason Nigerians in the south hate Buhari is because he is Muslim and he is fulani.



One Nigeria

You last common sense seriously.

Being a Muslim and a fulani and lacking in intelligence, he is a failure and lack good governance. A ruler and not a leader. Terrible.

You so terrible if that's all you can say. Is he the only Muslim or fulani who has ever rule this country? But so bad history will never say any good thing about him.

heniford2:
all this thing you typed here break up with him please let me ask you what is wrong with him seen a native doctor, if we check very well know we will get to understand that the whole problem is from your side, you talk, abuse him, yet you want him to act so you will use it against him in overseas, maybe the will depot him thank God the young guy is smart very smart to avoid you, better re arrange your life oh or break up with him you want to have another issue while your still queering with him Ahh! you self shall chill oh or move on since you claim independent

Is that all you can say? Rubbish

Vevejoy:
Plesse forget the errors and focus on the content.

So here's my issue.

I've been married for 6yrs and it's been a blissful journey- of course with minor issues here and there but nothing to worry about until May 5th 2020 when I'd say things turned upside down.

We live abroad and struggled to have kids but God finally blessed us with a beautiful daughter in Sept 2019. Child care being super expensive here, we wanted one of our moms to come help us with the baby when I return to work after my maternity leave. So on the eve of our wedding anniversary which was the 4th of May last year, I asked my husband for the say 10th time about beginning the procedure of bringing a mom over to help since I'll be returning to work. He asked which mom and I said in my exact words; "of course my mom" because I know that when a woman gives birth, her mom usually go to help her. Did that change our story? My God, marriage has been one hell of a thing since that day.

My husband said I am selfish, disrespectful, and want to dominate him. He said things will never be the same again and since then, my marriage has been a stress zone.

My husband is numb to my feelings. He's been ignoring me, I've been a nag I'll admit since tue incident last year. I now talk alot and mostly complain about everything whenever we are together. It's sad and I've actually had conversations with myself to ignore him and stop nagging but I continue to do it, I need help on how to shut up and observe.

I can cry from now to die kingdom come and this man wouldn't be moved. He cannot shift his stance because of me at all. He does whatever he likes and disregard everything I say. E.g before this crisis, we had an appointment to see our Dr to start trying for baby number two because the Dr's advised that since we just had a baby, it's best to try for another soonest given that we had challenges conceiving the first one. This man cancelled the appointment with our Dr and has blatantly refused to start trying for a baby right now. He says when the time comes he'll let me know. Up till now the time has not come despite the fact that delaying may impact our chance of conceiving again. What a life!� � �.

Also, he has decided that no parent will come and I'm back to work already. My poor baby who use to sleep till 9am now suffer in this winter getting up at 6am to be dropped off at daycare all because her father is angry and want to make sure he doesn't do anything that will make his wife smile. He'll rather spend thorns of money paying for daycare even after I've told him that I don't mind his mom coming. Mind u, I have a very good relationship with my inlaws, especially my mom inlaw so it's not an inlaw fight.

The worst of them all is that despite living abroad for 17yrs, this man believes so much in native doctors to the extend that I can't even explain. Infact it's something that I've always fought him about and talked against. I've even complained about it to his family. And guess what, when I talk against, he tells his native drs who of course has ignited the fire in our home. Can you believe that in this chaos this man took me on a vacation in August last year that he wanted to clear his mind so we can start a new chapter and be happy again only to tell me that I have been trying to use a charm on him in the past months thats why things got rough. He said the 3 women I am using appeared to him but he is stronger ����. I am laughing because I felt pity and ashamed for him. How can a grown man be this vulnerable to suitsayers? I have never in my entire life visited a native doctor for myself not to talk of going to take a charmI didn'tvisit the native drs when I was strugglingto have a baby and this man thinks I'llvisit one now to charm him. Wondering y he will even believe such a thing. Infact I don't even know any native doctor. So when he said that, I told him that if I had known that his change of attitude is because of this stupid reason, I would not have fought for my marriage like I did. Of course I got so mad and told him a piece of my mind. I am even ashamed of telling people that despite this man's exposure he consults native Dr's in Africa more than even the people in Africa. Infact if they say yes that's what he listens to. He has even paid a flight from here to Africa because a native Dr told him that his dad who raised him to be the man he is today is trying to kill him and he should come for protection.

I decided to tell his mom about the accusation. His mom told me she scolded at him and warned him never to say such nonsense. Well I just pity him and I'm praying for him. But truth is I regret my marriage to him because of these his believes. I just don't believe in divorce and don't even have the heart to move out I would have done so. Mind u, I am 100% independent so it's not an issue of being scared of surviving alone.

Well one Sunday night as usual I talked to him like crazy and he said "all he wants is for our relationship to work and he will put in his best effort with support from me. I said I want same and will put in my best effort with support from him too*. This happened around september and things have been like normal on and off since then.

I have a few worries which I'd like you to advise me on the way forward.
- My husband is heartless. No matter how I lament, cry, beg, approach him nicely. Infact no matter the manner in which I bring up an issue to him, he doesn't get moved at all. He stays on his stance and doesn't care. How am I suppose to live with a man like this. He goes mute when I try having a conversation with him.

- I have a weakness of talking alot which I acknowledge and I'm doing my best to work on it though I'm yet to change completely. But I can say there's a huge improvement. Infact I'm able to walk away now.

Can a marriage really work out out without a compromise from both parties? I feel like I am compromising alot but this man is doing whatever he likes. In all of these he doesn't cheat but has abused me physically 4times in our 6yrs of marriage which I'm still pained about. The worst abuse right now is emotional abuse and I've told him so several times.

We use to be an exemplary and happy couple up till this may 2020. What will you do in a situation like mine With? With a man like my husband who I'd say lacks empathy and a concience how do I deal with him? His mom said she talked to him but I don't see any difference.

I feel miserable right now in my marriage. Since I got married this is our hardest hit and unfortunately it got prolonged probably bc of his native Dr's who told him I am using a charm on him which he believed.


Help me out please

My only advice for you is to pray for your husband, pray pray and pray, that's what he needs.