₦airaland Forum

ekanDamie:
Thanks brova. I just need to work on my emotions.
Its quite too weak n vulnerable.

pcguru1:
Never date in the same office and if you must different department, you're a guy don't mix where you earn your paper with romantic interest.

GrabHisBalls:
Sincerely, I don't know what some of you men want. My bf complained bitterly of my never saying 'apologising' even when I know I have in situations I felt I was wrong to him and him doing the begging all the time. Right now, I feel like going very far away from him 'cause I don't want to be why anyone would be unhappy.

AeroplaneApple:
Forward your CV to Airforce1 or better yet by vybzkartel and ultimate77

AeroplaneApple:
Forward your CV to Airforce1 or better yet by vybzkartel and ultimate77

Missyford31:
Hahaha yeah professor guy i think wizkid is hot lol.
I like how she calls u professor. Its sweet when a nice person u know nicknames u something.
And thanku

SirMichael1:

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Can't you differentiate between 'can't' and 'cent'?
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iLegendd:
Now, let me answer your question. I'm not in the business for just money.

I want to help Nigerian men, especially nice guys. I have helped the oyibo people enough, so it's time to come home.

Since I started using NL in May 2016, our group, Clef, has helped thousands, if not millions of guys in wooing, chatting, developing confidence, being an alpha male, lasting long in bed, knowing how to keep a conversation, and many more.

If I'm just after the money, I wouldn't have given my attention to the Nigerian market considering the poor reading culture and and the Nigeria saying, "If the PDF ain't free, count me out."

Neglecting 200 million Nigerians all because of because of their bad behaviors and my pursuit of some dollars is a no-no. Though, all my threads on NL will be deleted one day and I'll deactivate, but for now, let me keep serving the people until I call it a quit.

Joe Clef handles Africa while a secret pen name handles oyibos.

EzendiEgo1:
Is #1000 money

The money I send her was her change, she came to my shop and bought something so I own her #500 but I decided to add another #500 and send to her.

She don't accept because of the money I send to her.


Thanks man

Missyford31:
Haha u dnt need to change its wat girls want. What decent girls want. Theres nothing like knowing u can trust your partner 100percent. We rarely argue and our relationship n love is so strong even after only two years of online relationship. Guys like u are rare and when u find the right girl believe me your relationship will be marraige material as long as she has the same morals as you. Im sorry your relationship didnt last n hope u find a beautiful wife.
In the meantime maybe playing with girls ur not emotionally attracted to dont interest u? Im the same. Wizkid could walk in my room right now n ask for sex n id say no thanku as hot as he is i couldn't imagine sex with anyone but meka cos ive never felt the way i do for him with anyone ever and i just couldn't find any joy or pleasure or be turned on by anyone but him. I thinks its cos of the way i love him. I dnt just love him im deep in love with him like soulmate stuff n every second his all i think bout even after two yrs. So i think sex n kissing is more about emotions for some ppl than just pleasure.

Desiree47:
He called me and he has been begging me to forgive him..He said he was very angry with me the day I left him and his friend..that his friend was amazed that he doesn't have control over me. Although his brother told me that he could have said those words out of anger that the relationship was over. he never told me it was over between the both of us,i was the one who told him bcus of what his brother told me. I don't know if I should forgive him or just move on with my life...the truth is I still love him and he knows I do love him. am really confused

kingxsamz:
@93Miles come and label him a potential rapist for this. Rubbish!

kingxsamz:
@93Miles come and label him a potential rapist for this. Rubbish!

kingxsamz:
@93Miles come and label him a potential rapist for this. Rubbish!

Missyford31:
Awww i love wat u said. That the girl is more sexy than your gf but your gf get ur dick to rise like fire n the sexier girl dnt. My partner is the same to me he says its cos the way he feels about me and no other girl move him the way i do and that to me is a keeper. I hope ur still wit your girl

Missyford31:
Awww i love wat u said. That the girl is more sexy than your gf but your gf get ur dick to rise like fire n the sexier girl dnt. My partner is the same to me he says its cos the way he feels about me and no other girl move him the way i do and that to me is a keeper. I hope ur still wit your girl

smileing:
Please I need responsible advice

Many were coming as suitors but I don't know why I let him come closer.

He forcefully took away my pride and I was hurt. He said he did that cos he doesn't want to lose me

I wanted to leave but I couldn't cos I love him.
I don't offer sex cos I'm religious and I believe it's a sin. Told him to wait till marriage but he wouldn't.
for almost a year we ve been courting I didn't allow him touch me.

Till this day he forcefully had sex with me .
He wants to come pay my dowry but I'm not sure that my people will let me marry him. I too went and prayed about him and they told me that he is not my husband (about 5 different people said it)

He is OK, financially, is educated and promising.
But not God-fearing as I wanted.

Now I'm pained for what he did to me .I'm grieved cos I wanted to lose my pride on my wedding night.
and I'm thinking of leaving him cos I'm hurting so much now.

I feel less of myself and sinful too


Please what should I do?


those that married non Virgin how did your spouse take it. I need to know cos it ll help reshaping my mindset

smileing:
Please I need responsible advice

Many were coming as suitors but I don't know why I let him come closer.

He forcefully took away my pride and I was hurt. He said he did that cos he doesn't want to lose me

I wanted to leave but I couldn't cos I love him.
I don't offer sex cos I'm religious and I believe it's a sin. Told him to wait till marriage but he wouldn't.
for almost a year we ve been courting I didn't allow him touch me.

Till this day he forcefully had sex with me .
He wants to come pay my dowry but I'm not sure that my people will let me marry him. I too went and prayed about him and they told me that he is not my husband (about 5 different people said it)

He is OK, financially, is educated and promising.
But not God-fearing as I wanted.

Now I'm pained for what he did to me .I'm grieved cos I wanted to lose my pride on my wedding night.
and I'm thinking of leaving him cos I'm hurting so much now.

I feel less of myself and sinful too


Please what should I do?


those that married non Virgin how did your spouse take it. I need to know cos it ll help reshaping my mindset

noahnaira:
The form is currently on. For Ms.C its 2.40 and above.

gracechellar:
Home or abroad?

micflo28:
People who travel out to study and still come back to the country to search for jobs are missing out on something. The best place to run an MSc. Is in Nigerian lofty public universities and most likely a professional Masters, there you would meet top managers, budding or CEO's, politicians etc who could be of help to you getting a job or further a business venture if you influence their academic pursuit positively. If you know, you know.

drakespearz:
The form is is on sale currently now sir. It's Cool the school fee is over 100k.
Let me know if you're interested

aumeehn:
Keeping a tight circle really works for me, cus i have serious trust issues i remember last week one of my friend told me his girl bought undies for him i advised him not to even think of wearing it cus Girls can do anything these days who knows maybe she carry the boxers and singlet go Mallam side. i once had good friends here on NL but due to my snobbish nature they all unfollowed me.

aumeehn:
LWKMD brother take it easy na! na bad experience cause am o

iLife itself is a bad experience man... But this Una own worst I Swear..

aumeehn:
You just described me in from a to z in your post lol! even on NL i don't answer mentions and i dont know why, my Whatsapp will be full with messages for weeks but i wont read it talkless of replying

ganie:
I believe she was judging from our conversation o and she was even serving in army barracks,teaching the officers.

Lol...
If na me eh, make e be say she day teach ARTILLERY... BRO contacts must be exchanged

Martin0:
hahahah one love mehn! Na so eee brother

Martin0:
Oga feel free jor u nor need to ask for permission ee

Omo, i don day use am ontop one babe here, she just day wish say ma she be the future wife... Chai.. Knowledge sweet o. I go day expect visitation tomorrow be that...

ganie:
I met this young fine pretty lady in the bus from Mowe to Oshodi. She was on her way back from Nysc camp (2016 batch A stream 1) and i was to go for the next stream. This was what brought up our conversation and it was like we knew eachother before that day,even one woman in the bus was just eyeing me like "naso una dey start...yeye boi". The funny thing till today is we never exchanged contact because i didnt ask and she didnt too,we got to Oshodi and we exchanged byes. Truth be told she expected it because she turned back to look at me (i did same too)

Martin0:
Hello, my future wife.

Whether you are reading this before you meet me, or stumble upon it after, I want you to know a few things.

The reason I am writing this today is because I can’t stop thinking about you, and I can’t stop myself from imagining how happy we will be. Let this letter be a promise to you that I will do my best to be the man I want to be for you.

I may not yet know all of the difficulties that come with a lifetime commitment, but I have enough relationship experience to know what I want and how I picture my life with the person I will commit to: you.

Those around me are a continuous source of education and inspiration on how I want our relationship to be. So here and today, I vow to try my best to do the following:

I promise to do my best to make you beam daily, so count on many surprises. Your smile will be my priority. I get weak knees when anybody smiles, so just imagine the effort I will make to be the source of yours.

I promise I will always look at you with the same adoration as I did the moment I realized I loved you.

I promise to try to ignite the same sparkle in your eyes I see when you’re surprised, inspired, motivated or when you are about to lean in to kiss me.

I promise to hold your hand when we’re 80 years old with the same liveliness that I did when I crossed that line to hold yours for the first time. I vow never to let the excitement of dating me die down; I will surprise you with the location, the reason or the activity itself.

I promise to keep you guessing where we’re going next. I promise to do my best always to interest you. I will keep reinventing myself, gaining new hobbies, new knowledge and new interests to keep you -- and myself -- entertained.
I promise to have new stories to share with you, and maybe I’ll retell the best ones again if you insist. Our friendship will continue to grow over the years.

I vow to challenge you to challenge yourself for the better; to make you think differently.
I promise to try to feed off of your illuminating energy that will inspire me to do the same with myself. I will do my best to ensure that being bored never crosses your mind.

Even in grief and darkness, I promise to show you the different shades of the dark, and to help you find the tiny rays of light that are always there if you seek them. After all, there’s always worse than worst and better than best;
everything is relative.

I promise to kiss you throughout our life together, with the same passion I had the first time I felt my lips on yours. When we kiss, I want it to slow down time -- just you and me engulfed in our feelings.

I promise to play the games you like to play.

I promise to do my best to remain physically attractive for you, and I will do my best to be healthy in order to keep up with our children and grandchildren; someone has got to teach them Muay Thai kickboxing. I’ll train you, too; I want you to know how to fight and defend yourself, just don’t use it against me.

I promise to help you to be healthy, both physically and mentally. I will cook and clean for us. Expect the best breakfast: traditional Armenian tomato and pepper omelets, followed by fruit salad with well, I can’t give all the secrets out.
I promise to strive to be a role model for our children. I want both you and them to see me as a source of motivation. I want to inspire them in the same way that my father inspires me.

I promise to do my best to love your family as you love them and to be by their side as much as I am by yours.

I promise to always listen to you when you simply just want to be heard; when you want someone to vent to about something or when you want advice.

I will listen to you especially when you don’t feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with anybody else, and to the things you try to tell me when you’re not even speaking. I promise to always listen.

During our life together, I promise to make sure that you feel as though you are the center of the household -- I know you will be -- and I will always try to show my appreciation for you because of that. Being the man of the house is nothing without a woman.

I promise never to let my guard down in taking care of us. I know you won’t be one to be satisfied with the bare minimum.

I promise to do everything that I can for you without taking away from your independence physically, intellectually or emotionally.

I promise to create family traditions and to make sure that your legacy lives forever through our children.

I promise to encapsulate the moment when I realize that I am in the most magnetic, amorous and erotic love with you, not to let that feeling dissipate to the best of my ability and to relive it with you constantly, always.

Sincerely, Your Future Husband

Cooldude180:
Interesting.. Thanks bro..