Chi59:

Here's another f.ool.
You are at liberty to believe whatsoever you want to so long as it doesn't affect another person's life. Period.

theTransporter:



I shared your link to my friend, a lady who's married, this her advice for you

Friendship hides lovers real character but marriage xposes it.This two are getting together well now in a mere relationship,but I bet u ,it won't last for eternity if they venture into marriage.
Two reasons to back it up:
1)Things might not turn out d way they expected;talking in terms of financial handicap whereby money no longer flows d way it used to and he can no longer meet all her needs,by den nagging will set in.She will remind him of how he stole her from di onye obodo oyibo and probably blame and regret of accepting him and may even threaten him wit divorce.U no how bad this could b.
2)The guy from oversea might return,mean business,shower her wit gifts,money and parheps oda valuable items and will finally marry her promising and ready to pay him back all he spent on her.
I think on my own side, he shouldn't rush marriage stuff wit her for d maintym if he doesn't want to b d head of a broken home in latter days.A word is enough for d wise.

meelahgold:



Since you are so sure of yourself always been the no 1 ..... Then then why seeking for advice?
The lady think she loves you more than that guy because you are close and the guy is far away,
Bros wait till the guy is back then you know your faith... Lol

Lamanii22:
Lol I was sharing this stuff with my mom... She said PMB should not go and try rubbish or insult isreal... He should just be looking...

Lamanii22:



It's not that easy... Imagine it was an American general that was killed... It's such a painful thing
..

Lamanii22:



Awww thanks a lot... Everything I write is based on experiences.... We learn everyday y'knw...

DNSPro:


The guy might even be the one sponsoring her education.

PropaMan:
What a self centred, greedy and lazy guy you are, you don’t have a business yet but you want to get married, I’m irritated by your guts, why can’t you find your own lady and grow with her, you already made up your mind to marry someone under two weeks, honestly you are a joke if you think you’ll succeed. Look at the way you’re comparing yourself with another man like a kid, fam let the girl be, she’s not for you.

Lamanii22:



I agree with you... If it's not rape... She surely likes that guy... My stepsister got pregnant too four years ago for a thug... Dirty looking... I can't imagine them hugging not to talk of kissing and eventually having sex... My mom was really upset... But each time they try to insult the guy, she protects him, she defends him all the time... The guy smokes Igbo oo and drink to stupor oo...


When she eventually gave birth... My mom was thinking she'd come home with the baby, she already prepared bath water and stuff... Not knowing that my stepsister has gone to the guy's place... To cut the long story short.. She's back at our house after that one has used beating to destroy her life.... He would tear her clothes on the street... Imagine... But she still loves me til date oo... So some girls are like that.. No matter the advises given, they would do that which is on their minds...

ehmmy11:
Mr Op when you marry this girl along the line when you guys have an argument she will always compare you to the opportunity she missed it will drive you crazy... Like someone said marriage don't last if the girl is stolen

She will always compare you to him and wish/think what would have been.. This opens the door for her to cheat with him...

NB: when you meet a new girl pls and pls find out if she is dating someone .. Serious or not factor it in your decision making

Auladimeji:
All of you advising these man are just wasting your time.

Those that are in love are hard to give advice because they won't listening, it's only heartbreak that can reset their brain

MartinsD12:

The way guys dey Mumu eeh is so foolish, you Wan live your life on competition with the other bigger guy, you on a gamble thing, girls will always go for the highest bidder

victorian:







Overtaking is allowed if she loves you and if she can stay faithful to you.

The other guy abroad may just be stringing her along. He may not even have serious plans in marrying her. His having houses and cars does not mean, immediately he comes back to Nigeria, he will marry her. He may not marry her.

So don't be fooled by it.

Most abroad guys are really not ready to settle down, but they know how to waste their gfs time in Nigeria.
. If she was so sure the abroad guy will marry her, she wouldn't even allow romantic feelings to get to this extent. But she wants backup just incase and her backup plan is you.

I see her as an Oliver Twist, her eyes her on the first guy cars and houses, which she's not sure may marry her.

And I bet you even after marrying her and if the guy comes back to Nigeria, she will visit him, he will fucvk her several times before delivering her back to you then travel back abroad. Or he May pressured her for marriage and that's when she will definitely leave you, if uv not gotten your own car and house by then.

So my friend, she is not the ideal woman for u.

Her eyes is still roving back and forth . May God help u sha. You are dating the wrong girl.

Lamanii22:
Front page please... It's a two way thing... Your business better booms and keep booming cause she would blame you later in life if it doesn't... And the only reason she's into you is cause you're an option.. And it's because the other guy isn't around... And if you really wanna keep her.. Just guard it... Be territorial... She has to be convinced that you're the one for her...

Ifakiland:
I didnt need to read your long story to know you're a weak ass pvssy controllable nigger....grow a pair, watch power or empire and focus on how the two lead actors carry and handle themselves. All these your stories ontop woman matter no worth am.

you get strength sha... My balls are intact

samdavjustin:
So you stole someone else GF and you don’t want to lose her lol. The same way you easily stole, same way someone else will steal her from you. Don’t rush things with her get your finances in order first no matter how long it takes before u marry her if she can’t wait let her go. In marriage love is only30% of it, money and mutual respect takes the higher percentage. A word is enough for the wise

samdavjustin:



Bro women don’t leave already made men for potential men ooo. Your love will be put to test when yankee guy comes back with money and gifts for her

Cholls:
My brother don't be a fool. If you're really sure you want to go down the aisle with that young lady, you'll have to test her loyalty. Or my brother, you think it's easy like you hope. Naaaah! Women are fickle minded.

Kingosytex:

There is no big deal here. Since you guys love each other, then go ahead and marry her. I quite appreciate your concern for your girl's guy abroad but you see my friend, life isn't easy or rosy_it is the survival of the fittest.

Love comes and goes. I believe that once a door closes then another opens. You either chose to be at the giving or receiving end. It is really up to you.

lekani4real:
My advice to you is that you should let go of that lady because she already has someone who she is dating. Sorry to say you are just the assistant to the chief boyfriend . The reason she is all over you now is because the other guy is not around.Don't be surprised that if the abroad guy proposed to her she would accept it without considering you. So in short, stay away from another man girl cos what goes around comes around.

Erediauwa:
Use your sense Waka sha....

Most of these ladies are masters of disguise, they'll come across to you like a beautiful butterfly, but they're more deadly than a bloodsucking bat.

Officialgarri:
First, I want to acknowledge your good use of tenses but secondly, have you kpanshed her yet? Cos that's the only trophy you would be able to show off WHEN she runs to her Yankee boyfriend?

Sikay19:

This is too much for me to read this morning. I will commen when i get the summary of the whole story from the comments section. Btw, try to proofread your post next time, too many typo error herein, good morning.

lilmax:
To be honest, expect the worst


I'm sorry but trust me, marriages don't last when the girl is stolen

She got options, you don't

She can leave at any moment, you can't do that

Forget love and focus on why she tried to get a hold of you at the first place and succeeded

Watch her closely, she's just for the moment kind of girl, even though you spoke to her mom, that doesn't mean sh!t

Erediauwa:
"She had told me she has a guy outside the
country who she said want to marry her, she
loves him but then, she doesn't know what is
going on because she can't seem to get over
me and she said she knows it's not infatuation."


















This is simply the "betrayal of trust" and a bitchy attitude from her.

Didn't she know that the dude hustling abroad was uneducated before saying "yes" to him?

And you Op, you're still putting your big head into another man's compound with the hope of chasing him out?

Damn dude, she sees you as the assistant technology boyfriend.

"Commot your hand for soldier man salary"

voltron14:


<sup>We should celebrate a man that thinks oilfields are chin chin they sell in Awka?

Counting oilwells.

You can have an oil well whose running costs surpass the products.

Illiterates thinking they have any knowledge of anything.

Mtcheew.</sup>

selfwife:
I think its as a result of leaving a STD untreated. or the lady needs to step up are hygiene.

patosky3310:
Who remembered in secondary schools were guys used to write in the walls of their former classes, words like, "Skyboy was here".

hazan041:
Even in university I still do this