Tajbol4splend:
These ladies and their drama, if we investigate thoroughly, she might not have met anyone cos a wise girl will mellow and wait till the shit is real, if it's true I wish you well shaa

Jeweltz:
Are nairaland boys even worth it?

I heard most of them are not nice. That's why I've been avoiding meeting them

Waymaker75:
Who says a Lady cannot take the bull by the horn, who knows, It might just be my lucky day... Am from Lagos state, 28years old,am funny, humble, Honest, God fearing yet very strict, I like to do things the right way, am a working graduate with BSc, though still hoping to further, wot else grin.. Am just an easy going human being, I dnt like issues or argument, am an introvert, I love movies, I prefer to listen then talk, I prefer been indoor then going out, one of the reason am still single I guess..
So here I am looking for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage soonest, no player or time wasters pls cus u won't even see my break light ones i notice any foul play undecided, he should from
Any tribe
Tall
Intelligent
Hardworking
Gentle
Humble
Honest
God fearing
U dnt need to be a millionaire but at least have a good paying job or business that can take care of an average family
We will work to make more money together
Only DM if ur certain u wana get married at the end of 2020
I promise you won't regret it.. Cheers
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Nomanlike:
Not all but most Yoruba guys are guilty of this

Anybody who have been in the midst of Yoruba guys must have noticed how loud and noisy they can be like TF can't y'all talk in low tones??

Back then in NYSC camp these yoruba guys that gathered themselves in a corner couldn't stop disturbing the whole building with there loud voice at 11/12pm everyday And the worst past is that they never converse with English.. Before you know it they will be shouting from end to end and if one tries to caution them they will start picking fights.. Anywhere Yoruha boys are gathered you must always notice them because they will be disturbing the whole place and are always talking on top of there voice. Thereby attracting unwarranted attention.
I see that as low self esteem issues though and joblessness because anyone who have (Has) something going for them can't be so uncivilised. (Something going for them)
If you are among those guilty of this take note and correct yourself.
Nigeria is hell enough stop polluting the environment with noise
Before y'all tribalise this trade its nothing personal just some candid sayings
Peace

WilliamsTheGrea:


Yes she doesn't. She doesn't even have friends, she is always at home most times, only goes out when I tell her we should go out or except she goes to her trainee work as an auxiliary nurse but she is done with that...

profolaolu:
Holy Spirit is the third person in the Trinity, He is the Spirit of GOD, given to whosever is willing and ready not by singing of memorizing a line of gibberish or speaking after some so called Pastors, there is nothing meaningful a CHRISTian I mean CHRISTian not church goers and bench warmers can do without the Spirit of God.

AshiraWealthy:


If I be a child of God, let your words work against you by the reason of the season im in.in Jesus name.

You brought it upon yourself.

40secondsMan:


40seconds is fine...tankyu!

EVILFOREST:

That's if the PUNNANY oozes ROTTEN FISH... yet still viable.
But if not Viable at all, then TOTAL PENISSS shutdown is inevitable

pocohantas:


Just send am over. I wouldn't need an excuse for that.

Address please.

pocohantas:
I like cakes, but most times- I buy them on my own. I like them that much. Sometimes I get as gifts too, irrespective of the season.

The kitchen is my favourite place in a house, so I LOVE KITCHEN WARES. Buy me a cute non-stick pot and I will fall in love.

I HATE CASH gifts. Very unmemorable.

Practical lasting gifts are memorable. Fashion items can suffice, if she is a fashion person. I am not, I only buy when the need arises and 90% are work clothes/shoes.

Anyway, depends on your budget and the lady in question. Wristwatches, perfumes, clothes, phones, knacks, flowers, dinner date, boat cruise..etc.

A friend once told me they were doing gift exchange at his office. He picked a lady and was fcking confused on what to buy as he was on a budget. I told him to get her a HAIR (HAND) DRYER. Mehn! You don't wanna see the message he sent to me at COB. It cost N6800, but the lady was the stargirl of the event. Lmao.

Is all this one because of Valentine? Thank God say na working day. Make I face my work.

masterP042:
Lol. I pity you guys that still worship God. Look at the state of nigeria and everything, does it look like he loves us? We need to free ourselves from religious shackles. There's no one up there looking over us, we are all on our own. Humans are the gods of this earth.

Tell us more

MrColdsweat:
For the past 10years, I've been in 3 long term relationships.

The first lasted for 3 years, she got pregnant for another guy.

The second lasted for 4 years, she was cheating with some stranger who promised her marriage. I had to walk away.

The third one. This is the 4th year in relationship. At the beginning, I knew she was promiscuous. I saw the signs. I tried to change her. At some point, I was convinced that she's changed. I didn't know she got smarter. She cheated a few times but I forgave her.

This night, I discovered that she's been lying to me. In the face of the truth, she was not only lying, she was being manipulative.
I had to end the relationship.

Though I messed up once, but I instantly called her to confess that I cheated and I told her to give me a punishment for cheating.

I don't know how to womanize. It's never been my nature. But I don't think I can continue this cycle of dating and heartbreak. This is 11years of committing to serious relationships.

I'm tired.

ammyluv2002:
Congratulations Tacha. Babe is loaded with business ideas.....her creativity is out of this world. You just have to give to her, hate or not hate.

Shugavee:
amazing write up !! I totally get it

I hope I'm now out of the "men are scum" shit

Shugavee:
u better say it or yes u are n u know it

Casemiro:





Good..



Just put yourself in his shoes.




How would you feel if you come back from abroad only to find the girl you both agree to marry with another man?





please try let him know on time to save a lot.



Remember, karma is real

Casemiro:



good...

did she finally tell the abroad guy?




to me, she should let him know so that he can start planning for another lady..
who knows, he might have ignored other ladies because of her.



What if he is the type that is true to his promises, only to come back home and find out with shock

Shugavee:
Where r the guys,, so only ladies get heartbroken abi? Meaning men r scums right ?

Casemiro:




op how far?



come update us

agulion:
Pls help a brother, a business that I make between 150k to 100k a very day ( a profit of 20k to 30k a day) here in Nigeria and opportunity to travel to Dubai working visa, which is better. Note married with two children

Who is this retrogressive fella? How do you say 150 to 100 Wtf!!

Bola146:


Go to sambisa

Bola146:


Thanks, go and hug transformer

Tallesty1:
What in fvck's name did I just read?


A Nigerian girl in love is usually honest to a fault dude.

keryj:
I'm still surprised at how people go about bringing their private life to the public for advice or judgment.

Now that most of them have end up twisting your mind on her honesty, i do hope you are happy, comfortable and at peace now.

Only you know your girl perfectly well, stop passing her to others who knows nothing about her for judgment.

excessmon:
Pls what’s d real meaning of the phrase “a typical Nigerian girl”

Over 87% of Nigerian guys have low self esteem

Bola146:


Exactly.. Also there is nothing like. " honest man" especially in Nigeria. Use your brain