₦airaland Forum

vislabraye:
Why didn't you just leave ??

But that's what she did yet frank couldn't stomach it typical of Nigerian men who derives pleasure from seeing women miserable,abused and unhappy in marriages they don't want you to leave them and move on yet can't treat you well 'won ni ki o je o ni eegun ni won ni ki o ju danu o ni eran die wa ni ibe'

If not that frank was tarnishing her image she wouldn't have spoken out frank should just keep shut and stop crying all about it isn't as if he is blameless and straight as rain too!

GloriousGbola:
amaka okeke


is this wife no 3 in the offing?

I pity her in advance any man who his wives keep leaving him is the problem so your situation won't be different why going to stock your neck in a palaver that won't end well?

vislabraye:
Why didn't you just leave ??

But she has left even for almost a year now it was the effeminate sissy of a frank who talks too much for a guy, couldn't just keep silent and wanted to wash his dirty linens in public

His pain was she dusted her behind still was whole,hale and hearty when she moved on since she didn't fall apart and go to obscurity like his first wife frank is a manipulative,narcissist just like many other husband's for naija who are never happy if a woman isn't encumbered, enslaved and miserable in a marriage same thing he did with his first wife typical of"If I can't have you anymore no other man should and no other place of employment should also have you either" thank God Sandra isn't a media personality like him na so he go make her loose her job like his first wife
sandra may not be a saint but frank is also a very bad man with character defects!!

Funny that was what tuface wanted to do to annie calling her toxic etc instead of him to to move on jeje now I can see how the other lady he lashed on too is giving him peace of mind .

Jman06:
Well, this is why it is always good to hear from both sides before passing judgements! If all she has said about Frank are true, then the man is not a saint afterall. He could not tame his third leg and be a responsible husband to his wife and father to his children!

Men must know that marriage is a responsibility not only to their wives and children but to the larger society! And every man in a marriage has a duty to provide direction for the marriage. But men who cannot control themselves would keep frolicking with irresponsible women out there and eventually ruin their marriages!

What's there in being faithful to one woman abeg? It's no big deal but some men would make it seem like a rocket science. How long does sexual pleasure lasts? 10 or 20 minutes max! And then someone would jeopardise his marriage, health and wellbeing of his children just for something as short-lived as sex?

Men and women of this generation should have sense please!

Is she his first wife?that was how he used to beat his first wife Katherine obiang ,cheat on her with Sandra and some other side chick then too this same frank also tarnished his first wife name,lied on her and made her loose her hosting gig job in the television and radio station even when she never said anything bad about him

meanwhile Frank was also living off and leeching on his first wife then o it was even her(the first wife)who connected him to the mtn who wants to be a millionaire job yet bragging and leaving a fake life

Olu317:
I am not a fan of Afrocentricism without evidence. In Yoruba cosmology, Africa does not exist in the account of creation or the time the world was destroyed by Flooding. How many African legends refers to Flooding destruction of the world?

Hardly will ever find cuneiform account which dated back to 5000 years in these places you mentioned .

I do not like assumption as people with pride on Africa without concrete evidence. Yes, Africa was part of the larger world when civilization evolved but not solely Africa.

The oldest temple where religion was ever acknowledged is in Turkey. So, do not replace fact with opinion.

Peradventure, you have evidence which surpassed the Obelisk in Sudan that dated to 15000 years, then showcase it.

There is the story of flooding in odu ifa meridinlogun(16)by professor ogunwande Abimbola can't recall the precise odu which stated this story meanwhile there are more than 16 odu but it was just those 16 the professor wrote on

Even there was 2 ife before this present Ile ife(out ife and ife oodaye)it was this world wide flooding that made the yoruba race moved from those 2 ifes to bow base in the present day Ile ife where the cradle of the Yoruba civilization and spread started from

Elzazzi:
Is Olodumare not the Lord of the heavens ? How is Elade different from Olodumare in the Yoruba language!

I think the eleda there means(ori) your sou/spirit l not adeeda the creator (olodumare or eledumare) most times if your soul isn't attuned or in agreement with what you need,pray or hoped for you may no6 get the thing if your Ori(eleeda) spirit isn't appeased

Eleeda is your ori while adeeda God(olodumare)is the creator they are different

Kog45:
Hmm,you expected a state assembly member to construct overhead bridge,even federal law makers failed to do so,abegi show us a federal law maker that constructed overhead bridge.

He was a federal law maker not a state assembly member wasn't gbajabiamioa a 2 time Lagos state house of assembly member? before he was voted into the federal house of representative in Abuja?yet he still performed 100 times more than desmond Elliot. desmond is just like your average nigerian outspoken, hypocritical and a strong critic if the government when they haven't gotten into the political office

But once they get there they are even more corrupt, greedier,and voracious than the older ones they met in politics

Nigerians and superstitions the weather is getting cold and chilled now reptiles are cold blooded and comes inside the buildings(churches,houses,offices) if their are bushes around to get warm.
last week thursday I wanted to open my office side door a very long thin green snake was coiled on the aluminum door,thank God I looked down I could have stepped on either it tail or head since part of the body was still on the floor

It was a cold day as it rained on the previous day

EleventhWeirdo:
I think it started from the kidney. A metastatic cancer will still be called by the name of it's primary location regardless of where it spread to.

I read he had colon cancer in 2016 which was cured probably it relapsed in 2024 and spread to his liver and kidney those 3 organs of the body are close

erad:
Sowore is now an irritant.

Dude has fallen off so bad.

How??I don't even like sowore but how is Ag also not an irritant? even a prideful insufferable one at that GEJ was the most lenient president Nigeria has ever had why hasn't Adekunle wish Tinubu dead too since he is even worse over 1000% than GEJ?but he wouldn't why ? because he is also nepotistic.

wellmax:
GEJ is a politician, politicians know people will abuse and insult them. People today insult Tinubu without any consequences.

But attacking the child of a private person is a no go area.

Let the guy rot in jail.

So no be mama born the GEJ too? which kind rubbeeshh talk be this? that adekunle is becoming too prideful,an irritant and insufferable I see how he insults his followers on Instagram and twitter especially during last bbn reality show period very saucy!!no difference from that frank Edoho even portable still has little decorum

You can never know the true character of a man until he becomes rich same AG wey if you put water for him mouth before you go meet am there,saw how he was trolling other artists like seyi vibes who dey always dey on his own jeje looking for fake respect everywhere as if respect isn't reciprocal.

Now becoming a irritant like portable with his always sounding the same wack music!!

I read on opera mini and Instagram he died of kidney cancer now it has turned to liver cancer?

Cock and bull story

pocohantas:
Sorry for him. Though I have no pity for men who betray the wife of their youth. When he left his wife for yellow sisi, I am sure he thought he has arrived. Next...🥳

Frank is also not a good person so I don't pity him at all frank that's is,rude saucy and sharp mouthed and insults people at will unwarranted !you know men with character defects will always blame the women in their lives,and never for their own lack of proper upbringing?they are never accountable for their actions and always claiming the victims!

once dated one like that who had married 4 times lied to me he had only married married once, before and that he only has 1 kid not knowing he already had 5 kids with 4 women though his first wife died,It was when i dated him I knew why his other 3 wives left and he would always badmouth his last wife to me then.I am sure is somewhere now brainwashing and badmouthing me to the next woman who will be unfortunate enough to date him!!

Franks parents did a bad job on him I am very sure frank is the problem!!

And the Edoho is a saint and perfect? 2 wives and none are still with him that means he is the problem he has attitudinal problem (prideful, saucy,and has a caustic tongue)the way he replies his followers and commenters on twitters and Instagram potrayed him as not being well brought up parents should also focus on their male kids when bringing their kids up it's not only the females that makes a marital life.

Twice I have seen how he insulted 2 people on twitter one of them just twitted on his page that people said he resembles frank Edoho and this guy was very cute 100 times more handsome than Frank yet if you see how frank washed him down I couldn't help pitying for him if he wasn't a strong guy he would have committed suicide frank verbally abused him emotionally and with words!!

Frank doesn't have manners at all see how nairaland guys are trashing Nigerian ladies as if many of the men don't have character defects too his first wife Catherine obiang has remarried yet she is still enjoying her marriage this is someone I even knew personally she is a sweet soul I wondered how she coped with Frank!

The 2nd wife knew about franks 1st marriage crises and crash yet thought his first wife was the problem,and that frank was an husband material she has learnt the hard way too now I am sure another lady is warming up to be the 3rd wife never mind the sentence frank made about beeing done with marriage just like that olakunle churchill guy a man who 2 or 3 wives have left him is always the problem!

Schprobs:
Can u break down how an average Nigeria should survive on 150k salary monthly
Food
Accommodate
Transport
Data

You dey mind him maybe he is one of those private school proprietors who also pays their staffs slavery wage yet will have the guts to condemn the government how are they different from them?

SmartyPants:
You are only deceiving yourself. Tosin is made for life. Before Moniepoint he was already a senior tech bro. As of today, he has already made generational wealth and even if moniepoint disappears today he will take less than 30 minutes to get a top job anywhere in the world. Your threats mean nothing...think!

Is that tosin behind that moniker?as you dey reply everybody no go change your ways even if you establish any Fintech job abroad and you don't pay them well there they will deal with you because those ones aren't docile and take rubbish and they aren't suffering and smiling like naija people!!

the dark continent men always wanting to exploit and reap off the sweats of their kinds yet can't renumerate their kinds who made that fortune for them.

see you saying yet you can't reason your government bla bla ba na government employ them?or because say government dey maltreat them make private owners too dey mistreat them?'ti iya nla ba gbe eni sanle kekere a gun ori e'

Oyindamolah:
The bolded . I have worked remotely and this was what I had to unlearn and I am forever grateful to that Indonesia company.

Tosin sounds like private school proprietors who wants to employ degree holders and pay them sec school leaver wages yet when the degree holders refuses he calls them lazy I taught in a private school where the start up pay was 18k during buhari era I could afford to do that because feeding,house rents,etc were on my parents and it was a walking distance to my house because I was still under their roof,and also was under Npower pay roll could a married man with kids who had to still transport himself do that? only transportation will gulp that 18k even those of us who remained in that school the workload was much on us the principal handed 8 subjects because oju e ko ni gba and didn't want the name of that school to spoil yet was paid a measly sum of 23k with insults and no appreciation if you sell 4 bags of water and 5 crates of soft drinks everyday you know how much you make in a week if you have that option as a graduate why will you opt for a slaving job?

only in naija you will see a nigerian owned company CEO expecting a graduate to have 7 years experience without training you don't want to spend money to train and mentor your employees yet you call them lazy and unskillable not even fortune 500 companies (oracle google,Microsoft,apple)does that!

Foreign companies in Nigeria before and the early years of independence even goes to recruit graduates from the universities especially UI and Unilag trains,and mentors them on the job I read mko abiola memo he said the first job he got in Nigeria when he left Scotland as a graduate was in Nigerian brewery and he was mentored,trained,sent for courses overseas also nestle,oil companies such as chevron,shell bp,emzor and unilever when they were still in Nigeria does that too.

Nigerian CEO makes billions off the sweats of their employees yearly but can't splash a little fraction of it on those employees yet will pay millions on foreign expatriates who aren't even that qualified I know how chevron and nestle pampers their employees (paid vacations,paid airfare(flights)paid health care for their staffs and family members quality and substantial gifts like refrigerator,deep freezer big party food warmer,rice cooker, electric jug etc after every 10 and 15 years (my aunt's husby worked and retired in Chevron I have a relative working in Nestle too!!funny enough when the Tosin eniolorunda saw those(tech guys)who had acquired the work experience and skills themlves with their money he couldn't pay their worths you expect a person who earns 500k for a remote tech job in a week where he is free to do other jobs to settle down for a 100k monthly salary job? where he will be in the office 9-5?

And you and the Tosin sounds like people who has made some change,become more privileged and starts seeing othersas lazy and unambitious.You said you were paid some dough in your remote Indonesia job weren't you trained on the job before you could perfect your skills?

Naija CEO go blame tinubu and his cohorts yet dem dey more evil even the white foreigners have more conscience if mtn was owned by a Nigerian he won't pay that amount of salary to his employees

esnbrutality:
All these underhand statements are irrelevant..

Go and protest that TINUBU appointed only YORUBA in a Country of different ethnicities. Dont hide behind reasoning about TINUBU and calling out the IGBO man that is a NIGERIAN and decides to empower his constituents.

As long as NIGERIA is 1 country..everyone can do as they please...

Buhari did it
Tinubi is doing it

Why shout because the IGBO man did it?

Its that simple..

But you castigated buhari and tinubu for doing that nah aren't you an hypo hypo? finish it

ottersberger:
That is dividend of democracy, why una dey cry?. Tinubu and Sanwo can send the rest. That man was voted in there by majority of his constituents who are Igbos, and you want him to benefit those who are busy shouting omo ibo must leave Lagos?.

so why were your people crying about tinubu filling all his tribes men in political posts since you didn't vote for him(Tinubu) too?you think say una dey wise!what is good for the geese is also good for the gander!

esnbrutality:
So people learn from Tinubu that flooded the whole of Nigeria with Yoruba, but igbo man empowers his constituency members you bring tribe into it?

Support Biafra and have Peace...

Haba!

If tinubu did that is it right for others to do that also infact how many people from tinubu's part did you see supporting that only the 30k per month media crew of his no sane person will support that since suffering and poverty no know any ethnic group I can never support any politician from any political party or tribe if he/she isn't doing well even if he is my relative because when he/she loots the national treasury he won't share parts of it for me

My grouse isn't even because he did that but that you people are even supporting him una must support una own for bad things but deride others for doing so what Ahmadu bello an Akintola said about you in 1965 were all true

Hope all those woke Lagosians lambasting Ahmadu bello then their eyes have opened now?must you take your hosts hospitality and levity for mumuism?

Been to Ekiti (home state)
Oyo(Uni)
Niger(Nysc)
Kwara
Edo(born there)(Auchi precisely)
Ondo
Osun
Anambra(onitsha)
Ogun
Lagos
Kogi(boarding sec sch)

integrity16:
I ask you again, Is the igbos the only tribe in his constituency? Did he announce the training opportunity to others and they refused?

Nawah oo if he had announced it to the other ethnic groups in that constituency how could they have refused?I am not even particular about the Yoruba indigenes there what about the edos,hausas,itsekiri,ijaw,tiv groups there? why weren't they included or na only yoruba and ibo dey for oshodi/isolo the way you people support injustice is what infuriates and irritates me the most!!

Despite I am from ekiti I knew how I campaigned,lambasted my family members and canvassed for labour party and obi in 2022 but now I don see una agenda a leopard can never change its spots I have ways been disgusted and voicing out how tinubu have been doing his lopsided appointment here because I am detribalized and I want better for everyone be it itsekiri,nupe tv,idoma ijaw,Benin etc but as a yoruba adage will say"adaniloro o man fi agbara ko eni ni' please keep this energy when you are being dished in your own coin because everyone is gonna luurnn the hard way!!

cuteboy2:
Nigerian constitution does not list "indigenous" as criteria to register as a voter or stand for election as a candidate. Wherever you reside, work, do business and pay tax, you can register to vote and stand for election there.

Do you gerrit sir?

By the way, are the following indigenes of Lagos?

1. Bola Ahmed Tinubu
2. Olamilekan Adeola
3. Rauf Aregbesola

Also please study the attached to further educate yourself on eligibility to vote and stand elections in Nigeria.

I am not even particular about that but why didn't you voice out when those 2 middle belt northerners were discredited and jeered at here with their campaign posters because they contested for councillorship and chairmanship positions in ebonyi state? these men were born,bred, educated and had invested in buisness in that place o yet you guys ridiculed them and they weren't even voted for you insulted them by saying they aren't indigenous to ebonyi you never quoted that part of the constitution you posted up there then, the news was on front page twice here in 2015 so you can't even deny seeing it.

una no like to swallow quarter of the bitter pills you dish out I wondered if those men were contesting for senators and governors then how all hell would have been let loose ?Ebonyians never even minded they wanted to vote for them because they are liberal and free but you guys poisoned their mind I fear who no fear una!!

But seriously!! seun I don't understand what's is racist in me pointing out how unfair 2 Hausa men born,bred,and invested in ebonyi state who contested for councillorship position there in 2015 were discredited and not voted for because they weren't from there yet their kinsmen represented isolo/oshodi constituency units and sent almost all his people to china and yer he is supported here whereas oshodi and isolo are peopled with oluomo,esi oluwo,eletu odibo oshodi tapa prominent igbomina Lagosians/awori families a tribalist comments that I was banned for a short time here?

Twice I was banned yesterday what's is incisive in that? should we be scared of voicing out our concerns now because of being terrorised by your auto bots? you need to look into your moderators funny enough when they make their own comments they are never punished what's the justice and equality there I never even insulted anyone no wonder almost every nairalander have abandoned this site for Twitter now X.

This is not the first time this have been happening 'mo tin fi se osun mo fi n para' but I won't let this slide today so some certain segments of the country can deride and voice their opinions but other segments can't?

GEJDHERO:
How is preparing food at home more expensive?..i dont understand.Have u eaten out lately ??the average u can get for a plate of food now is 3k ...dey play.Cooking at home is better off oo.

maybe in your area because in my ekiti town here (Ijero) eating out is very cheap only you wipp eat to your satisfaction like when you cook it yourself

Truvelisback:
I disagree with number 4. Now, preparing meal at home is more expensive than eating out but preparing your meal home is more satisfying.

very true

Kalulu44:
I am an Igbo man though born and brought up in Lagos. In as much as I agree what this Mr Okey did was wrong in all ramifications. But it can only happen in Lagos State. No other Yoruba state except Lagos will accept this and do you know why, it's bcus Igbos too have invested so much in Lagos.
Ask yourself this question, don't you think the Oshodi/Isolo people voted for him so that they can get more of Igbo people's patronage?
.
Lastly, like I said it can only happen in Lagos State but never in the other Yoruba speaking state. I onced stayed in Oshogbo, there's a spare part market that was banned from Igbo people to own a shop there.
That should tell you something

If that can only happen in Lagos at least Lagos is still an indigenous yoruba state so they have tried can you allow that in any of your state?I Know of 2 Hausa men who contested in Ebonyi state these guys were born,bred,educated and have invested in that state(ebonyi) yet I saw how they were ridiculed and jeered at and they were eventually not voted for the story was posted here on front page like 2015 or 2016.


You people only lament when you aren't the ones doing the dominations!
Because I saw you mentioning investment up there na people wey no know una your matter go dey surprise anyway those people are gonna lurrn the hard way.