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Number 9.....

I am unmarried but I totally agree.

Thanks. Somebody explained it. I thought I was missing some sort of system within the forum.

Childbirth was easy for me.. For medical reasons I had to get an epidural.

I received a few emails stating somebody wanted to send me a message but I was not connected. What does this mean? Is there a private message option on this forum? If so how do I use it?

If she had it the first two months then you got played. Clear up an confusion with her. She may just have medical problems.

ibhena: lol, are you for real? Cos most of them get that even without...

I do not joke. But you are right. Some (maybe most?) Get it without. I think the reason is that women and hardwored to be nuturers. They desire a family to take care of. YMMV

For the s.x

The first test could have simply been taken too early. Have her take another test.

Nobody should be "rewarded" for doing their part as a member of the family. I agree with dominique that a simple "thank you" should suffice.

Extra protein

My most sincere apologies if I have offended anyone. It was not my intention. Growing up as an American we are often told from a very early age not to marry a foreigner because they will use you and marry you for the green card. We are also told that if a foreigner is seeking love inside the US then it is for the green card. I believe in some cases this is true. However, I also believe the opposite. I am willing to step out on a limb and marry a "foreigner" for love, but at the same time what has been pounded into my head has me fearful of that "love" turning into a betrayal.

@birdman He does have a job and is supporting himself currently.

@FlowerPower Thank you for the response. I would not mind relocating to Nigeria. I think the culture is great and the food is fabulous. The man in question knows that I would not mind moving to Nigeria, but at the present time I am unable for various reasons.

I am not "Akata" and all Americans (Akata or not) do not feel that way.

Mrs.Chima:
If it is one Nigerian man then I suggest you focus on him and zee if he wants you for you and not the papers you can give him.

Each Nigerian man is different and I got a good one.

Good luck.

Thank you. I just don't want to be duped because I like this man very much...dare I say love him.

Mrs.Chima:
You are attracted to Nigerian men as in plural or a Nigerian man?

There is a particular one. He does not fit the categories mentioned.

Perhaps I should have asked if it was probable?

Really no harm meant.. Just a girl attracted to Nigerian men, but as an American you could see how that may lead to the green card issue, eh?

It matters not where they are from.. One should know their partner and not make a habit of sleeping around.

Is it possible for a Nigerian man to fall in love with an American and NOT fall in love with the green card?

Thoughts?

REALITY101: I hate fat chicks lawd. . This kinda reminds me of some episode in family guy. . . . The sickening part is, em fat asses consumes over 2000 calories in a day. . If you weigh more than 141 lbs shawty you're fatty..

I'm an American who consumes over 2000 calories in a day. The number is actually closer to 2,500 but they are used as fuel for my body. I workout heavily as a long distance runner.