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Ubunja, I have encounter this situation before. according to her, she is going to see someone that night then she will spend tomorrow night with me. she call me but i didn’t do anything with her, because she say I will pay her. The second girl said the same thing we exchange number I told her to call me when she is free and lonely but she hasn’t called till now

Happy birthday ubunja, wish you good things in life and more wisdom

Hello guys, I want you guys to help me out in some aspect of choosing signal( greenlight). I am a pharmacist I spend most of my time in pharmacy that is were I make friends with girls I do hangout with, especially when they come to buy drugs or cosmetics like perfume and other thing. when they come to buy drugs and other things I do have nice conversation with them, make them laugh and exchange contact. Which I suspect to be choosing signal(greenlight), because some of them do not want to have conversation with me always in a hurry to buy and go. The ones that exchange contact with me when I call them on phone we will talk and laugh and also they like to hangout with me but they will not like to involve sex. Some of them get angry when I tell them that sex will be involved when we hangout. while some I will spend on them before we will have sex which I want to stop. How can I know a geniune greenlight and how do I improve myself to attract more geniune choosing signal(greenlight), because very soon I will start working in the hospital and from hospital to pharmacy store

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@ubunja, in a situation, where you want to have Sex with a girl that is your friend, how can you let her know that you dnt do kiss and tell..

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Oga putit I have spent alot. This is my g-mail unclemico1@gmail.com, help ur brother with d tips

[quote author=putit post=63666606]A very long post, but If you're smart you learn a lot from it.

The only time you are allow pay for sex is when the girl identifies herself as a 'prostitute'. A prostitute is a woman who engaged in sexual inter course for money. So If you approach a prostitute for sex, you must pay, so you wouldn't be embarrassed..

If a woman does not identifies herself as a prostitute, I don't see any reason why you should be giving her money.

Now let me tell you few solid reasons why giving a woman money in hope of sleeping with her is totally useless...>.
Recent research and studies as found that women (especially in their 20s) earns more than men of same age. You might be doubting, but there's truth in that study. 3 month ago my cousin(a guy)went for a job interview at a notable company. About 17 job seekers (graduates) showed up for the interview. 8 were ladies while the rest were men. According to my angry cousin, After the interview, when the results was out, 7 out of 8 the ladies got employed, and 1 other guy. The rest on them were placed on PENDING. He was angry because he was sure he performed well at the interview.
He( my cousin) said the only dude who got the job has an uncle who works in that company. In fact that was reasons the dude was able to secure a job..

Now, I'm not going to judge only based on my cousin's experience. Speaking from my personal experience and some of my close friends experience, women are mostly favoured when it comes securing and getting jobs.. That was why I was not so surprise when I heard ( on a Television program) that women earn more than men.
You see, Currently the average 25 years old lady is richer than the average 25 years old dude..

That's one reason why treating a woman with any financial favor in order to share her company romantically or sexually is totally useless..

I'll tell you another reason why it's foolish to do so.


A years ago, about 2 days to Xmas, I met a very good and close friend of mine. A lady. No doubt, she's a very beautiful lady, even without makeup. While we were discussing, I told her she must celebrate Christmas for me. She gave me her (ATM) Card and told me to take 4k from her account.
I happily hurried to the nearest bank to withdraw the cash. After withdrawing the cash, I decided to check her account balance. My GOD!!, she has almost a million in her account. I was SHOCKED.
I was shocked because she was not from a rich family and as at that time, she just started working at a small industry and she has just worked for only 6 month month. Her pay is not even up to 50k naira..

When I got back to her, After confessing to her about checking her account balance. I playfully confronted her on how she got that huge money.. She's was honest with me. She said most of the money are from MEN

Now, If you're guy reading these, in your mind might be screaming "slut"..But that's far from the Truth, not all beautiful girls are slut. Don't be stupid.

Pay attention to these....>

She confessed something to me ( I already know from my personal experience with women). She told me she does not need to have sex with a man for the him to give her any financial favor. While she spoke I listen to her curiously, she said all she has to do is to flash the guy FAKE GREENLIGHT, and with that she'll extorting cash from him..

Fake Greenlight from a girl means;; she's sincerely does not find you attractive and not interested in you sexually or romantically but will PRETEND she is, in order to obtain financial favor (or any other kind of favour) from you..
The Truth is most women are like that, especially the ones in their 20s..

You might be thinking in your head " this is so unfair, women are heartless, women are selfish, women are wicked, women are bitches, women are bla bla bla bla bla"..Lol

Don't be silly bro, women didn't point gun at your face and forced you to spend your energy and MONEY on them. That was you own decision.

That's another reason you should never feel obligated to spend on women.

Let me tell one more reasons you should not feel obligated to spend money on a girl you are interested in sexually or romantically.

Another reason is ' WOMEN LOVE SEX'.

Yes, women love sex as much as men love sex..DON'T BE DECEIVED.

Back in the days before I even got admission into the university, I use believe women will only agree to have sleep with you if you're RICH, or let me say I used to think women will only have sex with you If you spend a significant amount of money on them. It was when I grew some BALLS and start meeting and dating women, I realized that believe was false.

In fact, It was not until I started sleeping girls whom their boyfriend is richer than me, and I was not even spending any huge significant of sum of money on the women, I discovered that "believe" that women will only date or have sex with you if you're rich is totally false..

That's is it guys, never feel obligated to spend on a lady even if she's your girlfriend or you want to make her girlfriend or any other reason.

Final note;
Don't get me wrong, I never say you must never spend money on her. If you want to spend money on her, do it on your TERMS, do it because you just felt like spending on her at that moment, that's because she has really impress you at that particular period and feel she deserves a reward.

Please never feel obligated to spend on woman SIMPLY because she's a woman and she has boobs and fine ass..

Guys should work and build them self to the MAN they want to become..


Work hard and be wise.






Oga putit, you said that you dnt spend much on girls you have Sex with. Please I would like to know all the things you do that makes them have Sex with you apart from spending money on them? Please I would like to know tell me

Will take you to that isolated and naughty land, are sure you can handle my big cucumber? Becos u might became addicted after tasting. But it is not free you hv to pay for my services...

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Novelistguy, when I approach girl this is the line I use, hello girl, I stop to say hello because you walk with attitude and it caught my attention a bit. I will tell her my name and also that I will like us to meet again then I will tell her let me have your number. BRO, I would like to know some lines you are using when you approach girls.

bro, I was the guy that told you about the girl that refused to kiss me almost 3 times I try to kiss her and after some days wen I was going to read I saw her seating down when she first see me she smile at me but when I come closer to greet her she start to form serious telling me I should not disturb her that she is reading. after a week or two weeks I can't remember again, I gave her two miss call but she didn't pick and she didn't return the call and I haven't chat her on WhatsApp. but before she normally return my call but she always return my chat. after the last miss call I gave her I haven't call again, because according to the rule you said we should only call when we want to see the girl or set a date. unlike before I normally called to know how her day went and to gist with her on phone. but there is one thing after since I met this girl we have seen like two times that was after I met her new she start to give excuse after the second met. but I suspect while she always give excuse because after the last met she said I should buy for her coke to drink but I refused to buy it but I later buy the coke for her when we come back from easter break that was when we are preparing for exam I was just passing by and I see her reading we talk a bit cracking joke she said I should buy her coke that was when I bought the coke for her. anytime I tell her let see she always bring up excuse but what surprised me about her is that anytime she see me even though she is with someone she will stop and greet me very well I don't know if am the one making the mistakes and I want to call her so that we can see. Bro, tell me what to do in every stage so that I will even make love to her.

there is a girl in my department she is my junior I like her but I have not tell. She always reply my chat anytime we chat but she always give excuse anytime I tell her let see. There is a day after am done reading as I was going to hostel I saw her in one class watching movies with her tab, so I went and join her we gist and we laugh I also touch her but when I want to kiss her she just removed her face and smile, after some time I try again she did d same thing and third time I try to kiss her she bend down her face and start laughing, she was laughing and she said that she will shout rape she was just saying it as a joke. I see her today she smiled at me as I go closer to greet her I first look inside one class before I came closer to her, but she didn't give me attention again she was just forming busy with her book, when I touch her  bag she told me to stay one place that I should go and see the person I want to see, I became surprised the person that just smiled at me. I just stand and leave..I don't know the cause of her anger today maybe I was suspecting the time I look inside that class before coming closer to her and some guys are approaching her.. please tell me what to do I want this girl to fall in love with me?

Sorry for disturbance, there is a girl in my department she is my junior I like her but I have not tell. She always reply my chat anytime we chat but she always give excuse anytime I tell her let see. There is a day after am done reading as I was going to hostel I saw her in one class watching movies with her tab, so I went and join her we gist and we laugh I also touch her but when I want to kiss her she just removed her face and smile, after some time I try again she did d same thing and third time I try to kiss her she bend down her face and start laughing, she was laughing and she said that she will shout rape she was just saying it as a joke. I see her today she smiled at me as I go closer to greet her I first look inside one class before I came closer to her, but she didn't give me attention again she was just forming busy with her book, when I touch her  bag she told me to stay one place that I should go and see the person I want to see, I became surprised the person that just smiled at me. I just stand and leave..I don't know the cause of her anger today maybe I was suspecting the time I look inside that class before coming closer to her and some guys are approaching her.. please tell me what to do I want this girl to fall in love with me?

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