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This match is intense and interesting... I love the pressure from both side

Even if we are to try again at night, how about the thumb printing

narite:
Hahahahaha. you got job, you got shop, you saved and yet never making upto a million naira even with the whole devaluation. This sounds comical.

You won't understand...

No doubt my expense has been in millions... But I have not looked at my account and see 1 million naira without house rent, and some kind bills claiming a stake to that money.

Amazingly, I don't do many extracurriculars that drain money.

That's my concern, I heard some are not for Nigerians

For the strong hearted

Visited this thread first over 6 years ago, I was motivated, inspired and I closed nairaland.

I worked hard... Tried saving.
Left nairaland
Quit my job... Started business.
Closed my shop... Tried saving
Got married... Lived comfortable
Had my child... Business drought
Returned to nairaland

But still I've not seen my first one million.

What business do in venture into like this Abi I need deliverance.

bizbro:
Yep. Don’t give up. Stay in the game. This is still the best business in the world!!

Bro can you guide me into this biz

Pls share to me here if you can:
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MALIGNANTGuest:
The JOY is suspicious!
Happy for what exactly?
Is he really going there to serve?
IF yes, why this level of JOY when elections are yet to be conducted.
What will his JOY be like thereafter, if he wins the main election?

Una too find fault.
Except you're a sadist you will celebrate every victory in a competition.

Go learn from Dbanj or Desmond Elliott

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I'm an interior decor and I want to establish a window blind assembling factory here in Port Harcourt.

I'm contemplating importing the required goods from China but with the current state of affairs I'll most likely Purchase from importer.

However, this post is intended to seek advice from people in same business:

What do you think is best?
Focus on Purchase outside or just start directly with available sources here in the country.

Also I am soliciting for finance, any spare cash that could fly into pursuit with a plan to repay in the nearest future if you desire is appreciated.

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TarOrfeeek:
Classic Animal Kingdom school

Only the Fit will survive (in this case, financially fit)

Because I don't see any reason why students would have enough time to beat a fellow student to the point where his liver will be enlarged.

And also points to the fact that there was no proper disciplinarian in the school. (No lights out, no hall master, no year head)

Also that the teachers themselves were respectful of the culprits due to the wealth and social standing of their parents. (Looking for tips and handouts from them during visiting days)


Nothing like a Good, Government School. Where regardless of your wealth and standing, a hot headed teacher can slap celestial beings into your damaged brain.

Some government school teachers are brutal and have wrongfully treated children without a genuine reason.

Those days at GOCOVI our VP wrongfully punished me for a crime I'm innocent of, even threatened to put my name in school black book list. I couldn't sleep for over a week.

Even my math teacher flogged me for not answering completely a 100 question math he requested we solve, not normal flogging oh, I was flogged like police would flog an adult criminal.

God forbid my kids going to public school, I'm not against flogging children but it should be done with caution.

hkidola00:
u are a fool

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motionarena:
Hi guys will like to know

Have you quit your job before because you where fed up and not necessarily because you found another place.

I am thinking of doing same would like to know from experience how did you cope before finding something else to do.

I did December last year, I never felt the impact until mid March. It was like jumping out of fire into ice. I almost turned ice cause there's no disrespect nor poor pay but there was an empty pocket to contend with.

I tried reviving my Interior business but it seems like the ice has created thick wall between us. I was tempted to call back my company to request return but I pride won't let me. My Chinese boss will always say there's no job in Nigeria if you want to leave, you can there are many Nigerian begging for your role with even lesser pay.

Well ₦30,000 monthly plus disrespect can't take care of a family or sponsor a wedding in Nigeria I thought within me. So I held my chest tight and promise to slide on the ice rather than dying at a spot cause of cold.

Make your choice, choose wisely but just know that the sky is wide but only few people can afford flight to fly through it, others just look up to the sky in admiration.

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Iseoluwani:
u are a good writer. tell grsce the truth and break up.

Awful advice

PERVENCHE:
*NOTE
With all due respect, I have changed names and some too familiar details about myself out of respect for my wife to be. I know she likes to catch cruise on nairaland.

My name is Friday (of course not my real name) I am from the middle-belt. So please save your tribalism with all those una Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa insults. I met Grace(my wife to be) few years ago. It was love at 1st sight. She was everything and is still everything I had hoped a woman should be. There is this crass about her that makes her effortlessly better than any lady around her. My type in the true sense of the word. Tall, busty, curvy, sassy, elegant, personable and above all, she has a graceful soul. From the 1st date to this day, I still pinch my self like.. What in God's green earth is a beauty like her doing with a shrek like me.

But then, true perfection is always a utopia. Grace in all her graceful demeanour and aura, has a flaw; Indecision! More so, blind trust seems to be her albatross. (I swear she can even take Lai Muhammad's word to the bank) Though, I still love her; flaws and all. Her complete or should I say blind trust for me and Abigail became one of the reasons Abigail(her younger sister) has become an unending chapter in our relationship. Even though the blame of what happened squarely falls on me.

Abigail just shy off 20, is too savvy for her age. Not the outright outstanding beauty like my Grace. What ever little she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for it in her mentality. For she is truly a smart and an intelligent girl. Just five years younger than Grace. One who expect them at least to be close and be like Asaba and Onisha but then...they are the direct opposite of each other. While Grace is the introverted shy person, Abigail is quite the extrovert and likes to make friends for Africa. It is only fair to believe their formative time in secondary school played a part in their output towards life. Grace likes to conform like most day school students. Abigail on the other hand, is the boarding school nightmare all parents hope not to experience: the deviant.

Through the 1st years we dated, Abigail was in secondary school and was never in the picture. For some odd or strange reason, Grace was not ready to fully commit. Not that I blame her or something. At 23, Most girls her age are like Alice in wonderland; they crush on celebrities and Chase childhood dreams and fantasies. The vile ones, if truth be told...tend to live out their hoė phase. At 28, I was already grounded to know what I wanted and it was Grace and marriage. Sometimes, you do all you can do but then life has a way of throwing in a curveball. More over, "No be say because I wan chop egg I go begin dey worship chicken." Sensing her shakara, I pulled the hand brakes on us and walked out of the relationship.

***2 years later***
Fortunately or unfortunately after letting go, Grace became incensed and started to want me back. I hardly do any social media at this point. Pride won't let her call me, so there was no way to send coded messages on whatsapp status to me. Being the introvert that she is and the all trusting graceful Grace, she started to send Abigil over to my place to bridge the gap. In just over two years, Abigail had changed and developed into a sexy hippie bohemian. Not that I fancy her in any erotic way or something. It's just that in our contemporary naija society where mostly everyone conforms, it is hard not to notice a bohemian.

Knowing I would do no better than Grace even with a million dollars and in a hundred years of searching, I mended fences with Grace and our relationship became stronger than ever. Over time, Abigail became a bridge between us. At first, Grace would send her over to run errands for her. After a while, it became a second nature for her to come over and fidget with my electronics. Courtesy demands you be nice to your in-laws to be and so I was nice to Abigail.

Abigail's posturing over time made it difficult for me to say no to her especially during them Nengi and Laycon days in the house. She was a fan of big brother lockdown. And would always ask for my keys to watch the silly show for she was equally as silly to be gushing over that vanity fair. Grace seems not have any issues with her coming over and I also did not for I was hardly home and God knows the sub was kinda wasting away.

There are some things in life that are not planned. They just happen! My boss at work then tested positive for Covid and we were all asked to quarantine at home. Grace still had to go to work while Abigail was always free because of the ASSU strike. Suddenly, I started to be alone with Abigail. She would come over "for big brother" around 9am and leave around 7pm in time to beat her curfew at home. It was awkward staying all day with Abigail. Grace too predictable, only comes over on Sunday. For some strange reasons, on Sundays, Abigail will never show up.

There were times, and I am sure it could just be my imagination, that she enjoyed teasing me. She would come dressed like a sister Mary Amaka from home but after a while, she would take her bath and transform into a Kardashian. Wearing skimpy cloths and heavy make-up. I tried to give her her space. I was in quarantine and therefore, had practically no where to go. I am basically the type that don't flock with co-workers and I hardly keep any friends except for Grace. I am not one to be neighbourly with my neighbours so I was stuck with Abigail all day. Humans are social animals and we tend to gravitate towards each other especially when we are alone with someone. Gradually, she won me over and I started to watch the big brother show with her. While she was rooting for Nengi after her Erica left, I was simply for Neo for he had my height. And the bond between us grew. God knows I had no vile motives and evil intentions. It is hard not to enjoy Abigail's company for she is a smart, gleeful and witty girl. While I do all the talking with Grace, Abigail on the other hand does all the talking with me and it was a welcome change.

*** D Day ***
It became obvious Abigail was not telling the truth at home. She would pick their calls and tell them she was in her female friend's house. And in the spirit of our new found big brother bond. We kept the secret. On this faithful day, it had rained all day and Nepa had struck and the plug in my generator was no good. The rain had brought with it a cool breeze and some magical thunder. Seemingly, we could not watch our show so I took a blanket because of the cold and buried my attention on my PC (laptop) re-watching season 5 of the game of thrones.

Naively, Abigail joined me and entered the blanket with me. I use the word 'naive' because I honestly do not want to qualify her as a minx. And I know she does not see me as a Justine Bieber of a crystal ball for her to be drooling at. While in that warm blanket watching the movies in such compromising position, One thing led to another and alot of that one thing opened up her Pandora's box and I... I ate the most forbidden fruit there ever was. There is no telling how wonderful making love to her was at the heat of the moment and there's no shame in the world that equates to the shame that immediately dwell and still dwells in my soul shortly after even to this day. There's a lot to blame our mistake and betrayal on. Could it just be the moment? the weather? the chemistry? the devil? (laughs) my opportunistic habit? Her feminine warmth in such close proximity? my placing a hand on her thigh and meeting no resistance? My foggy mind and grown erection? Her racing and panting heart? Her feisty zeal and deviant nature? My libido? Hers? My morals? Buhari? Herdsmen? IPOB? Sunday Igbahor? Dstv and big brother? NEPA? Game of thrones? Was she after all really a minx? In all fairness, she is just a little naive girl that does not deserve to be pilloried for my betrayal. As the adult, I should have known better and acted a lot better.

Climbing down from our lustful climax, we both knew immediately what we had done, the gravity and the implications it could have on not just us, but grace and the whole family. In the most contrite way possible, we apologized to ourselves and vowed never to repeat it again. We felt it would be better not to tell Grace or anyone and we agreed Abigail would stop coming over. I started to avoid Abigail at all cost. I did not just release cum after my despicable act with Abigail, I released every thing good in me and every form of happiness. I felt much less of a man and wished I had died as a child or better still was aborted.

I hardly could face Grace after. The more I try to ghost her, the more she held on tightly. It became awkward visiting their family house for I was not comfortable around them trusting and accepting me. Not for the fear that they would find out...just my conscience eating me up. I stayed away and made peace with my gross mistake. For over six to seven months. I did my penance and nothing happened with Abigail. I know I am in a better place now to make sane decisions about cheating. To give something back to Grace, I have vowed never to sleep with anyone till die. We know how cheating amongst married men is common these days. I no call Adekule Gold name oh!

Me and Grace are set to marry on the 17th of this April. The thing is...Abigail is her chief bridesmaid and preparation demands I see her most times. She still has a look in her eyes...dunno what to make of it. A look of blackmail? Of you could still hit it if you want? We have unfinished business kinda look? You should be paying a bride price for two look? I die inside every time I see Grace happy she again got us back to talking terms because of the wedding. Ignorance is truly bliss.

I have doubts going through with this wedding. Folks may laugh and say I chickened out because of the inflation and money, others might blame Grace. It may ruin Grace for ever. How do I do this knowing Abigail will always be family?

I enjoy your write up, story looks so good to be true. In same vein a million advice must have passed through to your mind.

If the story is really the case, there's chances that you might sleep with her again if you don't take right steps, but pls don't call off the wedding and don't tell Abigail.

If Abigail is an introvert add you said, she might say she has forgiven but the scar of your lustful act will forever remain on the wall of her heart and your marriage.

Just build a hedge in your mind that makes you never do such again. How on earth do you think you will keep chicken at home with with a plate of rice open without it being touched. Keep distance with her biko. No more confined area.

Comfort zone promotes sex like fuel does to fire. If you allow yourself to be trapped with her alone Again it will certainly happen, and gradually the guilt will fizzle off until you lost more than just your conscience.

Body no be firewood! Urge* no get shoulder.

By the way, I don't know your view on this but I think you should find Christ. As in just try read Bible small, even if it's just all of Matthew or John. The rest will be taken care of. �

Binance:
when club football return....Turkey used 1.14 odds n draw yesterday,,,,got burnt.

I have no trust on these international league mbok

Tag me when ready

Binance:
Very possible...it can be done.
Nothing is impossible

Oya let's try na... When do we start?

Binance:
if you start with 100, you are a millionaire

I've tried 2 odds for 5 days self e no work pass day 2... How much more 10 odds

AFvckingAlpha:
The fvck

Niggarr!!

I wonder why this man is so revered, a "pastor" that divorced his wife on controversial terms. The word pastor cant be over-emphasised. I mean what is he teaching his flock. Well he is human after all, and I do think marriage is a scam, well Chris substantiated the fact.

Same man that was talking crap about the corona and 5G. Said some crazy shit about Bill & Melinda, folks trying to ease poverty in the world via charities. What has Chris given back to the society??

Configuring conspiration theories about vaccines confusing his naive flocks.

As far as I am concerned he is no different than Odumeje Bahosa.

They both chasing clouts, I still dont understand why some pastors pay the minutest details to their appearance. It does not add up.

celebrity pastors cum con artistes cum clowns.

I said what I said my niggarr!!

If he was a politician you would hallo him like a god even if he robs you in the open with strange policies. Well we are humans and would always talk from the height of our reasoning.

Savie:
Edo stadium is curse!!!

Leave stadium jor, focus on the bad goal keeper that Das imported not because of his ability but skin color

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Evidence1000:
My name is David. I'm a 24 year old young man. I'm in my final year in one of the universities in the south west.
I'm addicted to gambling. Like, I can't just help it.

The craze for this thing started sometime last year. It has eaten deep into me that it now dictates my mood. The only time I can be genuinely happy is when I win money from bet9ja virtual. If I should loose, it makes me very sad to the extent that I see myself as a useless person.

I've gone to the extent of using my school fees to play virtual and that of my course mate that trusted me so much. Though, I was able to pay my course mate's fees without her knowing the truth, I'm unable to pay mine till now. I always have this mentality that I will win.

Whenever money enters my hand like this, no matter how little, it is to head straight to Bet9ja shop or online. The urge is usually very strong. Sometimes, it seems like there's a force pushing me to do it.
Before this lock down, I accumulated a debt of over a hundred thousand naira in a Bet9ja shop in my school environment which I'm unable to pay till now.
I know the owner of the shop would be waiting to pick me up with police when I resume. I don't know what to do.

I need help badly. I've prayed to God severally but it's as if nothing is happening. I've even promised God not to play Bet9ja again but I keep on seeing myself still playing it.

Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. Sometimes, I feel like taking my life so that everything will just end but if I remember the pain it would cause my mother, I'll just hold back.

Please for the people that were once addicted to gambling, how did you stop it? Is there any remedy for it because I'm in need of it badly?

I can't sleep at night anymore because I'm always thinking of debts that I've accumulated which has run into over 300,000. All thanks to Bet9ja virtual.

Someone advised me to get a job that would keep me busy so that I won't have time to play virtual but there are no jobs. I don't mind doing any, even if it is a menial job till school resumes.

Please I need your advice. Feel free to bash me because I deserve more than that even.

Please I'd appreciate if you can move this to front page.

Addiction is sweet and bitter. I quit a 100 times in my mind until I finally quit completely. I channeled that energy to another addiction gaming! And craving for more money via writing business ideas and trying to get them done.

Quite gambling, change your friends, cause if you don't they will lure you into the act. Stop visiting betting house. When you lose control of simple things, you will lose control of many things, including your life.

24, you're young. Go to Nairaland investment or business section and find a new business or drive.

God help you dear.

freshkpomo:
Cute but will not suit an aquarium.



Together we can make Nigeria better


Nigerian youths team-up let's reclaim Nigeria



God bless Nigeria

How? The only place our youth team up is when our national football team have a match to play

space9880:
ill recommend tec

Does tec consume much fuel?
I also need a low fuel consumption Gen that's good