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Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Chris Okafor’s Former Choir Member Claims She Had 4 Abortions For Him by Unfolding: 10:13am On Dec 30, 2025
This gender never ceases to amaze me !
PoliticsRe: Benue Government's Letter Was issued To Stop Me From Visiting - Peter Obi by Unfolding: 5:20am On Apr 15, 2025
Peter Obi's supporters are the most toxic set of people on earth

More toxic than Election riggers , herdsmen and bandits ?
PoliticsRe: Alleged Defamation: Afe Babalola Withdraws Suits Against Farotimi by Unfolding: 8:57am On Jan 27, 2025
After begging and apologising. Baba has decided to forgive and forget.

Yinmu
PoliticsRe: Army Confirms Death Of Military Commander Alari In ISWAP Ambush (Photo) by Unfolding: 7:47am On Jan 27, 2025
Rest in peace Warrior.
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by Unfolding: 3:19pm On Nov 25, 2024
elipheleh:
You are an ungrateful fool of a son.
Who paid your school fees from nursery till graduation?
Who fed you till you became a man?
Who kept you alive and well?
You ungrateful Fook.
Because of your selfish desire to go abroad, you're saying your dad is wicked?
Is abroad a necessity?
Now you're abroad, if your own son asks for you to send him to moon in one of this Elon Musk starship, will you?
Can you afford it?
You have no idea your father's financial difficulties as a child.
Shame on you!
When he Saif he couldn't afford it, did you go close to him? Did you find out about his real account situations? How many times did you help or offer to help in your father's bussiness (running of hotel) as a young adult?

You see that cane you're flogging your dad, you ungrateful boy, your sons are warming up.

You will be totally forgotten also by your sons.
Infact they may go a step further even dumping you at old people home abroad.

It's just like my son growing up tomorrow to say I did nothing for him. Just to feed the family and for him and his sister, I have chronic back pains, spinal cord pain. But I can't stop working. All doctors advice I should rest. But no I can't. They will go hungry if I do.

Their mum spoon feeds him and show physical care. She sleeps all day. Yet tomorrow he will think his mother raised him.

I used to be ungrateful like you before towards my dad. But since becoming a father, I now have pity on him and see all the sacrifices gathers make.

My dad did not get another wife.

Even if he did. And so what? That's above my pay grade. He and mum should settle it.

My own dad stopped paying my school fees University, 3rd year.

He stopped my elder brothers own at 1st year uni.

He never paid a dime for my 2 younger brothers at University.

Even one of us, he never paid a dime from SS2 class.

All these and so what?

Young man learn to be grateful for the 99 people did for you. Stop counting the 1% they didn't do for you.

Even God doesn't answer 100% of everybody's prayers.

You're just ungrateful.

If you like kill your dad. That's your business.

You have only 1 dad.

If he dies today, you will know what you did to yourself.

May God never give me a son like you.
He will learn ,and I hope not the hard way
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by Unfolding: 3:18pm On Nov 25, 2024
elipheleh:
You are an ungrateful fool of a son.
Who paid your school fees from nursery till graduation?
Who fed you till you became a man?
Who kept you alive and well?
You ungrateful Fook.
Because of your selfish desire to go abroad, you're saying your dad is wicked?
Is abroad a necessity?
Now you're abroad, if your own son asks for you to send him to moon in one of this Elon Musk starship, will you?
Can you afford it?
You have no idea your father's financial difficulties as a child.
Shame on you!
When he Saif he couldn't afford it, did you go close to him? Did you find out about his real account situations? How many times did you help or offer to help in your father's bussiness (running of hotel) as a young adult?

You see that cane you're flogging your dad, you ungrateful boy, your sons are warming up.

You will be totally forgotten also by your sons.
Infact they may go a step further even dumping you at old people home abroad.

It's just like my son growing up tomorrow to say I did nothing for him. Just to feed the family and for him and his sister, I have chronic back pains, spinal cord pain. But I can't stop working. All doctors advice I should rest. But no I can't. They will go hungry if I do.

Their mum spoon feeds him and show physical care. She sleeps all day. Yet tomorrow he will think his mother raised him.

I used to be ungrateful like you before towards my dad. But since becoming a father, I now have pity on him and see all the sacrifices gathers make.

My dad did not get another wife.

Even if he did. And so what? That's above my pay grade. He and mum should settle it.

My own dad stopped paying my school fees University, 3rd year.

He stopped my elder brothers own at 1st year uni.

He never paid a dime for my 2 younger brothers at University.

Even one of us, he never paid a dime from SS2 class.

All these and so what?

Young man learn to be grateful for the 99 people did for you. Stop counting the 1% they didn't do for you.

Even God doesn't answer 100% of everybody's prayers.

You're just ungrateful.

If you like kill your dad. That's your business.

You have only 1 dad.

If he dies today, you will know what you did to yourself.

May God never give me a son like you.
He will learn.
FamilyRe: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by Unfolding: 3:16pm On Nov 25, 2024
It takes being exposed to understand situations. Exposure makes you enter different terrains and grasped a lot of knowledge.

It is this that has made me overcome any form of antipathy for my parents - whether good or bad.

Exposure and knowledge will make you build empathy. Because it's only empathy that can can make you not
treat someone badly, the way they have treated you.

It is empathy that will make you turn your left cheek when someone slap you on the right cheek.

Strong empathy is rooted in deep knowledge. And it is as a result of not allowing your pains and suffering to becloud you and become vicious.

Those not consumed by their suffering and won't allow themselves to be a conduit or tool in the hand of the devil in seeking for revenge are God's people (this is not about religion. Hope the reader will understand).

Our parents acted based on their limited scope of knowledge. They acted the way they deem fit and thought that their actions whether good or bad won't be detrimental to their well-being and family. They acted based on ignorance.

There are still some decisions my parents will advise me to take. I don't. Because I know they are talking from a standpoint of the 20th century. It doesn't mean that everything they say is foolish. But as a more exposed individual I have to weigh their suggestions in the light of the 21st century.

Hanlon's Razor: don't attribute to malice what's as a result of stupidity.

Please, man, forgive your father and have full peace. At least, you are at a point where you can take good care of yourself and family. If not for anything, but for the little good things he has done for you as a child.

He is your father. You can't change that fact.

Tell your father, how he failed you and his nuclear family. Pour your heart outside. Let him know your height of disappointment in him. Perhaps, he may be remorseful and ask for forgiveness.

However, whatever you know you can do for him that won't bring you problem, regrets, and setbacks, do it.

Buy him a car if you can. Give him allowances if you can.

You are already far from him. So irregardless of his actions, it can't get to you. Even though he decides to persists in his ways.

This is not to guilt trip you. You can do as it pleases you. No big deal. Your attitude toward him is reasonable.

But you are doing it because you are now wiser and bigger than your father.

Don't allow 1 error to erase 99 good.

Thanks.

You are wise
Car TalkRe: In Memory Of Gazzuzz - My Tribute by Unfolding: 3:43pm On Sep 10, 2024
He has journeyed to the great beyond 🌹

Rest in Power Legend .
PoliticsRe: Explosive Device Kills 7 Nigerian Soldiers In Borno During Operation by Unfolding: 10:45am On Jul 27, 2024
May God console the family of the departed soldiers.

Valar Morgulis.
CareerRe: Woman Loses Her Corporate Job After Revealing How Many People She's Slept With by Unfolding: 9:29pm On Oct 10, 2023
Olosho

And we still love her..
Music/RadioRe: Jaye Lo: You Owe No Apology To Muslims, Soyinka Defends Davido by Unfolding: 10:14am On Jul 26, 2023
Effective communication is said to have been successful carried out when the hearer understoods clearly what the speaker said... anything contrary is a mere academic exercise that is neither here nor there.

I continue to celebrate Prof China Achebe of blessed memory... The style of his prose is second to none.


Some of us understand him.
I suppose you will want him to ' dumb' down his writings ?
Music/RadioRe: Jaye Lo: You Owe No Apology To Muslims, Soyinka Defends Davido by Unfolding: 10:13am On Jul 26, 2023
Will the church be persuaded to conduct funeral service for Soyinka after his demise?

I’m asking this because these elites abuse and denigrate Christianity during their life times, while their families and friends will be begging/mounting pressure on the church to bury them.


Are you privy to his will to be able to determine that WS will want a Christian burial ?
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Should Drive MTN, DSTV & Shoprite Out Of Nigeria - Reno Omokri by Unfolding: 10:54pm On Jul 18, 2023
TemplarLandry:
Reno the astute social commentator. The oil on your head will never run dry. I'm in agreement with you.

I dedicate “Oil In My Head” by Black Sheriff to Reno. Great jam!
Where will Reno spend his vacations...
Rome. California or Ekiti

Joker
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Bows To Pressure, reviews N8000 Cash Transfer, Unveil Other Palliatives by Unfolding: 10:29pm On Jul 18, 2023
adefitim:
President Tinubu really shows that he has listening ears 👂.... I am super proud of this decision to review the cash transfer

God bless PBAT
God Bless FRN
Addled man
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Spent $8bn To Restore Peace In Liberia - Gen. Irabor by Unfolding: 8:21pm On May 24, 2023
That's why Americans no dey dull themselves. If they are sending large contingent of soldiers to your country, there's always something they stand to gain.

Money was made ,only that the circulation was limited to top politicians and military.
PoliticsRe: Ekweremadu: What A Northern Nigerian Muslim Donor Would Have Done - Reno Omokri by Unfolding: 7:19am On May 06, 2023
[quote author=Geovanni412 post=122957833]True

But we expect more of a lawyer

Lawyer wey no know say wetin im wan
do for UK dey illegal.

He has all the resources and connections yet allowed himself to be swayed by emotions.

The problem with many successful Nigerians is that they stop reading to gather new information when they exit university or make money.

That's why many of them with all their money suffer from lifestyle diseases and faint when they arrest them.


Bad man.... Lol
CrimeRe: Lagos CP Orders Area Commander To Take Over Case Of Alleged Assault. by Unfolding: 7:25pm On Apr 23, 2023
And the man will still smash her..lol
Christianity EtcRe: "ONLINE DELIVERANCE WITH THE GOD OF ELIJAH"- by Unfolding: 2:28am On Jan 18, 2023
[b][/b]y
servantofGod22:
Good morning and God bless you.

Please forward your above information to this email: spiritualwarfare223@gmail.com, and you will be sent an RPP sheet.
HealthRe: My 6years Old Son Escape Death In A Ghastly Accident/faithful God. by Unfolding: 10:59pm On Dec 31, 2022
[quote author=MumEmdy post=119572312]Where do I start from, I have been in shock since the incidence, God is indeed faithful and compassionate I return all praises to Him.

After having their hair cut on the 22nd of Dec, my kids requested to visit their great grandma who leaves around that area, but on our way there the terrible accident happened. ( I don't want to go into details how it happened cause everything is still playing in my head)

My son was unconscious with blood all over his head and face, I thought he was death cause he was in the theater for more 1hour before some people rush to me to come and hear my son crying. I kept crying and declaring my son's name Emmanuel God is with you will die no way because Emmanuel is also the reason for this season's celebration (Xmas). Prayers was offered even people I don't know that witness the accident rushed there ready to donate blood in case of necessity.

I want to use this medium to once again thank especially the Doctor that God use to work and stitch his scalp and face together, he was actually going to his place of work saw the nature of the accident and decide to follow the bike men to the hospital where my son was rush to, we later got to know that he works in a different hospital but a specialist in such cases., to the people that rushed my son to that hospital God will reward them accordingly ( I don't even know them I would have gone to their various home to thank them and to all d nurses and staff of Good Shepherd Medical Center Ayingba kogi State, thank you all and I pray God will always come through for you all in Jesus name.

An accident that claim 3 of my son's teeth, the devil came to late, we give God the praise

Nairalander please wish us speed recovery, we have been discharged from the hospital.

Pls go for follow up scan
CrimeRe: Lagos Barber Stabs Neighbour To Death For Admiring His Pregnant Wife by Unfolding: 11:48am On Jan 13, 2022
When he is in prison , the wife will now be bleeped severally and thoroughly..
AgricultureRe: Updated Price Of Grains And Location. by Unfolding: 8:20am On Dec 02, 2021
Yes , Sheriff is straight forward. Surely I prefer that in a person , than being nice and sly. And yes it is not compulsory to deal with particular customers. Let the guy be .

let peace reign nah. Shariff is a nice person I can testify to that. He is not a proud person. I know of a guy he send 2bags of beans that worth over 100k up till now d guy hasn't paid him. I know how many time I ll call him to explain some certain things about this grain business cos I'm a novice in this business he ll gently explain all to me. We all are human being sometimes we might not be in a good mood,sometimes stress.. I don't know what really happened but Shariff is not a proud a person. Am pleading that we should allow peace to reign. Lets move forward pls[/quote]
CelebritiesRe: Fred Amata's Sister, Erumena To Wed Pastor Benjamin At 60 by Unfolding: 10:26am On Oct 09, 2021
God is still on the throne.

I am happy for her and the family.
May the Blessings Be
PoliticsRe: Segun Ajibola: Average Nigerian Can Feed With ₦500, Naira Still Strong by Unfolding: 4:45am On Sep 23, 2021
Intellectually bankrupt banker !!
Our intellectuals are soo disconnected from reality. If naira is strong because people can eat with 500 naira. What of the 27.4 million Nigerians that earn less than 100,000 per annum? It means this category of people can only spend there money on food and will only eat once every two days....You see, even the local value of naira is very week. If the president of Charters Institute of Bankers can talk like this, then we get big problem.[/quote]
PoliticsRe: We Only Invited Kunle Olawunmi To Help Us With Valuable Information - DHQ by Unfolding: 11:17pm On Aug 28, 2021
PoliticsRe: Femi Fani-Kayode: We Must Never Rely On America To Defend Our Nation by Unfolding: 6:53pm On Aug 16, 2021
You can't split a country for it's people. The majority support Taliban.
Wetin America suppose do 20 yrs ago na to split the country, after 20 yrs each of them go don know how to fight for themselves.

Now, no support they are back to square one. Wetin fit dey pursue person make am hang ontop plane. chaii[/quote]
RomanceRe: Female Nairalander Needed In Lagos For Knack by Unfolding: 4:27pm On Aug 16, 2021
Newdelhi pls add me to the beer parlor
RomanceRe: Female Nairalander Needed In Lagos For Knack by Unfolding: 4:26pm On Aug 16, 2021
[qNewdelhi please add me too.
uote author=knacker post=104824341]NewDelhi
Add me to ashawo telegram group[/quote]
PoliticsRe: How Abba Kyari’s Police Team Extorted N1M Each From Suspected IPOB Members - SR by Unfolding: 6:30pm On Aug 12, 2021
So much hate ..
Ipob online miscreants have started spreading fake news again.Since this issue of Abba kyari ipob miscreants have been carrying it on their heads as if their lives depends on it.Well we all know it's because of the man has sent many of their terrorists to graves... Anyway, Abba kyari has already done the damage grin grin grin grin[/quote]
PoliticsRe: Kyari Is A Billionaire With Posh Houses, Sells Seized Cars - Sahara Reporters by Unfolding: 11:59pm On Aug 01, 2021
Jaqenhghar:
The stupidity of it all is. You are developing properties in a state that is set to he overrun by terrorsits. SmH
That's Niggerian logic for you
The Boko Haram are their pals. .. family and friends
CelebritiesRe: Renato de Santa Rips His Face To Give 'Demon Smile' (Pix) by Unfolding: 3:12pm On Jul 27, 2021
[quote author=Fahdiga post=104019752]Tufiakwa. Joblessness is indeed a disease .
All this just to suck pussy or WTF.. !
AgricultureRe: Closed by Unfolding: 10:44am On Jul 04, 2021
Farmers are abandoning farms because of insecurity.. !!!

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