kaboninc:


Really?

For a relationship of 6 years?

So fast?

Lolzzzxxx... Do i need to be buried before it gets better?

kodozion:


What did she find out before marriage
From her comment she is the type who will not attempt anything without her parents consent so what do you expect the guy to do? Wait till she comes crying that she has accepted somebody the parents introduce to her so the guy should move on because it can't work without her parents consent

ok

sparklebaby:


Ohhhh, so sad. But just hold on, THIS TOO SHALL PASS. Cheer up!

Most definitely

Platnum1:
God brought mine to me while I was busy in his vineyard....I blv God takes care of u without ur help....esp when I are abt his business

Lucky you my sister.

bukatyne:


So sad, it is well

It hurts a lot

Lucky you found out this before marriage... who knows why your parents sticked to no?

Abi na... hehehehe

MarvellousGod:
Man, you have to take it easy and slowly.. There are other things to this life....

Don't hang on gal, just move on... It's obvious he has moved on, do same... who knows maybe God prevented you from a life of misery.. You parted ways just last month and he's already flaunting a new babe? Isn't it fishy? I think you should thank God and move on!!!....Just try and make yourself happy, Love will definitely come your way again dear..

Thanks dear. I'm over him already

aflyingbird:
awwhh , sorry girl. some guys get a new chick quickly after a relationship ends not 'cus they're over you but 'cus they need someone to help fill the void you've left in them. it's just a guy's way of handling a breakup. you were together for 6 yrs , don't think he's over you already. she's only a rebound chick, he still thinks of you , trust me . it is disrespectful to you to be flaunting her around you but you can't control his actions. you two had your reasons for breaking up , do ya best to forget him, with time ya will . chin up

Thanks dear. I'll bookmark this and read it anything the tears comes threatening

MarvellousGod:
@Uniquexty has said it all.. Try and convince your parents, let them see the kind of joy the lady brings to your life..You can go and talk to your uncle or whoever, who will in turn convince your parents. .. Both of you really have to be strong during this period... All the best..

@Uniquexty, sorry for what happened, hope you have moved on?


It's really sad how parents frustrate their children all because of ethnic differences..

Yeaa, am hanging on. Its very difficult especially when the guy moves on and begins flaunting a new girl. It makes me feel like the past years was a dream

Parental consent is very necessary. Just like you, i had a six years inter-tribal/religious relationship. We finally woke up to reality last month.

Sometimes, Love is not just enough. You have to listen to the wisdom from your heart. One day, you'll wake up and ask yourself how you got to this point, and by that time, you've lost your family.

I suggest you hang on and try to comvince your parents. Make them understand that you need their support in this next phase in your life. And be fervent in prayers. Remember what God did for Mary when Joseph decided to put her away. God can still speak to your parents the way he spoke to Joseph. The heart of the king is in his hands.

I wish you all the best. And pray she stays strong throughout the fight. I wish mine had

Where did you ladies find such awesome men?

baralatie:

huh!
go grab your own husband to find you a mouth watery job!

Hmmmm, that one fit take time. This one na already-made

Time

Pls PM me your brother's details. Someone else needs the job. What nonsense??

koife:

Trust me it wouldn't change anything...I've tried ignoring her for close to a month, she took it as a Lee way....I really considering a new start.

Then she's simply wasting your time. I heard somewhere that sometimes when a door closes, we look so hard at the closed door that we can't see the one that has been opened. Its easier said than done, but try moving on. She finally left because someone better is dropping at your feet. Don't be too down mourning the past and you won't recognize your better half.... Goodluck dear

LOLXZ

Simple. Friendzone him too. He'll be shocked with surprise. Then curiosity will bring him right into your arms. Guys don't like girls who are all over them... vice versa

You sound really nice and responsible. And i heard girls find such guys boring. We are happy with those who treat us like Banana peels. Can you ignore her for some time?

Hmmmmmmm

This kind break, e be as e get o. Staying awake uptill this point? what's the big deal in getting this thing over with? Mtchewww

zaragal:


Sure sugar, am actually crushin on a nairalander currently....thnx

Lolzzzz... that's the way in girl. Sure that song won't make him insecured?

Zaragal, few months from now you'll look at this post and you'd be like "Wtf??" You'd so get over him ... he's not the last nice guy on earth.

....... and vice versa

faradexs09:
MY dream relationship:
I want a girl who would love me for me, mere looking into her eyes open the key to her soul, a girl whose smile will make me giggle, I love d playful one, sweet n with a distinct fashion sense, her curved jaw is a turn on, a girl I can be myself with not too tall not too short, a girl I can kiss a million times a day, a girl with a dream, with the brain, mmmm expensive is my taste...uhm dt's my dream relationship with an amazing gurl

Thank God its only a dream o. You'll just wake up and realise you're still in Nigeria

PunkyOh:


Hahaha. Really? I'm glad I'm not alone

Nah you ain't. True Love exists only in Harlequin.

PunkyOh:


Fùck me too I guess.

I don't think I'd ever ask that of anyone tbh (but I'd be hopeful of course ) because I know I wouldn't do it myself. I'd wait for a donor. Go for treatment & if that fails, then I'll accept my fate. Shrugs.

BUT, the people close to me that are too stingy with their organs better stay away!

I'm selfish. Plus I have trust issues, so..

Sure we ain't sisters? You spoke the words directly from my heart....

Maamin:
Op, do u have any other language u speak properly well that you can use to convey your msg?

Lol...

kilimanjaro:
It was hell! I memorised a whole text book, rehearsed for like 3 months , ; inspite of my extensive rehearsals I forgot everything I crammed when I approached her:-my heart was doing gbim, gbim, gbim. Eventually, I managed to say hi babe, you look familiar

Oh No! You didn't use that lame line...

And how does the lady feel about this? She has 9 months to bear the shame of pre-marital pregnancy while you walk about a free man. This is a time she will need you more than anyother time. Encourage her throughout this period and Keep the Baby

Now this is the point where the two of you carry this conversation elsewhere. The rest of us are only interested in the outcome

cokacoola:
shorta gals, these how didj behave

will you recognise a short girl, even if she drops on your head?

cokacoola:
sooo your noun saying we shall dating shorta girls that are trolbulsome, an alway agressive an always went to believe they are rights in everytiny there does Plasea we camt

Attention seeker. I just noticed you. Now run along

Wait and see