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CrimeRe: When “cruise” Becomes Deadly: Why This Tiktok Video About Youth Drug Use Needs A by unzend: 1:10pm On Jan 27
Hmm, But the Guy didn't write about reabilitation plans of the government.

Sometimes , Drug indulgence is as a result of Childhood and Emotional neglet and Emotional abuse.

Lot of Parents often fail in this aspect, But unfortunately, society only gauges Parenting by Provision of Food, Clothing and Shelther.
Foreign AffairsRe: Greenland: You denied me Nobel Prize, I have no obligation for peace - Trump by unzend: 10:47am On Jan 19
Treating the country like a Business
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Jerry Eze Leads Obi Cubana To Christ by unzend: 9:30pm On Jan 13
We give God the praise
This smile is suspicious though


But with God, All things are possible

RomanceRe: A Woman Narrates How She Deported Her Husband by unzend: 10:28am On Dec 05, 2025
Tales by moonlight
BusinessRe: Dangote And Otedola's Mobile Phones Hacked by unzend: 9:05am On Nov 19, 2025
Hmm, If they aren't careful, They'll hack the two companies too.

Nigerians are just fortunate we have bugs and our systems aren't starndadized, that's actually a strength disguzed as a weakness.

They'll have even hacked ASO ROCK.

For instance if they hack UCH, or UBA, What will they gain.
FoodRe: Why Bread Price Remains High Despite Drop In Flour Cost by unzend: 3:29pm On Nov 17, 2025
Even Chicken feed and Fish feed
FamilyMy Wife Thinks I Got Someone Else Pregnant N by unzend(op): 8:39pm On May 19, 2025
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

CelebritiesRe: I Had A Cancer Scare, My Thyroid Removed - Mercy Johnson Addresses Weight Loss by unzend: 12:42pm On May 19, 2025
Looking Younger and happier and Fotunately , She Married someone who would stay by her side
SportsRe: Joshua Grateful To Nigeria, Departs For Next Fight by unzend: 10:05am On Apr 24, 2025
Godspeed
PoliticsRe: Environmental Laws Defaulters Carry Out Community Service In Lagos by unzend: 7:46am On Apr 23, 2025
Lagos Government just finding ways to harrass and embarass everyone.

Thank God I'm currently out of that place.
Technology MarketRe: Mint Galaxy Note 10 256GB DualSim 150k - Closed. by unzend: 2:16pm On Apr 17, 2025
How much is the screen
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Imposes 104% import tariffs On China's goods to the US by unzend: 11:00am On Apr 09, 2025
inoki247:
Lol na America go still Suffer am....


iPhone Lover say Cheese, JBL Lover say Cheese grin grin
Is China the one collecting the tarrif when you buy an IPhone?

Cos I don't understand how America is suffering
Foreign AffairsRe: Donald Trump's Team 'declares War' On Masturbation With 'insane' New US Sex Laws by unzend: 10:53am On Apr 09, 2025
chipsypop:
America is fast becoming everything it accused Russia and China of being over the years. What happened to the ‘land of freedom’?
Only a fool doesn't understand that Freedom and Discipline go hand in hand.

Freedom that makes you end as a weakling, is that one freedom.

The way Men of today are so weak, even a 12 year old just protuding breast and bottom knows She can make most Men act like fools with thier uncontrolled sensual desires.
RomanceRe: How Do You Feel About Your Fiancée If She Frequently Watches Porn? by unzend: 1:07pm On Dec 18, 2024
afrodoc2:
I can't lie to you. That your babe's body count can only be calculated using Geiger-Muller counter. cry
Not neccesarily.

I never had sex before marraige but was indulged in PORN
RomanceRe: How Do You Feel About Your Fiancée If She Frequently Watches Porn? by unzend: 1:04pm On Dec 18, 2024
toboizilla:
Hi guys, My babe that i am making plans to settle with dey watch porn.

I have warned her on several occasions that this is not healthy for you, and she like to watch big d.ic.k and hard intimacy, which she is not new to.

I have adviced her decently but i still see it in her history, she even hides to watch it.

I don't think for a female to be addicted to this is activities is good, what do you guys think?
I was indulged in PORN before marriage and I actually thought marriage will fix it, I even confided in my spouse who ended up telling my Mum about it.

I felt betrayed. She used it to blackmail me even in Marriage.

It all depends on Her willingness to leave it.

Only a closer relationship with God can fix it for Her which is what is fixing it for me.

Currently my spouse hasn't been around for the past 3 weeks and God has been sustaining me.

It has more to do with Her than you.

It's something She has to deal with either in Marriage or Single.

Pray about it and see if you can take that Journey with Her, If not please Leave. Because you might end up bringing it up everytime you have issues.

On a flip side, It could be an advantage to your sexuality.
AutosWhat are the Challenges Of Importing An Uncommon Car by unzend(op): 3:11pm On Jun 05, 2024
I just found out about this Car and currently deciding if I can get it on copart but found out the car isn't common (I haven't even seen one) in Nigeria. I have searched and searched but haven't found it here in Nigeria.

Getting the Car (Toyota Prius PHEV from 2012 to 2019) cos it's a Plugin Electric Hybrid and can run exclusively on battery.

I have read about it's reliability but can I bank on that fact to drive it in Nigeria.

What are the challenges of bringing in an uncommon Car like this?

Most I have seen on Copart are accidental, How does one get the body spare parts to fix when it arrives?
Due to the fixed costs(Logistics, Shipping, Clearing), Is it better to just get a clean title rather?
Also like how much should be the min and max budget?

ProgrammingRe: Becoming An Employable Full Stack Flutter Developer (ios And Android) by unzend: 12:16pm On May 13, 2024
Before you guys start jumping to Learn.

Just be informed that the Tech Bubble has bursted.

No Jobs out there again unlike Pre COVID Post COVID period.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend:
Good
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend:
Get a Small one
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend: 3:40am On May 16, 2023
oduncojamaica:
OEM or Check meter
I asked similar question on this platform,
Engr Topsy replied me with below
Thanks so much for this.

Yes we plan to separate the feeder cables.

Did you try it out?
Do you have any recommendations for the watt meter to buy?
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend:
This is now implemented
FamilyRe: American Woman Sets Her Wedding Dress Ablaze In Divorce Photoshoot by unzend: 10:04pm On Apr 16, 2023
So unfortunate huh
PoliticsRe: Return Of Bandits: Gunmen Terrorise Niger, Kaduna, Kogi, Bayelsa, Adamawa by unzend: 11:20am On Apr 04, 2023
Growsss1:
Insecurities is too much in this country

invest in charcoal business production and nationwide distribution, 35% return on investment per trip

Minimum investment is 1million naira for a full load of 911 truck goods

And 2.3 million for a full load of container truck

2-4 trip per month

Pls check my profile for contact details
Stop felling and burning trees please 🙏
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend: 11:01pm On Apr 03, 2023
CivilEngineer90:
hmmm don’t carry around this mindse because most of those workers are far better than you in terms kf archivement they just choose to play humble to secure the job bro. There are some clients I don’t drive to their site so they don’t feel intimidated and assume i charge premium so chill
I warn everyone in this thread to be careful while dealing with this Guy.

A word is enough for the wise.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend: 10:47pm On Apr 03, 2023
Does anyone have the number of a professional tiler in Ibadan?

Also, how much per square metre?
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend: 5:04pm On Jan 12, 2023
folmus:
Amoula PVC seems to be your sure bet. They have been around. They have office in Lagos.
Thanks
Their office location please?
and any contact number?
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend: 11:17am On Jan 12, 2023
Please House where can I get original ceiling PVC in Lagos here.

Also at Ibadan

ANy leads?
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend: 5:40pm On Dec 26, 2022
CivilEngineer90:
DO YOU REALLY THINK UNZEND CAN ACTUALLY BEAT ME TO MY OWN GAME grin grin

If he doesn't credit me he won't get the real drawing with the updated bar calling out cheesy grin

If he checks the drawing it's just 3-16mm both top and bottom grin grin, who does that grin .. the areas needing 20mm I didn't put it. He even asked for an open roof terraced at the top of the building, I did it on the second drawing which is not on the one I sent cheesy
So it's a WIN-WIN

He even wanted a staircase outside the building but the one he has is the first one with the staircase inside and the dinning mirrored on the wrong side hahahaha

I will love to watch unzend beg cheesy grin

The drawings are correct though but it isn't the revised one
Its gotten to a stage where I think I should have pity on you.

Likely Life has hit you left , right and center, then you are using the aggression on innocent me who mean you no harm.

Not everyone who has had bad times turned out to be as paranoid as you are.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend: 4:40pm On Dec 26, 2022
CivilEngineer90:
okay. I urge you to create a thread and post updates of the construction here. Unless you pay me my money that building will be on paper alone, it will never see the light of day. I am cursing you confidently because I and so Certain that the curses will affect you because I know the work in put in to get your document ready. Any Structural Engineer here knows the pains to create a single structural analysis and that's what you are playing with me for? RIP in advance
Say worse things than this.

I am covered by the Blood of Jesus.

Every negative thing you say is of the Devil and can have no effect on me.
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend: 4:38pm On Dec 26, 2022
CivilEngineer90:
Whenever anyone searches your phone number they will see what you are and the kind of human being you are. Nairaland has a way of ruining someones life. Yours is ruined here already, whoever comes her will see that drawings were delivered but your, you refused to pay for work delivered to you.
At least your face is also here.

PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by unzend: 4:35pm On Dec 26, 2022
CivilEngineer90:
You wanted to spoil my reputation here but ended up spoiling yours. Everyone has seen the kind of person you are , you can see no one is even siding you anymore they are just looking at you now. They are even wondering if something is wrong with your head.
Say whatever you wish.

I'll say again that your character is robbing you of a great future.

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