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RomanceRe: A Baby, and It's Effect On A Romantic Relationship. . . ? by upendo98(f): 2:31pm On Jul 04, 2011
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OH OH I nevr thought of it that way!! lol
I thought a young gal or relative could help around wth house or hold baby so that the mother can rest and then u can have your 'U' time!
LOL tht was very funny.
Okay what about a houseboy??
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 1:58pm On Jul 04, 2011
All I can tell you Adam is this,
Dont let your past dictate your future. And nevr give up on your dreams. For as long as you are alive, then u have a purpose to accomplish so go for it.
Let bygones be bygones. Its hard.But hey!!theres life ahead and it needs somebody to live it
Yes you can
In the meantime you remain my/our friend.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 1:39pm On Jul 04, 2011
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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Upendo 98, I Would Like To Know U by upendo98(f): 1:20pm On Jul 04, 2011
A nigerian told me that in Nigeria Oil oozes out of people's backyards!!!
Confirm.I gt my buckets and pipes ready
RomanceRe: A Baby, and It's Effect On A Romantic Relationship. . . ? by upendo98(f): 1:10pm On Jul 04, 2011
mmh!
OP DONT DERAIL YOUR OWN THREAD!!
You could be among the 98!!
Effect of baby on ,
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Upendo 98, I Would Like To Know U by upendo98(f): 1:02pm On Jul 04, 2011
Talk of electricity.
How come evry time am taking to a nigerian on skype all off a sudden she/he says.My battery is down,theres a power failure.
I had to ask one why its such a common problem and he said thet whenevr he visits Abuja/lagos from abroad he doenst go to house he prefers the hotel cz they have backup! in the form of generators.
undecided
Why so yet they have all this Oil and a vibrant economy?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 12:56pm On Jul 04, 2011
^^ Oh cuddleme.

I had to get to the bottom of this. Seriously I want to know if its just a username or the dude practices wht he claims.And I mean it. If hes truly wht he claims then am out of here.no lies.But if its just a username then am cool but uncomfortable.
wink
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Na wa oo!! by upendo98(f): 12:41pm On Jul 04, 2011
yeah melon seeds I was told.
Thanks anyway.
RomanceRe: A Baby, and It's Effect On A Romantic Relationship. . . ? by upendo98(f): 12:36pm On Jul 04, 2011
Not kiddies
A 'kid' is the young one of a goat and I dont think am made for that.
I meant BABIES.
YES.
RomanceRe: A Baby, and It's Effect On A Romantic Relationship. . . ? by upendo98(f): 12:21pm On Jul 04, 2011
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Dont suck!! massage!! lmao grin grin
RomanceRe: A Baby, and It's Effect On A Romantic Relationship. . . ? by upendo98(f): 12:14pm On Jul 04, 2011
Jealous husbands! grin grin

-Just be very very supportive of  each other.Enlist the help of a maid or relative to help her.
-Balance the 3.Well this is the time that most dudes stray and they blame it on the wife.(perfect opportunity) undecided
-Of course the baby will demand attention but this isnt a permanent stage.It will pass but ul both stay.
-Now those are the realities of marriage life. You cant skip this.You either face it,accept it,deal with it.
If u arent ready for the challenges that come with babies then dont have one!
You cant share bosoms with your own baby?? How mean a dad!!you dont suck! but c'mmon give her a massage when she needs it.
Nobody needs a bosom massage more than a pregnant woman.
Rem! Its your baby not another 'champion'! jeez!

I'v had 98 so far anyway!
RomanceRe: Does True Love Depends On Religion? by upendo98(f): 12:02pm On Jul 04, 2011
Does to true love depend on religion? NO
Does religion matter when it comes to marriage? YES
WHY??
Becoz the problem is not the person we 'LOVE' but the garbage that comes with the religion the other person adheres to.
Marriage is not like dating.Relatives come in,kids,ceremonies,etc etc and religion plays a big part in such.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 11:38am On Jul 04, 2011
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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Upendo 98, I Would Like To Know U by upendo98(f): 11:19am On Jul 04, 2011
oh wow
cool thats my new style form now henceforth.
kudos to yeye.
Potato have u evr been to nigeria? how is the country like?
I know lagos is crowded,Abuja is like a new metropolitan though expensive to live in so I heard.
I hate the way they protray Africa at times.Every time they bring nigeria all they show is the muslims fighting the christians.
RomanceRe: Virginity Remains A Virtue After All Said And Done! by upendo98(f): 11:13am On Jul 04, 2011
sad.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 7:57am On Jul 04, 2011
wait a minute!!
is that the change tht made u become enemy? shocked
We had this worship team and the rules were laid down.No compromise
- Be the first to arrive
-Take time to really pray
-Share the word
-Practice practice practice work thoroughly on our voices(was extremely stressful at times)
-Set up the eqipmt .I even learned to play the keyboard and guitar!
Then get ready for service.
We were each brothers keeper.And trust me NONE of us ever went back!. We had a closeness that was like family.
That spared us a lot of trouble.I keep saying and I am nevr ashamed of admitting tht foundation has made life soo easy for me and I live my life knowing who God is.I NVER COMPROMISE with things of God.
Did we have enemies? OF COURSE YES.The old folk in church (some pastors included) who thought we were just a bunch of fiery young people not knowing wht were doing grin
Those were the basics! We were just a dynamic bunch of young people .Well we later went diffrent ways due to careers,studies. sad
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 7:07am On Jul 04, 2011
oooh cooL;
we call suya KEBABS cool cool
love it too. well i care less abt bobo or sunshine! I dnt drink.

Adam what message were u trying to pass? which made u public enemy?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Upendo 98, I Would Like To Know U by upendo98(f): 6:59am On Jul 04, 2011
^^ grin grin
Thanks 4 the compliment.
Am a grandma yes. huh lipsrsealed

@POTATO LOL
Yeye fowl dance?? grin grin

you too eat egusi? i know fufu.is tht pouned yam?
fufu and pepper soup!
RomanceRe: I Want A Small Wedding by upendo98(f): 6:03am On Jul 04, 2011
What is with your 'finances'?
Nway am sure it will cost you less than a dollar for the certificate.then go to church for blessings.
But you must be in agreement otherwise I smell trouble.
RomanceRe: Couples, How Do You Settle Heated Quarrels In Your Home? by upendo98(f): 5:57am On Jul 04, 2011
I hv always asked myself tht too! grin grin
RomanceRe: If You Get Angry With Your Bf/gf/spouse, What Would U Do? by upendo98(f): 5:55am On Jul 04, 2011
@potato lol
Interesting you mentioned smthing I also do.
if I get pissed off by anybody,I work my Bottom off.I mean I can even sweep the entire estate for free! grin
you painted the whole house?
Well I onced cleaned the whole house the whole night!! reorganised everything while listening to music and in the morning every muscle of my body was aching.
I dont know why that gives me so much satisfaction.
But my anger was gone. I guess it all went into cleaning.
RomanceRe: Couples, How Do You Settle Heated Quarrels In Your Home? by upendo98(f): 5:46am On Jul 04, 2011
Oops!
I dint read that well.Nl couples. shocked
sorry I got no mate in NL.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 8:32pm On Jul 03, 2011
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Ok.Adam.wht exactly dd u do tht tht made them rebel agaist you?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 7:52pm On Jul 03, 2011
ok back to the real story
what made u bitter with christians? for real
I know this username of urs is fake and meant to scare away pple.
But I am looking for the real man behind tht name and thets why I refused to refer to you by it.
RomanceRe: Couples, How Do You Settle Heated Quarrels In Your Home? by upendo98(f): 6:31pm On Jul 03, 2011
well op u shud have started by telling us how u settle ur quarrels.lead by example.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 6:24pm On Jul 03, 2011
define suya
sounds like some Hindu God! undecided
Are u having 'gods' 4 snacks? damn ur doomed!
RomanceRe: Couples, How Do You Settle Heated Quarrels In Your Home? by upendo98(f): 6:11pm On Jul 03, 2011
OP so your here
Hawayu grin
Well this question of urs. If I get pissed off by 'anybody'I create and play around with blogs(hobby) undecided,I dance to music I dont like,then I sing and sing my heart out.Till I feel better.
It works 4 me.Afterwards I will address the issue when am calm and happy.
Never react when angry is my policy.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 5:08pm On Jul 03, 2011
^^ look at him claiming he can take wine cz he doesnt take alcohol
Drink Milk,Yoghurt or Icecream!

Has anybody seen Adam? who knows where hes hinding??
Cuddlemmi is enjoying cuddles.
you can always go 4 more snacks dont worry.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Discussion Continues With Upendo98, Cuddlemii, bhusayor, Dyt,Sexkills and others by upendo98(f): 3:34pm On Jul 03, 2011
huh huh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Upendo 98, I Would Like To Know U by upendo98(f): 3:08pm On Jul 03, 2011
^^^
Thank u.

SPECIMEN: Upendo98 grin
Characteristics of the specimen. ;[/i]D
[i]Age: 98 yrs


I am black female born and raised in Africa.
I am employed in Miami,based in Africa, work for Africa so I live in Africa smiley
I love people
I am not 9ija
I dont have a BB grin grin(I hate mobile phones seriously) but I carry my world in my laptop/s. grin grin
I like laughing grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
I love swimming,travelling,adventure,researching,Nairaland huh
I love debates,disussions yeah that. undecided
I compose and sing songs,dance and act(well used to in high school) wink
mmh what else. huh
I dont drink/nevr have anyway/smoke/club. Am a sober christian.was once crazy but sobered up. grin grin grin
Finally, am fearfully and wonderfully made.Now how could I have left God out of all this? grin grin grin grin

Now tel me what Egusi is!!!
RomanceRe: Am I Allowed To Be Angry Or Jealous Here? by upendo98(f): 2:47pm On Jul 03, 2011
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Lacrissa or Twitter!
Twitter! sad sad
Gal chill pliz. All gals and women complain about this evryday but most nevr lose out on their relationships.
Just dont get so obsessed cz ul lose ur mind my dear.
Let it be. Its normal what you feel.I wish men could understand that bit but they nevr will.
Be elusive too as smbody said. Yeah just kp ur mind occupied wth other stuff so u stop worrying abt how hs spending his minutes.
otherwise u get ulcers 4 nothing.

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