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of course its all about swimming.
I want to learn how to swim in the deep end.I think am just in the shallow waters

Is anybody stalking? I wnt to hide

cuddlme and DYT!!!
I heard you!

Now stop making me cry wth your poems!
Cuddle you! mmh!
Go mend a broken heart. You have left me with a heavy burden!.Too heavy to handle alone.
I been searching 4 you and found u here.Am not leaving you!!
Runaways hiding place LOL
I will tell!!!

At first it was the normal flirt that people like doing. The company doenst care about ur silly flirts just perform!! But it went overboard.Soon wedding cards were flying from department to department.
It had to be curbed and most staff agreed. And yes the company is not smiling either.The notice is out already.

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correct.We call it the MODERN WORLD.
Freedom to live and do what we want yeah. I like that. really
But when the going  gets tough,the MODERN WORLD wont be there to cry wth u or help you out.
It will sit laugh and judge you.
I am not controlled by what goes on in the world coz I have a mind to pick out what is good or bad for me.

ALL THINGS MAY BE LAWFULL BUT NOT ALL THINGS ARE PROFITABLE

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Theres 3 couples so far that are planning their wedding.Same company.They are soo crushed.I hope they will be lenient with those that are already married.
Unfortunately they cant discriminate so they are trying to figure out who should quit.
Those contemplating marriage now have to decide either to forsake their plans and save their jobs or quit.

Oh dear God.
I rest my case.

Just help the next pro u meet by encouraging her and tell her shes worth more than her physical body.

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MY POINT EXACTLY.
I have repeated that over and over on each of my post but everyone sems to think that its due to poverty!!
No its not. My reply was directed to the poster above me cz he gave me an eg of a poor gal and I showed him another poor gal in a worse situation.
One chose to hit the street and another chose to toil like crazyNo pleasure n luxuries no quick or easy money.
When they both hit 30.you will see the diffrrence in their bodies.

Well its a 6 storeyed building plus 2 others at diffrent locations.
So far the biggest in the area and many employees.
The employees complaints were the long hrs they spend and the stress associated with work.

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I dont disagree.My example up there was just meant to show tht each of us has some talent or God given gift that u can utilise without having to sell urself.
A gift is smthing your born wth mostly. You dont learn it in school you only perfect it.It could be tailoring.If not maybe I can go wash clothes,do anything at least something but nt selling your body bcz I really feel for those women tht do it.Its their bodies thet really suffer and they hurt in the process.
That eg of the 22 yr old I understand.Trust me when I tell u I have met people in dire situations u feel like 'cursing God'. I mean I get really angry at times.
I know another young one too.An orphan infact wth siblings too.Talk of pain.Tht lady nevr rests.She washes clothes,fetches wter,will save the 2 cents go sell bananas in the market and bring smthing to her 4 siblings at the end of the day.She doenst sell her body.Am sure God will bless her 4 that.
I can quote 6 examples tht will bring u to tears. Sme have no parents at all.Some gals were violated by there fathers and uncles,have their own father's babies, I dont even wnt to go into details.
I have personally interacted wth a pro and it took me like a whole week to digest wht she was telling me. But she said all the money she ever made went out to pay 4 her security/protection,and since its shared out she hardly took home enough. It was just never enough.So the need kept her there.
I am sure tht 22 yr old has gifts.She just hasnt realised her real potential and fully utilised it. At 22 yrs think abt her life at 30 yrs.Its very sad.

Theres no gift called 'the gift of opening legs'.A woman is much more than that.We just need to discover the other talents.

Note: am not judging at all .I  would encourage any lady to explore her talents and make use of them

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Got 98 already and expecting the 99th one.I am targeting 100.

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chicken and egg.What came first? CHICKEN of course.
If your a christian then you wil know God never created no egg.And no egg,walked into Noahs Ark'. Adam never named 'anything 'egg'.
He named the animal 'chicken'.
If u read my post well, you would have read where I said, to me a very immoral gf thats works in the office or stays at home is not different frm that lady on the street.They are doing the same thing but in different locations and cover.
Call it whatever name. What is in a name? A name by any other name is still a name.
Right and wrong is relative depending on whom you ask. You are very right.Thats why this argument can never be won.
Rem that a human will always look for a reason to justify his deeds and trust me some are pretty moving.But the end still doesnt justify the means.
Gosh I need lots of cash to do many things but guess wht I have to work my Bottom off daily to save and do that.If I want it fast without toiling hard then I will hit the streets.  If my kid is dying in hospital and I work for this rich dude and I discover hes got hidden cash somewhere which he refuses to lend me,wht will I do?My kid has only hrs to live if I dnt pay for that costly surgery.
I would be tempted to steal properly and justify that.Infact I would force God to justify it too. But guess wht? I will end up in jail cz I commited an offence.
But you know why I wouldnt steal? Cz of my conscience and faith.


Call me old fashioned cz I am .

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@ potato.
What is GBAM!

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@ Rhazmus

The issue is not'who to blame'. I remebr JC telling some dudes tht wanted to stone a lady that if anyone is without sin then let them be the first to cast a stone.
In short theres worse people than LovePeddlers. Think abt the serial killer/paedophile etc.
Yes we have the law of demand and supply.
When you decide to buy a good,You go for quality,durability and efficiency. You dont want one that you will use and lose fast. Cz it costs you money and you want value for your money.
On the other hand theres thet other dude that doenst give a damn.He will go pick any good at whatever cost then cry foul.He then starts complaining that all goods are bad!
Now imagine that good is a 'woman'.
The choice rests wth you.The Goods will ALWAYS be there but you have to choose whether you like a private/public.
Its all about your CONSCIENCE not the goods and taste.

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No I think some guys just want to justify it and most ladies are avoiding useless arguments
I will say again and again.
IT CAN NEVER BE JUSTIFIED.
All reasons given are flimsy
Its not about[b] poverty [/b]cz we have the rich doing it too.Besides if all the poor took to the streets then wht? look around and see REAL needs.
Neither is it anything to do with education cz the uneducated and educated are doing it.
Its not about[b] age[/b] either cz the old and young are doing it.
Its not about[b] location [/b]either.The pro in Miami is no diffrence frm the one in lagos. 4get the sorroundings and money. Its got one name.Prostitution.
The lady banker in office sleeping wth every other dude 4 money sake and avoiding the harsh streets 4 sake of reputation is still a LovePeddler.
It just a sinful profession wth not so good consequences. But fact is ITS HERE TO STAY.
It can be legalised in every country but that will never make its a lesser evil no.Legalistaion only makes it possible for us to do stuff (good /bad)without fear of breaking the laws.
We can legalise selling albinos but c'mmon does it make it a good thing just cz it was?
We have legalised man-lover marriages,etc etc. But bottom line is . I dont belive its right but hey whts my problem? its legalised!
I ask guys one question. WOULD YOU TELL YOUR MUM/SIS TO GO SELL HER BODY FOR FUN OR MONEY?
We say theres  NEED/DEMAND/SUPPLY.Very true. But would you be glad if u met mum/sis  fulfilling 'many strangers intimate needs?for money sake?
We are just saying its okay cz its that other lady we know nothing about.
Bring it closer home!!

If u met one,take 5 minutes and tell her to go do smthing meaningfull and productive wth her life.Your 5 dollars and lecture could help get one out of the street.Then she can focus on her life,family,kids etc.She may end up giving birth to a son that will later marry ur daughter! or have a daughter tht could be ur sons future wife!!

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I think its high time I explored Nigerian culture section. the suya,the fufu,the egusi ,the mumu,maga,pepper soup. I need that now.Nt all this lovey dovey stuff.

Damn am supposed 2 be out of here!

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@ goldie
crazy dude.
Am tempted to ask. so lemmie just proceed.
What is ur position among 190's list of wives?
Like ur wife number what? Is he a born polygamist?
Does he even know how may he has so far?
He keeps mixing their names.

me too lol.
that was a joke!!

I have a question 4 u.
Wht would u do if somebody broke ur heart again?
your reaction pliz

@ Goldie
seriously? do I even sound like the 'flirty kind'? AT MY AGE!
190 style up!! how many times d u lie in a day.
And HOW MANY WIVES DO YOU REALLY HAVE? DECLARE pliz and stop crossing into others territories!! I fear 4 ur life.
You have broken normal records!

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