It's of general knowledge that a grateful heart receives more. A heart of gratitude is something I believe we all should have, no matter the circumstance, economy or finance (even though 80% difficult).

Here's a quick view into why I writing this right now, because apparently I'm in church and the Pastor is you know... Preaching!

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It's testimony time, and there is usually a large number of *testifiers* as its the First Sunday (you know naija na). All the women are dressed in native attires with geles tied at almost the same height as they themselves. Even the men are not left out. But as for me? I just kukuma rocked my white shirt, ripped faded denim with my sandal. (actually I don't have a native attire yet).

Back to the topic;

It's testimony time, and a large number of people were out to give their testimony of how God had been good to them in several ways, some with; brand new cha-cha cars, some with a husband/wife, some with admission in to the university and so on, but a particular guy caught my attention and he's the major inspiration for this post.

He stepped forward, went down on his knees, and began to give appreciation for the very little things he had, the very little things most wouldn't count worthy of a testimony. He began pointing out the very little things around the church and also gave appreciation for those that testified. To me this is the much more than selflessness.

Now that's a true and genuine heart of gratitude. If you can find extreme joy from little things that we feel doesn't matter, or even be joyous for your fellow human, now I don't mean empty "joy" but genuine Joy, then you possess a true Heart of Gratitude.

I've learned something from coming to church today and I hope you learned something too by reading this post.

Feel free to leave a comment below, if you did.

Let me quickly pocket my phone, this one that the usher is eyeing me like this. lol.

Source; http://www.urbanoversabi.com/a-heart-of-gratitude/
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Lalasticlala
Obinoscopy
Seun
Ishilove

Lmao Nice innovation BTW.

MrCEO69:
i can create a fake whatsapp chat you know, why on earth, dnt tell me it was just coincident that the dude is using same profile picture both on whatapp and twitter..... accept it u r busted

LOL Uncle please let your hair down. I'm just me, not the victim of twitter bashing. Ewo wa ni "accept it u r busted" ema gbami ke

SNOWCREAM:



Twitter and false Drama.
How did she get his account number and bank?
Only reasonable excuse is if the guy has been transferring to her, but according to the guy's complain, they just met.

I refuse to chop bread wey no get dough

see how she got his account number

Who noticed that the op was saying it like it's the lady that wants to marry the boy

eyeview:
You may not believe this but I know of a case where a young man, a student visited this girl(a course mate) at her parents home. While he was waiting patiently for the girl in their sitting room, the dad emerged. He sat quietly opposite the youngman and engaged him in a few question and answer session which the young man represented himself very well.
The girl's dad being impressed with his intelligence and focus, told him this :" young man, from my brief interaction with you, you seem like an intelligent boy who knows where he is going in life, for your own good, stay away from my daughter, she will derail you. She is a bad influence and I would give you this advise as if you are my son, that girl will be a bad influence on you. Avoid her for your own good".

That advise made waves in our hostel back then(over 15 years ago). The girl then was rotten then anyway.

Hahahahahaha ... Unto Prophecy tinz

Yes another crystal clear sodomy all in the name of “fashion campaign” . American fashion brand, Eckhaus Latta, is pushing the boundaries in fashion with their latest campaign and also causing some major controversy.

The fashion brand owned by NY designers, Zoe Latta and Mike Eckhaus, launched a daring campaign a few days ago to celebrate individuality and also normalize sex through fashion. I mean, that’s like trying to enforce a blind man as a traffic warden…How does it connect WTF!!!

However, the rather explicit campaign, which features real-life, as in real-life straight, gay and lesbian couples performing sexual acts on camera (blue film), has the internet buzzing with questions as it has got people talking.

The raunchy photos show different sexual acts ranging from hand jobs to actual intercourse blurring the lines between fashion, art and pornography and for this reason, I’d rather point out to where you can view them rather than this, my self-righteous diary/blog. *grins*

Personally, this campaign or champagne whatever is a very poor shot at creativity?

According to Zoe Latta, co-owner of Eckhaus Latta, "their brand is designed specifically for a ‘liberated audience.’ For a group of people who want to feel like they are not defined by their clothes but simply accepted for who they are.

“We want to liberate people from branding or marketing mechanisms that make people feel small. We’d like to offer an alternative – whether that’s in self-image, body image, gender identity or colour.”
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In other words, if you aren’t wearing their clothes and you’re straight, then You are not Liberated yet.

Eckhaus Latta’s website has been down for two days now since the campaign launched. (Guilty conscience). http://eckhauslatta.com/

Click here to see their Instagram Photos : https://www.instagram.com/p/BSKNlmzgYQ6/

Source : http://www.urbanoversabi.com/fashion-campaign-porn/
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Lalasticlala
Obinoscopy
Mynd44
Ishilove

Amarabae:
must a lady be financial buoyant before she gets love?

No! BUT if you've got prospect, then its attainable. Same goes for the guys them

ikorodureporta:
Sorry, there are no mosquitoes in ikorodu. I neva flit house for more than a year.

Abi you don host round table Peace talk meeting with them

tosyne2much:
This is a well written article.. Coming back to add mine

Oya o tosyne2much come and add yours

ToriBlue:
What if I am a student and not financial buoyant now so does that mean that no man will love me?

C'mon, as there are students that spend lavishly and have the opposite of the qualities mentioned above even if not all, so also there are babes with these qualities even if not all.
All I'm trying to say is, You go see BOBO

ang4156:
Nigerian men want superwomen now? Those qualities are admirable, however, there could be some deficiencies in some areas. Be willing to lower standards or expectations to realistically find someone to love--or be willing to compromise in some areas. We, women, do it all the time. lol

Definitely, there could be deficiencies, but these qualities work hand in hand many a times. It's easy when you have one, you easily get to possess the other

LordIsaac:
Number 1 has reconciled me with my ex. I used to be responsible for her financially. Now, however, she earns 3 times my salary. She says she still loves me...I'm back

That's if she doesn't let it get to her head

tosyne2much:
This is a well written article.. Coming back to add mine

Thanks man

SalamRushdie:


Yes I had Issues .. Always wanted to finish there just like my dad but my attitude no gree me

B.A Strong head

sexybbstar:


SO u dont believe there are spiritual husband?

I hear and read stories about them too. I strongly believe they are real...

There’s a chance that you’ve probably asked yourself, the “what do men look for in ladies?” question, which in all way is a good question.

Some ladies may be tempted to think they are special and exceptional; but times have changed with what guys on their torches for these days. Gone are the days of having only a sexy body and a big nyansh or having a tomato Jos face. These days it’s now a combination of Beauty and Brains, then the big nyansh is a plus *grins* obviously a sexy body can be attainable these days.

There are some specific qualities guys look out for in ladies which makes them chase them upandan. Consider developing some of these qualities and have a lot of Men buzzing around you like a swarm of bees while others sweat to even get a man to notice them talk less of court.

Be Financially Buoyant
This is one quality that sits on top of all the others. A lot of men, irrespective of their level of wealth or educational qualifications would want an industrious lady for a wife, not someone that will like to just siddon berekete and adding unnecessary weight, without adding to the home’s gdp. Mbanu!

Self Discovery
Self discovery! This personally is a big one. When a lady knows herself, invariably she is matured to know the difference between reality and trends. That’s another keyword among guys they wouldn’t want their woman pressuring them to do things because her friends are doing it or it’s the new wave, without her weighing the Pros and Cons.

Be Humorous
While you don’t have to be a serious comedian like Helen Paul or Chi Gurl, a little bit of humour can do you no harm abi? Every man wants a woman that can be so free when around him and one that she can share fun and happy moments with. Take for example Bisola and TTT of BBnaija. A little craziness won’t make heaven come down. Enough of the seriousness, when it’s not UN meeting

Be Good At Communicating
Good and positive Communication is an important quality guys/men look out for in ladies. Being able to communicate your feelings without feeling ashamed is a plus for you. Most guys now don’t want to be the ones doing the talking alone and you just responding *yea, ok, hun, lol. Ewww, that’s disgusting to the ears. Furthermore, pushing us to be asking common entrance questions of “Have you eaten? What did you eat? Where’s my own?”

Be Stylish
While you don’t have to be as doll_like as Toke Makinwa or Victoria Kimani, you can cover up for facial beauty with being stylish. Find a style that suites you, and not following every makeup video you see on YouTube and Instagram Over painting and contouring dey make face worwor. You don’t need those Kim Kardashian’s heels to be stylish. Different strokes for different folks, find your style and cast out the spirit of insecurity

Be Supportive
Men want ladies that will be supportive of their careers, dreams and aspirations. If you listen attentively to men and show understanding, definitely he’ll see you as someone he can spend more time with. Nobody wants a money spender, without knowing how far.

Intelligence
Men want ladies that are not limited to their field of study and specializations. Being brilliant in your field only will only make men see you as boring. Variety is the spice of life so, versatility is key! In this way, you can talk about everything and anything therefore never a boring moment.

That’s all folks, meeeehn! My fingers are burning. Till my next post

Source; http://www.urbanoversabi.com/qualities-nigerian-men-want-woman/
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Fynestboi
Obinoscopy
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Tosyne2much

Trinity33:
first of all, op, sperm dos not accumulate in the prostate gland, its stored temporaly in the epididymis. Spermatogenesis i.e the process in which sperm cell are produce, is a fairly continous process, dis means if they is no way of letting it out mayb tru masturbation or sex it will accumulate in the epididymis, so the body' own machanism of preventing the over accumulation of sperm is through wet dream, which is a normal biological precess and not a sin or spirital issue, so if u dnt masturbate, or have sex for a long period of time and u got a functioning testes, i think wet dream shld happen, ofcurse my opinion frm my medical background, 4give d typo error

Nice point you have there.

Sacluxpaint:
I was around 13 or 14 when I experienced mine, I didn't know jack about sex, till my 20s. Usually, the feeling is really good, then when I wake I will see my stuff, very thick and voluminous, as if it could make concrete lol. It's completely natural, don't mind overzealous religious Nigerians.

Hehehehe come and buy your akamu

miraclea:
As a matured man if you take long without sex you might have wet pant without a dream that to me is natural but the moment you start having sex and wet dream I advice you to seek spiritual solution because it might lead to barreness failure bad luck poverty spiritual children and all kinds of spiritual complications

Uncle keep the list rolling

justino57:
Omo eeeh this wet dream thing eeeh e tire me my own na everynite ooooh

Come let us Pray

stealthtiger:

Ask Jcole

I think am smashing but am sleeping My ColeWorld Mate

drillskillz:
I will make it very apt and succinct
No time for long essays.
The cause can be psychological and same time be spiritual.
Psychological in the sense that you were probably thinking about it before bedtime.
For the spiritual I would advise you research more on Astral sex.
It is possible for 2 human beings to have sex outside their bodies.
It is also possible for humans and spirits to have sex. This will only happen in the dream state.
It is possible to get raped by negative entities and its also possible to get raped by your fellow human being in your dream.
The objective of it all is to tap energy off you.
Same way we rely on plants and animals for food is the same way all these entities feed off our energy. And they will go to any extent to get fed.
.... To be cont'd

I've read about astral sex a couple of times, but I can't seem to resonate with the concept of tapping energy thingy... Energy to do what biko They'll now use it to do what in particular

DNA9:


You are educated.. Leave the slowpoke that created this thread.

Lmao oga cam dan Sir. It's just a thread not World War lll

jamex93:
in Africa it is a spiritual attack

One cold Orijin for you

chiraqDemon:
Spirit thunder
U don watch mojo go sleep or during sleep ur subconscious de think of sex na why u de get wetdream

When i was a mid i watched 44minutes and then had a dream that i robbed bank

I told my aunt n she was like pray against it
Praywr point come long pass me

Pray u will not joun cult when u grow up
Pray u will not be victim of armed robbery
Pray u will not die by stray bullet
Pray u will not die by assasin
Pray u will not die by purposefully aimed bullet
Pray somebody will not stone u to death
Pray U will not commit suicide
Pray U will not shoot somebody

U know how nigerian women are
They will never summarise 5 prayer point into one
They will even expand it and 15 mins prayer will become 6 to 6 dry fasting

Lmao, you got served hot sauce for dreaming

HARDDON:


adult wet dream?
did know that full grown adults have wet dreams.

The ones yours truly ever experienced was during puberty.
To welcome one into the Fvcking world! lol

Every night, i usually looked forward to the hawt monents! you cant imagine the la hawties that came every night to blow ma brains out while i was still a V!
oh how they love to pound! sit astride you and just blow your brains out! then immediately you arrrh, you wake up and there you have it; sheet la wet!
grew out of that stage and they stopped coming.


Note: if an adult man is still having this, you better fast and pray! it aint normal mehn! you might be married already to a marina yet single on earth

As a V nko? No prayers needed ba?

Polyphony:
Had my last wet dream when i was 18. It's part of growing up. It's normal but it's nasty mehn.
You have to wash everything lol.

As in ehn! Back then I used to keep it till noon before washing... Couldn't stand any sticky warefa

Raziii:
In simple English... Your tank is full and needs to be emptied to ease the 'tension'. OP you get that now abi. Its now the tension that comes with Lagos life okay. How else can your body carry out that task of discharging the fluid other than tricking you into thinking you are having sex. Dazzol!

OK, kani pe iyaff understand

FuckBuhari:
So u mean we stroke our libido at night?

E B like so o

I was shocked at seeing Lekki on the list. Really upon all their #sprinsprin

Beht, ahken find za pikches