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EkiranAlexmedia:
Hello Guys,
I am very depressed. Why do girls treat us Men like this ��

After everything i gave her. After all the love and care. I never cheated on her for once. For once.

The only thing that happened was i accused her of cheating on me with a friend. I did a research and found out it was true she cheated.

I was so angry i told her my mind about it. Next thing i know she is cursing me… What did i do wrong??
See the snapshot of what she sent to me below
Please, how do I respond to this? Drop ur comments below.

if they treat you like that doesn't mean all men are treated such way!

Some of you are just useless...who are you bringing as your Candidate to be voted for....tinubu no even send any of us,why do you want to kill urself!

Bakrabas:
Ezewaenz is the October and November stipend certain before mid December

Bros comot ur mind for the money to have rest of mind!

ahnie:
Gaskiya ne.
I missed all those their thick fura da nono splashed with thick mix of coconut.


I might go back to stay in the north finally.i m finding it difficult domiciling in the south after so many years of returning back from the north .

Chai arewa gani da Kai.

hope is not the north buhari is working with bandit to takeover!

guobe:
Isaiah Ayefy acknowledge if you have gotten the alert of 5000 naira

bro do something for me too pls even na 1k...nothing de ground to eat aje!

Olunmercy56:
You will see ur spouse online, messages delivered, he or she wouldn't reply. Even if it's twice in a day, you can't afford that, it's bad communication, even if it's good morning and good night messages, it's okay, if he or she can't do that, it's bad communication

alright...Thanks!

Righteousness2:
The Word of GOD, the Holy Bible says clearly that the wages of sin is Death.

The Word of GOD clearly says Fornicators , adulterers and Unrighteous folks will not see Heaven.
1Corithians 6:9
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,

Pope says it is not a serious sin.
These are the Last of the Last Moments. The foot soldiers and false Prophet of the antichrist are being revealed!

Watch and Pray that you will not be caught in their web of deceits and Delusion.

If you are engaging in sex outside Marriage, it is not Dating! It is Fornication! it is Evil. It is a terrible sin and will destroy your soul in Hell.

Immorality of any kind is Evil. Fornication, adultery, beastiality, homosexuality, lesbianism,etc. It is Sin and will Destroy your soul in Hell.

is mother named him ishaò...
Who name him Jesus Christ?

[quote author= post=108340150]By Igbo standard, but by Nigeria standard Umuahia is far better than Ado Ekiti, Osogbo and Akure


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL-bppWr83E


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CgCqgD-AEE


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-OOnVR3Db6k[/quote]and you are all running to the osogbo to sell gala!

Olunmercy56:
Cheating, receiving calls outside, bad communication, slapping or beating, lies

pls can you explain this bad communication?

ezenwaez:
Please it is not true

alright boss!

Ayoade05:
There's a news circulating that stipend payments are suspended till further notice. How true is that?

na true ooo...that message is from nasim direct!

AllahIsSatan:
You mean news that was reported on Arewa.com is fake news?

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call Gumi to other!

conductor20000:
Let's ignore this news and comment 1000 times with 1000 fake monikers in the thread that says Nnamdi Kanu ate ukwa this morning.

We are hopeless. We don't know what to do with our lives without Igbos. We can't live without them even though we envy them and hate them.

- Unity beggarz FC.

cc omenka NgeneUkwuenu sarki

without Igbo's and you people cannot stay in your state to developed it...naso ena full every village for sokoto, just de make noise for nairaland!

JoeNL22:
Yes i totally agree with you
Fpr its written . "Prayer without Wprk is useless" also it is written that "God will bless the works of my hands". Hence, we must be working and start a business and not depend on Govt.
The question now for you is "are you Working?".

yeah,but pay is not enough!

MufasaLion:
Cash out season.

exactly what I want to comments!

toprealman:
Nigerians and ignorance..... nobody is forcing you to go anywhere bro. Only the informed apply the principles of the game of checkers to land to their dream destination. The uninformed continue to dream.

check well,who is the ignorance here...if you like go to Lesotho, that not my business... Wherever I decide to go shouldn't be ur business!

Mbmohammed:
From NASIMS.

"Dear Batch C1 Non Graduate Beneficiary,
PAYMENT OF OUTSTANDING FEEDING ALLOWANCE.
This is to notify all non graduate Beneficiaries that payment of outstanding feeding allowance has commenced earlier today.
All deserving Beneficiaries under this category will be paid.
However, we are currently working on other outstanding
payment for all qualified Beneficiaries which will be concluded any time soon. All inconveniences this unplanned delay have caused you is highly regretted.
Please bear with us.
Thank you!"

nothing we fit do...

MufasaLion:
Congrats!!! The photographer is not creative.

ena most c something talk!

ArewaNightmare:
HARAM

normal is haram...are you saint?

KennethBen:
I did not want to comment. But this “connection” thing you typed in your comment got me to reply.

I earn 300k monthly as a totally single guy working as a web designer and digital marketer for a firm in Lagos. I did not even apply for the job. I was called for an interview based on my online portfolio website.

It’s kinda tough living in Lagos especially when you are working on the island and living in the mainland.

Transportation, restaurant food, entertainment, cloths. And other miscellaneous will make 300k look like change.

I have 2 other streams of income. I retail a health product on a website which I created and getting weekly sales.

I also freelance my web design skill handling projects that’s not less than 150k per gig.

People’s living taste are different. I buy whatever that’s necessary for me anytime the need arises because I don’t know how to starve on the things I really need.

Plus family and friends add up to some unforeseen expenses.

hwf chief,teach me work na!

Prettydevil:
Won 13k with 100 naira this weekend actually it was 44k I won but I cashed out 10 minutes into the final boom and I almost cried.

One game cut 100k that I staked with 100 naira

One game cut 66k that I staked with 100 naira

One game cut another 64 k that I staked with 100 naira

All happed last week.

Finally figured out the secret to cashing out after so many years of losing to bet companies

you are the real devil!

Seniormanfeyyie:
Ftc for the first time,i dedicate it to my late mum Elizabeth mobolade

RIP to her!

Tranquillity360:
It's normal thing for Yorubas to hate Igbos,they are taught from kids to hate Omo Ibo.
If you're Igbo man working with yorubas na that time you go understand what I meant.

But you will see them running after our beautiful women because they don't have ladies like that.They want to have beautiful and handsome kids.




As for Precious Chikwendu she should learn to deal with her personal problem and stop telling us what we already know.

is that the reason we have highest single Igbo ladies and olosholism!

vinceyinnovation:
Those days were the"Beating Age"...

Now it is spoiling age... since parents started to spare the rod due to excessive pressing of phone and snapping picture.

It is said "People buy things they don't need with money they don't have, to impress people they don't like"

see talk...best comment of the year!

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hwf,where ur location... I wan learn work abeg!

Drsnives:
My brother i just tire, she no dea shoe any concern because she no dea see am, me weh dea see am dea shame atimes when we dea together with friends

sabi na ur babe,talk to her na...go hospital with her,u no go spend pass 5k!

Saintmary:
My answer is embedded in my reply

alright na!

Ohyinyeah:
*Being Nigerian Outside Nigeria: An Extra Burden* by Fr Nash

I've been in and out of South Africa since the last five years. On my first arrival in Johannesburg, January 2014, I was welcomed at the airport by Fr. Terry Nash. He was smiling, I was smiling, too. I was in the company of six other guys who introduced themselves - from Delta State, Akwa-Ibom, Benue, Anambra, etc.

It got to my turn and I said IMO. Fr. Nash's smile ripened into a giggle, "I have heard about Imo, I met many people from Imo State because I've been in prison ministry. Nigerians generally make up a high population in the prison here. And the Imo guys make the church in prison so vibrant, those guys are great", he said, still smiling. My own smile had left me. Years later I would find myself suffering what seems like a stigma that comes with being Nigerian. Every time I found myself in the airport, my identity as a Nigerian is a source of worry: being asked to step aside for extra questions, being delayed by extra protocol because I'm Nigerian.

Three years ago I was returning to Nigeria one holiday. There was a small chaos at the airport: the noise of police whistles and the barking of police dogs filled the air, "get that man", a chubby white police man was screaming. "Somebody has been caught with drugs again", an unknown Black man quickly hinted me, "it is these Nigerians". I quickly became furious.
"You can't be sure it's a Nigerian", I retorted. Well, the guy was caught. Behold, he had a strong Nigerian accent while he was begging the police men, and had the angled shape of my head: Igbo, with a rosary on his neck. I gave up on defending Nigerian reputation.
I gave up because shortly after a Nigerian family volunteered to do clean up in a certain Catholic parish in Johannesburg, the police stormed into the church one day and found drugs hiding behind the terbanacle. I gave up when a Nigerian asked by an immigration officer to step aside, was scolding the officer for the delaying him and raining legal threats, "I know my rights, you can't keep me this long", only for the immigration officer to find that his documents had all been forged.

Once, on returning to South Africa from Nigeria I was with an old Yoruba woman who couldn't speak or read English, her son in Pretoria had a new born baby. She had been invited, they somehow succeeded in making her a passport and got her a visa. She couldn't read anything or understand any information at the airport, so I helped her because my Yoruba is fluent.
When finally we reached Johannesburg the immigration officers had questions about some "strange" things in her bag. I told them those were cooking ingredients, I was the translator between her and the officers. Soon she became worried and whispered into my ear, "Eyi n di isoro. Fun won ni five hundred naira" (this is becoming a problem, give them five hundred).
"Won o kiin gba five hundred", I replied.
"Oya fun won ni one thousand" (then give them one thousand). She squeezed a wrinkled one thousand naira note into my hand. I told her they do not use naira here. "haaaaaah" her mouth opened. I expected that, I smiled.
Bribe is a Nigerian culture, even our old people believe it works, and that there is no other way of moving past an obstacle asides bribe, there is no other means of progress asides bribe. Bribe is a Nigerian salvation.

Weeks later I had a Nigerian friend who was in dire need. He lived with me, he talked about his two million naira which he was expecting from Nigeria, with many proves of the availability of the money. So he borrowed six thousand rand from me. My friend, it's now more than two years, he never paid. He fled to some place else and never returned my calls. I learned later he had borrowed also from a Kenyan who was our neighbor, and this neighbor kept asking where my 'brother' was. Until today he never paid, and it doesn't prick his conscience.
It's important for we Nigerians to ask ourselves serious questions. What is the most important thing to a Nigerian? What kind of factors in our childhood make us desperate and dangerously competitive? Sometimes we are under the pressure of our parents and peers to "prove our selves". When the average Nigerian travels abroad he doesn't travel to merely make a livelihood. His plan is to outshine his peers. I do not find this common among South Africans. They're usually satisfied, they just want to have what they need, they don't kill themselves over what is beyond them.

The first time I had a drive to Durban with a senior brother from Mariannhill we saw a Nigerian suspiciously passing a tightly-folded bag from under the counter, then they made signs to each other, then he sneaked out. Another man entered and sneakily collected it.
The Zambian brother tapped my back, "drugs, they are your brothers". The saddest thing is that those who choose to talk about this are attacked and bullied on social media, they are regarded as unpatriotic citizens. Because Nigerian morality ends with sex and marriage. Finished. Talk about issues on human sexuality and you'll see the bible-thumping Nigeria saying, "hell fire, Adam and Steve, weapons of the devil, it is not our culture", but bribery is our culture. Everything else asides sexual activity is survival, so it's unofficially acceptable. Our mouths are sharp when HIV is mentioned, we often think we are very moral. What shall it profit a virgin who is a thief? Nigerian morality is faux.
"What is your brother doing in Malaysia?"
"He is hustling", that is all you can say. He's just hustling. He comes back to Nigeria and does Thanksgiving and the priest blesses him with chasuble spread out. He pays his tithes and gives huge offering, and his name is announced in church. But nobody notices that poor man at the corner of the church who is a gate man and gives his offering from the little he earned through honest work.
What is your brother doing in Dubai? You give random and vague answers: He's trying to find something, we are praying he succeeds, please put him in prayer. You know that kind of prayer, right?

A South African Bishop once made a joke, "it is easier to trust a stone than to trust a Nigerian. You keep a stone on this table, you'll still find the stone when you come back. Keep a Nigerian and come back later, the Nigerian is gone". And yet we wonder why religious orders outside Africa are afraid of considering Nigerian applications. Our brothers who were admitted into American dioceses arrived the airport and then ran away.

I visited a church in Johannesburg where I heard during the announcements that the guy who teaches the altar servers had been shut dead. A Nigerian. Later the circumstances surrounding his death did not match with a person who would teach mass servers how to serve Holy Mass.

It should make us ask questions about what we value the most as Nigerians: religion or integrity? Perhaps something is wrong with how we have been evangelized.

Back home in Nigeria, Nigerians who are not corrupt are seen as fools by their fellow Nigerians. Their wives mock them. Those Nigerians who studied abroad and now see the world differently, hardly ever come close to political offices in Nigeria, they just won't fit in. And yet we love Jesus the most, we are the bastion of faith in Africa.
Do you know why your visa has been rejected many times? It's because your passport is a Nigerian passport. Ask your friend from Tanzania, he'll tell you how easy it is for him to get a visa.

Do you know why your admission into that European University is taking long? It's because they're still investigating your documents to be sure that they're not fake. Ask your South African friend, he already got an admission.

Now that a new word has been added into the Oxford Dictionary "Nigerian Scam" (please google it) we can be sure that our position in the world is first place. Think Nigerian, but let it be that your reputation is important. Identify as Nigerian, but make sure those who come after you are not denied privileges because of you. Because of those who represent us positively around the globe, because of the many Nigerians who work to earn their living, I am proudly Nigerian. I am proudly Nigerian, because Pius Adesanmi was, Chinua Achebe was, because Anthony Cardinal Okogie is, because Chimamanda Adichie is, because Fela Kuti was, because of people such as Flora Nwapa, Ben Okri, Dora Akunyuli, Bishop Hassan Kukah, etc. There are many models you could choose from instead of adding to our dirty script. Save other Nigerians from stigma, be true.

bro pls I broke, can I get something from you!

constancefriday:
The excuse is that the economy is bad, it's our money that they've stolen etc
What more? Justice is for sale, anything goes when money exchanges hands. Even a top ranked friend of mine said, even when a person is killed, as long as money exchanges hands, injustuce is permitted.
Last time i checked, that's not how things go in developed countries.
Before Development becomes visible openly in our various sectors such as Education, Infrastructure, Economy etc it first has to occur in minds, hearts and systems.
In commumities where customs are shaped to be "part with money and you'll have": Chieftancy titles, Sociological reverence etc (i call them Honor for sale titles which from a right minded and clearsighted analysis aren't honors at all but are a curse on the lands of those who sold it for money rather than issue it out to encourage good values) Youths are misled to think having it by any means is the way.
In many platforms and quarters some Folks are very symphathetic with Internet Fraudsters (aka: Yahoo Boys or Yahoo+) they have no inkling what level of damage they do to the image of the Country.
Currently in Nigeria PayPal is not available, and has most likely been willfully made unavailable by it's owners in Nigeria, most likely for the fear of another level of rip off by these Experts in ripping other People off.
Leaders in Political offices are very bad examples to emulate. If the Son of a Politician has millions of dollars to spend as he wishes while Youth who are his mates that live within the Country can barely boast of 3 complete meals a day.
That is enough to drive a maladaptive wild and berserk.
When they snipe or flick the White Folks, you clap for them and give them Chieftancy titles, but when they call you and trick you into releasing Your bank account details, then completely drain your bank accounts of all it's contents, You should clap for them and add another feather to their cap.
Few minutes ago, i received a phone call from someone who claimed to be a staff of Stanbic IBTC on the exact phone number i used as my SMS alert line.
He asked for my Debit Card details etc etc (they must have discovered somehow i had good sums in that bank ) i asked him for his name, he failed to respond, the branch he was calling from? No response.
It became very obvious to me he had bad motives.
Lately i'm very careful how i deal with online cash transactions.
I've requested for some of my ATM cards to be blocked often due to suspicious online activities.
I'm even very much aware that some of my rivals are poaching my social media handles to phish for some of my credit card details (they know i'm very active on social media).
These are all one and the same evil. Fraud is fraud, evil is evil, and God frowns at it. You may have an excuse for it but the fact that it's bad and evil.
The Harvest of evil is often greater than the seed of evil. One seed of maize yields a plant of maize with many cobs of seeds.
So rather than sow evil deeds, sow good deeds, shun internet fraud, repent from it and channel your energies into things that are good and productive, e.g Humanitarian works or entrepreneurship.
I'm aware that some of these poachers were hired by my rivals to get at me, and i wonder how such kind of a person should be regarded as a Preacher by the public.
If Yahoo Boys have the front seats in your Cathedrals i wonder what gospel you're preaching? I'm sure it's the gospel of Satan.
If you're a fraudster, a thief and i know you're a thief, i will tell you to repent rather than drop hacked, phished and stolen money at the Apostles feet.
You may get away with it but you will end up leaving a calamitious time bomb for your next generation.
The Bible is full of People who got away with what they did "somehow" but had their Children pay so dearly for it.
Will Your Children be paying for the evil you did today or will they be reaping the fruits and harvests of all the good seeds you've sown today? No good deed is wasted. GOD is watching You.
God is concerned about You deeds being right or wrong, not You being Rich or not Rich.
Being Rich in Men's eye is a very wild gulf away from being Rich in God's eye. Never think that having an overflow of cash money is a symptom of GOD'S Validation.
You may have that but yet be an enemy of GOD even though you're a Preacher. Yes, one can be a Preacher and yet be an enemy of GOD. Actions speak louder than words.
Most Youths go into crime because they're oppressed or depressed. Many blame the political class for the economic torment they're into, who allowed them in? They can't be on that seat if you didn't allow them to be there.
Prof. Pat Utomi in his book titled WHY NOT which was reveiwed in Vanguards Newspapers today (21/5/2019) says that "Good People" don't get voted during elections, that's why the nation is bleeped up.
Like a Lady who complains that all Men are devils but walks out on the love advances of a good Man and rolls with Oafs, Thugs and Loafers, Nigerian Politics has been a banty between the Greedy and the Gullible.
Only the Gullible can become the victims of the Greedy. So what is the way out of this oppressive Political torment you complain about too often?
Answer: DON'T BE GULLIBLE.
Read 1 Timothy 6:6
It's either this or like the CBN Governor, plus other experts have predicted, the worse lies ahead. I can only pray for you that you will heed this advise, and secure yourselves from GOD'S WRATH.
Dear Nigerians and Africans
N:B - Naira Marley, a notorious internet fraudster was arrested recently. This is a Prophetic warning to all internet fraudsters aka Yahoo Boys, judgement has been passed on your cases. Those who fail to repent will fall. God is watching You.

Apostle Constance Friday is the Most Supreme Shepherd of Real Life Missions Org. A global gospel preaching organization. He's a Preacher, Teacher, Writer, Philantropist and a Humanitarian.

those apostle are scammers also!

JoeNL22:
Hope you're different and praying for Nigeria.
Pray ooo!!!
If Nigeria does not have Peace. You as a Nigerian can't experience peace ooo!!.
Don't check my signature. OR-MUST-YOU?

we have been praying since 1960,did you see any better changes,it just getting worst with the prayers...why can't we work more instead of only praying!