I agree. God will and should make it happen. Seven years of trying and tons of fertility drugs including hospital trips not easy at all. God have mercy upon my soul ooo.

Omojudy:

I did 2 surrogates once with 5 embryos and zero took in. Ivf is not a sure thing laslas.

I will do just that and i don't mind anyone saying a little prayer for me. Is not been easy.

wonyi:


good morning sis, I have walked in your shoes too. I would suggest serious mid night prayers. If you have the grace, continue for a long time until you get answers.

Prepare for 2 surrogates or a surrogate and yourself.


The results of the prayers will Tell you who to use and hospital to pick. To me the journey is more spiritual.

If not convinced please stop and continue until you are 100% sure the timing is right.

I had a failed medical procedure although with surrogate but I feel the fault is mine because I wasn't ready spiritually.

Amen sis

CorrectBizWoman:


God will wipe away your tears and bless you with kids soonest. That's all I want to say.

Wooh. That is another angle to it but that would cost a arm and a leg . What if both become positive too as hubby does not want more than two kids at a time and i will not want to waste money by putting one one each. Sorry for the questions as i just want us to help me think this tru. Thank You.

Omojudy:

I can understand your husband. He doesn't want to risk your health unnecessary. Ivf isn't always rocket science. How about using 2 surrogates instead of using yourself?

Good Evening all. Been awhile. So i did go for another round of IVF both for me and a surrogate this time. Is sad to say that i had a BFN. i started bleeding on the 8th day when i wiped and i was given injections, it stopped only for me to start bleeding on the 13th again but this time a lot heavier than the 8th day. I was also given another injection. i stayed in the hospital all tru and i did all i was supposed to do as i learnt from here. As for the surrogate, it was also a negative. She did not bleed at all. I used my eggs as i had 6 grade AA eggs that made it to day 5 before the implant. Four were implanted for me while two went to the surrogate. Am just wondering what could have gone wrong as all the prognosis were right this time or so i thought. Before the transfer i did Anti- Mullerian Hormone test and i was 2.44 hence my going ahead to use my eggs. I know my write up is lengthy but please sabi Mamas help me touch light this as hubby is insisting we try just surrogate rather than myself and a surrogate again. i have done 3IVFs and 1IUI. I had surgery to remove fibroids last year September. i will be 40yrs this year.
Sorry for any typo.

Omojudy, i sent you an email. Please respond. Thank you.

Omojudy:

The dollar thing is a real issue.
Yes he told me same about external surrogates.
How are you?

God is Awesome, it seems like a tall order, but never give up hope, as He who did it for me even when my last scanty period was October last year, and with all herbs I took even after unknowingly conceived kept this baby and we are in our 2nd trimester now!
As humans, we get tried of this journey sometimes, but dust yourself up and renew your faith as God never fails!
Sprinkling loads of babydust to everyone desiring of this special gift, you too shall testify soonest!
He is too Faithful to fail.[/quote]

Congratulations. God is Faithful. God let your hand touch each and everyone of us TTC.

May her soul find peace. This is painful indeed.

Mummy4life1:
Very sad ma'am. I cried through out yesterday. The husband keep saying is gone after spending all her saving on IVF. She had four failed IVF and three failed IUI. She did not even spent a day with her baby before God called her home. Very painful

Thank You for your response. i really appreciate all the feedbacks. i have asked doctor google what is hysterscoptic shaving.

Tutu82:
It’s a set of metal rods that go up in sizes i want to say the smallest is 0.5.Its lubricated before it is inserted.

The last option when all has failed according to my small knowledge is hysterscoptic shaving.

Also for your own benefit you can’t go wrong with exercises do your squats everyday as it works your pelvic floor.

I had memory loss for few seconds when i heard the price. There is no pus just blood. It closes completely hence the menstral flow being trapped. However with just a little probe it opens up and the bloods starts flowing out. The doctors told me that what they use is catheter of which they had to give me silicon one. However ones i remove it closes. I was not born this way. It actually started 2017 but not this bad. I have met with specialist and done two hysteroscopy to check my womb. I have heard a doctor in the past mention endometriosis though.I will go for the pap smear test to rule out anything. When you say dilators what do you mean pls? Is ot the normal dialators they use when performing procedures ? Pls explain. My sister, thank you for that advice cos i was almost tempted to go that way now since i am not finding solutions medically. I am asking here cos i know alot of pple read this post. I will not self medicate.

Tutu82:

The price of 25m threw me and i forgot to reply your first question.
Can i ask a few questions though?.Besides Blood does your cervix ever get trapped with Pus? and does it narrow down or close completely?.I ask because in some severe cases,a speculum cannot even pass through for an examination.
I feel you need to do a pelvic examination/cervical smear and also see a qualified gynaecologist.Theses days they put in a cervical stent which is that Catheter you talked about for far less than that 3months you had yours catheter in BUT in some woman like yourself that doesn’t work and a dilator is inserted and gradually a bigger size is put in till it holds.
Endometriosis sometimes causes stenosis while some people were just born that way.
You should never result to washing your cervix in Traditional herbs or all them so called yoni steaming(I tried it on advice and was in hospital battling for my life!) as once you introduce an infection there it all goes down hill and you don’t want a hysterectomy as your goal is children.
Hope this helps and Good luck.

Flesh and blood did not reveal it to you . Please i still await response to my first question. Anybody please?

Tutu82:

Yes it does cost a lot between 6-20million Naira which is sad as success is not guaranteed and depends if you are doing gestational or surrogacy.Deda hospital Abuja does it for about 9.5m which covers everything including legal but still a lot of money if you ask me.
This 25m must be Diff hospital Abuja as they allow you to do multi cycles till pregnancy is achieved as i researched into them.

Good Morning all. Please can anyone tell me where and how to treat acute stenosis of the cervix? The normal catheter is not working for me. Any time i remove the catheter the cervix closes back (even after three months)and it results to menses being trapped in the uterus. i have done three IVFs, one IUI and two hysteroscopy. Please i need anyone that has seen or gone tru the same issue to push me in the right direction. i am also considering surrogacy. One hospital in Abj said 25M. My people how many yrs will i save up such amount when i am not a govt official. Am really . Blendy and all the sabi mamas make unah put mouth.

My sister i did call him and actually went to see him at his private hospital at Uwasota. Infact i think that was my mistake, cos i was told to pick card for XYZ amount, Register for XYZ amount. After seeing him we got chatting and he gave us (Myself and hubby) a bill of more than a million naira. I think i will approach him at UBTH rather than his private clinic. Right now am on therapy and trying to correct some self inflicted defects.

mamakendra:

Please sis, have you called the Prof.
How much is the ivf and what's the procedure

Dear Sisters, been awhile. Trust we are all keeping well. Congratulations Mummy Heaven. The Lord will perfect all he has started in your life. Concerning the issue of closed cervix i would say it is so true and sometimes a major culprit in infertility. It is so silent that you might not even find out until you want to run HSG that is when the docs would know that your cervix is stenosed. Am not speaking from hear say but from experience. If you read my earlier post here you would notice that have actually written on this severally. One can just be taking fertility drugs and doing follicular tracking and every thing comes out fine but the cervix is closed up. Sperm cannot pass through. I for one have done 3 surgeries to correct this abnormally. As i type now i did the last one in June and have been told that i have to carry an IUCD for four to five months so that the cervix can heal around it. Funny enough i was knocked out and so did not feel any pain during the procedure. Fairly recently i started seeing the thread attached to the IUCD. Called up the doctor and he told me it is fairly normal. Only for me to decide to do house cleaning on my down below i con use oversabi cut the dangling rope comot. . Am sad cos this 4 to 5 months not hope of trying for a baby and age is going (mid 30s ). What was the cause of all these: wrongly done abortion and the cervix was scarred . I was pretty young then and wanted to hide my shame from my parents. Sad abi. Just one mistake can ruin so many things. Don't post much cos i have no new stuff or cheering news to share. I thank God for life though. Sorry for the long post and the typos just had to share so we can all learn.

Thank you thank you. Have been stalking this post. God bless you.

talltosyne:


Sorry, Ve Edited it. It's double 44

Dearest the number is not complete. Thank you.

talltosyne:


Sup sis, u can call d prof in charge
Professor A. A. E. Orhue
+234802339674

Good Morning Sisters, does anyone know the cost of IVF@UBTH and the processes i need to follow?

so true. Good afternoon my sisters. Its been awhile. same old same old, nothing new. I thank God for life

orney:
Only a ttc mama can see the faintest second line

Cubes01, your comments brought me out of my peeping mood. Am not going to say that it is too early to feel the way you do but trust me when i say some persons here have been in the position you are now and it does not help at all. God sees the hearts of men and he forgives. I have shared here how a cyst miraculously disappeared on its own even when my doc had already booked me for surgery. I am believing him for a miracle both for myself and my sisters cos when you get to your mid thirties funny tots begin to come. severally on my street people have asked me how are the children and all that. i just reply by saying they are fine cos i believe they are fine with God. Even my course mates way back in the uni would ask me same question, some out of ignorance and some just to mock. Me i dey kampe. i believe God ooo. It will come to pass my dear. That is God's word concerning all of us here. E-hugs to you and all my sisters. Merry Christmas in advance and a happy new year.

My people for house Unah well done ooo. God bless the us in this TTC journey. God has been faithful. The cyst has vanished on its own ooo. Glory and honour to God in the highest. Doc said it should be drained initially but wen i got to the person who was scheduled to do it, he asked me to watch it for awhile and come back after 2months. Low and behold, the stubborn thing don vanish on e own . This is just the beginning of his blessings.

Happy Independence day celebrations and happy new month my sisters. Our expectations will not be cut short. Amen

The same Pastor Ize Iyamu was equally with Osho during his first tenure when he worked. That is also a fact. This talks abt SSG is overflogged abeg. All the persons that 'chopped' money during Luky's time are in APC today. Trust you have your voter's card ready. I listen to manifesto not insults from either side. Let the best man win.

YaksonFCA:


Beautiful. ThankGod the duo have served in various capacities in previous administrations therefore their performance should be the ideal parameter for determining who is better for the state. The same Pastor Osagie Ize-Iyamu some people are praising here served as Chief of Staff and later SSG under the widely criticized Lucky Igbinedion administration in the state with practically little or nothing to show for it.

Happy birthday Loisemm, God bless your new age. God is indeed faithful, our maiguard's wife gave birth this morning at home. We (hubby and I) have been dragging the man to take the wife to the health center, he will just smile and say " Oga nor worry nah house". Only for him to knock on our door and say madam my wife don born this morning. I had to pick "my jaw from the floor" as it literally fell. I called hubby and rushed to their quarters, madam when born just dey chill for bed dey talk. Baby was already wrapped with some wrapper and sleeping soundly (a local birth attendant did all the works). Sister nah so i open mouth ooo. I was angry and super excited at the same time cos anything could have happened. We had to start running around for everything that was needed. God has a way of sorting people out cos this woman nor go any hospital, no antenatal nothing but yet God saw her through. I use her as a point of contact for myself and every other person here. Baby dust to us all.

@fpeter, kindly go back to my posts i think i have explained it before. Trust you are keeping well?

@ Iamfruitful04, LUF means Luteinized unruptured follicle syndrome. is a failure of ovulation in which, despite the absence of follicular rupture and release of the oocyte, the unruptured follicle undergoes luteinization. Another mama has explained though.

Hello sisters, trust we are keeping well. Been awhile. Update: i found a hospital that my spirit agrees with for now. I told us that my old doctor was just giving me drugs without any real follow up so my hubby and i decided to change d doc. The new one first treated me for infection first according to him that is the normal procedure with him. Any ways after that he placed me on drugs that would boost my fertility and i was asked to come for follicular tracking on some certain days. After the drugs and all we discovered that i had LUF. I say we cos myself and the doc were actually seeing it on the screen. So my sisters only me Fibroid, now LUF. I don't even know what to do or say anymore cos i have shed all the tears i can i have resolved to leave it in God's hands cos all the review online are not good at all. Imagine ooo Fibroid, stenosis now LUF only me. The doc gave me some drugs to take for 3months and then come back. Am on the drugs and believing God for a miracle cos that is what i need right now.

Baby dust sisters

Amen @ 4Realwoman, it will be so glorious . As we desire so shall it be.

whooo see my literature aunty way back. She is a calm and quite one. Me love my literature cos of her clam voice,teachings and poise

@iomoge, congratulations...................... I rejoice with you. Loving that baby hamper, so cool. The Lord will grant all our good heart desires soonest.

Jummaitwins, congratulations dear. Mrs red shoes came on high heels yesterday . Tired of feeling sorry for myself. Abeg any good gyna in Benin that will have my time apart from Ponders end? that place is like a market square. Kindly suggest.Thanks my e- sisters

Congrats nennynj and marcjaneto. Sister that is worried, pls do not sweat it, enjoy your marriage as anxiety have been told does not help in ttc. How old are you? wetin you want us wen dey mid 30's do? Please relax and enjoy your honeymoon. Am believing God for my miracle and all my ttc sister. I called the number of the lady that sells princess pearl i got here. She was so nice, she had to get it to me at the airport despite the fact that it was not on her way. God bless you madam. she has also been following up with questions. Have used two seeds so far. When i brought out the 1st seed i saw stuff like tissue paper, i almost ran out of the restroom, was wondering what those things were. I was of the view that the seed would disintegrate it did not, Sisters is that how is supposed to be? Sorry for my epistle, needed to update the house

This is amazing. God is here. Congrats to all the belleful mamas.