Kobicove:
She probably threatened to kick her husband out of the house

Her spirit is coming for you. Why tell lies when you don't know what happened?

ZACHIE:
Hard o.
It is hard to dabble into matters with half information. We all don't know the details. So, I will not be quick to rain hailstones on the husband.

But, if the woman being a nurse is anything to consider, if her being in the UK before her husband joining her is another thing to consider and if the husband being an Ondo man is yet another angle to the story, one thing is sure: the woman must have been flexing power and authority to the man with a few extramarital affairs in the bag.
You these UK nurses like to put it in your face soon as they assume control.
Maybe, maybe not .
Who knows.
Sha, the man's life is effectively over. The kids are in for a trying time.
It is a winless situation. Anger solves nothing.

I hope her spirit haunts you for telling these disgusting lies against her.

mmadu5:
they are honest and trusted pay out is very fast too so i dont know what you saying

This guy is one of them

Avoid them.

They are scammers.

A word is enough for the wise, all the screenshot on their sites for withdrawal are fake. Their entire system is fake.


Avoid
Avoid
Avoid

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This site is a scam. Do not send any money to them.

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optm:
corneal thickness does influence iop results. When the cornea is thicker than normal , it gives a higher reading than the actual iop and when it's thinner, it gives a lower result than the actual pressure in the eye. Measuring the corneal thickness helps u to know the true iop

Ok thanks doc.

optm:
what was the iop in that eye ? Was the corneal thickness measured before establishing an ocular hypotony ? Could it be he had a blunt trauma to that eye a long time ago and he possibly had forgotten ? you guys should have him do a Bscan to rule out an ocular tumour too. I wish you guys success as you find answers to your uncle's predicament

Thanks for your kind wishes.
So doctor I thought IOP test is enough to know if ocular pressure is too low.
Does corneal thickness has to be measured to establish low IOP? In spite of IOP being 5mmHg in the affected eye?

optm:
what was his reason for referral to the GP ?

He was referred so he could be tested to check for any systemic disorders or anomalies, like blood sugar or cholesterol levels. Or any type of inflammation because the man himself kept saying he doesn't feel sick or unwell in any way.
I believe blood work and other necessary tests will reveal what is actually going on with him.

I honestly thought hypotony was the reason for the accelerated cataract formation.

optm:
seems to me he has been to the eye clinic before now, right ?

Yes, the doctor referred him to general practitioner.

optm:
no doubt . due to an inflammation ? What could have been the cause of the hypotony in this case ?

I have no idea what the cause of the hypotony is. The man himself never reported having any illness or condition that can cause inflammation.


I really appreciate your responses doc. Thanks �

optm:
then we may start considering the possibility of a tumour having ruled out other possible causes

Can hypotony cause cataract progression in one eye?

optm:
Is the cataract mature ? You didnt provide answers to the other questions

Yes the cataract is mature.

Good day . HOw do you know the cloudiness is caused by cataract?

if you look behind the pupil, it is very clearly opaque. Even without use of instrument. The whiteness of the lens is visible.
.

iF it is cataract , you cannot be too sure that it's in just one eye. It could be in both eyes but probably worse in one eye

That's the thing. The other eye see very well and there is no form of lenticular opacity on examination.

Any history use of steroidal drug ?

Nope

what's the nature of the person's job?

Driver.

Any thing spectacular happen to the eyes; probably an inflammation

He said he wasn't sick and didn't suffer any type of ocular trauma and wasn't on drugs before it started.
He just noticed one eye getting progressively worse, he was thinking its something that will resolve on own until it became completely cloudy that's when he got worried

optm:
Good day . HOw do you know the cloudiness is caused by cataract?unless the cataract is mature, there's no way you can tell except you examine the eye with an instrument. iF it is cataract , you cannot be too sure that it's in just one eye. It could be in both eyes but probably worse in one eye. Any history use of steroidal drug ? what's the nature of the person's job? Any thing spectacular happen to the eyes; probably an inflammation?Have him do a lipid profile test aswell . However , much cannot be done online unless he's examined in person

Thank you.

Does high lipid in blood cause cataracts? Because the man has arcus senilis in both eyes.
It's definitely cataract. But in one eye.

Do lipid problems cause things like that?

optm:
there's no cure to glaucoma . It can only be managed so there isn't further loss of vision from the disease. The management varies depending on the type of glaucoma and stage of the disease

Good day doctor.

What causes sudden onset of cataract in one eye. There was no trauma or blood sugar issue. The man has arcos senilis and is 44yrs old
The cloudiness started three months ago and is getting worse. I know we should see a doctor but I wanted to know what you think is the cause.

laluski:


Better talk to the fool very fast...what nonsense..don't mince words with him .it's pure wickedness,can u imagine,if doesn't budge turn am to fight...if possible both families should know...the idiot will be claiming head of house so it's no one's business...no gree o!!

Honestly she annoyed me with her extreme quietness, what is even there to discuss again? Something she should have refused immediately.

Even for office them dey bully her, I tire for that woman.

Munzy14:

What is your business with that family now?
You are a third party, leave husband and wife alone, its their cross.

I care about my blood relative

legacystore:


Husband and wife are one not two
Every money that comes into that family belongs to both of them n to no one person.

It's like u are jobless n hoping on ur sister's money better go n hustle n let that home be

So after marriage she is no longer my sister?
We are still related by blood so I will still show interest in her life.

No I am not jobless but I think it's wrong to take advantage of the woman because she is quiet and can't quarrel.

Fountainofyouth:



The bolded is everything wrong and disgusting about that man, no apologies,

One thing I've noticed about humans is that, the weak are always taken advantage of, the soft spoken, nice, sweet people are the ones being burned severally, for married peeps, it is the ones opening threads upon threads of complaints that are also in this category, smh,

If I should advice your sister to secretly rent a house for herself and kids, furnish it tastefully, then move in asap since her husband is of no use whatsoever, so that he can house his other cousin and family and also feed them(he obviously boasted of being the man of the house and sole provider), some peeps here will come for my e-head with more usual garbage, but I won't say it, your sister can do as she wishes,


I await e-idiots to coin out unbelievable, yet not surprising, ways to make this man look like an angel among humans.

She is too soft it annoys me sometimes

I was even wondering why she didn't immediately refuse the husband's suggestion instead of keeping it in mind and coming to tell me about it.

Their house is very big, it has extra rooms that is why her in laws want to come. They think their brother is making serious money, They don't understand that the woman is basically the one carrying the whole house.

Brandonx:
I believe you got to know all this because your sister confided in you and that shows she's not happy about it so what's stopping her from talking to her husband?
You and your siblings should leave married people alone . 'you tried to get him a job, did he come running to you that he needs a job?
Your sister will just open her mouth waaaa and pour out everything, as a wife it's her duty to cover the man's Shame not expose it.

She is not exposing his shame,

He himself is not ashamed of his situation, he wants to continue earning peanuts that he spends on himself because he knows she earns a lot.

My younger sister got a job in a multinational company since before marriage, her husband works as a seller of a certain foreign product but since he started he has been barely mking money, my sister pays rent and kids school fees and buys food while he spends his money mainly on marketing his product. we all tried to help him and get a job in a company and as a lecturer but he refused saying he is used to business and does not want to work under anyone.
So my sister has been the financial back bone of the family for a while.

Her husband now wants to bring in a family from the village that has been having financial problems since their father lost his job in a construction company when covid 19 started and want to stay with them while the man looks for a job in the city

My sister will basically be the one feeding this man and his wife and child.

I feel as if her husband is taking advantage of her ,he can work hard and be a better provider but he insists on doing his meager business that hardly fetches anything.

My sister is very soft spoken and does not like acrimony so I guess that is why he acts like he is not supposed to be the provider, not just that but now he wants to bring in extra mouth to feed when the woman was already stretched to her limit in handling responsibilities that are her husband's.

I plan to intervene and talk her husband out of bringing in another person to the house.

How exactly did this virus come about anyway, was it engineered in a lab or someone contacted it from eating strange animals like bats?
Thank God it didn't originate from Africa because we for chop insult tire. The way they were insulting Africans when Ebola broke out.

Sterope:
The man certainly had the right to defend himself however the best option would be to report her to the appropriate authorities. Just like your master, you have a thing against poco. Have a little liver and confront her yourself instead of hiding behind your master.

Leave my front please I didn't address you.

BiafranBushBoy:


I tire oo...

he wouldn't even dare say it in court... prolly the one presided by a woman...

How can you claim that a woman assaulted you, and you slapped her till she fainted!!

Did you make any formal report?

Was she armed?

How did she touch you?

by the time he answers all these, he would be singing hallelujah in jail.

That poco whatever is a funny person.
I read on a thread where she said she hates men I don't know what she's doing now with her overzealous defence of men.

Ignore her

BiafranBushBoy:


Just to create an illusion that you always have a balanced view about genders, you decided to write crap...

Slap her for touching his dick instead of reporting to appropriate authorities. He might produce proof of dick touching if the girl decides to press for battery.

You mind her?

This thread too funny

Daeylar:
The rape comments are being deleted. But I wish seun would allow us see who likes such comments, let me know those to avoid on nairaland.

Before that comment was deleted it had 32 likes. I wonder who those people were.


I seen comments attacking and insulting women here get up to 900 likes. Rapist comments. Misogynistic comments, comments supporting abuse. Such kind of comments.

Now I know that up to 900 posters here liked such a comment, (the one in particular I'm talking about) but I don't know who actually liked it.
I just know that a lot of people are crazy, I don't actually know who is crazy.
How is knowing but not actually knowing, really beneficial to women on this website?

madam, at least you can know that many Nigeria men don't support women's rights or see them as equal. Instead of reading only pretentious comments like the ones on twitter and Facebook.

pocohantas:
, we need an option to know who likes comments and a downvote option too. Once that is done. Watch how some sanity will be restored.

RIP to the girl.
Probably she didn't have a good support system.

Abeg shift with your mumu demands

EwuOjota:
Say no to rape.

But suicide is also a sign of cowardice.

Let us shake some tables here. Look at her?on both pictures she is trying hard to be very naked. When you try hard to dress in a way to attract rapists,sometimes your dreams are answered.

You and those liking your post have mental issues.

So if a rich man decides to drive his flashy car that means he deserves to get robbed? Nonsense

So you are willing to make your children products of a broken home because of your greed and arrogance? Thunder fire your left yansh

Your mates are building houses for their wives and buying them cars you are here commanding your wife to dash you the one she built with her money. Why not hustle to build your own?

As for dee, if you are reading this, the lord is your strength. I can only imagine what kind of misery this arrogant man shows you on a daily basis. Don't change the documents to his name alone, the day you do that he will heartlessly throw you in the street.

Wicked man.

Op don't be too desperate so you don't get scammed, open ur eyes before starting anyone

soliq55:




While this it's great your wife turned out to be AA, I'm afraid it is impossible for one's genotype to change. Any church, pastor or prophet claiming that is a liar. Your genotype is coupled with your hemoglobin. Your hemoglobin is a component of your Red Blood Cell. For any non medically oriented folks reading this, YOUR GENOTYPE CANNOT BE CHANGED.

Thank you.

I am just laughing at those people that claim they prayed and their genotype changed.
With all the backyard labs in Nigeria that don't know what they are doing it is very likely those ones either got a wrong result the first time or got a wrong result after their prayers.

Best berth is to do the test in up to three reputable labs before drawing conclusion.