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@Thoniaslim,
i asked a question cuz from ur posts,i noticed u are always put them down/.

@poster,
you are generalising,not all men.

@Thoniaslim,
you don't seem to like men thta much?

@heather,
I will advice you try and make ur relationship work,why is not working?it is not right heather expect you are not a Nigerian,.

i go with Ken Nnanamani.

It marvels me how our politicians deceive us and think we will fall for it,i advice our youths that its time we stop looking up to them cuz they are going to fell us again and again and lets come together and have a brain stroming session and change the way things are done in this country cuz they will never do it for us.

yes,i have been trying to remove mine cuz the pic there isn't mine/

[color=#000099][/color]The both teams are great but as a gunner i route for our brothers Barca, though its going to be a very tight game and interesting to watch the best footballers,Messi,Ronaldo,Rooyney,Thierry Henry,Iniesta,Xavi,Giggs,Papa scholes,e.t.c,Can't be better final,It could have been Barca-Arsenal.

I will definitely marry one if she's good.

@rapheal,
can we chat?

@poster,
It is true but not all indulge in it.

@foye57,
nope,that girl is beautiful,admit lol.

it is a difficult scenario.Believe me love conquers all things.the question is are u willing to change ur religion for love?cuz he will ask you to change ur religion.if you can change ur religion for him then there won't be any problem.

@angelgirl1,
Every serious man will take u serious cuz
number oone:you too fine
number two:you get style
anything wey you want baby i go give am to you.
You are pretty girl.

@poster/blacckky,
is he paying for the Bleep or what?wake up poster,stop being lazy and i'm sure you love him cuz of his money,if he was poor would you have love him?
He will only give when he wants to not when you ask,it is not an obligation.

unselfishly caring for someone else and be honest but the world hates honesty.

I'm not supporting it though but you do not blame those that indulge in it,they must have gone through emotional trauma,so the find it hard to be involve emotional n truly,they hardly feel something for women cuz they develop a hard stance.

@poster,
I don't think it will be love if it doesn't end in marriage?why do you love then?for loving sake or what?a true love must end in marriage.

@poster,
yes a man and woman can be just friends,i have lots of female friends,sincerely it will help you know about the other gender more than when you are in a relationship.
But e no mean sey i no dey eye dem sha.

its a tough one,can you do it.

drop dead romantic

kpele o.i guess ur case is exactly one of d reasons why courtship before marriage is adviced.
from ur post i gather u and spouse did not effectively court and thus did not know much about each other.if not,how can u not know if she loves jokes or not.and also if she is secretive.i mean dis are stuff people tend 2 know b4 marriage or did u know and decide 2 accept it hoping she might change in future?
anyways,all dat is water under d bridge.as deed is already done.
does ur wife want 2 save ur marriage as much u or is she calling it quits?
if yes,then why not seek d help of marriage counsellors?also, u culd also spice ur relationship by being extremely romantic.(buy scented candles and lite ur bathroom,take romantic showers,surprise her with ur culinary skills 2 give her a treat once in a while.and even if ur bad at it,d effort will surprise and make her laff.
take her out 2 nice places.
buy her nice gifts.
tell her u love her like a million times a day.and u dont want 2 lose her.date she is d best thing dat has happened 2 u.
ask her 4 her fantasies.u know,like if u met a perfect man wat and how do u want him 2 be, look and act.
praise her in front of friends and family.make her feel like she is d number one person in ur life.
also,take an interest in her life.her academics(get familiar wit her work,research and make constructive inputs),housework,e.t.c.and offer 2 help her.it will greatly please her.spice up ur sex life.study her very well and know wat pleases her when u make love.she might not tell u cos i gather she is not d talking type.listen 2 her.find things dat interest her then joke in dat area.if she is against lewdness and u make lewd jokes,u jst mite be d only one laffing.
finally,wealth,possessions,achievements,while good,does not feel up a warm hug,kisses,appreciation,nice words and romance.
pray 4 ur marriage.take d bull by d horn and make it work.
good luck.
@earthy,
i presume you didn't read this post very well.he has tried and it didn't work out.

@poster,
It is only God that can help in this situation.Just pray hard and ask God to help in solving this problem.But sincerely,that woman has something she's hiding and for a relationship to last you need openness and honesty,she there has to be an atomsphere of love and she isn't ready for that,just pary that is my best advice and God will answer you.

@Connie,
You sound desperate,which is not good even when we give you advice,plz do not base ur decisions cuz of a guy u met online,online dating works but you do not make decisions just cuz he said those words,words are decptive(online or real),he might be saying those words to get between ur legs and you are falling already.About the Eritean guy,he doesn't show you respect,so quit.but your decison should be base not on the igbo guy.

@jesoul,
This is a masterpiece.You are one of they few women that believes in God.keep it up and Our God will bless you.

@poster,
What on earth is this church thing,you were proud,haven't you heard that a woman has no church?
I guess its a lesson to you and others.

@wallex,
Call a spade,even if i indulge in it,does it make it good?its bad.

@Eastbaby,
how many you get?sey u get 15 no mean sey e gud.no mislead people.

@teissys,
Been writing you but you do not reply?

@poster,
If woman no respect you,it simply means she no love you,open ur eyes,you love her and she doesn't love you.
Walk away and find someone that loves you and will respect you.Forget sey you love her.

@teissys,
Are You ready to chat with me?this is my private mail?i'm writing you with it.

@poster,
That is the best thing you can do for yourself and him and it shows you love him.some other girls might bottle it up and get the thing another place.

I guess you are talking about me?
There are many good guys but they bad girls make us tough