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RomanceRe: Torn Between A Major Decision by vanderjo(op): 11:38am On Mar 23, 2009
@Theblessed,
This is the most objective i advice i did receive and i appreciate it and will do exactly as u say,i have been involve with women but not many cuz i am not that kind of man,i can proudly say i never cheated on any woman i dated before,i am a one woman man,i guess i met the wrong people.
I appreciate your advice.Thanks alot.

@topup,
i am a man woman,never cheated on ay woman i dated.
Christianity EtcRe: Have You Praised Him Yet, Today? by vanderjo(m): 12:30pm On Mar 20, 2009
gRACIOUS AND MERCIFUL GOD, I BOW FOR YOU,I ADORE YOU ,GREAT FATHER,YOU ARE WORTH ,YOU ARE MARVELLOUS,CAN'T THANK YOU ENOUGH BUT THIS ONE IS FROM THE VERY DEPTH OF MY HEART CUZ YOU DESERVE MORE THAN THE BEST,YOU DO NOT LOOK AT MY INIQUITIES.YOU PROTECT ME AND KEEP ALIVE CUZ I AM RIGHTEOUS OR DESERVE IT CUZ YOU WILL FOR ME IS TO LIVE.YOU AWESOME.THANK YOU LORD FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE.
Christianity EtcRe: Are Miracles Real? by vanderjo(m): 12:14pm On Mar 19, 2009
It beats my imagination that people still don't believe in miracles,it happens in our lives,just that you don't see it,that you are alive is a miracle,i have seen miracles happen,you either take it or live it,there is no need arguing about it.
Christianity EtcRe: Have You Praised Him Yet, Today? by vanderjo(m): 12:03pm On Mar 19, 2009
Thank you Great,Mighty and gracious King of all,your glory keeps me in awe,you let your honour be shield and protector,your mercy i see,and your loving keeps me strong,i am lost without you,broken without you,oh how i need you.Anything that will not let me praise you,may it be cursed forever and ever.you are worthy,what a wonderful God, he is here to do marvellous things for his people again.you lifted me up beyound my imagination,Thank you my first love,no one can love me like you do,i give u praise baba,baba u are too much and i will always be soldout to you alone.

I wish to thank the creator of this thread,as we priase God so shall blessings be.may God bless.
RomanceRe: Torn Between A Major Decision by vanderjo(op): 11:31am On Mar 19, 2009
@notime,spoilt,binahmad,onyexra,
Thanks for the criticism,its welcomed but whatever one sows he/she shall reap.i don't believe everybody is same so you don't blame me for trusting her,i learned from it and it doesn't change me from who i am and i will find the good one,one way or the other.

Its only rechargecards she got.no big deal about it,i'm only concerned of my emotions not the recharge cards.
FoodRe: Favorite Snack by vanderjo(m): 6:34pm On Mar 18, 2009
@poster,
shawarma,and roasted fish and plaintain
RomanceRe: Tell Me If I Have Done Wrong by vanderjo(m): 5:13pm On Mar 18, 2009
@poster,
you did the right thing.

@y me,
your a nice girl.
BusinessRe: N10 Million Naira Business Idea by vanderjo(m): 4:38pm On Mar 18, 2009
@POSTER,
I am setting up a showroom in the mould of Harrods in london,we are work together if you are real,it is estimated to realize 30 t0 50 million monthly and in coloboration with world's best designers and thier expertise.
RomanceRe: How Can One Tell If A Girl/woman Realy Av True Luv 4 U by vanderjo(m): 1:54pm On Mar 18, 2009
@y me,
And why are we are still searching for it.
RomanceRe: Can A 'runs Girl' Actually Fall In Love? by vanderjo(m): 1:44pm On Mar 18, 2009
@POSTER,
YES BUT SHE WILL ALWAYS REMAIN A RUNS GIRL,SLEEPING AROUND.
RomanceRe: She Was Playing Hard To Get: Never Called, Now Am Rich, She's All Over Me: by vanderjo(m): 12:13pm On Mar 18, 2009
@psoter,
Make her put her heart in you and leave her so that you will teach her a lesson and make her feel the pain of rejection,she's clearly after your dough.
RomanceRe: debt mgt by vanderjo(m): 11:54am On Mar 18, 2009
@poster,
though financial strength contributes in a lasting marriage but you sound as if you are all interested in his finances only,let me tell you a story,The director of my company had his wedding when he was nobody,it was like where a common bikeman was wedding and took him 10yrs to have a child,my company makes 200 million a month and he owns it.think about it.
RomanceRe: How Can God Help Heal A Broken Heart? by vanderjo(m): 11:06am On Mar 18, 2009
Hi Diva1,
I understand you cuz i have been there before but i assure you,law of karma will caught up with him,believe me,what goes around comes around,one way or the other,he will pay for it,trust in God he never fails,he will fight your battle for you and heal your wounds completely.but law of karma will fight for oyu cuz its a natural thing.
RomanceRe: How Many Boyfriends Can a Girl Have Before Marriage? by vanderjo(m): 10:46am On Mar 18, 2009
@poster,
Honestly,any woman having more than 3 bf's before marriage is a LovePeddler or maybe they do not know what they want,you have to know what you want in a man before agreeing to go out with any of them,whatever you do at your youth will lay a foundation for your future and the law of karma will catch up with you.

@soulpatrol,
na wao,you don't give people such advice,it can lead them to where the ordinarily won't be,maybe it worked for you doesn't mean it will work for them.
RomanceRe: I Cant Fall In Love by vanderjo(m): 10:32am On Mar 18, 2009
@poster,
you haven't actually open your mind for love and like martho said,you are not matured or prepared for it,its hard for someone that had a heartbreak not to fall in love but you,i think you have a big problem.
RomanceRe: What Can You Not Tolerate In A Relationship? With Reasons Please by vanderjo(m): 9:32am On Mar 18, 2009
@poster,
LIES AND CHEATING,I CANNOT ALLOW THAT,WHEN SOMEONE LIES AND CHEATS ON YOU,SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU UNFORTUNATELY THAT IS WHAT'S PREVALENT AMONG FEMALE FOLKS THESE DAYS.
RomanceRe: Men: One Feminine Thing About You by vanderjo(m): 4:30pm On Mar 17, 2009
@poster,
i cook alot and love alot.
FamilyRe: Marriage Is About To End Please Help.for Matured Minds Only by vanderjo(m): 1:51pm On Mar 17, 2009
@PSOTER,
That is not an issue and it shows they didn't actually plan before going to marriage and like Dvampire said she needs reality check.
AdvertsSales Of Tiles And Marbles(paladinna) by vanderjo(op): 1:15pm On Mar 17, 2009
Buy your Tiles and marbles,the best you can get anywhere around the world.if you are interested call 08068851352 or mail henzdanstev14@yahoo.com
RomanceRe: What Is Love In Nigeria,money,sex,or What I Need An Answer Please by vanderjo(m): 1:10pm On Mar 17, 2009
@poster,
money,money for women and sex for men.
RomanceRe: Men Are Not Worth Sacrificing For: Ladies Do You Agree? by vanderjo(m): 11:06am On Mar 17, 2009
I guess everybody that agrees with mukina has tasted that bitter pill,so it ain't a surprise,to love is to make sacrifice itself,to go into a relationship expecting not to make sacrifices is planning to fail in that relationship and trust me,it ain't never going to work out.
RomanceRe: What Keeps A Man Faithful? by vanderjo(m): 10:47am On Mar 17, 2009
@poster,
A man needs a woman he can trust and that understands him and caring.
RomanceRe: Torn Between A Major Decision by vanderjo(op): 12:24pm On Mar 16, 2009
@ujujoan,
I appreciate your advice and ola too.tHANKS FOLKS,YOU DON'T KNOW HOW IMPORTANT THAT ADVICE IS FOR ME.
RomanceRe: Torn Between A Major Decision by vanderjo(op): 11:40am On Mar 16, 2009
@olanajim,
whats that?
RomanceRe: Torn Between A Major Decision by vanderjo(op): 10:23am On Mar 16, 2009
@spickycyclinder,
no but i spend an 1hour everyday on phone with her.we were suppose to meet and get a job in my location and she changed the plans.
RomanceThe Right Time To Find True Love. by vanderjo(op): 10:11am On Mar 16, 2009
This is a detable topic,
Back then,we use to argue when it is the best time to find a good woman,some say it is when you ar nobody that you will find that specail woman in your life,reasons being that a girl that stays with you then truely loves you?do you think it is true.share your views.
RomanceTorn Between A Major Decision by vanderjo(op): 9:45am On Mar 16, 2009
I need help cuz i am in dilemma,I am torn between 2 women in my life,its killing me softly,i have two great women in life and we are both of same ages and we have same dreams and they possess same character traits that i want in a woman,

The first woman we met online and have known each other for over two years but recently she went for her service year and i make sure i call her every single day that passes and from day one i told her what i want in the relationship,i told her i needed someone that i can live all my life with and since right now i am only making plans to marry by next year and she agreed but recently i start noticing some shits,like when i call,she won't pick  my calls,it happened 4times and when i asked why,since she knew that's the only way we communicate,she said her phone has problems and all that,the first time it happened and the 2nd,she said she didn't hear it ring,the 3rd she said she was charging it and the 4th she said i was nagging her,though we haven't spent time together,therefore i can really say the kind of woman she really is,we had plans of her coming down to my location after her service year but all of a sudden she told me she was going home,i don't have poblems about that but when i asked it wasn't what we planned,she said i was nagging her and cut the phone on me,and she said she needed money for transportation back to her place,i told her the problem i will have in sending the money cuz where i work we hardly have time once we are in,and i explained this to her but promised i will find a way out,when i couldn't make it,she refused picking my calls for over 2weeks,and just yesterday when i called she picked and told me she was in a relationship,infact there were so many things i can't go in details she said,she later denied it,but she mentioned the fact that i made her did what she did,i love her.

The second girl was a fromer not we dated that much,like four months,i was in a relationship when she approached me for a relationship,i didn't want to make her look stupid,i agreed cuz i was having problems with my gf then,she was cheating on me,i have known this one all my life,but she was drop dead jealous,i couldn't pick my calls,she will get angry,i was comfortable with that,i gave up my gf cuz of her and cuz she was cheatin on me,i told her that i have nothing to do with her again,she never believed it but she truly love me and i want to get her back into my life.i have never had sex with any of them,i need an advice please,what do i do?

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