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can't trust women,they are too slippery for my liking.

@Godmother,
just asking, just a thought but i wouldn't allow her do that,most girls that do it are looking for a man.

for me,, i reserve my comment

kill yourself.

get the ghanaian textiles like kente and other products.i will buy them.

you will know,its very clear when we are cheating on a woman expect you are not close to him.

This is easily the best topic for today.
I still get sms from my exs and can't help to think common why was i that foolish to take those shits.Got one yesterday nite and she was the one that broke my heart the most.though i'm still friends with an ex.and i glad i have moved on and know better and it made a better person.

@poster,
Never seen anything like it but i think there is something undertone on his part.All you need is prayers

@poster,
Don't think you made a mistake by going out with her at first,she slept with the other guy,she was not coarsed,why will she go to the guy's house to get a movie?man thats a lame excuse infact it confirms she really wanted it,cuz most girls use that as an excuse to visit men.so dump her sorry arse.or you will regret it at the long run.

Loan is a problem itself but most people prefer it cuz its the easy way out,you have to be very discipline when handling a loan and you have to be ready to pay up the interest accrued and depending the rate of interest,it is not usually worth it if you can talk up the individual to partner you ,i think that is the best option.my opinion

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Re: Earning N25,000 Per Month, Unable To Save In It. (tHrOw In Ur ViEw)
« #17 on: Yesterday at 11:59:24 AM »

It is advisable for one to save at least 10% of toal income. It is prudent.
1. She should plan her expenditure with 90%
2. Look out for a better paying job
3. Invest in her career through further education, courses, trainings, books etc
4. Cut out unnecessary expenses like unimportant phone calls, impulsive buying of unneeded items
5. She can also find out if she can hitch a ride to work and back
6. Also augment her income via trading of items like clothes, jewelleries etc.
7. Most importantly she should let her family know her income to prevent them placing high demands on her

I am really against giving out money to boyfriends except it is a well defined relationship. Item 3 is really important for self development if she wants to earn something higher or move to a higher position.

@gentlelady,
there is no way she can do all that you said with the meagre money.be realistic when giving advices

@poster,
You cannot love 2 at a time,probably you love one cuz of some traits and character or what you get from him/her.do not be deceive,anybody that claims to luv 2 at same time is confuse.

@poster,
How do you know she loves you when she still wants her ex?man,stop day dreaming,if she loves you she will never look back.Can you love 2 people at same time?

university relationship,i think 50percent ends there n 50 ends at the altar cuz it is few individuals that made it past the gate.

i'm a rare gem,but i'm not perfect.

i understand most people use it against when you do open up but eventually you will open up to someone who understands you.but right now never seen anyone who i will open up to

As much as
love itself.

@poster,
you know its bad already and you are feeling guilty already so what do u want here,you need somebody to say cheat or do not cheat.

i think that is the best time to marry,in your twenties,just that our economy is not right,its very good to marry at a young age.its more fun

Dear,
true love isn't all about the way you look,like the say,beauty is skin deep,it is what is inside that matters,stop looking down on yourself,the great men and women of our world has stories,i have my own story and they didn't kill themselves,stop looking down on ursef,it is a sin itself and its very bad for someone not to have a self worth and probably that is why ur bf used you,i'm not blaimg you here but this things happen.well,i can be of help to you.write me on henzdanstev14@yahoo.com
cheers,

@cathy,
It is not depression,it is the devil trying to make you look down on yourself,all you need do is run to God cuz true ahppiness comes from him,you might have heaven n earth but cannot be truely happy,that is the work of the enemy,he always remind you of your bad experinces but he is just a deceiver,once he gets ur mind,he gets you,thats what he is doing to you trying to remind you that the last time you are that happy something bad happens but if you can resist him and run to God,those feelings will go away.i bet you on that

@stillwater,
that looks more of a senegalese than Nigerian

@Tisha,
Nobody has the right to put you down and i guess you are consenting to that,i'm a west african and our women are great women,they are making u question ur self worth.be proud of who you are.
If the white Folks do not like you, then date west Africans and I know the white dudes aren’t 1percent better than us and I’m available to help you with ur problem.

There should be some concessions in a relationship but would not allow someone order me around or take away my happiness.that will be insane.

@Tisha,
It is all about the metality they got about West african women and the personality involve.why does it bother you?

@LUxoire,
In essence its better for the women to have many male friends and expect you to understand?

@poster,
You are on top of the game man,if she odesn't like it that way,she has to do away with her numerous male friends or she should understand too.

@THONIASLIM,
I ASKED A SIMPLE QUESTION,FROM UR POSTS you do always put them down.
yes you do.