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RomanceRe: Will Not Being Handsome Or Beautiful Stop You From Gong Out With Someone Or Mar by vanderjo(op): 9:12am On Feb 25, 2009
@tpia,
nope i can never been intimidated by that.just what came into my mind.i no ugly joo.
RomanceRe: What Are The Mistakes Both Men/women Do That Ends A Relationship? by vanderjo(op): 5:52pm On Feb 24, 2009
@babycool,
you went to cambridge,who knows maybe you read english but no mind my grammar,at least you got the message.
RomanceRe: What Are The Mistakes Both Men/women Do That Ends A Relationship? by vanderjo(op): 4:32pm On Feb 24, 2009
@tytailor,
It is not all men,i once had a gf and she was sure she did get i'm sorry that it eventually becomes predictable,so i fault you on that.
RomanceWhat Are The Mistakes Both Men/women Do That Ends A Relationship? by vanderjo(op): 2:58pm On Feb 24, 2009
Our people,

Learn the 1 major mistake you make with men. Men will swoon over you.and one major mistake a women will make for a man to walk out and vice versa.share your views.
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Broken Anybody's Heart? by vanderjo(m): 12:33pm On Feb 24, 2009
@posters,
everybody seem to have resons for breaking hearts,good for them sha but there is no reason for that,it simply means what they went looking for wasn't just what they got,so you didn't do you search very well before going in,which invariable means another person has to pay the price of someone else's problems,i have never broken anybody's heart but mine has been teared into pieces before but i am still me and i learn from it and i love next time like the first,thats the best way to live life,i just met the wrong person,simple and i don't use it against the next person,anyway i advice at the end of every relationship,take time out before you go into another.
RomanceRe: I Cant Hold A Relationship Together. by vanderjo(m): 10:59am On Feb 24, 2009
@poster
Man the truth is you have not found the right person,it happens to most people and you are 26,how many relationships have u had that makes you reach such conclusions?The simple truth is that its not about good looking,having good job or money,most women of our generation simply does not know what they want and those are the ones you have met but i am not absolving you entirely,YOU have to take your time before you go into another one and take time to study them before you go in.
RomanceWill Not Being Handsome Or Beautiful Stop You From Gong Out With Someone Or Mar by vanderjo(op): 5:45pm On Feb 23, 2009
WILL NOT BEING HANDSOME OR BEAUTIFUL STOP YOU FROM GONG OUT WITH SOMEONE OR MARRYING SOMEONE?
CANDID VIEWS PLEASE
RomanceRe: Sex by vanderjo(m): 11:59am On Feb 23, 2009
Nice thread,sex is only made for marriage.
RomanceRe: White Girls Dating Nigerian Men by vanderjo(m): 11:39am On Feb 23, 2009
@POSTER,
Aren't you a woman?black n white are all humans,what does it matter if you going out with white or black,its such a natural thing,nobody got right to choose for you your happiness,if my Nigerian brother makes you happy,so do you care?even when a black man dates a black woman,those kind of things still happens,people will always be jealous natalie.Do not even think a second about what people think or say.
RomanceRe: Can Men Ever Find Thier Dream Women by vanderjo(op): 5:21pm On Feb 20, 2009
By woman of our dream i don't mean she must be miss world,i mean character wise,do not miss understand me please.its hard to find a goodgirl?
RomanceCan Men Ever Find Thier Dream Women by vanderjo(op): 3:31pm On Feb 20, 2009
can we ever find the right woman?if you think it is easy to find a good woman,then you better wake up from your slumber,its tragic.please lets discuss this more maturedly and advices should be given.
RomanceWhere Has True Love Gone? by vanderjo(op): 2:16pm On Feb 20, 2009
true love has gone with the wind?when you are honest/serious with a woman,she disappears,when you are dishonest with her she packs the love in a basket and then you are not available.
RomanceRe: Is Love Really Worth All D Pain And Drama People Who Claim 2 Be In Love Pass Through? by vanderjo(m): 3:27pm On Feb 16, 2009
love is worth every pain that you have not find true love doesn't mean it is not worth it,most of the posts here are so myopic and selfish,how do you know someone that truely loves you,work on yourself and the right people wil be attracted to you,likes attracts likes.
RomanceRe: What Is Romantic About A God Fearing Mumu? by vanderjo(m): 3:07pm On Feb 16, 2009
michel,
You cannot takeout God out of anythin you do,you are commttimg fallacy,moreover you they never meet the real God fearing people.
BusinessRe: How To Get Small, Short-term Loans In Nigeria by vanderjo(m): 11:47am On Feb 16, 2009
@seun,
you are doing a good job here and i need your help ,i got a business idea and fianacing is a snag here,can you help me on an advice or one that can help out.please this is my mail addy henzdanstev14@yahoo.com,i will give you the details when you reply.
BusinessRe: Nigeria's First Online Mega Store: Partners Needed by vanderjo(m): 10:53am On Feb 16, 2009
That is a lovely idea cuz it will be of help to us and for the business i am about to start which requires much of online purchases and i will gladly be a representative.08068851352,calabar,cross river state,.
BusinessRe: Ive Got $4000. I Need Business Ideas And Business Partners by vanderjo(m): 12:59pm On Feb 10, 2009
it seems everybody comes up with i have that and i have that and needs business idea shits.man go to other post and you will get business idea.and moreover think for yourself.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Let's Stop Dating Poor Girls. by vanderjo(m): 11:22am On Feb 10, 2009
@sissy
girls like you are they ones that cry and suddenly realize they make mistakes in life,gnashing in marriage cuz you married cuz of money not cuz of love,by the way find something and do for yourself,the world is changing.

it should be cuz of love and not money?
money is good though but should not be the basis of any relationship,there is no way a man will spend for you for the rest of his life,you have to know that?
RomanceRe: Why Do Good Girls Like Bad Boys by vanderjo(m): 10:46am On Feb 10, 2009
This is the most dumb post i have read?what do you classify as A bad boy?i guess most the girls that say the love badboys do not know what they want in life or are not ready to settle down at least for the moment,its like seeing fire and going into it,it just doesn't follow,who is a badboy?is it the man that womanizes,and i am sure no woman wants to have them three when it really matters,marriage! so what is this shit about badboy or that?ask yourself questions,what do you want in life?and the answer defines who you are then you will know if it is the badboy you want or the goodone.
AdvertsSupply Of Diesel by vanderjo(op): 2:51pm On Feb 09, 2009
we need suppliers of diesel,please if you are not real please do not call and i need urgently,no exbortitant prices please.call 08068851352.
RomanceRe: Love Or Compatibility: Which Is More Important? by vanderjo(m): 12:25pm On Feb 05, 2009
Truly it is women like you that still give us hope,i will advice you follow your heart,that is where the battle lies there and your heart will never fail you or deceive you,do not mind those other girls they want you to be like them.good for nothing,they are jealous of you.relationship is about communication,talk to him and know what he wants and if its different from what you want then you can always find someone else in your life but do not lose your virginity,stuck to your guns and wait for the right man,.
RomanceRe: Who Is A Husband Material? by vanderjo(m): 10:24am On Feb 05, 2009
@sistawoman,
I agree that there alot of men that possess some of the qualities you mentioned but you are giving our young women wrong impression,there is no Mr.right and mind you likes begets likes,prayers cannot work in the issue of marriage,they way you make you bed so shall you lie on it,so you have to be good to attract such a man,you don't have to be a liability and expect to meet a man like that and if every woman should get this thing right that you make your home not expecting someone that has gone through life's process and has arrived and you shout alleleuia then be ready for problems in your marriages.Every woman wants a man that is financially stable but she is idle and messes around, so if your man is financial stable now,have patience and he will get there and he will turn out to be a much more wonderful husband than the qualities you mentioned.i'm out.
BusinessRe: Business Ideas With 500,000 Naira Only. by vanderjo(m): 5:17pm On Feb 03, 2009
First you made a mistake by collecting loan without knowing what to do with it,whatever the case,that is alot of money,i will introduce you to oil and gas business,there is a vessel that will coming in by 8th febuary and with that amount you can use it to get some products and more than that and if you are trustworthy you will return the balance after supply and i have buyers for you.call 08068851352 or henzdanstev14@yahoo.com
BusinessRe: Business Areas That Need Investment In Nigeria by vanderjo(m): 12:51pm On Feb 03, 2009
we need to develop our youths and enlighten them,they are so engrossed in fantasies that you can practical count few that are focus and those that are focused should be encourged by providing funds for thier ideas to grow and make a living on thier own not relying on jobs,so that they can be able to create jobs,people talk about revolution,is it the girls that show breasts as fashion that hardly read thier books or those that wear big chain and plait thier hair and wants to be like 5ocent and do not want to work for it?so we need to invest on the youth and i bet you things will change.
BusinessRe: Business Areas That Need Investment In Nigeria by vanderjo(m): 12:15pm On Feb 03, 2009
WE need to get to the grassroot and encourage the youths,there are many of thme with great iniative that needs funds to and this will greatly improve us as a country.

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