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FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 8:41am On Oct 29, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
Thank God you did not give in o. It definitely gets much more worse. See how she is still crying and complaining.

And even though she says she forgave him and she tried to act like she has forgiven him, clearly she has not and she is unable to.

This thing is very very wicked
As in eh, I have been rejoicing and thanking God that I did not o!

Ha, I wouldn't be able to forgive myself not to talk of my father.

So now I can confidently say it is better to bear the terrible torture, pain and hell but do not give in for it even gets worse and worse, after that.

Thank God for justifying me and showing me, my sufferings was not in vain.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 8:19am On Oct 29, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
See another case
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/10/nigerian-lady-publicly-addresses-estranged-father-who-disowned-her-but-now-wants-them-to-meet-after-getting-sick-and-bedridden.html

"Father, you were not only an Enabler to the maltreatment I endured in my stepmom’s hands, your own wickedness on me was worse."

Now we know what this means!
Yes, I am happy to see this is coming out.

And I am sooo thankful I didn't give in to my father for see how she's crying as it got even worse as I suspected and felt. She has confirmed it for me.

Any girl who is going through this that has not yet submitted, please and please do not EVER, you would regret it forever for your suffering and torture would get worse o!

And you would never be able to forgive yourself for destroying your life and for not hanging on to God to get you out.

Ha, praise be to God and greatly is He to be praised!!!
BusinessRe: Who Remembers All This Products Sold In The 1980s by vdestro: 3:59pm On Oct 25, 2024
Afonja44:
Well grin
Planta over Blue band anyday anytime

They had one nice that ad I can't remember clearly now
Yeah!
It's planta time, it's planta time, planta!
Mommy loves the planta taste, planta!
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 3:27pm On Oct 25, 2024
Mom007:
These are very hard to bear and hear. They disturb the spirit. However God is many things, a Father, a Provider etc but also a very very just Judge. May He judge this case and render vengeance for you in Jesus name.
Of course that is the power of truth, it is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit.

Vengeance is His and He will repay and that has started already but thank you.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 3:19pm On Oct 25, 2024
Blazebond:
I am going to be emotionless in my reply to you directly.......
Go and seek help now,don't delay,tell that husband of yours all this things that you are typing here and seek help,don't destroy that man's life and possibly your future children's life with this story of yours which seems very very weird and off,you are disturbed mentally right now and you even ought not to be married with such state of mind.go and seek a therapist out and pour out this story him/her and also face your family and confront them with this story,you need to heal. Mentally and also I would have suggested you use the law,but the law won't do anything for you because your story don't add-up at all and the law won't be emotional to you.
You sound more disturbed than I.

My husband already knows all of this and even helped me face all of this shit.

God has been wonderful and the Greatest Healer of all.

As for the Law, my story adds up but I see you are distressed by it. I have the Greatest Law on my side, so I fear no distress nor can I be discouraged by your comments.

All evil doers will pay for their evils. Even my family are reaping it all as I speak to you.

God will not be mocked nor can any man escape God's Judgement!
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 3:09pm On Oct 25, 2024
purples25:
Beware of people on the thread who are specifically here to make you feel like shit. They'll mention you just to push the point that you're worthless, crazy and a liar. That is their one and only mission.

I just want you to be ready and aware of these people. They abound on every social media platform just as some of them lurk about in real life. If you can be strong enough, do not answer them. They are devils, they know you will read their comments and feel down. If possible, report them immediately after recognizing their posts.
Thank you but I was prepared knowing the devils who hate truth and being exposed will come for me.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 3:05pm On Oct 25, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
Some people did confirm. seeing it on the thread but I was still dropping more observations before i found a place to stop so that i can go do 1 and 2 before i continue. only to see say devil don chop the thread.
Oh, okay.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 3:03pm On Oct 25, 2024
RaySimran:
Quit being emotional, speaking out doesn't mean shit.
You think everyone here would gobble your story just as it appears??


Because your dad chooses to be a pedophile doesn't means those who are skeptical about your write up behaves as one.
I do not care whether they choose to believe it or not.

We all know truth when we hear it.

But you are an evil raper which is why you are complaining and trying to raise doubts exactly as the guilty do and your guilt dey shine like Nepa high current.

From today henceforth all your evils will catch up to you and you will be stripped, grievously beaten and burnt to death!
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 8:26pm On Oct 24, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
i just raised a thread on this wickedness and dem don delete am.
Wooow, so this is how much people know these things are going on and do not want it exposed.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 8:03pm On Oct 24, 2024
FayaBall:
So sorry for all you have been through. God continue to strengthen you, my dear.

You will have cause upon cause to smile and give praises to God. Hang in there, sis!
Oh, thank you so much for this. God bless you. Imagine being called mad and it's various inferences for speaking out. People are truly wicked and obviously guilty of this and related crimes. God will punish all of them greatly.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 8:01pm On Oct 24, 2024
RaySimran:
It's time Nigeria declares state-of-emergency on MENTAL health awareness embarassed

The OP is modifying REALITY in a parallel construct, it's unfortunate and alarming embarassed
It is unfortunate you would belittle my painful and torturous life but I know you are one of such men who prey on the weak and then call them mad for speaking out.

So my prayer for you is that your life would be worse than mine was and that everyone would prey on you and when you speak out, you shall be called mad.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 7:56pm On Oct 24, 2024
vincentont:
Are you sure you are his biological daughter? Because this looks disgusting
I too used to wonder but the resemblance is too much. I am a spitting image of him.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 3:04pm On Oct 24, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
No vex o.

Now I am going to use your case to fire more!

People are just too too wicked and evil and their wickednes should be exposed so that everyone should know that we know why they are going to hell and must go to hell even where they pretend to repent.
Please do.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 2:47pm On Oct 24, 2024
Dtruthspeaker:
I'm sure you feel better now and shall have closure now that you have unburdened your soul.
Yes.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op): 2:46pm On Oct 24, 2024
illicit:
You sound disturbed tho

Had u tried getting help formally?
I am actually in a better place now which is why I was able to put up this thread.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op):
With all i now know, i am thankful to know that not giving in to his evil lust and incest is one of the best decisions that any person should ever make, even though I suffered horribly and terribly for it.

And yes i married the poor man who loved me and have nothing, save that which I and my husband get through God from work.

Though life is very rough, tough and very scary and if thrown out we have no home to go to, but i am thankful and happy, thanking God for the miracles He performs in providing our daily bread and paying our bills.

And i pray one day of God will grant our prayers and give us a house of our own.

And I have just checked here, it seems this has not happened to anyone here which is impossible to believe but apparently no one has mentioned this, maybe because they eventually gave in.
FamilyRe: My Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op):
God did it that i am now married and learnt that I am a human being.with rights and all and oneday, as i understood little by little why they treated me me so badly, i decided to go back home to take the little clothes and things like documents, pictures i left behind thinking they were family and that it would always be my home, i was shocked when they shouted "take what?. You have nothing in this house!"

Ah, i was shocked and nearly passed out and died.

And this declaration made me see everything from the beginning and that it is because I refused to have sex with my father is why i was treated so wickedly, even to the point of nearly being raped and being murdered and being treated as a stranger, unchilded, disowned and disinherited.

Well, God dey!
FamilyMy Father Disinherited Me because I Refused To Sleep With Him by vdestro(op):
Flowing from the issues i have with my family, a bit of which I revealed in my thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8149679/which-better#130882465, i have finally being able to see and appreciate that my predicament stems from the fact thati since I was born my father has been raping me. What you people water down and call sexual abuse and molestation but these are still rapes, just different types and forms of rape, but rape all the same.

So my father sexually abused me physically as a child but God must have answered him as he suddenly stopped as i grew which I now figured that it is because he saw that I would soon know what he has been doing since. So he stopped to make me think that he did not nothing.

But my body tells me already and my spirit has already marked it and so i know that he did even though i was surprised to see that i was still a virgin when i married. but i feel his violations.

And since he stopped the physical abuse nonetheless, the old spiritual attack continued unabatedly. And since i never wanted it, wondering for years how a father could want to sleep with his daughter, i did everything i could do deny it.

Often denying that it was not true and that something must be wrong with me and rather ascribed his acts to something that else.

Even clinging on to my mum more thinking that it would stop. ButI no, it did not.

The bad thing is that even though he did not do anything physically but you know when a man wants you. That is always how it felt with him and also with his sons, my supposed brothers.

And because of them i knew what the word sexy means and hated it. And so i did not mind the old Elizabeth clothes my mom gave me.

It still did not work and the man still kept giving me signals but ah, how can I sleep with my father?

And obviously because of my refusal, i suffered horribly. He allowed my mom do all her wickedness. She even went as far as setting up my brothers to rape me but God always spoilt it. Something would just happen to spoil their evil plan and i did not know but i knew that something bad had just happened, leaving me always wondering what was going on.

And because I refused, he treated me exactly as a slave, i had no rights in that house, only torture and torment and of course deprivation. And all these made me feel like I was not a human being. and they treated me as a robot bound to be serving them if I do not want to die.
RomanceRe: I Want To Stop It� by vdestro: 12:13pm On Oct 19, 2024
DarkLover:
Continue bleeping your mum he-goat. I wonder the kind of dust mixed with poop housed by your skull.
Mumu man cursed with warped thoughts.
Your deflection exposes you even more and you even confirmed your abomination more that you would Bleep your grandmo if not that she is too old. Damn, you and your mother should be burnt. What a pervert.
RomanceRe: I Want To Stop It� by vdestro: 10:56am On Oct 19, 2024
DarkLover:
There are little visible signs of aging on my mum, and I’m so concerned about it.

She’s still the most beautiful woman I’ve known. I wish to stop her from aging, I’d rather be the aged one, I wish there’s a way to preserve her youthful looks & make her live forever😒

Call me sick or whatever, I don’t want that woman old, I’m willing to sacrifice my own youthfulnes s for this, I’ve bought her some recommended products- Fresh royal jelly & vitamin C, I hope they work🫤
Pervert! 😠
You are just, using style to confess that you Bleep your mother.😠

grrrr! What a generation
RomanceRe: According to statistics over 20million Nigerians identify as homosexuals by vdestro: 1:49pm On Oct 16, 2024
Umbrateeth04:
na you get wetting to talk..you think say you get mouth...your yabbing still dey learn work were I dey grin

Now listen slowpoke your whole existing lineage will be target for rituals, cannibals and armed robbers....this deadly insurgence go wipe all of una and una entire miserable generation till they is no existance of you or your worthless progenitors...I go fry inside hot deep oil like KFC crunchy chicken grin
You no get anytin wey you wan talk. Na so so accident and death na im full your own life, Your mama and papa no go even notice say bandits carry you kill for bush

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