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Dpharisee:
This is the picture of Felix Terungwa Dav aka MANNABBQGRILL from his Facebook page.
His annoying posts made us to expose him

Gundel001:
Hi good day my fellow Nairalander please I will really need your experience about this issue. Please help me read to the end as it is a little bit long.

My junior brother is 14 years old and to be sincere I haven’t seen anybody as dull as him. I don’t know if it is natural but I just can’t understand why someone at that age could still be struggling with very simple arithmetic. My brother can’t write 1 – 150 correctly at 14.

He seems too dull; note he attends one of the best private school around our area, though I know you might say maybe education is not his way but even if you want to drop out from school you should know some basic things like money, time, multiplication and so on but my brother doesn’t know anything I must say, even to write his name correctly is a problem. It is making everyone unhappy lot of money is being spent on lesson teachers and other things for him still no improvement.

I am a student of one of the top federal University in Nigeria same as my other siblings even at both secondary and undergraduate level we were always above average so I can’t say his problem is genetic. I really wants to know what is the problem with him nairalanders. After I finished secondary school I once taught some pupils in primary school though there were dull ones too there but with time I could see improvement unlike my brother i always try to teach him from time to time but it kind of frustrating as he doesn’t even seems like he will ever grab anything and he doesn’t behave like he wants to learn anything.

He makes it seems as if he is not interested book or arithmetic at all …we all tried talking to him endless time to always read any time he his less busy but he never does except he is being forced.

He rarely talks, he loves to keep to himself always, he doesn’t have interest in anything unlike we the others that are die hard football fans, most times my mom will tell him to even go out to play and mingle he will not still want to go, he prefer to stay at home seating all day without reading or doing anything, even if it is to draw or play football he wont.

This matter is not making everyone happy at home we don’t even know the solution to his problem again, as in imagine having a child that is 14 years old that doesn’t know the difference between 17 and 71 it is just so bad…..

We don’t know if his case is mental or spiritual. please nairalanders I know there are child experts in the house or anybody who have experienced something like this before what do you think is the problem and possible solutions to the problem your contributions are welcome.

Please help me push this pleaseeeeee

KDavis1930:
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sweettease:
Is that how people quit marriages? Something tells me you're the one with a problem in the marriage

Ope88:
Please don't read and pass, also Pardon all my typo, I'm typing out of duress.

I am from a family of six, 3 girls, 1 boy including my parents.
I had a horrible childhood experience, My Mum (no thanks to her) was something I can't quantify, I can't start writing every of the things she did and I can't say If the religion she practiced contributed largely to the devilish attitude she put up while growing up.

My mum has no good record anywhere, in the church, with the neighbours, with her siblings, we the children, her in laws and even at work, She was always at war with people, if she dreams that someone was trying to attack her in the dream, if she sees the person the following day, she was ready to attack the person.

Also, she would curse her children at any slightest provocation and leave only my brother out(last born and spoilt), She doesn't have any good relationship with her siblings and won't allow my dad visit his family member, I remembered them (Mum and dad) always saying this (don't be unequally yoked together with unbelievers). To them anyone who isn't a Christian (deeper life) is not supposed to be associated with.. My dad on countless occasion will call his mum a witch just because she was a Muslim and one of the oloyes of allasalatu(Muslims will understand this) and had nothing to do with his family members.

This went on and on like this until my elder sister moved out of the house and in the process of trying to find her feet, she got pregnant and my mom practically tormented her life, she later got married to the man, and for that act alone, she's always at logger heads with my sister and her husband..

Later, I got married and then my younger sister followed suit, leaving my dad, herself and my younger brother (whom I have disowned).

Ever since the three of us got happily married, and left the home, my dad slipped into severe depression. Although he has been depressed given lots of things he encountered, job loss, no social interaction, unforgiveness amongst others, it became severe when all his female children left, then from severe depressgion, he started having mental issues, he would wake up and leave the house talking to himself, or start preaching and going out of point with anyone he finds on the street, sometimes he would leave and come home at night, my younger brother who is supposed to comfort and help him, treats him with disdain, my mum who is supposed to check mate his excesses would leave him to his folly and now he has started standing up to her and everyone else in the house..

At 26, he doesn't know his bearing and obviously we have been seeing signs of him wanting to inherit the houses my father built in the same compound.. (and we have noticed that my mum has been making him understand that every of the property belongs to him).

The last straw which broke the camel's back happened one week ago, my elder sister ( who is 9 year older than him) took advantage of the lockdown and visited my father, he is usually exited when we are around him whc helps his severe moodiness. There and then an argument broke out between my sister and my brother, she asked why my brother was insulting our mum for an action that happened in the compound, he beat my sister up and her three children and boasted that, the rest of us (my sister and I) dare not do anything and that by the way we must stop coming to the house, that if he sees any of us He will beat us up, My mum who was supposed to resolve the matter started blaming my sister, asking her why she always love to come visiting, that she's supposed to be in her husband's house or father in laws place and immediately called her hubby to come pick her.

Its been one week my sister left for her house, my daddy who enjoyed her company when she was present started misbehaving again at home. He started roaming, he started cursing everyone.

The reason I'm writing is this, my dad is no where to be found, he left the house yesterday Friday 15th May 2020 and was last seen in ITAMAGA IKORODU, we keep trying his number but he is not picking and now his number is switched off, I'm sure he is still wandering about.

My sisters and I have decided that even when he is found(by God's grace) we do not what him to go back living with my mum and brother.

What other alternatives do we have to care for him, as his own siblings are not happy with him either for abandoning them and their mum (his own mum),, when they needed him the most..


I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LONG POST.. PLEASE HELP ME.



Modified..... My dad has been found today Sunday, 17th May 2020, my sweet mother (elder sister) found her, she has been on her feet since he went missing, luckily he was found but in a terrible state, I saw him via video calls and I wept, he can't recognize even my sister again, and just muttering some words we don't understand, he closes his eyes while saying this and asked everyone to go and leave him, he looks so faint and weak and would not leave where he his...My sister has called his siblings and she's waiting for the next line of ACTION from them.

I'll keep updating the house with reports from our end..

Truthbites:
Hello, Smello Vello...can you just STFU?or go to ur Cell, which is Hell..or mellow,u Zombiello

goldman777:
It's obvious to me that you are a very stupid person trying to silence the voice of the people here you are obviously very ignorant to think that regardless of whether or not you are paid to do that.you obviously Don't have a brain at all it's better to have tissue soft brains than just empty vacuum space of nothingness thinking you can attack anyone with a contrary opinion from yours.

goldman777:
You are obviously a child who is still looking for home training you are not even in my league obviously I'll just ignore you I can see you lack any sense of intelligence and obviously bored from being locked up by your parents like a chicken in a cage.byeee

goldman777:
You're a Buffon I'm entitled to my comments and opinions even if you insult your entire family with tissue brains where you obviously descended from with tissue brained mentions it won't change anything about what I say or others say here foolish fella

Truthbites:
Smello Vello...ur name rhymes with smello..now STFU

goldman777:
He go still collect am las las all na audio delay.political pr stunts not to look obviously nepotic he will even receive more than 15b he requested

Truthbites:
For me, I don't believe...they might say they have turned him down and still go behind to give him more than he asked for. Nor be APC? Never u believe them...as Gandollar like money reach, he might have done something to bring the sickness to his state...so as to get the dollars, I trust no one

SeverusSnape:
Bubu the mumu is a dullard. Accept that already. Thanks.

Ishilove:
Oh I'm interested. Please send his number to me via PM

CsRockefeller:
I plead the blood, I plead the blood, I plead the blood, I plead the blood of Jesus Christ.....

I dont have anything else to say but to plead the blood of Jesus on your life and mine.

I hope we dont end up with wolves disguised as sheep.

I plead the blood.

RisenPhoenix:
Don't let women guilt trip you into believing it's your fault bro. It isn't. But women like to make you believe it is so as to justify their cheating.

You see, all women have sugar daddies, lovers, boyfriends, or ex boyfriends hovering on the sidelines; they happily refer to them as admirers and compete with their girl friends as to who has more of such admirers. Some women have just gone farther than others with said admirers. Some women have cheated on their partners only mentally and emotionally, others have cheated sexually in addition; but make no mistake; ALL have cheated. There is no need to hack her whatsapp to know that your wife is already learning the ropes. The convo you uploaded here of a man instructing her to 'delete her messages with him because of her husband' is enough cause to get rid of her. I'm sure it's not Bible verses they were discussing.

LilMissFavvy:
Are you faithful?

Juliearth:
Are you sure you really want to tow this path? You may end up seeing what would destabilize you. If you are however sure, send me a PM, I would put you through for free. But if you are to take my advise, please dont do it!

teresafaith:
Then don't stop praying, I'll also put you in prayers. Enemies in form of friends and associates are everywhere, this I've seen and experienced. The Lord will fight this battle for you.
For the snopping part, if you're the emotional type, I'll advice you let it go and confront her about the one you've seen, her reaction and behaviour will give you a clue on what to do next.

teresafaith:
Hope you didn't promise any lady marriage and later disappoint her.
Hope you didn't ruin anyone chance of happiness, by scattering their marriage to a friend of yours or family
Think deeply, cos it's obvious it's a spiritual something.

sisisioge:
Chai! Bet why are your wives always cheating? Could it be something you aren't doing well?


Guys should biko not read meaning I to this.

Vyolet:
From Jezebel to Child of God and both are on the same whatsapp page.
OP, Is there something you are doing wrong?

Nayturalistic:
All good.. best if your ‘target’ phone is an iPhone though

11thGoldTREE:
don't bother to do any digging. Once you spirit tells you, something is off about your spouse, believe me, you are 100% right.