But if he marries a yam leg, bearded, male croaky voiced lady from your miserable tribe, you'd say africm queen Igbo amaka right? I see it pains you yoruba leaders and their offsprings in the political and economic space are up to your nihilism and zionist ideology your greedy forebears infected you with. The Adeleke's family are your trophy but now that Rode 5/4 and Anty Betty has exposed your agenda, we say never again.
JayDuke: I actually created this account so I could come back years later and look at where I started and be grateful, my reason for creating this account was cos of what I read on travel section from a moniker named mackynaija or so, he created a thread to monitor his jakpa progress.
So on my previous thread I was asking NLders if it was good to invest my savings or I should wait? Well they all advised me though and I had to take their advice and mine and come to a conclusion.
I decided to buy a motorcycle and drive after NYSC, the bike I bought actually cost more than I budgeted for and somehow it took my entire savings and also I had to sell few things to cover the cost, but I wasn't disturbed cos I could recover the money. I later found out that I'll fix plate number and also pay for union on the route I plan to drive, this put the entire cost to around 350k. Na wa o. I have decided to sell my phone and also use 70% of my next allawee to cover the cost, I told the seller I'll complete it by month end and take the bike. I'll update when I finally get the bike, that is if I haven't sold the phone yet, cos the person that plans to buy the phone is a corp member too and is waiting for the monthly allowance before she could pay, but if I have sold the phone, I'll update when I get a new phone. I just pray she doesn't change her mind. I also created a Twitter account to update my progress but since I wish to remain anonymous for now, I don't want to let people know about the account. I'll be passing out by June
Your being resolute is a virtue. Keep it up However, why bike? Aside the accident, health hazards and risk of thefttt, why would you limit yourself so low while you could do much with that little capital?! Fueling of that worthless piece of metal alone would leave you with Al moi nothing. Then comes parts and management. Those in that line of occupation are groaning and hardly able to cope. I'd have suggested you went into agriculture. Simple piggery would more than quadruple that little capital within a year in piggery business. Tomatoes farming is an untapped gold. Same goes for pepper and cassava... There's much too prospect in agriculture than any transportation venture in Nigeria today.
Anyone who wishes to argue must be informed that I'm not new or strange to okada business. Infact, it was what I used to sponsor myself through University of Ilorin and I'm grateful I succeeded. But, that was when fuel was relatively cheaper and risks involved aren't as much as it obtains today. 8years non stop okada left me with all the experience there's is to know
Read again, I AM NOT SORRY! A tribalistic from a core tribalistic coven of cannibals, international drug pushers and fake products/drugs merchant calling a patriot that accommodates his kinds tribalist! It's like head is paining you
Chibuezem: you don't need to be sorry for what is in your DNA.... Tribalism and corruption.
Chibuezem: Yes only people from the sahel region do this..... They wake up invade communities and kill both elders, children, men and women at night...... Bunch of cowards.
From your moniker, I see you can very well relate with those mad dogs I'm talking about. However, I refer more to across the Niger than beyond the Sahara. Sorry but, I'm not sorry
GistMedia0: In a disturbing video that has now gone viral on social media platforms, a Nigerian young man was captured slapping an elderly commuter during a heated altercation over a traffic dispute. The incident, which occurred on a busy road, has since sparked widespread outrage and raised concerns over respect for elders in society.
The video, recorded by an onlooker from a nearby vehicle, shows the two individuals engaged in a heated argument after apparently encountering a traffic issue. As the dispute escalated, both men stepped out of their vehicles to confront each other.
The man appeared agitated during the exchange, though the exact cause of the altercation remains unknown. He suddenly raised his hand and delivered a forceful slap to the elderly man's head, causing him to stagger backward.
Stanleymaster1: One of the most peaceful state in Nigeria before has gradually turn to a death zone. From Buhari to Tinubu no solution.
Ask the Governors especially that evil Ortom what his achievements was far as security is concerned. The idiot used 8 years for propaganda and left the state in ruins. If Benue people are serious, they'd ask Ortom to refund all Security Votes he collected but, no, they'd rather blame Buhari and Tinubu.
It can only make sense to another failed Philosopher of 3rd Class category. Bunch of irresponsible, divisionists, ethnic hegemony apologists with a dose of cannibalistic trait.
Obi will NEVER EVER be my beloved country President. I advise you people push for your Biafra nation and make Peter Obi your life President so he can turn your miserable 5 plots to the new China.
A truly crippled would first test the ground, walk tenderly before jumping like brainless idiots. Watch the video and see how they were ready to jump at his command like a rehearsed military drill. Moment he said get up, they started jumping. Moreover, why can't they show their faces and names so we can verify how long they've been crippled?
By the way, see how beautiful the auditorium is. Imagine the billions sunk there and imagine that's a factory or industry! Na religion go still kill us in Nigeria if we don't kill the rubbish
No individual can or should be bigger than the State. For lives taken, life is the price Kanu has done the deed, he must answer for all
Justice solution is the only solution, not political solution.
For me, this guy barking like a dog is not normal. He needs psychiatric evaluation but, if he thinks he knows all about how a country should run, he has become so popular in his state that he can contest election. I'm sure he'd score above 90% of votes cast. Let him prove his State can work best under his twisted concept and ideology of leadership before he can come tell us rubbish from his gutter mouth.
Let me conclude by saying that the insecurity issue in the South East that Kanu harped on and expanded for his personal agenda was a creation of the same Nnamdi Kanu. There were no killer herdsmen anywhere near the propaganda this evil boy used to incite hatred against the peace loving Fulani. Herders crisis happens everywhere but never in the proportion this devil took it
Plus IPOB and all enemies of Nigeria God the Nigeria Army, Navy and Airforce. God bless you God bless Nigeria Overall, as I wish for Nigeria, so may it be for me
LocalFARMERS: God bless you too. I like patriotic Nigerians who always pray for our Soldiers, who lay thier lives to fighting Bandits, terrorist, Robbers, Kidnappers etc
seunmsg: I pray that Rashidi Ladoja will live long enough to succeed Oba Olakulehin.
Same here. I love his stance during the Ajimobi mistake that attempted to destroy the olubada heritage. Ladoja was among the few that stood in defence of the throne and refused to break away. The recently deceased olubadan was among those who broke off. May Ladoja live long to ascend the throne
I think it's well deserving. He deserves everything happening to him because what goes around comes around. Shaibu didn't think such a day as this would come when he was hounding, attacking, destroying Adams Oshiomhole's legacy. He practically made it his personal political objective to render Oshiomhole completely useless politically. Now the chicken has come home to roost and he's crying... I wish him what he wished for others
On a serious note, I don't like the treatment he received from Obaseki.... More like a used and dump politician only relevant in raking in votes from Edo North.
I don't do all these "dm me" fraudsters format but, this is not what can be explained openly.
Send me a mail on belldartop@gmail.com or 08024112633 for way forward.
In cases like this, one of 3 things are likely: 1) She's possessed. In this case, if she leave the man, it's game over for him because she won't go ordinarily. 2) She's being manipulated by external powers. 3) She's just being naive and want to flex life.
Solution for the man goes beyond advise. He won't ever listen to such. He's a victim and won't know what to do. Let's take up her issue with prayer but, it won't be free o. The man will pay as little as little as N5k for the first time. After results, he'll show good appreciation.
If you're helping him genuinely, I await your response
EreluRoz: There's this very nice married senior colleague of mine who is having a very messy marital life, my other colleague hinted me about it and I actually got close to him and eventually gets him to pour out his heart to me.
According to him, he got married at early 40s to his very young wife as at then who was 19years. Infact he said his mother-in-law never approved of their marriage but his wife insisted and with the support of the father-in-law they got married. However after their first child, he enrolled the wife in a university to further her studies as she married him as a secondary school dropout. That was the beginning of his chaos, that was the beginning of seefinish according to him, that was the beginning of nightmares in his home.
It started by getting reports from people who knows him(he's rich and popular in his home town) about his wife's wayward lifestyle with lecturers and administrative staff, so many nasty reports and how she throws herself at some of these people which many people never believed she was married. Eventually she graduated and came back home, he never confronted her because he really loved her, so he let everything slide. She got pregnant for their second child and when she was due for delivery she had an accident that almost claimed her life, fortunately she was saved and her baby survived as well but unfortunately she won't be able to have more children. She started complaining about everything and how this man has reduced her beauty and even reporting him to his friend about everything happening in their home. The friend always advise him to send her away but he couldn't do it for the sake of his children.
So she advanced by telling this man that they should no longer welcome visitors in their home, family members are not welcomed as well and if you want to see him, he will give you a location to meet him but definitely not his house. This man became a shadow of himself that he refused family interference as well.
He told me she dresses provocatively and goes out and comes back at will. Then he decided to hack her WhatsApp and what he saw was a mess that he couldn't ever imagine in his life. This woman sends her nude and indulge in sex videos with different kind of men, some are way younger than her and all other sorts of dirty activities.
Having discovered all these things about his wife, he still has not summoned the courage to chase her out, she even goes to her room and lock herself to do nude videos to send to different men but he's still saying whenever he wants to chase her away he thinks about his kids and won't be able to do so.
The recent one she's doing is planning to relocate abroad to meet one of her lovers and she's already processing visa and even threatening the man that soon she'll leave him to go enjoy her life. As it stands now, they are just living together and don't talk to each other or even cook for him. She threatened the man that she'll kill him if he dares stand against her plans and he has gone to the police station to make report concerning this.
He asked me what I think he should do and I told him it's quite a pathetic story that will need the advise of an experienced person, I actually played smart on him because I was told he doesn't take advise and that he has been advised severally to end the marriage with her but he always have no courage doing that. This man has developed blood pressure due to all he's facing from his wife.
What grip could this woman be having on him?
What is the best way out for him and if the wife's relocation eventually fails, should this man continue to live with this woman?
He obviously need help but unfortunately he has chased his family away and stopped friends from getting close, how would you help this kind of man who unfortunately found himself in this deep mess?
Don't get me started. You'll wish you never knew your fake Jesus by the time I start.
Talking "preaching of the cross..." Who gave you cross to carry? A certain mentally unstable Paul wrote his nonsense over 2000 years ago but in this 21st century, it's still your irrefutable religious brochure. Are you people even normal at all?
And talking "perish" as against" saved", who deceived you I'm not saved. A blind man your so called Jesus healed was asked to deny Jesus citing that he used belzebbub power but what did he reply with?... Once I was blind, now I see". Isn't it? How dare you then arrogate salvation only to your religion. And even within your confused religion, some are better saved than others e.g. Deeper Life versus CAC
And, if you mean perish in describing your doctrinal HELL FIRE created by God for UNBELIEVER, then check your sense. You're telling me I came from God, he sent me here to be born again so I can return to heaven where I came from, huh? And if I refuse to be born again, he will send me to Hell Fire for a sin I knew nothing about which was caused by a Satan He will not destroy... Yet, He loves me sooo much!!!
Even if you can accurately guess, will you be alive to see it's manifestation?
A carnal mind will say "live fast die young", You "only live once (YOLO) "
But seriously, is that what life is all about?
Were we born into this world just to die?
Look above to the sky in a starry night, millions of stars stare back at you, look at the moon, sun, Animals. Etc. And nature in particular even tho it isn't perfect still causes some awe inspiring reaction to the limited human mind!
Now let's reach outer space 🚀
The Galaxies, solar systems, planetary alignment. Etc
The best of the best rocket scientists and astronauts with the most sophisticated spaceships and equipments hasn't been able to unravel it all.
Now according to the "educated" human mind, all this came from a first explosion known as the big bang
Charles Darwin came again with the theory of evolution explaining the"origin of species". Note that till today (February 4 2024) it's still a theory and not a law
You may ask, what is my point?
My point is, the more we try to explain away God in nature, the more we become confounded and perplexed by the very same nature as new things are discovered everyday without end
The West has drifted far away from God and now confounded.
An atheist may ignorantly ask, upon all our adherence to religion, look at our country, poverty everywhere, poor infrastructure etc
But does living in an advanced society guarantee true happiness?
LGBTQ
Abortion
Moral decadence of all sorts
Who are those championing it? And wants to force Africans to accept same? The West!
Highest suicide rate with all there sophistication and civility? The West!
They have an evil agenda that only the spiritually sound can clearly see
Life is not all about that as there is more to life!!
Jesus Christ is all that matters as in him we find true peace and a reason for still living no matter how dark the world becomes.
We are comforted with the fact that a kingdom is coming not made with human hands that is putting an end to all the evil influences of this world and an end to corruptibility with a true Leader (Jesus Christ)
We will now experience the true purpose of creation in a perfect form free from evil and the nuances of the enemy (Satan) as he will become nonexistent to cause any damage as the systems of this world will now become a system of our God and of his Christ.
There is no other way
Accept him today and walk with his ever present help in the person of the Holy Spirit and walk away from this evil world and welcome to the new perfect world 🌎
komzy589: The fact that you rated APC Government better than PDPs 16 years is worrying. Even staunch APC supporters didn’t use that as an excuse to vote for Tinubu. Compare the standard of living in PDPs time and now. I didn’t ask you to trust Obi and Atiku to change things, but try to say the truth and be realistically objective in your defense next time abeg🙏. So that it won’t feel like I’m wasting my time arguing. How can you say that life is better now than it was under PDP? 😳
I hate getting dragged into an unnecessary argument like this but let me make this exception. See, it happens that when you hate someone or something, everything done, good or bad, would be judged from the narrow mindset of hatred and subjectivity. Yes, I reiterate that Buhari tried his best and save for the saboteurs within and without his administration, he could have done so much more. PDP for 16 long years achieved almost nothing. All that parasite of a party achieved was institutionalisation of corruption, terrorism, election manipulation and lot of vices. I work with one of the major anti corruption agencies in Nigeria and I won't yield to public opinion or market place gossip about the state of the Nation. I know much more than most idiotic self seeking, greedy journalists.
On the state of the economy, we are very lucky. Had Atiku or that Agulu fraud been president since 2015, we would have known what real crisis is all about. Remember Emir Sanusi Lamido Sanusi said this...
Nigerians need to count their blessings and stop hating just because an everlasting insatiable, greedy, ethnocentric ethnic group uses their resources to condemn the nation for their own selfish reason. It rains everywhere
komzy589: Tinubu didn’t commit any sin at all. The difficulty in the job is not to do what Atiku and Obi said. The hard part is doing it without putting the nation into suffering.
So far, Tinubu has not been able to do so and it is no surprise. Anyone who’s surprised at Tinubu’s failure now is not smart. The fact that Buhari failed is already more than 70% indication that Tinubu will fail. This is why I’m surprised at people rooting for him before the election. I’m even more shocked at people still defending him now.
Before you mention tribalistism, I’m not Yoruba nor Ibo. You two can whine later, but if we don’t fix Nigeria now, we will all suffer the brut. After all, there are other tribes in Nigeria too.
Mr shocker. May u ask you, what are the plans you would have put on ground before removing Subsidy if you were the President? Don't mention working refineries because you and I know it won't work because same beneficiaries of the Subsidy that never allowed the refineries work in decades are stull very much at work. Few people looted the commonwealth so bad through Subsidy and forex scam yet, someone came on board to destroy their stronghold yet, the long term beneficiaries of the policy which are the people are condemning the person.
You said Buhari failed. How do you justify that statement against the catastrophic 16 years of PDP in power. Let's compare and contrast. PDP from Obj through Jonathan failed woefully and ruined the country. APC came and began fixing heavy infrastructures that PDP through Okupe said was impossible. Yes, Buhari made mistakes but, no leader worldwide is perfect. Tinubu is not perfect and 7months is too little to judge an administration. Buhari's budget just got retired and he's now working with his own. Give him time. The Igbos lampoobed the Fulanis for 8years, started with Yorubas and it's ongoing. How's that not tribalism and stupidity of the highest order?
Problem with most Nigerian is that rather than seem knowledge, they rely on sentiment and tribal leanings to justify or condemn a system. I'm a seasoned administrator and I make my assessment objectively. Tinubu is doing fine and if I'm to rate him, I'll give him 99% pass in administrative duty
I love this. Better than calling her mother. That'll be a case of a witch calling another witch to jointly determine the kind of soup they'd use the man to cook. Calling the father shows the girls has huge respect for her dad and man to man, that guy is safe provided he treats the lady good.
emmaodet: Hmmmmm, I can relate. I was on your part too but thank God, I had enough time to correct my mistakes. One thing I noticed is that, no matter what you do for family, the last statement will still be "what has he even done sef?" Like the typical African first born, I carried my family on the head when I started working like gala. Roofed my parent house, gave my mum a pathfinder jeep, if any even dey for family like burial, na me go shoulder the lion share - my mama died, na me, my paternal grandfather died 2 years ago, na still me, my junior bro fell sick and I coughed out 1m for his bill in babcork hospital 3 months ago and soooo many other ones yet what did I get back? Oooohhhh, what has he done? Sent my immediate bro to Dubai on work visa at least to start his own life and draw out a map on how he will upgrade from there all just to tell me what have I done? People dey end their family to better country like US and Canada NA surfer head country like UAE I see send am go to go dey slave - this is someone earning 150k equivalent 3 years ago with accomodation aside tips sef. Now he is in Nigeria doing 40k job in a factory in Ogun state roasting. Calling every family members to please beg me to send him back to the same UAE he claims is slavery. Humans.........very very ungrateful. Agreed, UAE no be US but after putting in 5 years, a reasonable person would have saved something reasonable and then ask for family support to a better country. Now, nothing. Shishi him no bring back after 5 years, clubbing and taking hard drugs and to even put salt on the injury, the typical African has a sure standard excuse for his/her calamities.... Spiritual Problem. A man fails to keep his job because he is not dedicated......it is a Spiritual attack A man fails in business for may factors or reason...... It is a Spiritual attack A man falls on okada while going home....it is a Spiritual attack A man dies of headache despite not going to hospital for diagnosis due to poverty..... It is a Spiritual attack A man was denied visa despite not meeting the visa requirement.... It is a Spiritual attack. Why were you denied when some got the visa that particular day. Which head de get wey you no get. A man is struggling to secure a job in a country with little factories and companies....it is a Spiritual attack. How come some are getting jobs in this same Nigeria wey you ey complain say work no dey. Etc
Abeggiiiii
Yes, I relate. Our last born looked me in the face and blurted out "what have you done that some people have not done tripple?" Suffice to say we lost our loving dad when I was just 10. Imagine having to rise up to family responsibilities since JSS 2. Mum showed me the ugly side of motherhood. Now, the most callous, uncaring and self centred of us is the most respected.
Bottom line: You are first Your responsibility to family comes well after you have settled yourself.
Family only respects you after you're made. If you build them better than yourself, they'd grow the mentality that if you didn't do it, God would've sent another. Build yourself to be above them. Whatever you do thereafter would only matter to them in the light of your success.
Family appreciates your little giving from your abundance than your huge help from your self denial and sacrifice
Yemike: My life have been stagnant for like 4-5 years now. I work in a factory and I also sow clothes. I've not been able to spend money on myself or to pursue my dream as a result of family responsibilities. I'm a drop out of FUOYE and I'll so much love to go back to school but the plan has been failing for 2 years now.
I've obtained a part time form from Adekunle Ajasin University Ibadan campus last month hoping to start the new session next year but my problem now is that I have a brother that just finished HND 1, his rent has expired and he'll pay his school fees this January. I paid his rent and school fees for HND 1 and he has notified me for HND 2. My fear now is that time us running out for me (I'm 27yrs now) as I sincerely wanted to go back to school but I can't sponsor myself and two siblings.
Should I wait for another year or everybody should carry his cross?
I sacrificed my youth for family. Sponsored one outside the country and another through school (not fully though) gave all my salaries to elder sister for months so she could further her education. I sacrificed all my savings for entire family so we could be the envy of other families. I later secured admission to Unilorin years later, same sister called me bastard when I begged for N5000 loan so I could sustain myself till after exams.
I wish I hadn't remembered we were family
I wish I were as wise as I am now.
Those same siblings today are my strangers far as I'm concerned. They don't even know whether I live or dead. They don't care.
Sacrificing for family is good but, never at the expense of your life goals, dreams and ambition. They would only respect you for what you make of yourself and never for what you do for them.
fergie001: Ihezue was MBGN in 2017 and reigning Miss Universe 2023.
Ukachukwu represented Bwari/Abuja Municipal Federal Constituency in the House of Reps (1999-2003) Except I see anywhere he has condemned iPod and their cannibalistic rampage in the region, thunder and Ogun kill whoever approve this stupid request. Let them stew in their evil concoction
EmekaBlue: Mr man go relax...at this modern age if not of super bad law in the judiciary. Buhari is suppose to be in jail like South African ex presido
Nigeria seems doomed
Same as Obj, Jonathan and lots more. And, don't believe Buhari stole Nigeria's money. Men like this Emefiele manipulated him to their selfish end. Nevertheless, I support President's in Nigeria must be made accountable for policies and wrongdoings but, are we ready for that in Nigeria yet? However, Nigeria my country is never doomed. Be civil and don't curse your fatherland. We are here together and it's our duty to pray for Nigeria