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tunmiluabi: My story is quite long, please run through with patience.
I married my wife about 11 years ago. By the way I am 46 years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neither was my wife. She was working with a multinational company, earning an equivalent of N40,000. I had a small graphic design business after trying many times to find a good job. I looked for jobs and contracts without any respite. But At this this time, my wife's support was good and I did appreciate every bit of it. At lest we survived on the low...
As time went on, I got a job in one international corporate training company as a Statistics and Business Analysis Instructor, was earning about 90,000 naira. During the times before I got my job, we had accumulated debt and my new job provided us an opportunity to pay them up.
We decided we were going to save part of her salary every month for servicing the debt and save the rest for a rainy day. I was supposed to pay the rent and all other domestic bills, light, kids school fees etc.. Some time she helped with food/groceries. After sometime, she advised we move to a bigger apartment. We still had a daughter by then. I obliged and we did.
To cut the story short, after four years of working, the company folded up because of government policies and we were all laid off. This meant we had to prepare for the hard life ahead. It was hectic and devastating. Me being me, I took it with all sense of grace and hope things will be fine. But the more I thought about this the worse things got. One day out of curiosity I asked my wife if it would be nice to have another child and she advised it was not the best time. I understood and agreed. I then advised my wife if we could start a business and with some savings we had, maybe I could use it to enhance my former business, maybe things might be better this time. She did not show any interest. This time I discovered changes in my wife.
One day she asked me if she could use part of them money to do a course, honestly I was shocked but asked why she did not oblige to my own request. She said "its my money I can use it for whatever I want". My wife however did the course.
To cut the story short, 3 years down the line, my wife stopped having sex with me and this continued for a long time. I became like "shit in her eyes". I lost a bit of confidence though. she would wake me with insults and barrage of dirty words. Because of our child, I agreed to stay a home and try to work online and seek clients and jobs from old client. It was not bad but not promising.
Fortunately for us, my wife got a promotion and her salary was increased to about 170,000. This actually brought out the worst in my wife. Her calmness disappeared and all decorum was buried. We would quarrel everyday and not talk for weeks. She became really mean and controlled everything at home. Please note, she is not a bad woman but can't explain the reasons up till date. I was with no option but to query her sincerity as a wife and that continued for a long time. Our sex life became zero, she would tell me having sex would make her pregnant and was not ready for a second child. Her stories kept on changing and became even worse, rather than coming home she would pass by her mom and be there till late in the night before coming home.
After about 3 years of trying to get something to do, I finally got a place on the island sometime in February 2018, where I would be paid a stipend of 50,000. In addition, I would use my free time to design, print and sell business cards to small companies. The overall income was small but enough for some immediate obligations at home. But to be fair, that was the best I could get since I have not had money in a long time. Unfortunately my wages were not consistent due to challenges the company was facing. But I used the Business card printing to augment wherever possible.
Later in 2018 around September, I discovered that my wife had been having an illicit engagement. She had a male fried and I finally got to know about it and confronted her. She did not deny it, she begged and I forgave her. Anyway, I had made up my mind to forgive because of the kid and I never told anyone till date. Moreover, since we were not making love that was of course enough reason for the drastic measure, I told myself. To be sincere I had lost feeling for my wife and sex was difficult. We finally started having sex but I had little to offer her. I would pretend and even have to watch Indecency to be able to have sex with her. I was dead inside. At least my wife was still with me. That was my solace. I guess trust was broken. She however continued with her escapades. The quarrels increased and got worse. There and then name calling became our breakfast and dinner. She advised that since I would never look at her the same and bringing little or nothing to the table that I was free to go. The quarrels went on for quite some time, my wife will go very violent on me some of the times. I am marshal artist with black belt and I have great restraint - for me, fighting and going violent on her was never on the table. One day I thought there was a need to move out and I did indicated to her that I was not comfortable living with her anymore.. That wherever I am, I will see how I can take care of the kids.
She did not care and things became difficult for me. I felt maybe I could stay for sometime, It might be a difficult condition but still not impossible. This became my Achilles heels. There and then I knew my relationship had broken and irreparable. I accepted there was nothing I could, but to be patient and tried to convince myself about our situations and believed our situation was bad, but God’s willing we would overcome. The fight even got worse and became very violent and physical, I would normally just take the beating or hold her hands to avoid any injuries.
The quarrels was beginning to be in the glare of my Kids and since it was not abating, there was little I could do to change the situation. I finally made up my mind on the 19th of May 2019 to move out, but actually moved out on the 30th of May, 2019. Before then on the 26th of May, 2019, I discovered my wife was again engaging in the illicit affair. She would claim she was going to church only to be found at a different location. Honestly I can’t blame her, I blame myself and the situation that caused the demise of our once cherished marriage. At this point in time I realised I had lost and had no fight in me anymore. My kids are still very young. Everyday quarrels, lack of sincere engagement, denials upon denials and her fear of facing her “DEMON” with little chance of her understanding the consequence of her actions - I was left with no choice but to stop FIGHTING. I had no fight left in me. The ultimate decision was to leave. I did not inform her parent about the issue because I had indicated to her I did not want them to look at her differently.
God so good, I got a 500,000 Naira job through a friend in an oil company with a 3bedroon in Lekki fully paid up for 3years by the company. By the way, I am Data Analyst but never practiced for a long time. I studied Computer engineering but for a long time grace did not smile on me. I take care of my kid and I really don't hate her and I am at peace with everything. She still has her job and doing well.
Please note that she did not tell me to leave, I left on my own volition. I could not share the same bed with my wife anymore she apparently could not muster enough strength to stop all iniquities for a conversation that will help see things through. Rather she is turning to blame it on me. We have however resolved to part on a friendly note for the sake of our child.
My reason for posting this is because most us sit behind the desk and computers and do not understood the demons everyone is battling. On a bad day, the best husbands are MONSTER, while the best wives are DEVILS. When we make judgment as males or female. We should not forget about our female child/children, same goes for the male child. I don't know what my wife tells people about what happened but I really don't care and I have made up my mind never to defend myself.
stephenduru: A man identified as Mr. Chinaedu Omeonu who hails from Mgboko Umuoria Autonomous Community in Obingwa Local Government Area, killed his cousin brother.
According to information reaching me, Mr. Chinaedu Omeonu inflicted a very deep cut on Mr. Solomon Monday Orji who happens to be his cousin brother and the cut was what led to the death of Mr. Solomon.
Reports gathered have it that the son of Mr. Solomon Monday Orji went to Mr. Chinaedu's house to pick some mango fruits and Mr. Chinaedu out of his hatred for Mr. Monday Orji's family flogged the little boy mercilessly to the extent that the boy fainted and was unable to go back to their house.
When Mr. Solomon heard what happened to his son, he rushed to Mr. Chinaedu's (owner of the mango tree) house to ask him why he flogged his son mercilessly to the extent that the boy couldn't work again just because of mango fruit.
Mr. Chinaedu was very harsh on him and after exchanging words, Mr. Solomon carried his son home. According to eye witness, on his way going back to his house, Mr. Chinaedu went inside his room, picked a cutlass and rushed Mr. Solomon to his house, before Mr Solomon could turn back and know what is happening, Mr. Omeonu had already cut him mercilessly from his back and life was not left any more.
According to those around, Mr. Solomon died instantly at that point and everyone where all in tears. As at press time, the youths and people of Mgboko Umuoria apprehended Mr. Chinaedu (the murderer), tortured him and was about handling him over to uniform men.
Iv used my for 6years nownever changed shaft or fuel pump,or any engine parts, thou i dnt give it out , I would vouch for the normal 4 cylinder not the V6, and this is the only Ford i like and can recommend and few of my friends bought cos of me, it has a good gas milage, small avg tank, and durable and dependable and dsnt have big common problems like transmission issues, the important maintenance note for ford is on no condition should you ever wash your engine with water , even professionally, yes the lights are a bit expensive, thats my take
NaijadrivaCars: Ford Ke? But I see more of the older model of this 2008/9/10 model (see second pics below)
Both models below have slightly bad MPGs.
Imagine a 3.0L (auto) V6 having 12.4L/100km (city ) and 10.2L/100km (highway) while a Toyota Highlander with 3.3L V6 has 12.4L/100km (city) and 9.4L highway.
Their 2.3L i4 (manual trans) isn't any better.
Again, parts are expensive. I know what my neighbor that drives Ford Focus is crying Oga forget am.
Some companies are just wicked, some made more gains than ever and still follow bandwagon of laying off workers to cut cost, when they were making abnormal profits they never gave the staff more welfare, just 3months delay on sales/ manfacture with little or no loss to some then they start making noise
Virginnn: well, as a food manufacturing coy, they are not expected to lay off workers. The only things we spend money on these days are food and, yes, data. Agro based industries are expected to rack in huge profits. In any case, everyone must look inwards and start considering working for themselves. Start a small business.
I would have suggested the same but the issue is trust, one word the igbo people have the least, no insult.
ERockson: Prof Gambari Agboola is 75% Fulani from Yoruba land of Ilorin. We wish you success Sir. But why not appoint Igbo into this influential position. In Ipob voice, Buhari can never change
My bro no one will intentionally break his screen, but it today's world, it is likely to be caused accidentally by someone even if u are careful , in that case wat will u do? Or it falls of from the pocket,
EMXTAN1: U go try use am wella make screen no break.. Pple like us fit use fone to d extent it won't fall on d ground
He didnt Facilitate anything or release of anybody, only power in Germany
Officialgarri: President Muhammad Buhari has a reputation of surrounding himself with seasoned and skillful old war horses and elderly and ancient northern political veterans and warriors like Mamman Daura, Zangon Daura, Funtua, Lawal Daura, Baba Gana Kingibe and many others, e.t.c. including the late COS Abba Kyari
We really hope the new COS —will out perform Abba Kyari who had so much impact in this administration that even the crooks in the government hated him and smeared his image for denying them access to loot - facilitated the funds for Enugu Airport and second Niger bridge - facilitated release and escape of Nnamdi Kanu, Dasuki, Sowore e.t.c yet he never sat back to take glory and never cared about blames and accusations even though he wasn't the president.
From the camera angle view its possible airforce,1 is the gateman of e-money,
Airforce1: E-money is all shades of class as he steps out in style in stunning outfits.
Five star C.E.O, Emeka Okonkwo, popularly known as E-money, steps out in style rocking his finely customised nose mask on a beautifully designed native dress as he steps out in style .
The billionaire business took to his social media page to share photos with his 6million followers .
Iwu said he gave the supervising minister of nafdac, who is supposed to foward to nafdac but didnt,
jidamsel43: Who should we believe? It was just yesterday that NAFDAC DG, Prof. Adeyeye, said that there was no herbal mixture or organic cure to convid-19 presented to the Agency. She said all the tauted local mixtures for convid-19 were sensational talk. I believe someone is not saying the truth. We should ask Prof. Maurice Iwu if he had presented his herbal cure to the relevant agency for verification and testing. There are guidelines for everything.
Why do you want to expose fraudsters, lol d man de hustle o akant don go down
aro1: I would believe them, when they go to any isolation center in lagos and heal coronavirus patients.. And the healings should be broadcast LIVE on TVC, channels and AIT..
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Dangote would have gone for fewer quality Toyota cars or home made Innoson motors rather than this Chinese inferior cars !! 
