chriskosherbal:
Op I read your story very well..but I must say without missing words that you are behaving like a simp.. sincerely.

You are trying to buy her with your money and position as a boss...( Let me forget about your wife here ),.

First you need to remove in your head that thing you are calling love that you are feeling for her ...cos in reality you have a wife already and you don't intend marrying another ....so what should be on your mind is to fvck her...that's foundational.

Secondly, you have shown her too much ..she now knows you truly like her .so expect her to form like tolotolo..na you cause am ...so now is time for the usage of this weapon called SILENCE...both physically and on WhatsApp.

Thirdly, while using the above weapon you have succeeded in putting her in a confused mode...you are no longer talking and also quiet on WhatsApp in her mind something is wrong ( you are no longer giving her ATTENTION cos inasmuch as she crave for only WhatsApp chat for both of you ...meaning she likes the attention..and that is the area you will work on to fvck her)..and don't squiz your face when you with her keep official face and say for now only official things .

Fourthly...take that attention and put it on other females there ( not in a simp way), hit some of them and hit well ...dont worry the news will get to her is official gist amongst babe she will get jealous she will feel she is relinquishing her postion for another...NB..fvck her ( the other female well...I mean well.. cos it will serve as a advantage platform to fvck this girl.

And lastly, start dressing smart, workout, neat shoes ... powerful smell ...dress in all forms traditional, casual e.t.c just be a fashionista but combine well...

She will definitely notice this changes and she will stylishly try to manipulate her way somehow back to begin with talking...don't be moved stick to your plan and be official in dealing with her the longer this stays ...the more she misses the attention your former person was dishing out but cherishes the new upgraded you ...feelings will start arousing, she will now be longing for a way to please you somehow..

You can hit this woman several times and turn her to your sex slave if you know how the game and know how to play it well..


Red Pill is bae.....turning Boyz into real men.

But I really dont wish or want to hurt her.

pocohantas:


Of course you can NEVER do a second wife. Men of these days would rant about polygamy when they are caught cheating, but 99% of them would not take a second wife. They just want to eat their cake and have it. Sleep around with 200L girls and tell them to abort when and if they get pregnant.

You don’t need any tip, what you need is to go back home and be useful to your family.

Stay one place since you don’t want a second wife!

Are you in 200L? you keep talking about 200L girls.

Saintmary:



You want practical advice?


Tell your wife you're falling in love with your employee.

Then see the speed at which she will solve your problem for you.



P. S. I don't think you have a problem.

E ti yó tán, È nwá békùnbékùn kiri.

Translation:


You are already full, now you're looking for someone to burst your belly.

. I don't wanna break my home bro.. it a good advice and actually the solution.. but you know women and how they react.. next thing na she will think I have been doing it. And asking how many women I have cheated on her with and those thier many funny and emotional questions

Bankerboy:
pretend that she dosen't exist. . Try to be far from her and make her stop coming in ur office. . Dnt frown face for her o and stop chating her. Ghost her.

thanks I will try this out

pocohantas:


Thank you for admitting I said the truth.

Gets more than what she wants because you bought bag of rice and carton of tin tomato at home? Please go home and help her to take care of the two kids you saddled her with.

Channel the energy to your home.

wahala.. bone straight join Sha not only bag of rice and tin tomato.. for the children she is absolutely against having a help in the house ... Even with her job (self employed) she still prefer to do her things herself.. but I take good care of my home trust me.. we are even relocating to the UK this year if you see my comment on this section you will see it there.

Iyaebe:
Stop giving in to your erection and emotions all times,it can be disastrous. Retreat

lol... This is loud but true

dawnomike:
I am glad she is a reasonable lady... Think logically my brother!!!

honestly I want to.

Iyaebe:
Any man bearing Victory is a no no,they are chronic cheats,very unfaithful and lie a lot.All Victors fall into this category of men and not even a single one escaped it

��� what can I do to be different?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Ok firstly workplace romance ain't really nice..
You have to separate yourself from her for a while..in order to distract yourself..
If possible switch department..

well noted... Maybe I should change her job portfolio..

pocohantas:
Typical Nigerian man. Every good thing they have to offer is for the sidechick. Trip to Dubai is for sidechick, perfume is for sidechick, bohemian wig is for sidechick.

That is how one left his wife and went to smoke loud in a hotel with a 300L girl.

I am sure this one took his wife out last in 2004 when he was chyking her, but he is here trying to surprise a small girl with a movie date, while his wife and mother of two kids is at home in a hair net and bongo shorts, running after two hyperactive children.

By 6pm she would start preparing dinner for the head of the house. Unknown to her, she is refuelling the energy he would use to continue pursuing 200L girls all around the federation.

You don’t want sex from her indeed. Your wife that you want sex, submission and homemaking skills from, why you no take her for movie date?

Smh!

I can't help but laugh.. you said the truth though, especially the hyperactive part about the children.. but I dey flex my wife for sure.. she gets more than what she wants...

Bankerboy:
You win some and you lose some. Let her be and beside you're married, abi you want a second wife?

I can never do second wife... I grow up in a polygamous home so I don't want that for my kids.. we that's exactly what I want to do now.. I just need tips bro on achieving that

Kriss216:

If you look well now na one local dirty smelly fish brain girl the Mumu dey confess love for.

I can bet Iyaebe left breast, his wife is finer than that Mumu girl.

you are right my wife is prettier than her.. oya give me workable advice on how to break free..

kingphilip:


You de mind am?

If you look well now na one mushroom company him get o and instead of to invest more into building the company and his home with his wife and kids he is investing in his emotions.

If to say I know the girl I for tell am to reck am make him come back to him senses

I'm not here to talk about my business.. but trust me is far from the bolded. I have 32 full time staff aside part time staff... Focus and the challenges I have and give practical advice

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Pls and pls let there be space between your work and colleague.. work should be strictly work aiit...
You don't do that at your work place..or is is not against the company's ethics and protocol?
One way or the other it's gonna affect your focus whole at work.. respect the fact that she doesn't return the same energy you give..
Don't drive her into a state of confusion due to your "love" for her..
Let there be space..control your feelings..

Honestly I really wished to.. I just need tips on how to go about it

Hello everyone.

Please I sincerely need your help in terms of advice and counselling.

I am a young man in my mid thirty, has a beautiful wife and 2 kids. I have about 32 staff working for me. Just recently, December to be precise I started developing an emotional attachment to one of my staff. I told her I want her to join me to see a movie and she said she was travelling and she won't be around but January was fine. I knew she was avoiding the outing so I bought a ticket to the movies and sent it to her she never showed up and I didn't call her until work resumed on January 4th and I asked why she didn't come for the movies and she apologise that she was busy.

I told her we can go see the movies now since she initially wanted January, she said she can't that she doesn't want to be seen with a married man, and besides my wife is nice to her and also she doesn't want any girl with her husband when she eventually gets married so she won't want to be with anyone's husband that I belong to someone else.

I told her I don't want sex from her, all I want is from her is a squish relationship. she practically turned it down that she can't because she will be hurt in the end because belong to someone else.

Honestly, I felt hurt because I truly love her. I am more emotionally drawn to her even more than before. We spend considerable time chatting every day and on phones in the evening till night after the day's job. She is not so comfortable spending time in my office as she told me the day I was not in the office everyone kept asking after the boss from her and she felt embarrassed and asked them why can't call to know why I am not in the office.

she said we should please remind her the way it is, just chatting and phone calls and she can't afford to be seen around with a married man.

I really love her and I feel hurt as she is turning me down. I wish I can stop loving her, I really don't know how to stop loving her as I really wish not to hurt her.

Please I need the mature minds here to help give workable suggestions.

please Move to front page

lala

Na Benin boy... The average Benin boy that has a family member abroad that's how they behave... They are lazy and very ungrateful of what they get from their sibling abroad..

The truth is the guy want to travel I'm sure he must have told them... He is frustrated because the sister has not helped him out of the country..

Make oya send ham go Cyprus make ona fit get peace of mind

missidy:
So now there is a 2yrs work permit. My question is what happens after the 2yrs work permit expires? Can one still stay back or you have to leave. I don't want to invest so much into relocating to UK and then have to leave after after the 2yrs work permit expires. Please someone should clarify me.

. Co asking... What are the available route of staying behind after the 2 years work visa expire

Peaceomon:
not DIY ...it’s the 32 PAGES

please help with your contact info I did mine in benin since sept 8 no response.. Mine was diy. My wife and children wants to do let me use him to do their... I have sent you a pm please respond

Silverb:
Hello everyone, I have been a silent reader. Please I would love to know if there are schools giving admission without transcripts.
I already submitted my application to the university of kent to study MA Social Work for September 2022.
My School sent my transcript via DHL to the university of kent which has been delivered to the school but I doubt if it has gotten to the admission office. (I have contacted the University as d they said they have informed the admission office to check for my transcript).
My problem now is that I want to apply to other schools but I don't have a copy of my transcript, my previous institution is frustrating.
First, they demanded I pay N200k for my original certificate, which I paid (They said it's because I graduated in 2011 ) and for my transcript I paid N55k.
They refused to give me a hard copy or a soft copy of my transcript, they even refused to email it to school. They said for every school I apply to I will have to pay N55k each to get my transcript forwarded.
I am very worried about putting all my eggs in one basket, I would appreciate it if anyone can give me ideas on how to go about this, please.

what school... Sound like uniben because I had similar issue.. I had to use my office address as destination of my transcript. After that I started apply to different schools with it. Yes uniben will watermark it to the address they are sending and may not be useful to any school but you can use it to get conditional offer. When you get that you can then pay for them to send another copy to any of the school you will take their offer... But if you know someone in exams and record they will give a soft copy or hard copy codedly

Let him run far away from that girl..

If he can leave the country to another country to go start life a fresh better for him.. I get similar experience.. she no abort for me o. We no even date reach two months. The babe was sure desperate because age was not on her side.. she senior me with like 4 years... As I chop the kpekus e no sweet me I say I no want again babe say over her dead body say na me disvirgin her that I must marry her.. see wahala o.. na so I run from IB enter lagos babe follow me enter lagos locate me, I run again enter Benin this time I con change all my contacts nobody get my contact before babe con leave my life.. this your guy own na serious case... He need to leave the country for peace of mind or make he go borno go stay babe no go follow ham go there

NomzyJust:

Only you applied to 8 schools. Data science alone is 5 schools. How will you not be confused. You have abused the free application process. If the applications were actually charged would you apply to 8 schools?

Now you have brought confusion to yourself.

much appreciated

MaBuk:

If you are okay with the course and cost then I will select Salford cos its in Manchester. Cos bigger city have more options than smaller one. E.g accommodation, jobs,

much appreciated

Km007:
Kingston University, if you want to be around London. It's 30mins from central London and work availability shouldn't be a problem.

much appreciated

DafePeejay:
Lol why did you apply to 8 universities? Only 4 at most is ideal. Anyway, how I made my own decision:
1. Ranking of the universities
2. Tuition, initial deposit and % of tuition due on enrolment.
3. Location (I prefer London or proximity to).

Remove Middlesex from the list. They barely issue Nigerians CAS. Messed me up earlier for September 2021 intake.

much appreciated

Manlikechoba:



Same here

I maybe wrong too, na why I bring am forward

Make we no think say na scam con lose better thing...

How can I tag justwise and other gurus??

if he come online he will see your mention I guess he is currently not online

Modify... Baba has answered

Manlikechoba:
@justwise..heard or seen this b4??

I applied for this Europe jobs stuff and it became suspicious along the way, I don't mind sending you all their emails from the beginning sir... and according to the mail I got,the company (the employer) has deadline,so I want to be sure b4 proceeding or backing out

from the email they sent you, it clearly shows how unprofessional they are..

I may be wrong but I think is a scam. Let the ogas in the house comment

My people abeg make ona no vex o.. I need expert in the house to help me decide.

First degree na mathematics..
I have gotten offer from the following school for September 2022 resumption but I confused as to which to go with.. please my major concern is the environment in terms of availability of work and also which course is best to pursue.

1. University of Bradford... Advance Biomedical engineering..

2. University of hull... Biomedical engineering

3. Sheildfield hallam university... Healthcare Analytics and AI

4. University of Salford... Data science

5. University of Kingston... Data science

6. Man. Metropolitan... Data science

7. London metropolitan... Data Analytics

8. Middlesex... Data science


Abeg I need advice...