SyberKate:
Hi

So I decided to go into a long distance relationship with this guy I have not met yet. We just met online and have exchanged pictures.

So far the relationship is just one week old and I was in a bit of a situation where I needed some money. Nothing much just about 15,000 to solve an issue.

So I asked my BF if he could assist me with the money, only for him to start saying things like the relationship is still young for me to be making demands, that what if he starts demanding for s3xx this early in the relationship.

I said I wish I could have solved my problem myself but I really need all the help I can get. He still insisted that he hasn't even met me physically and I could be trying to swindle him for all he knows.

Then I said if he feels that way then no need to continue with the relationship and it was over, just like that within one week.

So do you think I was being unreasonable to make demands this early in the relationship.

you may be thinking is normal but is not...
which village are u from?

farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

your own na ashawo relationship

jbaby265:
hello house please help a sister out.. my relationship of 6 to 7 years is about to crash..
I Love my man and he loves me too.. he stands by me in all times and I do the same for him too in fact our relationship is a typical example of grassroots relationship.. but recently I'm beginning to get frustrated at his attitude or should I say our attitude towards each other.. which is why I resorted to you guys.. this is a faceless forum so I feel comfortable to share my worries..

in recent years I found out that our quarrels, dispute, misunderstanding and bitterness has drastically increased and it bothers me alot.. he quarrel more often this days and can even stay up-to a month without communication.. he complains about everything I do and that's me angry.. AM NOT A SAINT HERE cos he complains of my non Challentless too.. but this our constant quarrels and misunderstanding is driving crazy.. I've cried and ask GOd to dissolve us if it's not his will for us to get married rather than us fighting all the time. HONESTLY AM CONFUSED PLEASE YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED. I love him and he loves me but we fight a lot.. our wedding is Sept ( still don't believe is possible though)..

abortion can cause this

WUdec:
Sounds like you love her more than she loves you.


Secondly, any adult who lets his/her parent control his/her marriage or relationship is not mature enough to keep one.

Marriage should not come with pressure. Plus she sounds like she holds the remote.

You seem soft and easy to take advantage of. Nobody should ever force you to do what you don't want to.

Only you know the answers to your question.

You ain't ready for marriage yet, trust me on this one

fact.....
for me.. i don't think you understand what marriage is all about bro
have a rethink

what do you mean by yahoo in the first place? And your evidence

holyfather:
Good for nothing...
Allawee or no allawee, rules are rules. He should live by a set of rules for just a year of his life, it won't kill.




That's how one youngster on here once said he should be the president of Nigeria and I was like kwhaat ?
Is everything about popularity?
He should first rule his life

Gee stop fooling yourself nah who rules don help?

i pity this young man

i trust my country

NICE MOVE

Mr lawyer before you summarize, knowing the fact that he met her along the road, i have questions
No 1; how sure are you that your sister is not a prostitute?
No 2; who told you that your 16 year old sister is a virgin?

ecoeco:
This marriage will not last
Endtime bridesmaid


#Eco99#

why this comment? that the marriage will not last...... or do you think is funny?

please can someone with ND and NCE apply?

wjames:
*in Davido's voice* Why them dey use panadol for out headache... It seems you don't really like yourself, the girl will surely find out that you leaked her secrets then she'll surely do anything to bring you down.

having someone like you as a friend is not advisable

Elmojiid:
u beta face ur own mata...mind ur own business.

you are not a good friend you are too wicked

Evaberry:
...

the money he has gotten from his church business is way more than the money spent to build this

pastorpreneurship

you are very stupid

tchidi:



You know ba? With that useless Bio 111 handout!

tchidi:



You know ba? With that useless Bio 111 handout!

you are a big disgrace for saying this

this boys are very funny... abeg, where are the weapons? lol

Benikuuse:
AS It Stands Now Do You Know How Much The Government Is Owing Me, I Have Not Seen My Salary For Over 7 Months Now But Am Still Working

yes you're still working because you don't have se*se

Benikuuse:
This Country Is Very Annoying. Ordega Benue People Were Very Proud Of You For Making The National Team But Here You Are Blasting Your Country, It Shows That You Are Representing Your Country Not For Passion But For M
oney. That Is Why I Love Mikel Obi

you are a big fool for saying this nonsense

give that man something and stop talking nonsense

All u people dat are against this protest, wetin be una own, abi because u are still alive abi?

i for say ...... Nigerian police?

that is change for you <ApC>
this is just the beginning and you are complaining
is the ApC Governor not around go and complain to him

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APC and certificate again?

Ginaz:
I don't know why guys hate it when toasting a girl and she goes: "no sex". in fact for some, they will say : "stop joking jooor" and I wonder if really is the sex they say they love or you

for girls, it's like a dream come through when they find themselves in a no sex relationship but for guys, it's like hell fire on earth!

which brings me to my question, guys why is it hard for you to be in a no sex and no touch relationship?

Answer:
is because you girls find it hard to cope in no spending relationship

hope say dat old woman no be witch

dachuchi7:
What did he do or what was the offence to warrant a protest that is dead on arrival. Op,you even supported a lost battle,Obiano is the best thing that happen to Anambra and there is nothing anybody and including you can do about it. Looking at the pix,all I see are women going peacefully with their business.

are you drunk?

Pastor Adeboye, is this sermon or are you creating awareness

from all indications you are of the APC
48 and 35 are they the same?
you are only trying to blame the both parties because APC did not appoint any thing close to 35 the party appointed 35 according to you the 35 was demoted.
but the fact remains that 35 was appointed during there tenure.
but we need to tell ourselves the truth
President buhari underestimated this country all plans are not working
the youth are ideal doing nothing while the old ones are controlling the affairs of this country buhari promised to change all that, we believed him, he was voted in, now what is happening everyday is blaming the past government for close to 2years now.
there is no day that will pass without 4-5 youths been killed for crime he or she committed both home and aboard

Bishop Bishop