Marcelinho: Fake, how you mention Akwa Ibom, when last was there a report of attacks in that State... This people should just go and sit down instead of steering unnecessary violence
I agree with you. Akwa-ibom is one of the most peaceful state in Nigeria.
doctokwus: That is a bloody lie sycophants of his use as his defence when evidence of his unmitigated disaster as a president are made public by reputable insitutions or countries. Even if he had good advisers,the man is bereft of ability to think out policies or decisions that would impact the country or people positively. He is innately deficient in ideas, thoughts or processes,made worse by his innate bigotry and near extremist religious tendencies. He is a modern day almajiri steeped and indoctrinated in Islam,but forced to attend modern institutions for which he was intellectually unfit for. The result is his failures,so you lot should stop shifting the blame to a group of phantom good advisers you claim he doesn't have.
The way you passionately expressed your views. If only Buhari is on nairaland.
I was watching this video sometime in March(downloaded it from YouTube), was so engrossed in worship when my phone rang. Turns out it was a mail to come pick up my appointment letter for a job I've been chasing for months.
Richy4: I like this OP too much... Though I did not read your thread.. and based on the on going discussion here, I know that I wouldn't have been on the same page with u because I'm not a fan of forcing something on someone even if I have that right..
But the reason why I am writing this is to commend on the manners in which you were handling yourself and your argument without insulting anyone.. that's really classy.... Your manners is uncommon in any Nigerian forum. .. . what I have seen from the first to the third page is enough for a pretentious person to loose it...But no, u were still holding it together.. Pls keep that up dear...Good manners can take one to where money and qualifications can't... it will take u far..
Perfectly written. The OP has responded to lots of highly provocative comments with class, very "un-Nigerian".
quivah: This isn't entirely true. A man can actually orgasm without ejaculation. Ejaculation and Orgasm are really different and in fact, it's advised that men (as they grow older) learn to orgasm without ejaculation i.e practice non-ejaculatory sex.
queenfav: There are things you don't come online to say about your husband, especially one that you are still living with. It beats me why you feel nairaland is the best place to get answers to issues in your marriage. What's your aim telling us all this? Were we all there when you married him? Figure out all this on your own please, that's why marriage is not for kids. No one will advise you on what to do because it's YOUR life, YOUR marriage and YOUR husband. Learn to deal with it, no one here actually cares, you are just entertaining us.
luminouz: Small money like 200 made her flare up? Yet husbands have taken care of their wives,sons,her parents, his parents, his and her siblings without grumbling or complaining. Oh yes,its a man's job according to society but once he defaults,hell comes down. No wonder men die young around here. No one ever appreciate the men folk and all they do!
I keep asking myself,who really ends up enjoying the institution called marriage?
Probably the most sensible comment on this thread.
Richy4: I just broke the 17th commandment of the 'Bro codes' by telling you this...He used the olden days break up line on u written and endorsed by Adam himself from the beginning of time .. It is called " it's not you, it's me" breakup lines...
Just look at all the qualities he highlighted that u got... yet... Those qualities will make any man take u to see his mama in a heartbeat...
Please start shopping/looking for another man dear.. u are not the one for him...
MY only guess will be that While he was with u during the trial period , he has some one else to whom he was trying to compare both of u together... he has made up his mind and has made his choice and u were not that choice ... it is just to let u go gently without hurting your feelings...and if u are still in that relationship let him go... u don't need a prophet to tell u what's gonna happen...
FYI it got nothing to do with what you have done.. it's just that u guys were not compatible... it's like any other breakup... but the difference is that he will accept everything as his fault..he will highlight your wonderful qualities... then blame himself for not connecting with u..in fact blame everything that was not going well in your relationship on himself....
I might probably pay some fine for exposing this ..
Aystarz: If you're an Arsenal fan and you have better things to do with your time, this afternoon, I'd suggest you go on and do it right now. This match ain't worth one more second of your precious time.
I don kukuma switch to MTV base continue iron my clothes. Rubbish.
cash1115: Do you have the measurements already? You can chat me up on 07069462837 so we can discuss better. Regards
This is why most nairalanders ignore such sales/marketing threads. You don't get direct answers to questions, any small thing "WhatsApp". Why not just give an estimate for a standard size 3 bedroom flat with dining room.
What this state keeps lacking is good leadership. Despite the huge revenue allocations, majority of the youths in this state are touts looking for free money. The few educated ones have no jobs.
Even without oil, Akwa-ibom has one of the best beaches in Nigeria, a huge tourist attraction wasting away due to youth restiveness, insecurity (kidnapping) and lots of other social vices which still takes us back to youth unemployment. Sad.
keepingmum: Op i will share your with you some things that has worked for me...... Please dont go and meet ANY pastor, not even the one commenting here....whatever they want to do, they should say it in the open.
5 years ago, I was in your position - i went through a period of stagnation - infact my family went through a period of stagnation for almost 7years - there was no type of prayers/fasting/sowing seeds we did not do. There was practically no type of pastor we did not hook up to watch live services from on Youtube - i even at a point, contemplated white garment churches because i believed the popular saying "its spiritual attack" "the devil is fighting your destiny because you have a bright star" yen yen yen
I remember opening a thread on NL during that period seeking prayers ( i was that desperate for breakthrough in my family) and someone mentioned a "Pastor Vic" from the Lords Chosen - I hurriedly copied his numbers and called this man - worst mistake ever!!! The man said and i quote " until you go back to your village and pray to break the yoke of generational curse, it will never be well with you" - i said but i have been praying and quoting scriptures, this man rebuked me telling me that the devil also knows the scriptures"
I was weakened, defeated in my spirit - for over a week i couldnt pray - i thought all was lost because there was no way possible to go to my village at that point - After a week, my mum called and i shared my encounter with her, she encouraged me and prayed with me
From then on, i copied all the scriptures to do with blessings; i also copied all the scriptures to do with breaking curses and ancestral spirits and enemies - See Deut 28, Ps 23, 51, 109 and the book of Isaiah - these are some scriptures that worked for me, my inner peace and faith ----BUT i also kept working and forging ahead despite challenges that arose
I started reading these scriptures day and night, reciting them day and night, daily - It took another 2 years, but things began to pick up (not some overnight, suddenly, instant indomie noodles type of change/miracle) but a steady growth, progress and breakthrough began to manifest in my family today the story is different, very different.
I NEVER spoke with a pastor again after that incident because that ish right there, changed my views COMPLETELY about supposed MOG.
i dont want to brag oh, but there are lots of NL's i have sowed given out monies to silently (this was something i could never do previously) - My family and i are still a work in progress but i can tell you that we are thousands of miles far from where we were
I will tell you that a flaw i see is, you are hot tempered, you make silly impromptu mistakes because you feel your ego is gorred without thinking of tomorrow or the future for eg, you resign immediately because they asked you to work extra 3 years, how much do you know is a car that with your 4k a month salary you feel you are owed a car after working for 4years? you had only worked and earned 192k (without any deductions) at that time - even keke napep you wont see and buy for that price
You need to get a job like someone suggested and work TILL you have saved enough to buy a car (since you want to be a driver) then resign.
You dont know the value of what you are given hence you throw it easily - You talk about sleeping with hausas in the park but the restaurant you were working offered you accomodation and feeding yet you threw a tantrum because a woman not related to you did not buy you car? When even your own maternal blood relatives rejected you? Menh you have a lot of growing up to do to succeed.
Someone gave you a millionaire loan last year and the money finished when you CHOOSE to be the messiah of your family by settling family problems even when you had no roof/means of income - have the family problems stopped NO!!! Has the 1 millionaire finished? YES and now you are back to square one.
Oga, pray hard, try some of those scriptures i gave you but also work on your attitude, improve your tolerance, stoop to conquer, be wise and save more - most importantly, learn to say NO to your family - you cant save someone from drowning when you havent learnt to swim - GOD bless you
You can't save someone from drowning when you haven't learnt (how to) swim. I need to broadcast this.
eventsmallchops: The daily frustration induced headache is gone, the depression has vamoosed , I now feel like human again with potential , I no longer see myself as a useless goat because I’m already strategizing on how to excel around here , the work has started , so if you have any engagement , event be it wedding or any cooperate events of any kinds .. expect the best small chops, chips, BBQ from my team , I will be letting you know where you can pick up my products from 15th of May . Thanks You everyone. Thank You. This is Mercy of God! Thank You.
I read every single comment on your thread. I'm really happy for you. Congratulations!
eventsmallchops: what do you mean by last Bleep? you were extremely rude on my last thread if I remember well, please pay attention to your bed sheet business and leave me alone, am I just going to jump on trailer and come to lagos and be sleeping inside the gutter? this is not a thread for kids who are looking for where to give a Bleep as you mentioned! Please do not reply . have a nice day.
Acidosis: You only see this as a problem because you live in one of world's most extroverted countries. You are in a country where people believe they have the right to your greeting. You are not responsible for another man's insatiable greed to your greetings. What the future holds depends on how much effort you make to feed your ego, not another man's ego.