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chumaster:
On a serious note, I admire ladies that dnt apply make-ups or atleast apply very little, like eyepencil, powder, mild lip gloss...

I dnt even know how comfortable they do feel with all those masks

i wonder too......whn such girls sweat eh. their faces will turn to diff colours

chumaster:
wao! A yam impressed; I rof you

lol i rof u too

dacovajnr:
I think you're right about the "everything mustn't be known by u" statement now my Question Were u there when the Bride price was paid and did attend the said private wedding?

so hw did i know

Fabulocity:
Lol I think say na only me wey no sabi do "eyebrows on fleek"

lol..u hv a partner dear

cutestcuty84:
We are in this together sis

wow nice to meet my partner. hw r u doing?

chumaster:
Bae, are you telling us that you don't make-up

i dnt ooo...nt a deeperlifer oo..i use white powder and lip gloss.

.well i'm fair in complexion and i dnt fancy make up...dnt even know hw to draw eye pencil

ayokellany:
Common sense should tell any rationale human not to continue dating a liar and a cheat how you still need any form of advice on that only shows how pathetic you or your level of reasoning is.

As in eh

LilChamp:
I am currently in a relationship of 4 years, I started dating when I was in the University then she was in 100 Level, since then alot has happened.

I remember a day when she called me that her mum sent her to give a guy who was his family friend food stuffs in his apartment, then she was staying in the school hostel and just came back from home, I later got to know she wasn't related to the guy in anyway, they were only primary school mate but she gave me that excuse in other to visit the guy in his apartment.
Alot of other lies which I can't explain all through this forum.

Now that she is currently serving far away in an eastern state, I called her this night but she wasn't picking up, also called her friend whom they stay in the same hostel but she told me she is outside and not currently in the room.

I later gave up after calling her like 40times without picking up. At around 10:00pm she flashed me with a number, when I called her back she said she misplaced her phone and she is currently looking for it, she told me she has informed the OBS crew in camp and they are making efforts in helping her recover the phone.

She later called back with her phone and informed me she has seen it that same night.
I don't know why I didn't believe her and I insisted on knowing what really happened and why she hasn't been picking my calls.

It was after she knew I wasn't ready to believe what she told me that she later opened up that she knew her phone was ringing and didn't misplaced it.

I challenged her that she must have been with a guy outside at night, though she denied it at first and later opened up that I was right.

The truth is I have been totally faithful to her and always believed she is the right girl for me.

I don't know what to do at this Junction, I really need advice because I don't know if I should still hold on or not.

Pls I need reasonable advice from mature folks

lol 40 times. guy r u ok

monniyi:
one of my friends said, some girls wake up as early as 3am to start applying makeup. Gosh is it not stressful to paint face, go under sun and get uncomfortable and get brown stains all over ur white

Most girls lack confidence or they are covering their sins.... heheheehehehehehehehe.

They lack confidence dear

Fabulocity:
Omo, that girl is trying oh. So with all the drills, parade, marching and sweating under the hot sun, she still puts on makeup. Is this also common with other girls abi I'm just dulling myself 'cause I'm not planning on carrying any make up when I go for orientation camp next year...

AS IN EH

Fatimah555:
its very nice. Good toilet facilities just DAT water doesn't come in.... Good bathrooms, nice painted hostels, constant electricity, good parade ground,friendly soldiers..everything is quite ok

D only problem is insufficient water, pple queue for water here. intact katsina has one of the best nysc camp

tnx dear

dacovajnr:
and the Wedding was held @ Where?.. Ma'am your Sandra remains a BabyMama for now

her bride price was paid and a private wedding ceremony held....evrytin must nt b knwn by u

Olumaeme:
Clap for yourself holy lady.

But you have had up to 6 boyfriends who have banged the hell outta your pussy with series of abortions....

lol. As in eh

dacovajnr:
Your point Exactly?or are you just tryna garner cheap "likes"..Tell me what you've got to say about Sandra who has a Child for Flavour yet she's not close to being address as "Fiancee" Women & Hypocrisy are inseparable

Sandra is married to flavour..nt supportn d girl bt leave my sandra out of this

All these bf gf shit doesnt make any sense to me...just NEGODU

Fatimah555:
katsina

swthrt hw is katsina camp? dt ws my third choice bt ws told i'm nt in stream 1

joshuachuks93:
Bros u still dey wait for tym table fa....ah i raf u in izaw...na tymchair nd tymfan we dey wait nw fa......

hahahahahaha...u guys wont kill me here o

MackBrooklyn:





Lol, I'm sorry but I ain't believing that _shit, ma'am!!

believing wht so u dnt know the type of friends u keep influences urlife dnt believe nah

DaniDani:
My experience yesterday during parade is disgusting and fun at the same time. There's this one obese Yoruba girl beside me in the parade line, the girl smells to high heaven. Kilode! Shio! wadup, what's my offense to receive this offensive odour from this 'woman - girl'? To worsen the situation, our parade commandant got no chill plus our disorganized matching, we were forced to match without ease or pulsing. It appears that the more we match, the more her odour oozes higher, I began to breathe faster and looked for a way of escape but all to no avail. I tried to play smart to swerve to another line but the prying eyes of the soldiers prevented me. I marked the girl and will avoid any thing that we make us to be beside each other during parade or queue. It was really a bad memorable experience.

lmao

MackBrooklyn:



Lol, let's forget about your two friends. How about you??

show me your friend..cmplete it

Haychay:
Hope in the camp they divided the stream into stream1 and stream2. U guys shouldn't touch stream2 stream ohh

hahahahahahaha...tell them o

Donbabaj:
We need to bring our falcons' defenders into our super eagles team

LMAO. EXACTLY

Mavelshee:
I totally agree with you, I really do buh technically virginty is virginity, morals or no morals, assf'kin or no, a man will always pick a virgin....if a lady can pull off a fake hymen, good for her, buh as long as that place is open..well.

My sister nothing be like brand new ooO...if u like tell ur self wateva u want

1000 likes

MackBrooklyn:
Virginity is the best wedding gift any man would receive from from his newly wedded wife but lately, there is nothing such as virginity any longer because it'll have already been given out as a birthday gift, token of appreciation, job assurance, church collection, examination marking schemes and transportation fares

that is not true. i hv two friends that married as a virgin...they were nt deeperlifers ooo.....

herzern1:
So no Fashion experts to make amendment to the cloth for him??........

Please....Let's stop makinq mockery of ourselves...

so pathetic ...it is nt funny atall....i wonder hw his family will feel wt dis mumu picture

KINGinVAHALA:
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tnx swty. wishing you the best of the season

happy new mnth to all ROYALTIES

Toks2008:
I can do anything to have her...I hate lazy ladies who believe that their outward beauty will give them cash...

haba she no get good curves nahRemember she is an IGBO CHICK...

Berlynn:
Nothing like the words “My father is a pastor” to scare off a potential boyfriend, For some reason, hearing these words can make anybody want to turn the other way and run....Why? I’m still not 100% sure, lol Maybe they think God is watching our relationship even closer than most, but either way, this is one big bomb to drop on a relationship, and it gets even scarier when your potential boyfriend actually meets your parent … especially if they meet them on a Sunday.... Come and hear preaching




my dad's is a pastor all this i experienced while growing up

LOL so true

makydebbie:
Proverbs 22:6...Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it.


We all know this scripture and know that parenthood is no easy job. But everyone says, "what better environment is there to train up a child than in a pastor's home" right?
Or does growing up under a dad as a pastor guarantee a child's future on the right path?


Let's look at the challenges faced by pastor's kids which makes it not so rosy for kids growing up under clergymen's/religious leaders roof.



(1) Pastor's kids face the challenge of living up to the good boy/girl tag: As a pastor's child, I can relate to this. Eyes are always on you as a pastor's kid, to always never go wrong. No mistake is expected of you. In school, you're supposed to be different from all other kids and not to play much, joke around with friends or fail to submit assignments on time.


(2)Pressure:- Growing up, there was always this "pressure" that goes with you being the son or daughter of the renowned pastor in town. Even when faced with physical opposition like guys or girls who wanna beat 'us' up, people think that we should not fight but just meekly get beaten and mauled so badly. The bible says when hit we should turn the other cheek right?


(3)Pastors kids and the "be like your dad" comment or tag:-Everywhere you go as a pastor's kid, you always get the reminder that there's a standard you ought to live up to. And that standard in the eyes of people is always your dad or mom who are ministers. Every little thing you do, is a chance for them to say, "you're just like your dad" or if you make a little mistake, "you should be like your dad or mom". They always expect perfection.

In this age, we have come to know that everyone has a path and a destiny from everyone else including parents. Its really frustrating for a pastor's kid to always hear himself/herself being measured with his/her "pastor's" dad.
This is the reason why many of them rebel and go on to "live the life" they feel will make them different from their dads. In most cases, the kids end up destroying themselves.


(4) Pastor's kids and academics:- Always and again, there is always the notion that a pastor's kids shouldn't fail. People say stuffs like, "his father is the general overseer of the states biggest church". He heals the sick, raise the dead and makes the lame walk. If such a child is not shown the necessary support by his "pastor's" dad, or any given attention as regards helping him do well academically, then forget it. He won't fly academically. Not even dad's miracles will make it work.

(5) Pastor's kids and career choice:-As the son or daughter of a pastor, its almost like a taboo to find yourself in some professions. Which may be where one's talents lie. For example some pastors won't let their kids study law, citing some mundane remark like "lawyers are mostly liars".
And most pastors kick against their children going into the music industry. Restricting the child is robbing the world of another gem that would impart the world positively.


(6)Pastor's children and overall parenting:- It is no longer a secret that pastor's homes churn out "clinically depressed kids" because of bad parenting or "parenting negligence". This is so because, a lot of pastors dedicate so much time to their pastorial ministry forgetting that a trully functional church, begins from a truly happy and functional home.
These kids grow up to be so far apart in relationship from their pastors parent. And even end up hating them.

These are some of the many heart wrenching challenges faced by pastor's kids. On the whole, its not a bed of roses being a pastor's kid.


Original writer: Makydebbie

ur last point is nt for all pastors kids...nice write up i can relate to this...
if u crack a joke dt supposed to be funny ,members will be like this pastor's pikin can talk o instead of them to laugh...weird world

rowland545:
My friend got pregnant and she said she intends removing it. So we bought a lot of drugs from pos.. to mes... u name it, we bought all so it did not work...

Then there was this one she bought I've forgotten the name . After she took it she began to bleed . We thought that was it, so the next day, we bought pregnancy strip to test and its still showing two lines which is positive.... Then we waited for a week and she went to the lab and it's still showing positive...

Is it positive for the baby to still be there or is it out? .I'm confused. Doctors in the house, pls help ...pls no abusive words.....

i only pity your destiny...u hv aborted your future

protocol:
Next time use Uber. If u are in lagos or abj

is uber in akure?

sholatem:
I guess Toke needs d money more than destitute out there,

who told you dbanj doesnt contribute towards that