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Highcuerayte:
You are a dead meat if you don't marry her.

u will kill him

louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

so do u want us to advice u to marry her or not to marry her

tivta:
Nairaland prison? What was your offence? As for wisdom we all learn every day.

dnt knw oo. seems it was a tech problm.

yes we do learn evryday

Toks2008:
LOL just saw this...Suitors must come if you put yourself at a vantage point.Trust me it must happen.

yea. dts true

michaelobinna:

LOL

Toks2008:
Indeed.

nt joking am serious here. if i reach 30 wtout a suitor. i will remove my mind frm marriage if i see along d line good if i no see life goes on

tivta:
Just remember to thank God for the wisdom he gave you

hmmm ws jst released from nairaland prison. i thank God ooo. bt nt sure i hv enof wisdom

sonOfLucifer:

lol

jamst2:
There is something fishy about this incident,the nigeria army & the fg planned this.

It was not a coincident that the shiite people are doing their program & the army convoy or the seige at their mosque.there is something else about this saga,we know that this group are shiite,which mean they are loyal to iran & we know presently the zionist west axis & iran axis are engaged in battle in syria.

Hmmmm! Who might have order the nigeria army & fg to attack the shiite,other than the enemies of the shiite organisation,the zionist western axis.oh! Lest i forget,bokoharam & isis are sunni militant control by the zionist western axis & buhari himself is a puppet of this axis...is it because the isis were defeated in syria that prompt this evil zionist western axis to retaliate against this shiite group in nigeria Cos bokoharam has also attack them before.

Well,i only have a message for buhari & his shameless coas,that they should be ashame of themselves to be used as puppet/pawns in hand of the zionist western axis in their war against the iran axis.

LOL.jst whn i taught i hv seen it all

oga can u explain dis ur theory to me

sonOfLucifer:
lol, be like say na Muslims dey suffer pass for this administration.

chai. sonoflucifer no go kill me wt laughter

Nairaland home of debate and argument. whr peopl predict peoples life and future. whr people argue blindly wtout reasoning . i love nairaland

tivta:
God bless you, kindly keep advising them, a friend of mine who is over 30 is still looking for a ready made man, she thinks by hanging out with rich girls she would be lucky to get a rich guy, whenever I see her I just shake my head...

Amen and bless u too. lol over 30hmmm if i reach 30 wtout a suitor i go rmove my mind frm marriage and face my life and business squarely na waoh

and the list continues

lol. no be small thing ooo.

Lol. Festacboys whr una de?

akksplendor:
A fan smashed his TV after Manu lost to a newly promoted team Bournemouth fc today ....lol

www.newseveryhour.com/2015/12/see-what-man-did-to-his-tv-after-man-u.html

hmmmmm.

tosyne2much:
But you supported the motion.. Diaris God ooooh

lol. no mind dis vikky

evn Army. there is dis one dt followed me to my papa house ooo. in d name of phone number only to b served chilled malt by mydad...i hope d person no dey nairaland

gbengus17:
NICE TOPIC. BUT YOUR LIST EXCLUDE DRIVERS, EXPECIALY THE INTER STATE WHO HAS A WIFE FROM ALL CITIES FROM LAGOS TO KANO. WHAT OF MEDICAL DOCTORS WHO READ GYNY, WHAT OF IMMIGRATION/ CUSTOM OFFICERS=== GO TO OUR BORDERS AND SEE. THEY HAVE LOCALS / IMPORTS FROM BENIN/TOGO.GHANA AXIS

hmmmm no jst include med docs oooo

tosyne2much:
Hahaha

Are you also implying I'm a womanizer ?

lol. no b me tlk am ooo

Trustworthiness:
Well to you it is not a must, but to some ladies it is a must. I am talking from personal experience.

When I am still residing in a BQ self contained apartment with my wife and kid, my wife had little or no friends. When she is marketing her goods on fool and going about her product on bike, those ladies rearly buy goods from her.
Now see goes about with her product in an SUV car and they knew the BQ is now a duplex, they are not only buying things from her but making friends with her. From there they were asking her if she will even allow her husband to marry another woman.

So, I caution her to be careful with them, as their agenda is different. So many cases like that that involves singles ladies and the divorced inclusive.

ok noted

Ihuomadinihu:
His points are entirely useless and inconsequential to people that want to get married. I believe that a woman shouldn't stay idle but should work and earn her money no matter how little. Even if the jobs are not forth coming,a single woman should develop herself mentally,socially,spiritual and otherwise. I lay huge emphasis on the mental aspect. Wise men are looking for intelligent women not some gullible lady who is desperate to be a Mrs.

you r right in ur last sentences bt nt all his points r useless. dts ur opinion u r entitled to it

Ihuomadinihu:
I pity the so called Old sisters that will go through his illogical post and apply these points in their search for a man. These posts are basically for teenagers, women desperate to hook a man and of course,unintelligent women. The greatest mistake a woman will make is to say Yes to any of these questions because time is slowly ticking away.
When one enters a relationship,you should know what you can take and what you can't tolerate and endure. If you have to yes to a poor man with a one room apartment,then let it be out of love and care for that man and not because you don't want to be called an Old maid at 30.
It's a pity the kind of rubbish women face on nairaland.

lol. d fact is saying yes or no to the points does not hv any impact on d said person in the real life. no one can pretend to b wht she is not. my own point is our old sisters dt time is no longer on their side shld get busy and stp dreaming about wht dey cant afford. hw will one marry a soo rich guy whn one can barely recharge her phone with airtime jst saying tho

Ihuomadinihu:
The only thing i can pick out of this thread is an OP that is entirely engrossed in himself and feels he knows it all. An Op that slams and disrespects people's opinions and choices has no business making these kinds of thread. So if a Lady says No, to these questions, she will die a spinster in your mind?
Whatever happended to choices,preferences and standards?
People and threads like this push young women into marital mistakes just because they are expected to get married at a certain age. Every dick,tom and harry now put up all sorts of useless and demeaning post in the guise of marital advice for guilible and low self esteem women. What's all this nonesense about?

the ops thread is for d desperados and sex addicts dt want to marry a ready made man whn dey r nt made to hv a rethink. and dose categories of ladies are in their late 20 ties and 30 ties i guess
nt defending him though bt sme old sisters here can hv a rethink and settle dwn tru his post dts for dose dt takes marriage as an achievement though

proserfina:
The problem is that we ladies at times tends to be myopic... As a woman, stupidity is when you sit back
cross-legged and search for an already made man. In
case you don't know, every already made man
out there has a woman who has been with him
from when he had only a pair of shorts and a
single shirt. That's why majority of well to do
men, usually make you nothing but a sex- toy,
for you mean absolutely nothing to them.
He might cheat on her with you, but truth is,
he'll never leave her for you… If you are guilty
of hunting for an already made man, then i tell
you, my dear you are such a cow, you actually
need horns. When a good healthy brain settles,
yours floats!
He may not own a car.
He may not earn a lot of money.
He may not live in a posh estate.
He may not be able to shower you with gifts all
the time.
He may not have a great job.
But it’s enough to know you are the only one he
craves for and loves unconditionally
As such we should learn to live with the hardworking man and pray that God will bless the work of his hands.

interesting.. preach on mydear

estyvino:
I can do se7en packet shirts from 1 of these bed spread they are wearing

lol

HaneefahRN:
Amen and u too

tnx

[quote author=refiner post=40947502][/quote]Amen o and u too

WiLdFLame:
Pls tell me d best punishment for a cheating husband?
as a feminist i can take it sharing my man with another woman.
men!
why do you cheat? am so furious! why would a married man cheat on a woman he profess his love and legally married to? i nid ur advice pls
which kind pvssy he dey find sef?
some men self eh....dem no get heaven!
And pls dont tell me to pray about it...i nid raw punishment for dis guy!

hian. use cane and beat him up


on a more serious note hw can a man cheat on his wife nawaoh. i dnt pray to b in dis ur shoe ooo. bt if it hapns. mehn i will pretend to b cheating on him

HaneefahRN:
Yes o. Suffering upon suffering. A woman has to knw what she is doing

yes. u r right

refiner:
yes
yes
yes
yes
yes

so I won't stay long before gettin married Abi op?

hahahaha. u will marry tomorrow honey