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Oahray:
hmmm... So platonic friends would wake up one day and get married without any romantic attachment? Well what do I know? Nice opinion all the same.

Don't judge the content of the house from your position outside the gate.

romantic attachment will surface when they want to take it to the nxt level which is engagement...

Toks2008:
Before you say its Toks again i would like to clear the air by stating emphatically that one man's like is a dislike for another and what wows another man in a lady could be a total turn off for another man so my write up does not hold true for all men.

Nevertheless the fact remains that as a real man and a responsible one at that, i represent a percentage of men out there and i believe that many guys with responsible nature and sound mind will agree with this write up so i do not expect everyone reading this to accept my stands but as we all know,everyone is entitled to his or her opinion.

As they say,"you have no second chance to create a first impression" and i also know that outward appearance sometimes do not suggest who the person is but when a man meets a lady for the very first time,even without saying hello,there are vital things that a guy sees and makes his judgement regarding such a lady and for me,these 9 things will turn me off instantly if im meeting a lady for the very first time.


1.Scraped eyebrow replaced with pencil drawings: God is the greatest artist and every lady must understand that having your eyebrow on your face gives you a natural distinctive beauty and yes it is allowed to shape it as you want but scraping it off and replacing it with a eye pencil drawing can never make you as naturally beautiful as the original makes you.

2.Scraped natural eye lashes replaced with fake doll like eyelashes: I really don't know what many ladies think when they remove a beautiful natural eyelashes to replace it with a funny looking doll like one. Believe it or not,the natural eyelashes have a function that the artificial can never be able to perform and if you must know,having your natural eyelashes on gives your eyes a more alluring look than the fake and funny looking barbie like one. You are human for crying out loud so remain as one.

3.The use of non-recommended contact lenses: I don't even know how to describe this one but trust me, i even fear ladies that use such just for the sake fancy because it gives me an idea that such a lady is very mean to herself because how can a lady use another lens to cover the original one without even the fear of going blind?Please save yourself the sermon of how painless it is and face fact.Its better for me to be with a blind lady than one who willingly decides to make herself blind by endangering her eye lenses.I can't stress this enough.

4.Irregular piercings: This is a hard turn off for me and when i see a lady having more than one hole on each ear,im like "this one is over exposed" and when i now see another hole in the upper ear region,nose,lips and so on i just give up on such and consider her as a real hustler(Guys know what i mean). Except maybe you are a northerner or from some countries that makes it a norm i do not see any sense in having all your face pierced and some even go the length of piercing their tongue and kini and i just wonder how some men will open their arms to such woman and cal them sweet heart,no be me..lai lai!

5.Bleached or over creamed body and face:As a guy have you ever moved close to ladies who have used cream to change their skin color in the name of toning up or some bleached bodies? i can't comprehend how guys dating or married to such cope because the smell of their denatured skin nutrients is so appalling and i wonder how it will be when they go unclad.

There are micro organisms that are natural flora of the skin and these microbes are every harmless and they fight of many things from our skin and by the time you use bleaching and cream kill these helpful microbes, what is left is a helpless skin that will be exposed to different external harmful germs and the resultant effect is a smelly skin and of-course many bleached bodies end up in disaster.

Abeg if you are a lady reading this please avoid bleaching or using strong cream for your body in the name of toning.There us a natural body fragrance that turn men on in ladies so please maintain that fragrance and use mild cream to maintain and bring out your natural color without crossing the delicate line.

6.Tattooed body:Some guys claim they get turned on by seeing tattoos on their women and i just shake my head because i do not see any correlation between tattoo and beauty, Call me archaic but i don't see why i will be wowed by a lady who draws tattoo on delicate areas that only her man should see and i get wowed by that and even if the tattoo is drawn at a comparatively exposed part of the body it still does not add up for me because keeping your body clean and void of unnecessary drawings in the name of tattoos will make more sense and even make you look alluring.trust me, real men get turned off when they see tattoos on a lady;s body especially some parts of her body that should not be seen by all.

7.Excessive use of jewelries and accessories: Some ladies are obsessed with wearing 5neck chains at a time,hand chain,leg chain,rings on all fingers and so on habba na wettin? please no man wants to have an idea that you will spend all his money on buying jewelries or be the type that may use all her life savings on purchasing jewelries. Use jewelries moderately and you will look even more beautiful.

8.Excessive make up:Sometimes i believe that ladies who make up actually make up for what they do not have. You don't need to look like a masquerade to prove a point and guys get turned on seeing a lady in her natural state that after she has packaged her face to look sweet.

Little wonder why a man divorced a lady and took her to court because he felt she hid her true look from him and made him believe she was pretty just to find out after marriage that he has entered one chance. Abeg be more natural than artificial and a man who will love and want you wil always come.

9.Indecent dressing: I can't even stress this enough.Many ladies go about unclad yet with cloths on and i do not see why any reasonable and responsible man will put a ring on such a lady except there is another motive. Guys love to imagine what is under those attires so please don't show us everything.

10.Smoking and alcohol intake:I can't even start to describe how repulsive it will be for me to enter a place and find a lady spewing out smoke from her mouth or with a bottle of liquor in her hand.How do i even say hi to such but then some guys might just be ok with such ladies.

If every lady is asked to state the type of man they want, they will readily use the words"i want a real man" and then i wonder how unreal they can ever be. A lady who uses fake eyelashes,eye lenses,nails,and so on should wish for a fake man and not a real man.

My advice is that every lady should try to look as natural as she can because real men love ladies who look natural and if every lady reading this wants to really confirm this write up please do this..If you are "guilty" of any of the things i wrote above just ask your man his sincere view about it and hear his response.

I hope this makes sense.

nice write up from a man. bt most times we ladies hate the bitter truth. May God hlp us

Oahray:
hmmm... Still not sure I get it. Ok, she shouldn't date any guy, then somehow get engaged and then married to one random guy without any prior involvement? Or do you mean she should always have many equal options?

I wonder why you think people would definitely live like couples while dating.

they might nt live as couples bt will do wht married peopl do in d process of dating. i jst believ in having so many male frnds on platonic level nt romantic

HateU2:
Are u guys flirting. Naughty shildrens

lol we r nt dear

90% of ladies u hv met would hv been the best tittle
so am forced to ask u the location of this ur research the state to b precise,LGA and village thnks

yanabasee:
Rare gem....

Such a character in you... Am force to ask... Are you engage yet? If not... I'd like to propose to you... I really admire ur sense of reasoning...

OP, Most men don't indulge in flirtatious lifestyle as many guys only try to find a perfect girl which makes dem to have many EXs in the process....

At the very end of it... A man will chose just one girl who's past life isn't promiscuous...

Thanks for dt


Am nt married.i hope i answered ur question?

elbinmanny:
Ì my dear check am na..immediately Dasuki started snitching he was granted bail and a chair to negotiate

lol

u r right

elbinmanny:
This was where they were warned never to mention #DasukiGate

hahahahaha. funny picture

if he likes he shld hv 1000 babes bfore engaging me. my only business is to go for series of test with him bfore walking down the isle and also to b decent wt myslf and for myslf as a lady nt for anybody. so i dont care wether he was a male prostitute he shld jst accept to remain faithful to b at d safer side dts all

Am nt in competition with the opposite sex

Strahovski:
Now get this straight, all of you! Those who post wedding and pre-wedding pics and those who PLAN to post theirs!

This is Social media where everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. Even the Social Media Bill cannot stop this one. Even though you are posting to get "Congratulations... HML" or "WOW, What a beautiful bride" or "Your husband is so handsome".. and so on... Do not expect to get that from everybody. Just as nobody mandated that you post, that also permits everyone to willingly comment on your pics both positive and negative.

That a person says the opposite of what you were expecting should not be a big deal for you. You do not know who is commenting neither does the person know who you really are so picking on the person, calling him/her names is an utter display of immaturity and low self-esteem. When our celebrities post their own pics, the same you would criticize and call them names.. Do you think they don't see it? Do they register on the forum to quote you and lash at you? No because its part of the gig when you go public! But when its your own turn to be criticized you find it offensive. Afterall you are not the only married person or engaged person with pre-wedding pics but you choose to become a celebrity for 1 hour then you must accept whatever follows it!

My thread is directed at the Mofo who posted his wedding pics and then quoting me to tell me i wont see the end of the year because i said his wife looks off! What was he expecting? Is everybody going to like your wife?

Kids getting married

#Thread Closed

He said dt na waoh
link to the thread will b ok let me jst confirm if u were right

Spanner4:
I need a Cute, pretty Nairaland lady to marry

hahahahahaha
r u sure u read dis thread bfore typing dis?

Canelle:
@Op thanks for opening the thread; Im eagerly awaiting advise/opinions. I am financially independent but haven't reached the level I thought I would have at this point ,marriage is on the cards for sometime next year, fiancé is all ok with where I am financially and career wise, yet my own family is not so supportive saying we should "hold on" a bit on getting married and I should focus on my career and financial growth

my type of family.i like dt bt if u r nt too old cool down jare

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God bless u mylove. Wishn u d best of d season

Oahray:
how do you mean? A lady shouldn't date before marriage?

wht i mean is dt a single lady dt is nt engaged to marry shld b treating all her male friends equally. she shldnt be singled out by 1 guy for 2yrs or more in d name of boyfriend during which dey leave like couples den break up to strt up new one dt might last for 3 yrs wt oda side partners like sugar daddies .. after which she finally settle down for marriage

thanks

hmmmm my simple advice is dt u guys shld stp co habiting bc it is preventing u frm breaking up with her already

she is nt a good wife material judging from ur post

marvelck:
Cos, most ladies are fond of having so many exs before finally settling down. And having so many exs bring alot of drama into their lives. Many of them allow their several ex to figure so much in any new relationship they go into. And some usually find it difficult to forget some of their exs. Even after getting married, some loose ladies still hook up with their ex. If such ex boyfriend is better than your husband, then why didnt she marry him in the first place? Girls love complicating matters for themselves. Imagine a 23 years old girl having 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 ex boyfriends before finally getting married. You can imagine how far such a girl would have gone and how exposed she would be when it comes to the issue of men and sex. Girls should stop all this drama about them and their exs. If you really want to move on happily, then you need to let go of the past...

a lady shld nt hv boyfriend in d first place rather a male friend

akksplendor:
Wait, a pig is trying to hump a goat? Lol...this was spotted at new site River raine wonderful Oji-river in Enugu State...

www.newseveryhour.com/2015/12/wtf-photos-of-pig-humping-goat-in-enugu.html

dt is a pig nt goat. it hs d colour of a goat

GamaG:
Enugu girls too dey do, dey do, dey do. This is what is called environmental influence they learnt it from Enugu girls.

hmmmm yeye dey smell

This is really bad

Oteleye:
My life is a reflection of God's abundant grace... What more can I say than to say thank you Lord.

WOW cngrats Doc

God pls i must nt miss heaven by ur special grace
this is an FP material

Johnsown1:
that is the gospel truth not even u that won an award for the best gal, guys go too emotionally for.
For a guy that to weep for u that means he over loved u and i can never,

lol

na waoh

Johnsown1:
it is nt boasting bt wht i'm saying is that gals can't and won't make u cry

hehehehe

Qualer:
Electric been no dey there o!!

lol

true love

Adasun:
Hahah u dis gal

lol

Adasun:
question for da gods

thread for d gods i guess

Johnsown1:
they never born ur type

see boasting

shocking

Adasun:
i can't tell u hw many calm ladies i had sample,bt i hear many stories dat suprise me to da core.secondly my research is in Nigeria.....GET IT ?

so u r concluding wt mere stories? Nigeria is quite big which state exactly?

johnson232:
only weak men cry....
i know many men will say it's a lie, cos many men are weak... crying is a great sign of weakness on a man's part....

see dem
u want to tell me u dnt crypls go and see ur doc