₦airaland Forum

peepydelano:
Don’t use crowd to judge ooo especially from the north, else una go bite una fingers come 2023. Atiku go win all northern states. Nobody takes Peter Obi and Tinunbu seriously in the north

everybody don turn political analyst

TristanX:
Urchin first of all..... why is the rally scanty?

Chinedu

Are you going home for Christmas?

Lol

BigBashiru:
If you check my write up on this thread you will see:

1. I never said a man should not care for the wife/abandon the wife.
2. I never said a man should use family funds to chase a woman.
3. I never said men should look outside in a reckless, undisciplined manner.

I just said a man cannot be told he is stuck with only his wife all his life and dare not go on a date with a girlfriend....that's all....

I never, said a man should sleep around.....

Interesting

You mean those poor Yoruba guys and men who impregnate a woman and automatically she become his wife will later in the day have a girfriend outside?

You mean those poor okada men should have a girfriend outside after some years in their baby mama union in the name of marriage?

Even those living in their parents house should later do the same after some years?

You mean these same poor men who should not be found following women at first but went ahead to impregnate a woman should still have a girfriend after some years?

BigBashiru:
You sound like one of those stupid white knights who want to score cheap political points with the females. Haha has it come to this? It's a man that marries a woman not the other way round so I hv the right to question virginity, body count etc.

You think by typing these stupid right ups that you will impress a female on this forum to give you her number- haha it ain't happening....cos females aren't attracted to loser sump white knights....

Why are your men useless and miserable? At least you just exhibited that on this public forum. Your men don't marry their women. They get them pregnant and she automatically becomes a wife. What a useless and primitive tribe. Come to my area i will show you more than 10 Yoruba guys living in their parents house or at most managed to rent a dirty single room and they have gone to impregnate women. These guys are poor men. They are still young but cannot control their dirty smelly dick. They earn around 30-50k maximum in one useless factory work that they can send them away at any time

Tell me how will such men value their union or wife?

Tell me how will such useless men respect those women and their union?

It is in your culture to treat women like trash and second fiddle. No wonder most of una women sleep around too

90% of you Yoruba men don't pay pride price and other marriage rite. Most of una na belle una dey give una women

Bunch of useless and primitive tribe

DoxxAnon:
Another word created by you - Effermite. What does this mean? Did you mean Effeminate?

Virgin hunter. When you are not begging online, you are talking about virgin this, virgin that. Sexually depraved online almajiri. I am down with you. Go in Peace ...you are no worth anybody's time to be honest. You are a NON-ENTITY

Hahahahaha

Jobless nitwits snooping around me

None of you worthless guys worth it to go out of my way snooping your chat history

God forbid

You guys are useless and inconsequential

Go and get delivered from your misery

DoxxAnon:
Beggy Beggy...Online Beggar...Babiala give me money...Nairaland Amajiri. I am giving you alternate monikers to use

Hahahahaha

Jobless nitwits hyperventilating all over the space on Seun platform

Go and get a life

Miserable clown

DoxxAnon:
You have gone awfully quiet...you do not have a big mouth anymore?

Hahahahaha

Ewu gambia

A demented effermite clown seeking for attention on Seun platform

DoxxAnon:
You actually are a dunce. You use a word that does not exist in the English dictionary - GLIBERDASH. Please what does this mean? So simple...since you are the only dunce in the world to invent such a word, we do a search on Nairaland but wait there are either 2 dunces in the world or you are the same dunce as NigeriaIsGreat.

Ladies and Gentlemen Villa12 and NigeriaIsGreat are the same people. Then you go through your identity as NigeriaIsGreat and we see you are a big online beggar.

I feel nothing but pity for you

Hahahahaha

Jobless nitwits

BigBashiru:
Back then the marriage system was organized so the conditions and terms not to look outside were met and agreeable. These days marriage is no longer organized....ur mum was a virgin or close to one wen she was married so we can rightfully call looking outside by a man cheating.

But today these are girls that hv already had numerous bfs and hv given away the goods for free and only decide to get married at the onset of their physical decline so looking outside today is a necessity and can't be rightfully called cheating. Say you marry a 30yo woman by 32 she can't even give you strong erections anymore will you not go for the young girl that gives you string erectiojs? So you see. It's nature not cheating!

You didn't marry her as virgin either and so you have no moral right to question her virginity. You also sleep around before marriage so you have no moral right to have such discussion with her

My mum wasn't married as virgin likewise my dad wasn't virgin. My sister marriage is 12 years and still bloosom. Her husband is a real man who doesn't look outside. My sister confirmed it and the man always condemn men who does that as foolish men

I'm sure you're a Yoruba man right? It runs in your tribes blood. Your men are useless sorry to say. They sleep around recklessly and even at times neglect their responsibility at home

Most of your men impregnated their wives. You guys hardly pay bride price and other marriage rite reason why you guys don't value and respect your union

Your women are so cheap that you can get them at the tips of your finger. I have them within my neighbourhood. Some of your men even impregnate women in their fathers house. Some are so poor that they hardly get 50k monthly as salary but have gone to impregnate a woman in their fathers house. Very primitive tribe

Tell me why would such men respect and value the marriage. It is not even marriage but baby nama. Most of you Yoruba guys don't marry in the right way. Na belle una dey give una women

So sad

I only pity those poor women that will continue to fall prey

DominusPrime:
Usually it’s some women on this forum that support women even when they are wrong but for a man to say this is shocking. Obviously that man is totally wrong and you shouldn’t support him or make such comments. The worst thing a man can do to his wife asides violence is to spend his hard earned money on another woman while neglecting his wife and kids.

most of these guys supporting a man who cheat in marriage are either from a broken home, raised by single parent, their father cheat and they don't see anything bad in it or they're from the Yoruba ethnic group because na most Yoruba men dey cheat (rich or poor) some will even neglect their wives. I have them plenty in my neighbourhood

Very useless men

DoxxAnon:
You really have a big mouth especially coming from someone who begs everywhere on Nairaland. You come out as Villa12 with a big mouth calling everyone jobless nitwit and then you use your other name to go around begging.

I will post evidence of this next to show you as the jobless one who goes around Nairaland begging and looking for giveaways

Miserable clown

Do i look a dunce that you can threaten?
Lol

Go get a life mumu

BigBashiru:
You need a complete reorientation bro. The bolded is wat women invented to keep you in check and make sure their interests are met

My dad never cheated on my mum according to my old man and their marriage is still bloosom and intact. It didn't take anything away from my dad nor mum. That doesn't make my dad less man or my mum less of a woman

Real men don't cheat

BigBashiru:
Don't mind all these small boys who can't think the facts rationally. You can hv a concubine and still care for ur wife. In fact if the wife knows she has competition she will sit up....its the lack of competition that spoils wives

you're just going up and down defending cheat

How many so called Nigerian men of today can comfortably take care of their family?

There are men who can't even feed their family not to talk of sending their kids to good schools but still go about sleeping around

Is that not a foolish man?

Beedude:
Not atall. Just expressing myself. Na only brokeman fit get this kind backlash for cheating. A wealthy man will marry the side chick after the wife disgraced him publicly

A broke sensible man shouldn't be found cheating

Besides, real men don't cheat

Beedude:
Women don't hate polygamy as far as u are wealthy. Ooni keep marrying women after women and we no hear anything

will you encourage poor man or average man who can't take care of his family comfortable to be sleeping around or have another wife?

Are you encouraging poverty the more by breeding more kids or what?

MALIGNANTGuest:
You say this because you are single and your peace of mind is still intact and within reach.
I pray such is never snatched from you by a nagging woman. That's all I can say now!

It is completely wrong to cheat

No excuse whatsoever to justify cheat

Particularly, in marriage

It is wrong

Creativity22:
Not a bad idea. That is why is good to be daring at times. You have your own money, and you abandon her with your baby and moves on with your concubine. Then she abandons your baby and goes out with a sugar daddy. When you come back home and meets no food and your children on attended to. You start looking for your wife to beat up. God help your soul, if she is my sister. I will smoke your a$$

I swear bro

His type of man do select the kind of woman to marry. They don't just marry any woman

They often go out of their way to marry a woman that can take and tolerate their excesses

BigBashiru:
Ur blinded by modern day feminism....there's nothing like cheating....

By ur analysis wat of all the bfs the girl had prior to the marriage that's also cheating!!

Abi she be virgin wen dem marry am??

Una no dey think

what of the numerous girlfriend you have before marriage?

Did you marry as a virgin?

Real men don't cheat

Ndi developers

BigBashiru:
Did the husband divorce her? NO. Did the husband stop caring for her? NO. Just that he went to make the hair of his gf - ehen so what??

Real men don't cheat

BigBashiru:
My wife is comfortable with my concubines....

Your imaginary wife

If wishes were horses beggars will ride

erai30:
Something is not right here, at this time in naija a toaster send you 75k and you send it back, guy you should have asked to see the transaction from her account. Is either the babe dey lie or this guy dey lie, the story nor clear.

You believe something bad and evil about women without making investigations. But once it is something good about women you think otherwise

Na woman matter go kill una one day don't worry

IamtheTruth1:
The story no clear. How did he get her account details?

learn how to read biko

Reckyd123:
Stupid and mentally deranged man

very useless man

BigBashiru:
What does this mean?? Since bible times, noble men hv always had concubines....I can't be restricted to just one woman and she can't pull the same stunt as she's too old to attract much attention.

you're saying Gliberdash. I pity the unfortunate woman that will mistakenly end up with you

lansile:
Marry 2 0r 3 0r 4 but if you can't be just among them, marry 1. Islam a complete way of life. This problem is just beginning and will continue to expand as long as we chose human rule over Almighty Allah's. By nature man is not created to be satisfied by just single woman (she wan die?). God allows you to marry the second woman instead of these embarrassing idea of following some whores all about.

Lol

How many men can take care of one woman and her kids in Nigeria today?

Then we should assume islam encourages poverty, excess children, illiteracy, hunger, malnutrition, out of school children or drop out et al

Who told you one woman cannot satisfy a man?
Can a man satisfy one woman?

You think women are fully satisfied with one man?

You're twisting what your religion said up side down

peepydelano:
What a disrespectful uncultured woman. The husband should do the needful with her asap

I look forward to the day you will get hold of your beloved wife and his side bobo in an hotel

BigBashiru:
What if the man makes his own money and spends his money on himself and the woman makes her own money and spends the money on herself.

Someone like me I must have my concubine no woman can restrain me cos if she was still in her prime she would do the same i.e. have side boyfriends!

I hope you can take what you dish out right?

DoxxAnon:
I have noticed you call everyone Chinedu and Nwanne. You are WARNED

jobless nitwits

Keep noticing everyone on social media

Soludo the Man with huge balls

JAGABAN