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[color=#990000][/color]@OP Am sooooo mad at you for not reporting to the parents. you still find sleep at night?

Very well. Have two of my mum's wrapper,used one for my first n second child wen changing their diapers. She neva got to see dem bt d wrapper is their contact wit ha. kept one for myself n use occasionally, wil kip for as long as i live.

I NEVER EVER apologize nt because I am proud bt wil justify my reason. I do somtin wrong cos am human,thus nt perfect n my husband feels d best way to correct me is yelling n hurling words at me? dat meks d two of us guilty,and my husband is an expert in apologizing as much as he is in yelling,while I hav a very soft n forgiving spirit. Evrytin is balanced for us.aftr all,its nt like he does no wrong bt always d first to initiate d "shouting session" n I hate entertaining neighbors. The issue is nt who wronged bt y must som1 say hurtful words because a partner does wrong? Wat happens to correcting som1 wit luv.

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Yea esosa wat happend eventually?

Seun: Your really think catching up with Facebook is that simple? Companies do fail, especially when they invest in impossible dreams.

. Wow! Its obvious u dnt know wat u'v got. I use to spend all of time on gossip blogs,d minute I got introduced to nairaland I got addicted n regret nt knowing bout it on time.I have learned a lot frm here. Dnt limit ur growth,research,think n pay pple to think for u on how to tek it to another level.Get investors.deal wit wateva fear u hav n tek d bold step.

Oh Dear,am sure she is resting with God. Take heart.

I hav always told God dat I wanted 3children n hav always said I wish for 2boys n a girl n d girl shuld com last. Fast forward to 3yrs bac wen I got married n now hav 2boys within 3yrs of my marriage to the glory of God. Am nt sayin God wil nt giv me d last child(a girl)as I ask of him,bt I felt why can't I adopt a girl instead n hav d privilege of giving dat child a home n love? Dat will also save me d challenges pregnancy,labour n delivery comes wit. d sleepless nights of vigil n so on.well I brot d issuie up wit my hubby n he went like "what! Will u knw d kind of family dat birth d child? I trust God to giv me my own female child" dat really broke my heart. @OP som pple hav open mind towards adoption,u r wrong to generalize and even tagg Nigerians as wicked in nature.on d other hand, wen u get to hear some strange stories u wunt blame d pple dat don't see adoption as an option.

Ohk! Let's see #goes tru d list#. Think am good on all points. Tnks.

@op I get where u r coming.was in same situation 3yrs bac bt am now married.beliv me ur parents wnt d best for u.pls dnt move out cos as u stated u intend to settle wit ur man n dat wil mean additional expenses on ur own end.if d weddin plans r on hold due to finance,I wil suggest u support ur fiance wit d moni towards d wedding dats if u r sure he loves u n is ready to settle down wit u.while u r at it,starting wit d situation u r faced wit at home,learn patience/endurance/tolerance cos u wil surely need all of it wen u marry.u may nt even hav d privacy u r craving for,ur hubby wil b there,in-laws wil b there n by d time children start coming sef ur life wil go super public.lol.

LOL @som comments. Well am married wit two kids n I dnt think I wil eva enjoy sex wit my kids close to me.I live in a two bedrum flat plus I express my self very well during sex which meks my hubby go crazy,therefore need space.infact because of dis we agreed nt to tek a house help,bt to manage ourselvs cos of d priority we placed on our sex lives.I sleep wit d kids in one rum while we hav fun in d other rum,my older son is 2yrs n his broda is 7months,they both need me at nyt n I dnt c 4 of us fitting in one bed.we always remind ourselves dat d arrangemnt is temporary,as soon as they r old enof,they move to their rum while my hubbys moves in wit me cos am occupying d master bedrum.we somtimes go as far as a month without sex wen eva we hav visitors.
.@Op wil suggest u guys do it somwhere else,culd b d living rum dear,dnt like d idea of doin stuffs in dsame rum wit ur kids,dats if one can help it.

Pls luk for anoda biznes to do,it only pays pple wit huge capital n am talking of millions.it wil nt sustain u wit a litte capital. D last I heard of a gramm is 8k n d price is usually uniformed wit a slight difference of #100 to #200 in places like abuja n kano.I was into it bt had to stop wen I understood d biznes.even d big shots into it do a lot of things to protect d biznes,if u hav d capital u wil need to hav guts.

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Hmmmm! Mami! U left wen I needed u most. We were planning for my wedding n u had travelled to Dubai to shop for me,n oh Yes! had told all who cared to listen dat u were planning ur daughter's wedding.u were so full of life n up to d task.u had made ur unending list of pple to invite,things to do,aso ebi,event planners n all.hmmmm! U left 2days aftr my introduction,hmmmm!. Mami d weddin didn't hold n I dnt regret calling it off,of wat use is a big wedding wen u wil nt b present to share in my joy.had it quiet at d registry wit only Dad as a witness.you hav d most adorable grand sons eva,n a handfull too.pple say they both luk like gurls n I somtimes wonder if they got d luks frm u.I cried my heart out wen I had my first child n was discharged frm d hospital wit no one to receive me, hmmm! No one to bath me n d baby.you,would hav had all things planned out cos dats ur calling as we always tel you lol! U wil b 3yrs gone dis year bt u remain eva green in our hearts. Rest on Mrs Jacinta Vingi Longe, lastly,excuse me for using ur name as my ID on Nairaland. Lol.

@OP pls am interested in dis,bt need to be trained practically,will you be kind enough to refer me to where I can receive training?

Funny enof,am so so use to it dat I dnt think I can eva stop dat,yea its bad table manners bt I only dodat infront pple am comfortable with like my hubby n siblings.

alpha conde: But I hv been told by someone that she has become addicted to sex cus of this same experience. Can someone separate the difference or substantiate any?

. Beliv me ur frend is hurting inside,its nt like she is addicted to sex bt she is dishing it out to guys out of anger,probably she blames herself for wat happened or angry at her family or d person dat molested her n feels worthless n gives it out freely without regard,she needs to c a shrink to gain herself n pride bac. @ OP,u need to save urself cos no one can help bt God,seek his face,n pls talk about it,it helps bt nt necessarily to a family member.I knw of a gurl whose Dad molested n d mum ask her to tel no one due to d shame it wil bring n neva sort help for her child,15yrs latr d lady sort for help herself frm a shrink,which means she didn't get ova it. Go to a shrink cos they r trained to handle such.

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Following wit keen interest. hav tot of dat too,Nairalanders over to you.

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Joyce Mayer told d story of how her dad slept wit ha frm ha teen age till she became of age n left home,she told her mum wen he started bt d mum confronted him n he denied,she left it at dat.the mum then caught him on top of her later n walked passed like they were invisible n did notin about it,frm then on d dad made it a routine n could even askd to like stop cleanin or studying n wait for him in d rum,just like the r married,she describe her mum as a weak woman dat could nt stand up for ha child.mind u both parents are alive n in accord wit her aftr dat,d dad askd for forgiveness n she did,she is now ministering for Christ.kaffy's story need to b told cos u all dnt knw how many gurls wil learn frm dat even for it makin front page on nairaland.

D pple cussing kaffi dnt knw wat they r saying,do u guys knw d extend to which d mother went?