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JohnsonEmma:
Humility... Catholic's message for today

It's like many Catholics attend mass today!

Humility and giving to the needy.

The homily was about a Richman who hosts a Feast and invites ONLY his friends and influential persons around him.

[quote author=JOACHINpedro post=116130545][/quote]Lol, nah the OP Trademark Quote be dat o.
Surprised to see him preaching bible here.

OP, I learnt dat if you don't marry ur Wife as a Virgin, you will be training another man's kids.

Rozross:
Were you a dreamer in your former life? Wake up to reality boyyyy, Peter Obi will not win 2023. He should have remained with Atiku for now while hoping for Atiku to properly sell him out to Nigerians via a political party that has structure. He’s not a smart politician . Social media has never won any election , it’s entirely a different ballgame out there

I Laugh@you guys calling Peter Obi social media politician.

Isn't President Buhari a social media politician

Was not social media Packaging by Tinubu boys in lagos dat made him win in 2015?

Do you know dat from 2003-2015, Buhari contested with ANPP and CPC and was failing back to back!

Even old men and veteran politicians in PDP and APC knows dat Peter Obi has won.

Both are just hoping on INEC to rig for them and Nigerians to cowardly come out to protest!

4get, the Presidency is for Peter Obi.
When God says 'something na your own, Na your own'.

Betanaija42moro:
First the first time Nigerian youths are speaking with one voice.

They all want Peter Obi. Seems like almost everybody is tired of APC.

And PDP, Pls add them. 0
Both parties present Thugs and semi-illiterates as candidates for election.

Nigerians despite the temptation of dier Stolen funds to be as Electoral Bribes, will NOT vote PDP and APC in any election.

Rozross:
I can never waste my time on a party that will obviously fail.

What makes you Think so
Peter Obi will win 2023 President by a Huge, Stratospheric landslide.


Only obstacle he will face of claiming his seat in Aso rock is INEC Chairman and maybe the Powerful Hausa northern cabal.


Dats y he is close to Obasanjo now to plead his case to these persons.

Other LP Candidates will do well and win in the elections.

OP, hw far nah?

No news on Ronaldo yet?

Is he a Napoli Player now and Will join Man U contest in Europa League?

Slynation:
I can stake my scrotum, this is a true life story with a little touch of fictional to confuse us... Islandlady continue shaah

Hmmm, wetin u yarn fit be true o.

She might be Reminiscing about the past life of Gbola and other sweet Enjoyments.

Wishing the Good Ol days could come back again. [

Candidlady:
Bash her based on what


Hypocrites everywhere

because she does 'holier dan thou' and likes to claim Good Girl most of the time.

BTW, Wadup nah? How re u doing?

U seem sad/reserved diz days.

Gandah:
And who said they will regret selling mane

Ogbeni, dey will surely REGRET.

I don't see dem winning any trophy dis season.

Michelle70:
if u have the money, why not

Said that because i have seen Guys spend Whooping sums on wedding.

And hoping they will get returns thru gift of money and Expensive items.

When dier expectations are Not met, dey get Angry and start cussing the invitees.

ebubeson:
Should I put the pricing?

Will you say?

(1) Virgin: 2 Million.
(2) Non-Virgin: 500k

Whether Virgin or Non-Virgin, if you have the money, you can do something large if you wish, but if you want to cut cost, fine.

You want to spend 2million on a wedding.

Hope u know there is Life after wedding

YourFavorite21:
Wetin u dey do for person house , wey go make u spend 5 hours there, u no get handwork??

Y can't you Learn to Read before commenting.

I Said i visited after not seeing him for a long while.

MrBrownJay1:
if your friend didnt have a problem with it, why should you?

my mother will come to my house and clean shiiit, even if the house is SPOTLESS....thats how she is.

My issue is dat the Woman seems to be too elderly for such Plenty works.

My friend's wife should have stood up and helped her with one or two chores@least.

But she just slept and watched TV throughout!

Adunn1ade:
Is anyone forcing the mother-in-law to do the chores? What if the mama likes doing chores?.....

From what i saw, those chores were born out of Necessity. i.e. They needed to be done.

Not because the Woman liked doing them..

Fira09:
You just said my mind right now

I had already typed 'So You don collect many Preeks lyk dis b4 i looked @the opening paragraph.

Lols.

NaBanga:
It doesn't matter if the wife is sick or well. Everyone keeps their home a certain way. One person may want to sweep all day and another may want to wash curtains. Without the mother around, the wife may not even do such things because of her own cleaning style. The mother is trying to keep busy, so that she is not seen as a burden. It also keeps her healthy. The behavior seen in this writeup shows why a lot of people have stopped inviting busy body friends and families to their homes.

Courtesy demands that when you see an Elderly person Overworking, u help out in any little way.

Not just sitting, looking or lying doing nothing throut.

The Elderly woman may NOT say anything but might be Angry or Unhappy inwardly.

It's like some of you do NOT understand human nature.

If she visits another of her son's house and dat Wife does Every Chores in the house, she will start to compare.

She will prefer them to My Friend and his Wife..

Lee99:
The guy say him wife no well na abi are you a devil? Why should she work when she's ill? God forbid for woman wey go marry your kind man wey go use house work kill am, lastly OP mind your damn business no be you go tell am how to run him home abi you contribute for the bride price?? Nonsense

Use work to kill the wife?

So it's the elderly woman dat is good to do all the Housework

She should have assisted in any little way instead of Sleeping all through and watching TV!

Fictional story, OP. Not frictional.
I Thought it was a real story.
I was so ready to Bash the hell outta you.

OP, When Ronaldo scores a tap-in hattrick against Maccabi haifa in the Europa league, she will appear.

She will now post 'Ronaldo delivers Man utd against Deadly Isreali team'!

She, like most Man U Fans, actually supports Ronaldo dan dier club.

Nonexisting:
Yes to the bolded. That stage is tricky. It's the stage they often have miscarriages so the ones with sensitive body chemistry should be handled with extreme caution. At that stage, every husband is free to become simp, it's tolerable.

Good point but @least, a wise person will lend a helping hand to her instead of lying down all through. ?

You are 28yrs of age and still calling yourself softboy

minasu190:
Minding your business would be better because your friend has already told you she was not feeling fine.
And for grandma to be doing the house chores maybe she's been expecting her to give grandchildren but she couldn't gave birth at that moment..and boom! Grandma heard the news from her son that his wife is pregnant, you know that enticement from grandma
"My pikin rest for me I go help you do your house chores"...the way I see it grandma can't be dense, there must reasons behind it..so calm down bro

Nice take from you.

I Just feel for the woman. For her age, the work is too much.

And then, You can NEVER tell with humans.

She may be Unhappy and secretly Hating on her daughter-inlaw and her Son, too!

Rozross:
This one no follow, I hate seeing aged people undergoing any stress all in the name of domestic chores or anything. I love doing chores and wouldn’t even want anyone to help me out.

Correct Babe! I twale for you.

Just like i visit my Father-inlaw now, i will say because i am sick, will sleep and be looking@him Clearing grasses and fixing his car.

Nonexisting:
Come, I often disagree with the vagina gender but that hasn't robbed me of my common sense. What if she was few weeks pregnant which usually is at high risk? Have you heard the phrase mind your fuccking business before? Open your ear and hear it now. The mother in law no complain to you, the simp husband said his wife was sick, wetin be your own? By the way, why did you visit someone and stay up to 5hours? You no get work?

So You are saying a lady few weeks pregnant Can't do any House chore?

So if her Mother-inlaw did NOT visit, who would do those chores

The House would be left Untidy?

fati2001:
Mind your business.
Is the grandma complaining? No
Is the husband complaining? No


Some grannies are not appreciative no matter what you do. Honestly I love those kind of treatments,though not all of them deserve that.

Na so, Classic Nigerian lady.

Mother-inlaw Hater.

Funny enough, when u birth a son, he grows, u visit him, would u be happy doing all the Work while his Wife sleeps?

Alexk2:
Don't conclude based on just one day visit; you may be wrong bro.
Meanwhile let's assume you're right upon your second visit, there's a better way to tell your friend without been too nossy about it and you can as well be friendly enough with his mum and even plan to take her out... She'll need all that than just been angry over what you don't know how it all starts.

Ogbeni, It IS THE NORM o.

You need to see the Girl's sleeping posture and behaviour generally.

But it's like My friend's mother has accepted the situation.

Lols, Nigerians salary no dey ever reach dem.
Diz ones wants to do Olosho work as side hustle.

Yesterday, after several promises and postponement, i visited my Married friend@his place.

My Guy's mother was around.

Throughout my 5hr stay, i saw dat it was this elderly Woman dat was doing all the Domestic work; washing curtains, sweeping the verandah, arranging the Dining table,etc.

His wife just laid on the couch, watching TV and contributing in our discussions.

Was so surprised and annoyed.

I Later asked him why his wife laid down all through, he said she wasn't feeling well.

So if because lady is ill, she can't even do any house chore again?

Anyways, next time we meet, i will tell to caution/advise his wife.

His Mother might be Angry and unhappy but just hiding her feelings.

So Peeps, Do you Support my Next line of Action or You are for 'Mind your Business, E Nor concern you'?


Lalasticlala
Mynd44.

ravensckar:
Same here too bro! I have dated more than 4 Benue girls (2 Idomas, 1 Tiv and another tribe that I don't know). So, I agree 100% with your assertions. E be like sey dem dey teach those people sex education from adolescent age. I still dey miss Cynthia till tomorrow; fine girl wey sabi knack.

Its all about cultural Orientation.

Benue pple (males and females) do NOT see sex as a Big deal or something dat should be Monetised or used for material gains.

Their Girls give out p*ssy without much hassles and stress.

Unlike other Southern Girls dat will be demanding Iphones and cars, and still end up using cucumber and carrots.

A member of the production crew e.g. Set designer, make up artist, etc. can allow his/her baby to play the role.

Medianna:
I wish I can 'unsee' 'untap' and unread this thread.!!

You must be a Pretentious Girl!

Didn't u see the Title of the thread u opened it