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RomanceRe: Ladies, Would You Do It? by Vinshu(f): 1:45am On Apr 02, 2016
unapapadeycraze:
Which one is critical OD?

What do you mean by something he can shake off? Na your sexy body dey make him libido react na but since you don't wanna have sex with him and he does not wanna molest you, he had to resort to that.
Sometimes a man can have a strong erection that refuses to go down no matter what unless he cums. It could be due to the presence of a female or something else, but in such situation, it's called an "OD". Ask your doctor for more details.

And as a friend, it's good to help in that regard thats why I said I will do it if it's that much. And also if it's as a result of me being there.

It's good to help people
RomanceRe: Ladies, Would You Do It? by Vinshu(f): 1:36am On Apr 02, 2016
Depending on the situation. If it's critical (OD) I can do it. But if its something he can shake off, then No.
RomanceRe: I Do All The Calling Yet She Is Insisting That She Is Still In Loves Me, How by Vinshu(f): 12:59am On Apr 02, 2016
So you want a reward for recharging her phone? She must be calling your phone? Besides she is a student she is busy with school stuff.

She doesn't need to call you. You do the calling.
WebmastersRe: Who Have Union Bank Current Account by Vinshu(f): 12:48am On Apr 02, 2016
You can use another bank to reference you. Doesnt have to be union. Besides it's wrong to use a random person as a reference
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Experienced Love At First Sight?? by Vinshu(f): 12:42am On Apr 02, 2016
discoprophet:
you're frustrated
Ok
RomanceRe: Ladies, 5 Reasons Why Cheating Is GOOD For Your Relationship by Vinshu(op): 8:44pm On Apr 01, 2016
Daniel2289:
This Vinshu likes cheating very well. I pity ur guy. If u try dat numba 5 with me, u are GONE. I pray not to met someone like u in my entire life...
Alright.
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Experienced Love At First Sight?? by Vinshu(f): 6:39pm On Apr 01, 2016
discoprophet:
Ewwwww! U've neva been loved then!
Whatever
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Experienced Love At First Sight?? by Vinshu(f): 5:29pm On Apr 01, 2016
Love is not real. Love is just an illusion. A fallacy.
RomanceRe: Ladies, 5 Reasons Why Cheating Is GOOD For Your Relationship by Vinshu(op): 4:54pm On Apr 01, 2016
Olusanya333:
Two wrong doesn't make right
Read it again, the article isn't referring to cheating because of a cheating partner
RomanceRe: Ladies, 5 Reasons Why Cheating Is GOOD For Your Relationship by Vinshu(op): 4:25pm On Apr 01, 2016
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RomanceLadies, 5 Reasons Why Cheating Is GOOD For Your Relationship by Vinshu(op): 4:22pm On Apr 01, 2016
Disclaimer: This is a honest opinion compiled from the views of others including mine.(I.e Results of a survey).

As ladies, when we were growing up, our "role-models" and "elders" used to tell us that we should be clean, pure, sexually rigid, trusting, don’t nag, laugh at all his jokes, clean up after him, be a good cook, and most importantly – do not cheat on him with another man. These are all good values and habits we’re told will attract the right kind of man into our lives, men who will provide for us and our potential children.

But, unbeknownst to most women out there, most of this advice is outdated and old fashioned. These are modern times, and traditional ways to conduct yourself in a relationship sometimes don’t produce the best results or don’t apply anymore. Studies have revealed that over 65% of women in a monogamous relationship have cheated on their partners, will another 27% claim they’ve thought about it or would like to at some point. It’s hard to argue with statistics like that.

1. The best defense is a good offense.

Most women agree that men are hard wired to cheat. It’s sad but true. They are biologically hard wired to spread their seed as much as they can with as many females they can to ensure they further their blood line. It’s not their fault, but regardless, it has been the downfall of many relationships. That’s why this reason has made #1 on our list. Ladies, it’s time to beat your man to the chase and cheat on him first! This helps you secure the dominant role in the relationship, and makes sure he’s too occupied with chasing you around and checking up on you to find someone to cheat in you with.

2. It keeps things interesting and exciting for you.

It’s a sad reality, but many women end up becoming bored, lonely, and sometimes even depressed when stuck in a monotonous, monogamous relationship for a long period of time. Relationships have ended up failing simply due to the fact that the people involved are bored out of their minds with each other. This is why it’s good to spice things up once in a while, at least for yourself, by adding a new, secret partner into your bed.


3. Sleeping with other people expands your sexual expertise.

You know what they say, practice makes perfect. This adage isn’t just for learning how to play a guitar or how to speak a new language. Having multiple sexual partners ensures your exposure to many different ways to have sex, and ways to please people. There is a cornucopia of sexual knowledge out there just waiting for you to hump it. So go out there, learn new things with new people, and bring it back into the bedroom to wow your man! He’ll probably be too busy enjoying himself to wonder where you’ve picked up all these new techniques!

4. You may find assholes who will make you appreciate your own relationship even more.

Mainly because there are so many of them out there to choose from. You may happen to find one of these “assholes” in which to have your secret love affair with. His disrespectful, demeaning attitude towards you may be charming at first, but in the end it could end up making you appreciate your own Prince Charming waiting for you at home even more, because while assholes are fun to date, they’re not fun to play house with.

AND SAVING THE BEST FOR LAST....

5. Men secretly want you to cheat on them.

As stated in #1, men are biologically prone to cheat in their partners. In this case, they are leading by the example in which they want you to cheat on them with. They may not come right out and say it to your face, but rest assured, they find the idea of you sleeping with another man thrilling. It’s a competitive thing for them, with you being the prize. Who will she come home to tonight? I bet it’s going to be me, after all, I have the biggest muscles!


Do you agree? Share your thoughts.
RomanceRe: If You Love Me, Shave My Kittykat. by Vinshu(f): 10:14am On Apr 01, 2016
Gross
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Would You Do If You Find Out Your Man Is Cheating? by Vinshu(f): 10:12am On Apr 01, 2016
Daniel2289:
And u are talking like dat. Abeg don't let ur husband see ur comment o!!!
What would happen if he does?
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Would You Do If You Find Out Your Man Is Cheating? by Vinshu(f): 9:45am On Apr 01, 2016
ireneony:
pls u need to change this perception. Biko!
There is nothing to change. If a person cheats, it's not really bad. I don't understand what makes it bad.
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Would You Do If You Find Out Your Man Is Cheating? by Vinshu(f): 9:42am On Apr 01, 2016
ireneony:
so cheating now have explanation undecided
What is your self worth, girl!

This is the most sensless post I've come across this year!
Well, everyone has their individual perception to things.
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Would You Do If You Find Out Your Man Is Cheating? by Vinshu(f): 9:40am On Apr 01, 2016
Daniel2289:
What a comment!!! You may not care about it, if only it is just a mere relationship. But if you are having dis thought in ur matrimonial home, my dear u wil be playing with FIRE dat wil burnt u sooner or later. So, better change ur thinking..
I'm married actually.
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Would You Do If You Find Out Your Man Is Cheating? by Vinshu(f): 1:07am On Apr 01, 2016
Kenzico:
You get strong mind oo...though I sense pretense in you
Ok
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Would You Do If You Find Out Your Man Is Cheating? by Vinshu(f): 12:41am On Apr 01, 2016
Kenzico:
Reallyhuh Are u for Real?
Yes
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Would You Do If You Find Out Your Man Is Cheating? by Vinshu(f): 12:01am On Apr 01, 2016
BoiledHead:
I had to catch this in a quote.

You mean in your own view, it's ok to cheat? So now your man can cheat and you are ok?
Yeah. There is an explanation for it so it's ok.

People do things out of anxiety. People cheat as a result of anxiety and desire so it's not a big deal. I don't know why people take it hard.(ladies especially )
RomanceRe: Ladies, What Would You Do If You Find Out Your Man Is Cheating? by Vinshu(f): 11:55pm On Mar 31, 2016
Nothing. The thing is cheating sometimes has an explanation. So I'll hear him out and if his excuse is material enough, then we're good.

I really don't find anything wrong in cheating personally.
RomanceRe: I Wonder If She Love Me by Vinshu(f): 4:55pm On Mar 31, 2016
Arthurwinner:
It was necessary for my rep
It wasn't. You owe nobody nothing.
RomanceRe: Why Is Masturbation Bad? by Vinshu(f): 3:50pm On Mar 31, 2016
Cutehector:
urm masturbation u mean?


Whatever is done excessively is bad.


Even d bible says, do all things in moderation cool
Thanks for the tip. Corrected.

Yes too much of things are not good but Masturbation when done moderately isn't a bad thing.
RomanceRe: Why Is Masturbation Bad? by Vinshu(f): 3:40pm On Mar 31, 2016
Masturbation is not a bad thing.

You guys should take a chill pill
RomanceRe: I Wonder If She Love Me by Vinshu(f): 3:19pm On Mar 31, 2016
You shouldn't have purchased it if you didn't want to.
RomanceRe: Why Nigeria Can't Get Better In The Next 10 Years by Vinshu(f): 3:17pm On Mar 31, 2016
Lol yes I agree.

But this should be in politics
RomanceRe: All Parent Need To Know This!! by Vinshu(f): 3:11pm On Mar 31, 2016
Holiness me ass. Who has holiness helped?

I don't teach my little man respect because respect is earned. So people will earn his respect not something I put in his head.

So we teach talent? Hmm let me get started.

Yup Education is very important.

Home making? No! When there are so many home keepers to employ.
RomanceRe: Which Thread Do You Regret Creating On Nairaland? by Vinshu(f): 12:19pm On Mar 31, 2016
BoiledHead:
I really have no regrets regarding any article or words I put down here because I believe in one thing "Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion". So haters can "bash" all they want, it doesn't remove or modify the thread. It even brings traffic. So I really have no regrets. Even with the e-insults that I don't care about.
+1
RomanceRe: Guys Can U Do This For Love by Vinshu(f): 11:02am On Mar 31, 2016
His lips lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Please How Do I Take My Revenge On Her? by Vinshu(f): 9:57pm On Mar 30, 2016
BUTCHCASSIDY:
Jeez! Ure evil! shocked shocked shocked
I'm not. People should pay for their bad things
RomanceRe: Nigerians Need To Change Their Mentality by Vinshu(f): 7:18pm On Mar 30, 2016
Yes I agree with op
BusinessRe: Bitcoin Faucets And Captcha Solving Jobs, A Waste Of Time Or Not? by Vinshu(f): 7:14pm On Mar 30, 2016
Waste of time
RomanceRe: Counter Thread: 10 Qualities Of A Fake Boyfriend!!! by Vinshu(f): 6:25pm On Mar 30, 2016
smileysmiley:
please forgive Vinshu, she is high on something, always contradicting herself...
I never contradicted myself. If you want to asslick pls let us know not hiding behind someone's ass

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